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How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 10:05pm On Sep 19, 2021

I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by lilvicky68(m): 10:15pm On Sep 19, 2021

Have enough money first..
Your mouth go sweet by force

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Dabronze(m): 10:38pm On Sep 19, 2021

McDonaldfished:
I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

Are you a student or working

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Benki003(m): 11:28pm On Sep 19, 2021

lilvicky68:
Have enough money first..
Your mouth go sweet by force

Wanted to talk but this op just said my mind

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Kaykay999(m): 12:31am On Sep 20, 2021

lilvicky68:
Have enough money first..
Your mouth go sweet by force

True talk
If am broke nothing sweet about me will manifest unless i force it.

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 5:59am On Sep 20, 2021

Dabronze:
Are you a student or working

I am not a student

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by stunnert(m): 6:33am On Sep 20, 2021

The red pill is all you need angry

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by brosom(m): 7:27am On Sep 20, 2021

Duda how old are u?

You re an introvert?

How did u do it? I mean like getting a girl to be in a relationship with u t first?

U re an out going type?

What kinda environment u grow up in?

Don't u have sister u grow up with that can help u in women system?

Are u a SIMple man?

Duda wake ur ass up a be a man.

Shiitt..!!! angry

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Nebulax: 7:31am On Sep 20, 2021

Probably some financial challenges are diverting your attention..

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Pumpumking: 7:53am On Sep 20, 2021

McDonaldfished:
I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Pumpumking: 7:55am On Sep 20, 2021

McDonaldfished:
I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

bro if u need woman I hook u up wit Pegi23 from nairaland, ondo state...she dates anytin sir!(THANK ME LATER)

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Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Dabronze(m): 8:58am On Sep 20, 2021

McDonaldfished:

I am not a student

Try to get something going on in your life be a man on a mission and purpose do something that makes u happy that you can hav passion for remain focus with it when you're interacting with a woman discuss much about what you are intrested in you will hav much to talk about with the flow.

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Pegi23(f): 10:27am On Sep 20, 2021

Pumpumking:

bro if u need woman I hook u up wit Pegi23 from nairaland, ondo state...she dates anytin sir!(THANK ME LATER)

I'm not a yoruba girl.. stop trying to make me one of you..

Op you need to work on your self

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Pumpumking: 10:35am On Sep 20, 2021

Pegi23:

I'm not a yoruba girl.. stop trying to make me one of you..

Op you need to work on your self

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:23pm On Sep 20, 2021

See them as a business partner, when it comes to money to me there is likely confidence. Also, if you are not in a good mood it could change. Have you noticed you may be nervous to do something e.g. public speech, general arrangements etc. If you dey vex, u go just do am comot face. (you get?)

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by larryking540: 1:53pm On Sep 20, 2021

if as a man you don't have a taste of alcohol ,till even a taste of water makes you lively,or unmovable , forget there is literally nothing that will give you confident,,,why n I saying this I have seen lot of guys with money ,real money clean money blood money still lack confidence ,

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 3:47pm On Sep 20, 2021

Nebulax:
Probably some financial challenges are diverting your attention..

Yea partly true

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Nobody: 6:39pm On Sep 20, 2021

McDonaldfished:
I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

With all the problems in the world, the only thing you can think of is how to build confidence, not for a business presentation or a pitch, but for a woman....tis well with you o

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 8:59pm On Sep 20, 2021

Favfables:

With all the problems in the world, the only thing you can think of is how to build confidence, not for a business presentation or a pitch, but for a woman....tis well with you o

I don't understand you oo. So you mean you personally have never spoken to a woman or you are a reverand father? So you want me to be like you?

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 20, 2021

McDonaldfished:

I don't understand you oo. So you mean you personally have never spoken to a woman or you are a reverand father? So you want me to be like you?

First off, I'm not a Reverend father...
I've spoken to lots and lots of girls...
And of course, I DONT WANT YOU TO EVER BE LIKE ME....

