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My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Nicenancy(f): 6:29pm On Aug 28, 2021
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by EmptyGarden(m): 6:33pm On Aug 28, 2021
Absolutely safe.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Dufil(m): 6:34pm On Aug 28, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
It depends on where he is coming to.settle down. Ikoyi n magodo is safe with securities but u need millions of naira to survive in those arears.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Greatzeus(m): 6:34pm On Aug 28, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
He must have told you why he's moving to Lagos,but you didn't care to share?
I'm sure he must have revaluated the gains and the risk,the gains must have superceded the risk for him to be moving.
Also Lagos has thousands of areas for the rich,the poor and the in betweeners angry. Security most times depends on where he's moving to.
Just like in New York where the sound of gun shots is a norm in Brooklyn ( Do or Die), and shot outs are daily occurrence in Queens or Uptown Harlem,yet there neighborhood where you sleep with both eyes closed like Upper East side, Carnegie hill, Turtle bay, Lincoln Square etc

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Totilopussylick(m): 6:36pm On Aug 28, 2021
Quickly remind him the level of insecurities in the country a whole lipsrsealed

Nowhere is Safe!

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Freestainworld(m): 6:40pm On Aug 28, 2021
The reason of relocating, we need to know
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by yrret: 6:43pm On Aug 28, 2021
Even where you are in Ghana is not totally "safe". Safe is a delay word for uncertainty. Just ask him why he wants to relocate and what are his plans for income?

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by incogni2o: 7:02pm On Aug 28, 2021
You should be scared in a way and you should be Happy another way.

It all depends on many Factors.

We don't know your Husband or why He is relocating
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by kuonbe(m): 7:07pm On Aug 28, 2021
Lagos like makoko,ijora, ajegunle, orile, badia, even apapa those are the most secured area in lagos

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by MufasaLion: 7:08pm On Aug 28, 2021
Well, I'd advice you to come to Lagos and have a first-hand experience of what you definitely gonna face when you finally decide to relocate.
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by potent5(m): 7:15pm On Aug 28, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
There's insecurity in all parts of the world, and Lagos is not the most unsafe place in Nigeria.
All you have to do is to shine your eyes.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by peacefulhome(f): 7:27pm On Aug 28, 2021
Why does he was to relocate to Nigeria?
I think you guys needs to pay visit first , let say like staying for a month or more . The experience while on such visit , will help you determine in making final decision. Most importantly, pray for God direction .

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by DaddyRochie1642: 7:29pm On Aug 28, 2021
By the time you see yourself negotiating your Ramson with Kidnappers, that's when your eyes will clear and you'll appreciate that Accra Ghana the more
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Femmyfestus: 7:36pm On Aug 28, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
By the time you see yourself negotiating your Ramson with Kidnappers, that's when your eyes will clear and you'll appreciate that Accra Ghana the more
Send a link of new where it was reported that herdmen kidnap anyone in lagos mainland or island.
Stop saying what you don't know. Na so nigeria spoil reach? Be fearing God now

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by iamtardey: 7:38pm On Aug 28, 2021
Y'all are welcome sweetie
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by xpressionx(m): 7:50pm On Aug 28, 2021
Just buy bullet proof vest and car while coming. Nigeria is the safest place on earth right now.
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Ghostrye: 9:11pm On Aug 28, 2021
Femmyfestus:

Send a link of new where it was reported that herdmen kidnap anyone in lagos mainland or island.
Stop saying what you don't know. Na so nigeria spoil reach? Be fearing God now
he never mentioned herdsmen

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Elporo(m): 9:57pm On Aug 28, 2021
xpressionx:
Just buy bullet proof vest and car while coming.
Nigeria is the safest place on earth right now.

No wonder your location dey show ... Purgatory! grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by yuping(m): 10:22pm On Aug 28, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
Madam no come ooo, not because is not safe the country is bleeped.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by FalseOracle50: 10:33pm On Aug 28, 2021
Lord Jesus, let there be a restoration in every dead business,dreams, aspiration, goals and aspiration IJN
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Truvelisback(m): 10:41pm On Aug 28, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
Stop acting like a baby. Nothing will happen to u.
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Sonnobax15(m): 10:54pm On Aug 28, 2021
cheesy
Na wa oh.... This matter be like diesel mechanic wey dem carry motor wey dey use fuel give make he repair lipsrsealed How e wor take start work? undecided

Dear op,this matter never reach to make you dey para.....As a matter of fact,I understand the point you're trying to buttress... Simply follow Oga come Lag so long there'd be an arrangement for a new job for you...

