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Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Avviala: 3:01pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY: No, it doesn't. Dumbo. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:56pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:56pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:59pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Queenzzy: Women rarely do Polyandry cos many men would turn down the chance to be one of their husbands, except in few cases.. Reason why the prefer cheating both in relationship and Marriage.. The difference between them and men is that men are mainly bold when doing it while women are secretive when doing theirs.. Back to my initial post.. Men are Polygamous.. Y'all women should know this and know peace.. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Magnoliaa(f): 9:50pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Hathor5: Huncle Panso/Pan/Pants Fist (aka pansophist) and the redspel geng will call it sophistry and twisting of logic. Hahahaha. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by olabrinks(f): 8:07am On Aug 27, 2021 |
galantjoe:I know men like to base their reality on facts which is good. It’s true single women are struggling to get married, but are you telling me out of the millions of men in Nigeria she won’t be able to find ONE man to marry her with two kids? Are you telling me she can’t find a man who has maybe lost his wife, a mature handsome man in his 40s, a man maybe who doesn’t mind women with children..etc to marry? I know you guys like to say these things to make yourselves feel better about mistreating your wife/future wife because you think she will stay put no matter what you do. This is 2021, women can find men even on their phones. If that woman makes something of herself financially, has a good character and packages herself in a good way...she will most definitely find a new man as long as she is open and realistic. Thanks very much. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Avviala: 8:58am On Aug 27, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY: I won't insult your parents because they didn't choose to give birth to a waste of human sh*t like you. Useless pauper. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Queenzzy: 10:19am On Aug 27, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY:keep making excuses for your fellow men that cheat. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:42pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Queenzzy: Lol.. my dear.. accept reality now to avoid been served breakfast in the future.. it rains everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 3:43pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Avviala: But your parents are a waste of human sh*t .. Especially your MODA |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Heartheart: 4:02pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Until this your younger sister catches an untreatable STI. Why can’t u talk sense into the husband? He doesn’t love your sister and will keep disrespecting her because he knows she’s dependent on him. Tell your sis to get something doing so she can leave the useless man. He’s not worth it. Your sister can never regret leaving a man that doesn’t love her. If she stays in the marriage she can high blood pressure, depression, looking older than her age, becoming obese etc. what’s the point of marriage if your husband is still fucking anything fuckable?? They’re not married they’re just deceiving themselves. If your wife gives u a child that u didn’t father, you will stay with her and be smiling abi?? Leave her let her make her decision! 2ndtimeuncle: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Heartheart: 4:08pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY:women too are hypergamous in nature. There’s a high possibility for of your wife fucking a rich man behind your back. And there’s also a higher chance of a woman pinning another mans child on you. Small dna fraud, person die of stroke but u fit Bleep around 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Avviala: 4:13pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY: Wahala for who get parents who be piece of shit oh. Especially Moda. Hope you have eaten today? The way poverty is hovering around you, it is surely going to be a forever thing for you till you lay six feet. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:17pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Heartheart: My wife fucking behind my back.. lol.. if she does such I can easily catch her.. y'all give women so much credits I swear.. they are not as smart as you think.. moreover if I marry I would do that just for doing sake not or never for love.. see, if you ain't Emotional type, women got nothing on you.. I use to read riot act to my babes.. if you cheat and I found out.. you are gone and same goes to any girl I marry.. Many men don't understand the relationship dynamics.. if you want peace and to be domineering and set the rules I'm your home.. make sure you marry a woman's below you in finance, education , expossure etc.. I don't care if you all call it misogyny, that is what I am going to do.. an independent woman is a WILD woman.. I would marry a dependent one that I would control and mind you, no court and na registry Marriage.. As for giving me another man's child.. DANA is a must for me.. and I do tell my girlfriends that it is a must and when married I don't even need my wife's permission to do so.. See bro, many of us has changed from the stupid way the society raised us and are now logical, selfish and Emotionally unavailable for nonsense... We have mastered the game that we now mentor young confused men on how to handle women, same way feminists are doing to young confused women.. Make I no yarn pass like this.. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:19pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Avviala: Lol.. I heard your mother is a Pauper .. Oya go soak garri.. