kodix:
Let her find something doing first, divorce the man and keep going because she will never be happy in that marriage,work hard for herself and remarry a good man if she wishes.

Any man that marries a single mom and of 2 for that matter is a useless fool and deserves to be shot by Talibans in a desert in the Kandahar region..

Hathor5:


I love this part:

"is she a trash, or a woman deserving of no honor, or is she a piece of wood or animal I bet you, you will dignify your pet more"

That's exactly how some peeps here think about women.

And what is wrong with the way some peeps tend to see women here.. do you know their experiences and encounters with women.. abegg rest.. stop Wailing..

Queenzzy:
Why do you men like supporting evil? So how about the husband that started the home destruction first by cheating and getting another woman pregnant Would anything had happened if she checked the phone and saw nothing?

The earlier y'all modern feminism understand that REAL men are polygamous in nature.. the best for una..
If not.. na steady heartbreak for una just like op sister own..

I don't understand this, are you bitter that many men do marry single mothers with one or two kids? Yes they do, look around you, it's everywhere, my cousin is one of such lucky ladies, she found herself a decent single man. For you to tag such men as useless fools is actually what is foolish and childish.

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Any man that marries a single mom and of 2 for that matter is a useless fool and deserves to be shot by Talibans in a desert in the Kandahar region..

LilMissFavvy:
I don't understand this, are you bitter that many men do marry single mothers with one or two kids? Yes they do, look around you, it's everywhere, my cousin is one of such lucky ladies, she found herself a decent single man. For you to tag such men as useless fools is actually what is foolish and childish.

The man that married her is a sore looser and a fellow with a very low self esteem..

No sensible REAL man would leave the plethoras of single young and Nubile untainted ladies to go marry an after 1 /2 lady..
If he is my brother of which he can't be.. he would be disowned and sent away from the family like a leper..

You definitely do not know the meaning of the word "loser", yet throw it around. You don't know someone and you are talking about his self esteem . Anyway, it doesn't matter what your opinion is, but just look around and you will see very many of such ladies remarrying, while some may prefer to remain single and care for the kids, that's the fact and that's what matters.

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The man that married her is a sore looser and a fellow with a very low self esteem..

No sensible REAL man would leave the plethoras of single young and Nubile untainted ladies to go marry an after 1 /2 lady..
If he is my brother of which he can't be.. he would be disowned and sent away from the family like a leper..

LilMissFavvy:
You definitely do not know the meaning of the word "loser", yet to throw it around. You don't know someone and you are talking about his self esteem . Anyway, it doesn't matter what your opinion is, but just look around and you will see very many of such ladies remarrying, while some may prefer to remain single and care for the kids, that's the fact and that's what matters.

I guess you think that the word "Loser" must mean that I was referring to such a person as someone broke or poor or something.. lol.. you need to go back to Jamb literature and English classes .. that is, if you are not even a jambite..
FYI someone can be rich and popular and still be a loser.. it starts from the mindset first..
Bonus.. Go and read up on what in-depth , contextual and philosophical meaning of words is all about..

Back to the main issue... Only a loser and a man with a low IQ and self esteem marries another man's left over.
Thank God no man in my family is stupid in such a way and would never be such type of a man..

SageX1444:
Good morning, chief, is there any negative effect(s) that accompanies chewing of garlic?

Hey good evening, sorry for the late response.. Had a very busy day, sooo tired.. Nope, none that I know of.. I hope you're alright

Modified to add: Maybe heartburn, smelly breath like when you talk, everyone will know you ate/chewed garlic, even your body fluids like sweat and all, faeces too.. Most people prefer to swallow sha.

I put it up to you that if you aren't actually a jambite, your reasoning would have been far better. I know the meaning of a "loser", no matter the context in which the word can be used, and I still put it to you that majority of single guys who marry such ladies are far better than you in all ramifications, and what your family does/doesn't can't count. I just wanted to drop that into your head, it doesn't matter wether it has sunk in or not.

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I guess you think that the word "Loser" must mean that I was referring to such a person as someone broke or poor or something.. lol.. you need to go back to Jamb literature and English classes .. that is, if you are not even a jambite..
FYI someone can be rich and popular and still be a loser.. it starts from the mindset first..
Bonus.. Go and read up on what in-depth , contextual and philosophical meaning of words is all about..

Back to the main issue... Only a loser and a man with a low IQ and self esteem marries another man's left over.
Thank God no man in my family is stupid in such a way and would never be such type of a man..

LilMissFavvy:
I put it up to you that if you aren't actually a jambite, your reasoning would have been far better. I know the meaning of a "loser", no matter the context in which the word can be used, and I still put it to you that majority of single guys who marry such ladies are far better than you in all ramifications, and what your family does/doesn't can't count. I just wanted to drop that into your head, it doesn't matter wether it has sunk in or not.

I can see so much bitterness in you..

I put it to you that, it is either you are a Product of a single mom or you are a single mom presently..

LilMissFavvy:
I am proudly a product of a monogamous family, I am not a single mother, however I am mature enough to understand that circumstance can happen to anyone, and when such happens, we should treat them fairly. But how will an abokii terrorist like you understand , I can see that even if I type from now till infinity, an abokii terrorist will still not understand. Continue to wax in your stupidityyyt.

You are Wailing.. Ina eme ka ibu Onye Nzuzu ..

Getting pregnant and being a single mom or divorcing your husband and wanting a man to marry you in such is not circumstances.. it is a well planned decision and no senible man should have anything of an affair to do with such a woman..

You are sounding like a Wailer already..