The point I'm tryna make is that, you should focus your attention more on building capacity and developing yourself to the Pinnacle and not to be bothered about something as trivial as "building confidence for a woman"...

And please don't misunderstand me, I love girls, but I think there's time for everything...

The primary focus of every young man should be to build capacity and becoming richer and smarter and better....

He should focus on daily growth in all
areas of his life and self development for fulfilling purpose...

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Allison012: 2:59am On Sep 21, 2021

McDonaldfished:

Yea partly true

For me,it's the truth.

Financial challenges.

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 5:35am On Sep 21, 2021

Favfables:

First off, I'm not a Reverend father...
I've spoken to lots and lots of girls...
And of course, I DONT WANT YOU TO EVER BE LIKE ME....

The point I'm tryna make is that, you should focus your attention more on building capacity and developing yourself to the Pinnacle and not to be bothered about something as trivial as "building confidence for a woman"...

And please don't misunderstand me, I love girls, but I think there's time for everything...

The primary focus of every young man should be to build capacity and becoming richer and smarter and better....

He should focus on daily growth in all
areas of his life and self development for fulfilling purpose...

Lol and this makes sense to you?
Is this how your father (I don't mean to be rude) waited till he get to the top before he had an encounter with your mum?
Even majority of the great men you know had a good woman in their life which even enhanced their greatness.

This philosophy from people like you (a wrong advice) and you trying to force it on people with a different philosophy seems egoistic and futile IMO.

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished: 6:09am On Sep 21, 2021

Favfables:

First off, I'm not a Reverend father...
I've spoken to lots and lots of girls...
And of course, I DONT WANT YOU TO EVER BE LIKE ME....

The point I'm tryna make is that, you should focus your attention more on building capacity and developing yourself to the Pinnacle and not to be bothered about something as trivial as "building confidence for a woman"...

And please don't misunderstand me, I love girls, but I think there's time for everything...

The primary focus of every young man should be to build capacity and becoming richer and smarter and better....

He should focus on daily growth in all
areas of his life and self development for fulfilling purpose...

Also, so you think I am not trying to get richer I just want a woman?

Na wa for people oo. When you smoke too much of the wrong things you cum online with a bad philosophy and try to force it on people.

There will always be need to get richer.
Obviously, there are people that feel women are distraction to their goals. I observe most of this men are mostly 'players' they are always engaged in non commital relationship.
Why some others done feel the need to even have an encounter with women because they have been heart broken by women in the past so they feel women doesn't worth their attention.

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Nobody: 8:47am On Sep 21, 2021

McDonaldfished:

Lol and this makes sense to you? ((Yes))
Is this how your father (I don't mean to be rude) waited till he get to the top before he had an encounter with your mum? ((Yup))
Even majority of the great men you know had a good woman ((they had the right people, which could be male or female)) in their life which even enhanced their greatness.

This philosophy from people like you (a wrong advice) ((people like me?? ... So suggesting to a person to be more focused on his personal development is a wrong advice?? Woah)) and you trying to force it ((I'm not tryna force anything on anyone bro, I'm just stating my POV )) on people with a different philosophy seems egoistic and futile IMO. ((Name calling?? I thought you were better than that, guess I thought wrong ))

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 21, 2021

McDonaldfished:

Also, so you think I am not trying to get richer I just want a woman? ((I dunno, you never did cross my mind ))

Na wa for people oo. When you smoke too much of the wrong things you cum online with a bad philosophy and try to force it on people ((I'm not a smoker bro and I ain't forcing nada on you ))

There will always be need to get richer ((I agree))
Obviously, there are people that feel women are distraction to their goals ((it's not about the gender, anyone could be a distraction)). I observe most of this men are mostly 'players' they are always engaged in non commital relationship ((hmm... Your observation that I'm a smoker is wrong, so this could also be wrong too ))
Why some others done feel the need to even have an encounter with women because they have been heart broken by women in the past so they feel women doesn't worth their attention.

Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by skywalker240(m): 10:03am On Sep 21, 2021

I'll rather build my confidence around my investment

Wasted effort this op about to encourage

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