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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 6:08pm On Sep 30, 2021
Exactly bro they control d world. Illuminati and free mason are behind all dis disgusting LGBTQ nonsense
SweetVibe:

That group is called the 'illuminati'.
They control the media, Hollywood, music industry and any form of liberalism or feminism you see.
Their goal is for a new world order controlled with a weak population.

If you like believe, if you like call it conspiracy theory, its ur cup of tea.I just spoke fact to you

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heironymos(m): 6:10pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
My guy, his elder brother is in the soup. Only lesson of hard knocks, brutal hard knocks can humble that one.
E dey pain me aswear

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:13pm On Sep 30, 2021
heironymos:
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Finally when ever I try to talk to him he brings in this OG vibe like he knows what he is doing but this b**ch keeps whooping his ass emotionally but he won't simply learn from a wise sage because of ego(he is 40 I am 28).

How do I advice his egocentric Mr know all self in this regard(cos he feels knowledge and experience only comes with age)
Na dem. Male ego is a weakness and vulnerability in the intersexual game, especially in the hands of a woman. Male ego, if piqued, makes a man stubborn and impervious to sound correction. Male ego can make a man angry, vindictive and bitter at you even when you are clearly right. grin grin

I remember some cases years back when I usually advise simps who were being stupidly played by their girlfriends, many of them wouldn't admit they fuçked up and that they acted weak. Some would defend themselves with "I am not weak, I am a street guy. Warri-born", "I am an alpha, people around me know," etc. Some will be claiming OG on top. Lol. Even simps want to cling to the alpha title; male ego won't let men admit that they are weak or have been played by a woman like a fool. This happened with a certain guy on front page, years back, who simped big time and was still claim streets (I can't find the thread yet).

I also remember a certain DonaldKiñg10 was still claiming alpha after he simped big time for a girl he disvirgined. This girl brutally dealt with him, but he was still claiming alpha. Someone notified us of his story here and a female (QùinModah) who was secretly butthurt by how DonaldKiñg10 sorted his revenge opened a thread on this issue. CAPSLOCKED and MJBOLT can remember this story. I had to go to the ashewo thread to give him some red pill advice; I just had to help a brother. Here is a link to QùinModah's thread where she copied and pasted DonaldKiñg's story.

https://www.nairaland.com/6311441/donaldking10-actions-towards-wrong

DonaldKiñg's story:

typing...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:14pm On Sep 30, 2021
DonaldKiñg10's story (I copied and pasted his post from QuiñModah's thread. He has deleted his post):

Make una help me reason this matter.
I'm actually typing this with a deep heart.
Back then in skul, i met this 100 level virgin girl i loved so much, & who also loved me in return.
the relationship lasted 6 years, & i literally did everything for this chick. Got her a new phone, paid lodge-rent for 3 years, her feeding, hairs, nails & everything was on me. I literally converted this babe from a local-chick, to a slay-queen.I didn't allow her stress herself or do anything, at a point we even started living together as couples.
the babe too was nice to me & helped me out in other aspects like cooking, cleaning & washing.

Fast-forward 5 years later after graduation as she was about going for service in ogun-state, she cried & told me how she couldn't imagine staying for a month without seeing me, that's she's gotten so used to me & addicted to my díck, that she can't imagine staying for a week without fųcking me. to the point she even pressurised me into engaging her, & out of the love i had for her i did that.

Problem started 3 months into service, she started acting strange, picking my calls now became a problem for her, she started complaining how she's too busy with work & how my calls disturb her most times, & she even refused to re-deploy to my state like we initially agreed on. Before then i usually sent her money to come see me every weekend, but suddenly coming to see me now became a problem. most times she stayed for more than 2 months before reluctantly coming to see me.

Immediately i started suspecting another guy don de shine her congo. I pressurised her into telling me the truth, but she kept insisting there was no one else apart from me. Fortunately, I had some contacts over there in Ogun-state, so i immediately sent them to run investigations for me, & i later got to find-out she was even living with the boy. I swear, you people can't imagine the kinda pain I felt. At a point i was even contemplating suicide because i sacrificed a lot for that babe. I was a medical student, but because of that babe i had to lie to my parents & delay my clinicals for 1 year, just so we could spend our graduation year together.