LilMissFavvy:
You are calling the mods on me, but when you run your mouth, abusing females, no one does same to you. Mods, check his previous comments before you judge me.

You insulted me and I never insulted you...
You are showing character traits of a typical IPOB member.. always quick to curse others and call them Aboki if they have a different opinion to theirs ..

You need to wake up and stop behaving like a frustrated ipob member ..

Amaghim ma Nzuzu odi unu na obara ..

2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

is he taking care of her bills. Does she have another husband in waiting?

2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

I totally understand you as a big bro to her.
You have to advise her to start working to take care og herself and her children. As long as the man isnt maltreating or beating her, she should stay put. She is the only one legally married to him. Noone else.
The other one isnt married to him. E go tire both of them.

Let her find something doing asap before things gets worse.

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Wailer.. Anita can't do shit.. our divorce laws isn't like the stupid western world..

Just recently, a man was ordered to pay a meagre 10k for the children's up keep after their divorce..
No alimony and other incentives here in Nigeria.. like I said. If you think Paul bank account would suffer cos of the divorce.. lol.. I laugh at your folly.. and guess what.. people easily flout court orders in Nigeria and nothing would happen.. even the meagre sum he would be told to pay.. he can still flout the court orders from time to time and frustrate the wife on it.. the last time I checked Feminist fani kayode is with his triplets and also frustrating that igbo girl up and down in police and court.. thank God say Paul is rich and has money too..

Stop dreming.. this is Nigeria not California or Ontario..

Why are u pained differently? I think u are the wailer. Its like u cant counter an arguement reasonably without calling names? U be small boy. When the man is at fault, u remember your law but if its the woman u call her names. Better grow up and lay out your views like an educated man that u claim to be or u get lost permanently

MummyD2020:


Why are u pained differently? I think u are the wailer. Its like u cant counter an arguement reasonably without calling names? U be small boy. When the man is at fault, u remember your law but if its the woman u call her names. Better grow up and lay out your views like an educated man that u claim to be or u get lost permanently

I just observed your pains and frustration plus your fake consolation of dealing with the man in court like Anita.. that is why I took my time to school you and bring you back to reality on our laws and judicial system.. so that you would stop hallucinating and imagining that a man would suffer and pay thru the nose in a divorce scenario in Nigeria..

Well Fools like fantasies than reality..

You are free to fantasize on your illusions ..
Or Rather still.. Wail as well when you are shown realities..

Ishilove:

You speak the truth, unfortunate as it is. The sheer unfairness of it all is part of why this new generation of feminists are so toxic and bitter.

Glad you saw my comments on the topic for what they were and nothing more...

1F30M4:


Hey good evening, sorry for the late response.. Had a very busy day, sooo tired.. Nope, none that I know of.. I hope you're alright

Modified to add: Maybe heartburn, smelly breath like when you talk, everyone will know you ate/chewed garlic, even your body fluids like sweat and all, faeces too.. Most people prefer to swallow sha.

Okay, if there's no effect, I think maybe I should nurture it into a habit.

SageX1444:
Okay, if there's no effect, I think maybe I should nurture it into a habit.

Haha you sure about that? I was talking to someone about you(garlic-related lmao she's enthusiastic about having a garlic garden) few hours before I came on here and checked my mentions, there you were with a garlic-related question lol.

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You are free to cry us a river. ..

You people can only Wail ..

We set the pace and you lots must follow and abide..

Donate more tears pls..

Your monicker is only ironic of your brain capacity.

Avviala:


Your monicker is only ironic of your brain capacity.

Your Level of Savagery is still at the beginner stage...
Go marry up your dictionary and also read up quality comical and hilarious cotents to be able to be Savage enough in a more damning way...
I can feel your pains and frustrations.. guess what?? Your miserableness can only continue and get worse..
Clown..

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Your Level of Savagery is still at the beginner stage...
Go marry up your dictionary and also read up quality comical and hilarious cotents to be able to be Savage enough in a more damning way...
I can feel your pains and frustrations.. guess what?? Your miserableness can only continue and get worse..
Clown..

Dumbo. You sound really stupid.
And I don't need to read the dictionary to know that.

Avviala:

Dumbo. You sound really stupid.
And I don't need to read the dictionary to know that.

You are referring to your mother, she is the real Dumbo.

Avviala:

Dumbo. You sound really stupid.
And I don't need to read the dictionary to know that.

Hey...
Someone just confirmed to me that your father sound really Stupid.. I guess it is true..

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You are referring to your mother, she is the real Dumbo.

Na you sabi. Bringing my parents into this shows you are not just stupid but retarded.

Avviala:


Na you sabi. Bringing my parents into this shows you are not just stupid but retarded.

Resulting to insults when having an argument shows that your stupidity is legendary and hereditary..
� Clown..

Avviala:


Na you sabi. Bringing my parents into this shows you are not just stupid but retarded.

Is your slowness coming from your Mom ??

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The earlier y'all modern feminism understand that REAL men are polygamous in nature.. the best for una..
If not.. na steady heartbreak for una just like op sister own..

why do you think polygamy is only in the nature of men? Know this today, humans are naturally insatiable. But the society has made it look so wrong for women to come out and express how they really feel. Give a woman that opportunity and you will see that even she wants a taste from different flavors. If a woman can control herself, why then is it so difficult for men? Answer is simple, the society itself supports evil. So men think they have the right to misbehave tagging it 'nature'.

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Resulting to insults when having an argument shows that your stupidity is legendary and hereditary..
� Clown..

Take your advice, dumbo