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Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by obi4eze(m): 9:20am On Sep 22, 2021
Trash!

This generation and premarital sex angry

May God save us.

Many relationships these days are just based on premarital sex and that's why they are bound to fail.

Make una leave premarital sex alone and focus on more important things.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Whats: 9:22am On Sep 22, 2021
Nigga visit them before they visits you
Dem go shock
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by criuze(m): 9:24am On Sep 22, 2021
Demigod22:


The girl is saying that I made her fall deeply in love with me then I want to break her heart. To be honest, I didn't sleep with her, I didn't take anything from her, I just lost interest, and I just want to catch cruise with some girls because this is my last semester, so I am not ready for committed relationship. That's my only offence.


Not good at all
Playing with people hearts
You know it's not a light matter
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by RealEzee(m): 9:37am On Sep 22, 2021
Demigod22:


Whenever I called her or go around her, she will be acting mature and be telling me that I should give her space to heal, she said she doesn't have problem with me but she is still holding on. Even her friends are looking at me with one kind eye.
u see those her friends na dem b board of directors, witches grin all of dem
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Demigod22: 9:48am On Sep 22, 2021
criuze:



Not good at all
Playing with people hearts
You know it's not a light matter

Honestly, I didn't play with her heart. I can't stick to loveless relationship, my happiness is a priority. She also played with my feelings when I was asking her out, she came around when her ex impregnated another girl.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Demigod22: 9:49am On Sep 22, 2021
RealEzee:
u see those her friends na dem b board of directors, witches grin all of dem

Hahaha, you are very correct.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Demigod22: 9:50am On Sep 22, 2021
Whats:
Nigga visit them before they visits you
Dem go shock


I will take this advice. Thanks bro.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Demigod22: 9:52am On Sep 22, 2021
obi4eze:
Trash!

This generation and premarital sex angry

May God save us.

Many relationships these days are just based on premarital sex and that's why they are bound to fail.

Make una leave premarital sex alone and focus on more important things.

Premarital sex is a vice among my generation, so I am doing what is peak my generation, I am sure you were so active in the vice that rule your own generation.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Whats: 9:54am On Sep 22, 2021
Demigod22:


I will take this advice. Thanks bro.

Make sure the bottles land on the appropriate heads. Take a gun to a knife fight, send a PM if you don't have a squad or can't go alone angry
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Parkflash(f): 10:21am On Sep 22, 2021
Shebi na you wan do relationship.
Honestly if you know you can't be in a sexless relationship, you should have just backed out when she said she didn't want sex
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Whois(m): 11:01am On Sep 22, 2021
Some times I feel my IQ drop whenever I read topics you guys post here on romance section. @op you're in luck you're yet to have se.x with her, there's a probability one of those guys she sent to you is seeing her or have interest in her. It is best you ignore all of them and focus on hustle/studies.

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Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by criuze(m): 1:31pm On Sep 22, 2021
Demigod22:


Honestly, I didn't play with her heart. I can't stick to loveless relationship, my happiness is a priority. She also played with my feelings when I was asking her out, she came around when her ex impregnated another girl.


Not at all, you're not honest


You've been pressing her for long until opportunity came for you and you deserted

She wouldn't have accepted you immediately, she would need a window time to evaluate what shes into, of course she's a lady


Did you desert her to avenge her time wasted, obviously there's no atom of love in such an act

Love is patient and kind, does not habour grudges or bitterness or unforgiveness
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Kingcalls: 2:23pm On Sep 22, 2021
Any cultist that does women biddings is a weak man

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Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by DaInferno(m): 5:55pm On Sep 22, 2021
Demigod22:
Early last year I asked this girl out but she turned down my request because she has a boyfriend. She requested we become friends, which I was not comfortable with. Throughout the covid 19 break, I was the only one doing the friendship.

After the break we resumed school, and I voiced it out that I can't continue with the friendship. Some months later, we started campaigning for our elections and results started coming out. She became close again.

Fast forward to early this year, she started visiting often and we started relationship. She said she doesn't want sex which is understandable. Throughout the relationship, I was good and all that and she fell deeply in love with me.

When I returned from my I.T I lost feelings for her, perhaps, because we were not intimate, I started seeing her like my sister, and I told her earlier that this relationship won't work. We are not having sex and I am about to have sex with some girls which will hurt her, so we should just break up.

She did everything to make the relationship work, but I have lost interest. I broke up with her, although she agreed to have sex with me just to keep me, but I declined the offer because she was seeing the sex as sacrifice or favour she is doing to save the relationship. I can't have sex with someone that think sex is sacrifice, I love girls that have sex just because they want to, no big deal about it.

After the break up, we went on holiday and we just returned to school. The girl in question is planning with some people to come and threaten me for breaking her heart, she begged them not to hurt me because she still loves me, but they should make me really scared and forced to go back to her.

One of the guys who is contacted to carry out this task called me yesterday and told me about the whole plan and said the call and his contact should be confidential. He told me that they have concluded all the plans to come for him.

Why can't she move on with her life? Why is she doing this? Relationship is not by force now. Some guys visited me yesterday and informed me that they got info about impending threat on me, that one person contacted them to protect me.

Please, how can I go about this mess?
la breakup, la die grin

Lalalalala cheesy cheesy
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 6:51pm On Sep 22, 2021
Why can’t you just follow the Principles of God? Stay away from sex till you are married.

If you guys give girl belle now, you’d start crying and saying you did it just once now your life is ruined.

Obedience is better than sacrifice.
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by arthurwillia(m): 7:15pm On Sep 22, 2021
Guy you are just wicked
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Ishilove: 8:55pm On Sep 22, 2021
Una two no get wetin una dey think. Idleness
Re: Breakup Go Wrong, Help Me Guys. by Adesamogun(m): 9:15pm On Sep 22, 2021
Oga just manage the situation till you leave that school even if you report to the police, that girl can kill you oo. Just because the guys are people you know. Don’t take advantage of that ooo. Postpone your enjoyment till service year ooo. If a girl can send people to you Oga she can do anything. Just keep her close and don’t chase her away when you leave school distance will aid the separation over time

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