I was so pained, I spent weeks crying & begging her to come back to me, but to no avail. All she did was just come over, told me that was the last time i would ever be seeing her in life, returned my engagement-ring, & asked me to move-on with life. Omoh i was so pained at how easy it was for her to open her mouth & say all those despite the number of years we spent together plus despite all we shared. I cried & begged to no avail. She only fvcked me for the last time, & the next morning she entered bus back to ogun-state.

Most times when I call, she would give the new guy the phone to pick, & they would be kissing & laughing at me at the background. That was when the love in me turned to hatred, & I swore to deal with her.
this was the same babe that promised me she would rather die than leave me. Same babe that cheated on me, & when I caught her, she almost killed herself because she didn't want me to break-up with her. Well, I had some of her nude-pictures on my phone, so I used a different number to send them to her parents & her church group-chat. NOTE: She is a Reedem Pastors Daughter.

She was so ashamed & devastated, she cried for weeks. Her parents almost disowned her. They had to cut her service short, asked her to return back home, & the relationship with the guy was ended after I also let them know she was living with a guy. I ended-up achieving my aim of ending the relationship with the guy & I felt so satisfied, & I never regretted my actions till today.

What even annoyed me further was weeks later when she called & told me she had no future with the guy because they were both A.S. That she was just using him to fill the space I wasn't around always to occupy when she needed me. But my question now is, Was my actions towards her right??

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Akinbahm(m): 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
DonaldKiñg10's story (I copied and pasted his post from QuiñModah's thread. He has deleted his post):

Make una help me reason this matter.
I'm actually typing this with a deep heart.
Back then in skul, i met this 100 level virgin girl i loved so much, & who also loved me in return.
the relationship lasted 6 years, & i literally did everything for this chick. Got her a new phone, paid lodge-rent for 3 years, her feeding, hairs, nails & everything was on me. I literally converted this babe from a local-chick, to a slay-queen.I didn't allow her stress herself or do anything, at a point we even started living together as couples.
the babe too was nice to me & helped me out in other aspects like cooking, cleaning & washing.

Fast-forward 5 years later after graduation as she was about going for service in ogun-state, she cried & told me how she couldn't imagine staying for a month without seeing me, that's she's gotten so used to me & addicted to my díck, that she can't imagine staying for a week without fųcking me. to the point she even pressurised me into engaging her, & out of the love i had for her i did that.

Problem started 3 months into service, she started acting strange, picking my calls now became a problem for her, she started complaining how she's too busy with work & how my calls disturb her most times, & she even refused to re-deploy to my state like we initially agreed on. Before then i usually sent her money to come see me every weekend, but suddenly coming to see me now became a problem. most times she stayed for more than 2 months before reluctantly coming to see me.

Immediately i started suspecting another guy don de shine her congo. I pressurised her into telling me the truth, but she kept insisting there was no one else apart from me. Fortunately, I had some contacts over there in Ogun-state, so i immediately sent them to run investigations for me, & i later got to find-out she was even living with the boy. I swear, you people can't imagine the kinda pain I felt. At a point i was even contemplating suicide because i sacrificed a lot for that babe. I was a medical student, but because of that babe i had to lie to my parents & delay my clinicals for 1 year, just so we could spend our graduation year together.

I was so pained, I spent weeks crying & begging her to come back to me, but to no avail. All she did was just come over, told me that was the last time i would ever be seeing her in life, returned my engagement-ring, & asked me to move-on with life. Omoh i was so pained at how easy it was for her to open her mouth & say all those despite the number of years we spent together plus despite all we shared. I cried & begged to no avail. She only fvcked me for the last time, & the next morning she entered bus back to ogun-state.

Most times when I call, she would give the new guy the phone to pick, & they would be kissing & laughing at me at the background. That was when the love in me turned to hatred, & I swore to deal with her.
this was the same babe that promised me she would rather die than leave me. Same babe that cheated on me, & when I caught her, she almost killed herself because she didn't want me to break-up with her. Well, I had some of her nude-pictures on my phone, so I used a different number to send them to her parents & her church group-chat. NOTE: She is a Reedem Pastors Daughter.

