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Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Mandesz(m): 3:07pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Buhari caused these! |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Drsnives(m): 3:07pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Comment ist read later |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Winneygirl(f): 3:08pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Continue saving until you decide. Don't rush into any business, or investment with yeye promise of huge returns. People complain about savings, but savings is your money guaranteed. If you are not sure or very knowledgeable about any business/investment venture, protect your capital. There have been a lot of tears on these streets. Forget marriage for now too. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by kingxsamz(m): 3:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Don't let anyone push you into what you'll start and won't be able to finish. Once you get into it, you're not coming out. Make depression no kill you. Normally, if you're not financially stable and you're still planning your life, I don't see why you should be getting married, especially when it's not necessary. Focus on yourself first. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by The5DME(m): 3:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
. Don't get married. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by WannaBeBlogger: 3:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Just be a man and do your thing. Women can't understand the way of man. Imagine ur mom being selfish...u should build house for whom, when u are still trying to find ur feet. That's women for you. It's always about them 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Starz825(m): 3:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Don't get married...I repeat don't get married.... Except if you have a lady that does better financially than you do....and ever willing to assist.. Naw i see why marriage favor women than men..just because you can't make a family without them... 2.7m na still smallz ooo guy ....let mama know ooo 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by thesmallgod(m): 3:11pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20:This is a wrong advice. You can still marry late and still regret your life. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Peace081: 3:11pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
My brother just marry n start a family |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by treatise: 3:12pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
When you made wrong choices on the premise of being the only SON , no one would come to your rescue on the basis of being the only SON. Make informed choices and you'd happier you did. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Starz825(m): 3:13pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
thesmallgod:This your point is possible but isn't the argument at the moment...the young man shouldn't marry now 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Klass99(f): 3:14pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by rajiedreez: 3:14pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Guy go with your plan, |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by motymop: 3:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Worst idea ever. Don't do this and that, after in the future regrets. Also programming isn't the only job in the world and not everyone have the zeal and motivation to be a programmer 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by phorget(m): 3:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Please no listen to your mama o,nah she dem wan use finish you kpatakpata... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Juicy001: 3:17pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
abisoye2: Bros, listen to mumsy.. You might feel you dont need a woman but how about a woman that will support you? Pray, Encourage and also put you in line when ever you're going off course? Your mum cant do all that na, Dont just look at it from the negative side but also the positive side, you're just scared of the unknown and its understandable cus we are humans,its in our nature.... Def it's not something to rush into but think about it... Cuz in my opinion, omoh na to marry continue with your dreams till they become reality, nothing sure pass this one. Remain blessed 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by klickstar: 3:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
THis is your life not any other person's my brother if you allow society to determine your future you will end up in rat race you will think you're doing well but the only thing you will be able to afford is basic needs and nothing tangible my brother don't into trap like most of us you're on the verge of being successful it might take a while don't let village people play with your only way out it's better to get marry at 40 as a man and enjoy the rest of your life than marry early and be contemplating suicide please learn from my mistake 27 is still a foundation stage don't rush into suffering stabilize and live well I beg don't follow the old mentality o My brother jowo mawo one chance o 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Emmanuel909090: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Hustle, i repeat hustle 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Housing(m): 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Honour and respect your Mum always, but stick to your plan with all your strength. It is only now that you can lay a solid foundation for yourself and descendants. Be more focus about your plan to relocate acquire the right education and skills. African mothers like to boast that my child has his own house, but life goes beyond that. That your little savings can't complete a 2-bedroom flat, it can not even buy you a full plot of land in a location that you may consider ok for having basic infrastructure. So you can not convince her but you can be sure of your plans and aspirations. Please stick to your plans. Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Miyachi: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
@abisoye2 Saving is good but nobody gets wealthy from just saving. You'd have to invest that money to get greater returns. Pause for a second here, I don't mean following the current trends of fraudulent investments & schemes. I mean stocks, bonds, etc. If you're bold enough start a business, you can do this while still holding on to your job. Overall, I think your decisions are sound. Develop yourself, that way you can unlock greater opportunities and command greater income. Building a house or raising a family will be easier. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by ObalaEmma: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Oga don't build Kpakam. Your mother gave you good advice but it means spending more years in Dubai working to build house. Finish with your advancement of career. |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 3:21pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Gerrard59: @gerrard59 you are so on point......this is really deep, who get ear make em hear ooo |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Segzy19: 3:21pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Guy, don't rush into any marriage. If your mum wants grandchildren, your siblings who are females are there. You are a man. Once you get married like this, you have just changed the trajectory of your life. Wife and children will delay your plans. Focus and invest in yourself first so that your family (wife and children) don't suffer and struggle with you. You are 27, you can still afford to marry at 35. It's not late. By then you would have saved more money, finished your studies mad probably gotten a better job or source of income. Marriage is another big thing on its own o. Again, don't start developing any land back at home. Your savings won't finish it. Hence you can't generate any rent from it. It becomes an uncompleted project while you are completely sapped of your savings... Be wise... It's even wise of you to have come online to solicit for advice 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by AmuEbule: 3:21pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Still Reading. Will respond ASAP. |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by debby337: 3:24pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
You do not have to worry. One step at a time. Inform your mum you want to OK before venturing into marriage. I will strongly advice that you try to make research about immigration consultants in u.a.e for your travelling stuff. Make enquiries and definitely you will get a good one. It is easier travelling from here than Nigeria. For the building of a house, well the choice is yours but price of cement last 2yrs is not the same today. As dollar goes up, so also other dirham. So safe in dirham if you have the means too. Lastly , upgrade your job/income as expo is here and job openings everywhere now. God bless our hustle 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by samsard(m): 3:25pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Juicy001:Poorly thought-out advise. You want the guy to struggle. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by ebuk4real(m): 3:25pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: Love the last sentence. I am 35yrs & the pressure to marry is here but earnings 40k. I am telling myself to hold on till 40yrs and doubting if I am not making mistake o 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Nobody: 3:26pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
abisoye2: Tell your mum, your salary is small. N2.7m cannot build anything in Nigeria now. That is just roofing and fencing money. Cement nah N3,500 a bag. Let me tell you something, once you are of age, stop taking advice from your aged mother. It will slow you down in life. From experience. I won't call it slow mentality, but they don't reason the fast age way. Build house, marry now, don't marry this girl.. all nah stupid advices. It leads to regret. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by InvertedHammer: 3:26pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
/ You are in a very precarious situation. I don't even know what to advise you to do. / |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
All what your mum suggested are good and healthy suggestion. In life they are somethings which are bent on a natural factors and one of them is marriages. Early marriage i tell you is a blessing, why because you get to train your kids in the like and manner you want. And in a twinkle of an eye junior is graduating. Not easy as summarised but funny enough it is a must do provided you aren't taking the priestly root. Why then wait until your bones are failing before undergoing such important assignment. As said earlier it is all bent on a natural factor called LOVE. can you get a woman who can do bore you a child and still stay stead fast. Marriage is a must, do it if you can.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused: Please Advise Me! by Limassol(m): 3:28pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
In my humble opinion: Marriage,investing a bussiness or building a house shouldn't be a priority to you, at least for now. It will be more profitable for you to double down on your hutsle and Save at least 6 to 7m - with that modest sum you can target European countries that offer tuition-free universities like Germany or Norway, and take it from there. You are still relatively young and still time by your side. Never allow anybody to pressure you into what may not be right for you. 5 Likes |
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