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Avviala: 4:25pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY: Pauper. No no. You are really stupid and pointless if you claimed you heard my mum is a pauper. You know no one who knows me. This only prove my point that you are dumb. Really dumb and retarded. At least I drink garri by choice. The same cant be said about you This has been too long. Me answering you as worthless as you are. Don't worry, the lady who broke your worthless heart did a good thing for leaving your dumb poverty ridden ass. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 4:29pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Avviala: But I also hear say Dt Thing" wey bhorn you na Olosho she be for Ojodu Berger.. na true ?? |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Lostchild: This advice breeds resentment. Have you witness a marriage where the wife resent the husband? Go check it out. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Goldiness: 5:40pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
2ndtimeuncle: See brother man, I know it's not easy for her as she feels so much betrayal, but try and to tell her to calm down, especially because of her health so this doesn't give future health issues, anger can be sickening, she should not allow another woman take her home. Now that is what the devil in collaboration with that strange woman wants, they both want to destroy the home. Instead she should join forces with her husband and fight that Lady, so long as her husband is not beating her or doing other bodily harm to her or her safety, she should try and cooperate with her husband, she should also work on her temper, if she really wants to get things done right in her marriage, because I wonder what pushed her husband into the arms of another woman, she should also investigate that and work on it. She should empower herself and Prayerfully follow her marriage, the devil is always after good marriages, somethings are not ordinary in his life you have to look at them from the spiritual perspective I tell you. I wish her the best. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Lostchild(m): 12:38am On Aug 28, 2021 |
loveymom: So what do you suggest ? |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by CanadianNaija: 12:47am On Aug 28, 2021 |
Goldiness: You have succeeded in making the cheating man the victim and his wife the villain. I wish this kind of advise on you. You and your kind make me sick. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Nobody: 5:15am On Aug 28, 2021 |
Lostchild:Good suggestions has been given to him here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Lostchild(m): 6:42am On Aug 28, 2021 |
loveymom: Marriage of today is fake. Marriage is for better and not for worse As they gave advice her to leave her husband, those people who suggest that should also be willing to finance her. I know what I am talking about |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by yellowgarri2(m): 6:58am On Aug 28, 2021 |
I thank you God, for making me see another year; thanks for the gift of life; I'm eternally grateful for all the blessings that you have given me that makes me appreciate a good life, for the struggles you casted on me which made me stronger and helped me realized the ideas of life bitter sweet reality and most of all for the love which is supported by guidance and protection which he unconditionally gives through my ever beloved family and friends. Thank you for all the experience of this past year; for times of success which will always be happy memories, for times of failure which reminded me of my own weakness and of my need for you, for times of joy when the sun was shining, for times of sadness which drove me to you. Forgive me for the hours I wasted, for the chances I failed to take, for the opportunities I missed this past year. Help me in the days ahead to make this the best year yet, and through it to bring good credit to myself, happiness and pride to my loved ones, and joy to ME. Happy birthday to me. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Queenzzy: 8:34am On Aug 28, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY:No my dear. I know a few decent men. |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by FORWARDEVERLY: 11:28am On Aug 28, 2021 |
Queenzzy: They are so called "Decent" until they are caught. Lol.. Happy weekend to you my dear.. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Lostchild(m): 11:34am On Aug 28, 2021 |
loveymom: Good suggestion to divorce her husband right? |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Lostchild: Was that the only advice given to him? |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Lostchild: Marriage is not fake, it is people who go into it with ulterior motives that are fake. People can drop comments, it is the job of the OP to filter it and choose the one that is favorable and can solve his /her issues. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Lostchild(m): 4:20pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
loveymom: What advice is much better than for the wife to patiently endure and not rush out of marriage ? Can you answer me? Please |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Nobody: 4:28pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
Lostchild: The best advice will be for the husband and wife to discuss the issue (maybe go for marriage counseling), the man need to stop engaging in extra-marital affairs. So that the woman can heal from the heart break to enable them move forward. Not for the woman to patiently endure the husband’s cheating unending episodes. Then probably come out of it with HIV. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Queenzzy: 7:42pm On Aug 28, 2021 |
FORWARDEVERLY:I kid you not. They are not pretenders. It can't all be rotten, there are still very few good ones. Happy weekend to you too |
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