But as for the part of insecurities,you no lie cha.... But is Ghana safer than NIGERIA as a whole? is it because social media only seems to be covering the bad news in Nigeria while sidelining those happening in the rest part of the world....As for me, Ghana isn't secured more than Nigeria....

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by SavageResponse(m): 11:04pm On Aug 28, 2021
kuonbe:
Lagos like makoko,ijora, ajegunle, orile, badia, even apapa those are the most secured area in lagos

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Cashsteady(m): 11:55pm On Aug 28, 2021
Yes ma' Lagos is definitely safe I can assure you safety just like every other main cities in other countries they have their no go areas same thing is applicable to Lagos.. there are some areas you should avoid especially at night.. you could get harassed if you are a lady or get robbed if you are a guy mostly the criminals hood where drinking and smoking is their hubby but in general Lagos is safe and fun full of enjoyment
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Cashsteady(m): 12:00am On Aug 29, 2021
In general Nigeria is kinda safe not just completely safe.. 70% of states are safe the few unsafe places are in the north but just few places.. the only thing that can make me say is unsafe is kidnapping on the highways it's rare but you just never know when the kidnappers are gonna attack
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Ishilove: 9:09am On Aug 29, 2021
Nicenancy:
My husband and I have been married for some years now. We met and got married in Ghana and we have been in Accra all this while. Now he wants us to move to Nigeria and that's my problem.

I must resign from my job because of this. Also I hear Lagos is a very insecure and dangerous place. Please, how safe is Nigeria? Thanks
That is correct. Those of us living here have to hire police escorts in order for us to move freely. Those who can't afford it have an assortment of weapons in their handbags for self defense. On a personal note, the famous suya knife is my favourite weapon of defence. See it nestled comfortably in my bag below. If anyone do anyhow, they will collect cool

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Magnoliaa(f): 9:53am On Aug 29, 2021
Ishilove:

That is correct. Those of us living here have to hire police escorts in order for us to move freely. Those who can't afford it have an assortment of weapons in their handbags for self defense. On a personal note, the famous suya knife is my favourite weapon of defence. See it nestled comfortably in my bag below. If anyone do anyhow, they will collect cool

Jagunlabi; akiika. Awon eyan re. Eru. Stubborn. Oshomo gbomo- grin grin grin (abeggg, no mind me). But, omoo. You dey move with knife? Mad o. grin Abi na play? Wait. No be Bible be that so? LMFAO. This one is strong. Bible and knife (...and a powder)? Hehehehe. Mad combo of danjelos, spirikoko and feminine. I throway salute o.

E sure me gan say nobody fit try anyhow with you. I don dey fear here sef.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Nobody: 10:03am On Aug 29, 2021
Ishilove:

That is correct. Those of us living here have to hire police escorts in order for us to move freely. Those who can't afford it have an assortment of weapons in their handbags for self defense. On a personal note, the famous suya knife is my favourite weapon of defence. See it nestled comfortably in my bag below. If anyone do anyhow, they will collect cool

It's worth investing in pepper spray as well. I believe you can get it on Jumia.

You would probably also think of an escude should you ever encounter a stop and search typical Nigerian police. With those items on you, you might be toast with a Naija policeman. Maybe get a police report along side stating that you have had scary situations in the past and you will be moving around with those items for self protection.

What do you think?
Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by pocohantas(f): 10:40am On Aug 29, 2021
Ishilove:

That is correct. Those of us living here have to hire police escorts in order for us to move freely. Those who can't afford it have an assortment of weapons in their handbags for self defense. On a personal note, the famous suya knife is my favourite weapon of defence. See it nestled comfortably in my bag below. If anyone do anyhow, they will collect cool

Ishi please check this store, @1960gadgets. They sell security gadgets; tasers and pepper sprays. The current in the former is good and it is a whole lot better/handier than a kitchen knife. You can get into trouble with the knife if our sweet NPF sees it in your bag.

I also do not like the bloody mess a knife would make. That is if you can successfully wield your ugly kitchen knife in self-defence.grin

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Palazee(m): 10:44am On Aug 29, 2021
EmptyGarden:
Absolutely safe.

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Re: My Husband Wants To Relocate Us To Lagos; I Am Scared by Ishilove: 11:54am On Aug 29, 2021
pocohantas:


Ishi please check this store, @1960gadgets. They sell security gadgets; tasers and pepper sprays. The current in the former is good and it is a whole lot better/handier than a kitchen knife. You can get into trouble with the knife if our sweet NPF sees it in your bag.

I also do not like the bloody mess a knife would make. That is if you can successfully wield your ugly kitchen knife in self-defence.grin
Jeez... Poco, I can't believe y'all took me seriously cheesy

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