She was so ashamed & devastated, she cried for weeks. Her parents almost disowned her. They had to cut her service short, asked her to return back home, & the relationship with the guy was ended after I also let them know she was living with a guy. I ended-up achieving my aim of ending the relationship with the guy & I felt so satisfied, & I never regretted my actions till today.

What even annoyed me further was weeks later when she called & told me she had no future with the guy because they were both A.S. That she was just using him to fill the space I wasn't around always to occupy when she needed me. But my question now is, Was my actions towards her right??

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dhiqson(m): 7:53pm On Sep 30, 2021
grin Martinez wont kill nme..fam you related to Aston Villa's keeper?

That being said. Aspiring patriarchs, Christian Brothers, the ones who feel we are all about hating women, The actual misogynist, Manigarians and all learn from this

Onetitis will get you screwed!! It will
The moment a lady become everything your blue pilled self wants, that instant put on your MIB glass sorry your redpilled lenses so you don't learn the hard way
So this guy has been there for this his "serious" babe to the extent of getting her a new well Tushed apartment
His reward She was fuckin her neighbor grin grin I remember telling him that you don use money to buy a woman's loyalty
He constantly reprimanded me telling me how it's my current situation that's making me talk that way (E pain me Sha)! grin
If you can't be redpilled in university sorry you can't be anywhere

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:00pm On Sep 30, 2021
Akinbahm:
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During my correction, he was still claiming that he is an alpha who doesn't take nonsense. I guess the error of thinking virgins are special, in some nawalt sense, got to him. I hope he later learnt his lesson sha. What men will do for love and pùssy ehn. SMH.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by G0LANHEIGHTS(m): 9:07pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
DonaldKiñg10's story (I copied and pasted his post from QuiñModah's thread. He has deleted his post):

Make una help me reason this matter.
I'm actually typing this with a deep heart.
Back then in skul, i met this 100 level virgin girl i loved so much, & who also loved me in return.
the relationship lasted 6 years, & i literally did everything for this chick. Got her a new phone, paid lodge-rent for 3 years, her feeding, hairs, nails & everything was on me. I literally converted this babe from a local-chick, to a slay-queen.I didn't allow her stress herself or do anything, at a point we even started living together as couples.
the babe too was nice to me & helped me out in other aspects like cooking, cleaning & washing.

Fast-forward 5 years later after graduation as she was about going for service in ogun-state, she cried & told me how she couldn't imagine staying for a month without seeing me, that's she's gotten so used to me & addicted to my díck, that she can't imagine staying for a week without fųcking me. to the point she even pressurised me into engaging her, & out of the love i had for her i did that.

Problem started 3 months into service, she started acting strange, picking my calls now became a problem for her, she started complaining how she's too busy with work & how my calls disturb her most times, & she even refused to re-deploy to my state like we initially agreed on. Before then i usually sent her money to come see me every weekend, but suddenly coming to see me now became a problem. most times she stayed for more than 2 months before reluctantly coming to see me.

Immediately i started suspecting another guy don de shine her congo. I pressurised her into telling me the truth, but she kept insisting there was no one else apart from me. Fortunately, I had some contacts over there in Ogun-state, so i immediately sent them to run investigations for me, & i later got to find-out she was even living with the boy. I swear, you people can't imagine the kinda pain I felt. At a point i was even contemplating suicide because i sacrificed a lot for that babe. I was a medical student, but because of that babe i had to lie to my parents & delay my clinicals for 1 year, just so we could spend our graduation year together.

I was so pained, I spent weeks crying & begging her to come back to me, but to no avail. All she did was just come over, told me that was the last time i would ever be seeing her in life, returned my engagement-ring, & asked me to move-on with life. Omoh i was so pained at how easy it was for her to open her mouth & say all those despite the number of years we spent together plus despite all we shared. I cried & begged to no avail. She only fvcked me for the last time, & the next morning she entered bus back to ogun-state.

