Early last year I asked this girl out but she turned down my request because she has a boyfriend. She requested we become friends, which I was not comfortable with. Throughout the covid 19 break, I was the only one doing the friendship.

After the break we resumed school, and I voiced it out that I can't continue with the friendship. Some months later, we started campaigning for our elections and results started coming out. She became close again.

Fast forward to early this year, she started visiting often and we started relationship. She said she doesn't want sex which is understandable. Throughout the relationship, I was good and all that and she fell deeply in love with me.

When I returned from my I.T I lost feelings for her, perhaps, because we were not intimate, I started seeing her like my sister, and I told her earlier that this relationship won't work. We are not having sex and I am about to have sex with some girls which will hurt her, so we should just break up.

She did everything to make the relationship work, but I have lost interest. I broke up with her, although she agreed to have sex with me just to keep me, but I declined the offer because she was seeing the sex as sacrifice or favour she is doing to save the relationship. I can't have sex with someone that think sex is sacrifice, I love girls that have sex just because they want to, no big deal about it.

After the break up, we went on holiday and we just returned to school. The girl in question is planning with some people to come and threaten me for breaking her heart, she begged them not to hurt me because she still loves me, but they should make me really scared and forced to go back to her.

One of the guys who is contacted to carry out this task called me yesterday and told me about the whole plan and said the call and his contact should be confidential. He told me that they have concluded all the plans to come for him.

Why can't she move on with her life? Why is she doing this? Relationship is not by force now. Some guys visited me yesterday and informed me that they got info about impending threat on me, that one person contacted them to protect me.

Please, how can I go about this mess?

You must love oo


No time to run

We never hear from the girl sha
You just making a first person complain

Eleyi gidi gan o

Go and meet the lady in question and speak with her after you've informed the school security without messing the confidentiality entrusted by the Judas fellow

Mtcheeew na small pikin dey worry her

You don enter am..

Bros... Can't you just pretend like all is well, round up your program then Japa

Women can't just take half of what they give, rejection hurts them so much. Chat with her and tell her you heard from people about her plan, in the chat she will say everything she planned for you. You can use it as evidence when you go to the police to report the case.

criuze:
You must love oo


No time to run

We never hear from the girl sha
You just making a first person complain

The girl is saying that I made her fall deeply in love with me then I want to break her heart. To be honest, I didn't sleep with her, I didn't take anything from her, I just lost interest, and I just want to catch cruise with some girls because this is my last semester, so I am not ready for committed relationship. That's my only offence.

DWJOBScom:
Go and meet the lady in question and speak with her after you've informed the school security without messing the confidentiality entrusted by the Judas fellow

Whenever I called her or go around her, she will be acting mature and be telling me that I should give her space to heal, she said she doesn't have problem with me but she is still holding on. Even her friends are looking at me with one kind eye.

Was dis not my exact comment on a particular thread some days back.the wrong person will begin to plan on the next evil to carry our on you,whenever problem arises.

Ahmed0336:
Bros... Can't you just pretend like all is well, round up your program then Japa

She is just choking me, she is not giving me space. She visited on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and wanted to sleep over on Friday. I am not even attracted to her anymore. The whole thing is frustrating.

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

donbachi:
Was dis not my exact comment on a particular thread some days back.the wrong person will begin to plan on the next evil to carry our on you,whenever problem arises.

You are very accurate about this. This girl is in 200 level o. I have girls I would love to keep but stories about girls won't let me do that, not even undergraduate, so I am emotionally detaching myself from all these girls as I am graduating three months from now.

BigJoe19:
Women can't just take half of what they give, rejection hurts them so much. Chat with her and tell her you heard from people about her plan, in the chat she will say everything she planned for you. You can use it as evidence when you go to the police to report the case.

Thanks for this advice bro.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

LoL, you are harsh bro.

I can't have sex with someone that think sex is sacrifice, I love girls that have sex just because they want to, no big deal about it.

Thumbs Down!

Flee from premarital sex!

If boys applied your law to your sisters, your sisters will end up overly used and dilapidated.

Stand your ground and talk to the guys man to man when they come but don't pick a fight with them cos love no be by force bro.

She no wana lash but she dey find relationship.

Nonsense.

Demigod22:


She is just choking me, she is not giving me space. She visited on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and wanted to sleep over on Friday. I am not even attracted to her anymore. The whole thing is frustrating.

Why get so close and now u no longer interested? You playing with her emotion which ain't cool.

Na wa oh....I think say na only guymen dey do do-or-die for relationship matters before

Op,I suggest you should report this matter to the police....And for now,steer clear from that banny...No let anybody ginger you to go back to that girl.....

chatinent:


Thumbs Down!

Flee from premarital sex!

If boys applied your law to your sisters, your sisters will end up overly used and dilapidated.

Premarital sex is a sin, but just one among the million sins we commit everyday. For my sister, she is old enough to make her own decisions.

Hehehehe....! Wahala be like shit way no gree flush.

AutoChick4U:
Why get so close and now u no longer interested? You playing with her emotion which ain't cool.

But you know how these things work. People lose interest too. She is becoming more like a sister than a girlfriend to me. The feelings died.

Beebah2000:
Hehehehe....! Wahala be like shit way no gree flush.

Hahaha, you are not serious.

Skullano:
Stand your ground and talk to the guys man to man when they come but don't pick a fight with them cos love no be by force bro.

She no wana lash but she dey find relationship.

Nonsense.

You got good brains bro.

Demigod22:


Whenever I called her or go around her, she will be acting mature and be telling me that I should give her space to heal, she said she doesn't have problem with me but she is still holding on. Even her friends are looking at me with one kind eye.

Na drama
Don't be afraid but act fast.
The story line will draw alot of sympathy for her , don't mind the faceless beings here screaming nothing dey happen.
There's nothing wrong with having a sexless relationship unless there's nothing to share apart from sex!
Just have that talk with her and let the boys visit
They won't kill you

Demigod22:


But you know how these things work. People lose interest too. She is becoming more like a sister than a girlfriend to me. The feelings died.

you should have left her with d first bf

AutoChick4U:
you should have left her with d first bf

She did not break up with the first boyfriend because of me. She told me that the guy impregnated another girl. She choose me as option B, because she started coming around when the first relationship ended.

Nothing breaks a woman heart more than for her to offer you her kpekus(prison) for free and you reject it. I see no problem here bro, just call her now and sample her ekwe rightly, watch her cancel the evil plans she had for you instantly.

DWJOBScom:


Na drama
Don't be afraid but act fast.
The story line will draw alot of sympathy for her , don't mind the faceless beings here screaming nothing dey happen.
There's nothing wrong with having a sexless relationship unless there's nothing to share apart from sex!
Just have that talk with her and let the boys visit
They won't kill you

Thanks for your input, you made a valid point.

mekonglobal:
Nothing breaks a woman heart more than for her to offer you her kpekus(prison) for free and you reject it. I see no problem here bro, just call her now and sample her ekwe rightly, watch her cancel the evil plans she had for you instantly.

Lol, girls hate that stuff. The gang member that called me commanded my manliness and jokingly said he is not happy with me because I turned down the sex offer.