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You are on point MATE! women are easily tempted. ...
She told you the first time... trust me she won't tell you when he asks her out Again....

Lastpharoah33:
Cut her some slack, mate.[b][/b]

He's her colleague at the office and you don't expect her to shut him awt till God-knows-when.

X

Assuming there's no free ride, what will your wife do?

Assuming the man gets out of town, relocated to another location or kicked the bucket, what will your wife do? Will she terminate her job?

The answer to the above questions is the solution to the problem at hand. If she values her marriage she will find ways to avoid the man, (except he is her colleagues at work).

Who knows, she might have started or about starting to play with the devil's toys. Not even about the car now, once seduction set in with incentives and promises she might romance with the devil for long. Too bad if the said man has a better car, good flirting skills, more attractive than you and more richer than you.

Sigh!

Oluseunade98
Behave and play novice - if not your wife will be more secretsive.

Women cannot be trusted

It's good that this is btw married couples.. make una resolve am

frozen70:
I don't think you have any need to suspect her

Treat a woman well at home

Help her in the house chores

Make love to her in a way that will humble her

Trust me, she will not give another man audience

lmao... So if a man deviates in any of those.... The woman hs every right to cheat.

golor:
What do men find interesting about peoples wife ? What if same is done to his wife ? With the plenty call girls around, olosho and hook up .. common men ! I am a guy but I think it's disgusting, assuming the lady ask for something I will consider it's 50/50 u can take up the chance even if we know it's bad but u asking a married lady out ...I totally condemn it .

Guy quit preaching life itself no fair u no even no weather ur wife holy pass

Buy her a car ...

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

frozen70:
I don't think you have any need to suspect her

Treat a woman well at home

Help her in the house chores

Make love to her in a way that will humble her

Trust me, she will not give another man audience

You lack experience to give advance on marital issue, so please shut.up

Op, you're too carefree, I'll never, ever allow my wife in another man's car... And to think this man takes your wife to work everyday and even have effrontry to asked her out...if you still value your marriage, stop her now, if not too late already.

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Ulunne777:
The car is for both of you and not only yours, Mr. If you are so worried let her have the car so you can jump buses.

She's venting cos she feels unappreciated for the sacrifice she has to make as a wife, a career woman ,a mother and a homemaker.

Coming here to receive advice from unmarried and unhappily married folks will only affect the situation more.
Use your sense!

If you know women?, she might be feeling underappreciated and venting because the man thet owns the car and gives her a lift, has started planting something inside her emotionally and started comparing the husband to the man, it's a matter of time she smiles her way to the manhood.

grafixdon:
You lack experience to give advance on marital issue, so please shut.up

You don't have to be saucy to get noticed

MufasaLion:
All what you listed doesn't stop a woman from cheating. As long as the other man still have that car advantage she can still get laid. She's vulnerable!

Men too cheats more

frozen70:
Men too cheats more

This is dumb ....rest

1. You dont need to post this. It holds no water.

2. You should not say that your wife is ranting. Women are expressive.

3. If you're not comfortable with her going to work with this colleague, make a monthly subscription for a driver to pick her to work, or drive her to work yourself.

4. Sit your wife down and calmly tell her your feelings

5. Try do DNA test

You might need to pick up a dictionary to understand what flirting is because what you wrote there implies none. If you're so bothered about your wife getting lifts with the man, be calling uber for her when she needs a ride or better yet, buy her her own car.

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

Insecurity is killing you..... Get busy with your life and gymn wella that your babe will be the one feeling this way you are feeling now.

Confident men do not care cos they are on top of their game always. The moment you become so careful about your wife's moves, you've lost it.

Service the car fix the AC and drop the car for her let her be using it.... You are a man take public transport and okada to work pending when you buy her a better car

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

InTheCloudySky:
You might need to pick up a dictionary to understand what flirting is because what you wrote there implies none. If you're so bothered about your wife getting lifts with the man, be calling uber for her when she needs a ride or better yet, buy her her own car.

When they use all the money for uber, how will they feed or save money to even buy her car??

Then he should stop creating or imagining problems that don't exist.

Coolliot:
When they use all the money for uber, how will they feed or save money to even buy her car??

InTheCloudySky:
Then he should stop creating or imagining problems that don't exist.

There's actually a problem, the man made a move on his wife....stop emotions and use your brain

frozen70:
Men too cheats more

Don't deviate from the main bone of contention here. The thread is about the WIFE!

Kindly stick to that.

Coolliot:
[s]There's actually a problem, the man made a move on his wife....stop emotions and use your brain[/s]

He made a move? Did he touch her? He asked her out way back in January and she declined. Where's the problem there, or how in the world is the wife flirting with him?

It's you that's being sentimental if you think there's a problem when there's none. I already told the OP what to do in my first post, if he's so insecure with his wife getting lifts from the collegue. Don't quote me again unless you've anything sensible to say.

Nonexisting1:
Whenever a woman gets defensive and gives answers unrelated to questions being asked, there's an underlying issue going on. The best thing to do is stop asking questions and start doing investigations.

100% correct.

Men and women are different and respond differently to love.

Men want to be respected while women want to be loved.

You're the head of your home. This doesn't mean you must command your wife but it means your wife ought to respect you out of her own volition. She can advise you but she cannot force her advice on you.

As the head of your home, tell your wife to stop entering the man's car.

If it is okay by you, give her your car to be using for the time being and take public transport yourself.

Explain to her that it is a sacrifice you're willing to do for love and not because you're weak. Tell her not to abuse it. That is if you're willing to give her your car to use for the time being.

I'm really pained reading this-- that man must be very stupid. Asking another man's wife out!

Well, so talk to your wife and sort this out. All the best.

Women are VERY VERY VERY emotional. Entering that man's car, listening to the music, looking at him talk, enjoying his gist, the man confiding his own family gist with her, watching people on the road together everyday while going to work and coming back home-- haba! They must bond!

They get blood flowing inside dia body.

Apply wisdom and stop this unholy liaison before it is too late.

InTheCloudySky:
He made a move? Did he touch her? He asked her out way back in January and she declined. Where's the problem there, or how in the world is the wife flirting with him?

It's you that's being sentimental if you think there's a problem when there's none. I already told the OP what to do in my first post, if he's so insecure with his wife getting lifts from the collegue. Don't quote me again unless you've anything sensible to say.

I guess you don flee from any appearance of evil , you play with it? And you sure one day you will not give in to temptation.

jimmyolasun:
So where is the flirting part in the story?? Or you still dey try compose part 2

A woman that can go back to her toaster can never be trusted, experience has thought me that

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work

give her your car and get another one maybe on instalmental pay or get a driver and put the car to work while you both and picked and dropped of by the driver,

Give her your car.

Or

Drop her off everyday. It strengthens your bond.

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malcom1X:
You'll never see this happening anywhere. Where a wife will follow another man in his car.
A wife will have the mind to follow another man in his car.

The husband and wife have neighbours, friends staying around but the wife knows these things but decided to follow another man in his car to work everyday and back.

What fuckery is that.


That shit can only happen in the western part of Nigeria where they don't have respect for marriages. Only there I see married woman still having sex outside.

One woman showed me her husband then showed me her boyfriend in her phone.

I never had the mind to have sex with someone's wife but when you go there.

You don't see it as taboo anymore. You start getting curious thinking what does it feel like to have someone's wife in your bed.

Knowing that she's married and belongs to someone else but chooses to come spend the night with you.

You get to know what it's like to take someone's property without consequences AND THE HUSBAND KNOWS and doesn't care.

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Too much post with no atom of sense.......