Most times when I call, she would give the new guy the phone to pick, & they would be kissing & laughing at me at the background. That was when the love in me turned to hatred, & I swore to deal with her.
this was the same babe that promised me she would rather die than leave me. Same babe that cheated on me, & when I caught her, she almost killed herself because she didn't want me to break-up with her. Well, I had some of her nude-pictures on my phone, so I used a different number to send them to her parents & her church group-chat. NOTE: She is a Reedem Pastors Daughter.

She was so ashamed & devastated, she cried for weeks. Her parents almost disowned her. They had to cut her service short, asked her to return back home, & the relationship with the guy was ended after I also let them know she was living with a guy. I ended-up achieving my aim of ending the relationship with the guy & I felt so satisfied, & I never regretted my actions till today.

What even annoyed me further was weeks later when she called & told me she had no future with the guy because they were both A.S. That she was just using him to fill the space I wasn't around always to occupy when she needed me. But my question now is, Was my actions towards her right??
Lord have mercy cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by aomine(m): 9:20pm On Sep 30, 2021
G0LANHEIGHTS:

Lord have mercy cheesy
LORD WEY NOR GREE MARRY

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:27pm On Sep 30, 2021
G0LANHEIGHTS:

Lord have mercy cheesy
I don see too many cases to know that simping is a disorder of the mind.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:42pm On Sep 30, 2021
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:43pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
During my correction, he was still claiming that he is an alpha who doesn't take nonsense. I guess the error of thinking virgins are special, in some nawalt sense, got to him. I hope he later learnt his lesson sha. What men will do for love and pùssy ehn. SMH.
I remember this story. It even made front page sef. That girl was cold blooded and in the end, turned the guy crazy. But he doesn't seem to be redpilled though. Why? Because he came online to ask if what he did to her was right. I mean, that ain't really something to ask for anyone's opinion na

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:44pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
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Janemena's husband cheesy cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by palmshots: 10:19pm On Sep 30, 2021
palmshots:
There's this youngie I'm currently seeing, she keeps complaining I don't give her money and all that and I'm too stingy, this is a 22yr Old girl o, looking so naive and pretty
You guys won't believe I was chilling with a friend over the weekend and I invited her over,on getting to our side my friend says he likes her, I could read from her body language she's starting to like my friend.also, so I talked to her I might be leaving her with my friend. and she agrees (RN I know you're thinking your own girl is different bro...lol they're all the same ) I informed my friend(Simp) he's going to pay the girl 25k if he's going to have her for the evenings which he agrees also.
Hurray that's my first pimping experience and the girl was back the next morning and asked me how much I want from the money, I took 12k.
Funny thing is my friend woul Neva had dashed me 12k even when I had an accident recently with blown airbags he sent me only 5k to fix my car.
Dear Brothers This girls just wanna Hoe, Let them how in peace
If you get to see this girl, you will never believe she's capable of such tho



Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked cheesy grin

Guys please Don't be a simp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by posty56: 10:29pm On Sep 30, 2021
palmshots:


Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked cheesy grin

Guys please Don't be a simp

LMAO

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heironymos(m): 10:49pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
Na dem. Male ego is a weakness and vulnerability in the intersexual game, especially in the hands of a woman. Male ego, if piqued, makes a man stubborn and impervious to sound correction. Male ego can make a man angry, vindictive and bitter at you even when you are clearly right. grin grin

I remember some cases years back when I usually advise simps who were being stupidly played by their girlfriends, many of them wouldn't admit they fuçked up and that they acted weak. Some would defend themselves with "I am not weak, I am a street guy. Warri-born", "I am an alpha, people around me know," etc. Some will be claiming OG on top. Lol. Even simps want to cling to the alpha title; male ego won't let men admit that they are weak or have been played by a woman like a fool. This happened with a certain guy on front page, years back, who simped big time and was still claim streets (I can't find the thread yet).

I also remember a certain DonaldKiñg10 was still claiming alpha after he simped big time for a girl he disvirgined. This girl brutally dealt with him, but he was still claiming alpha. Someone notified us of his story here and a female (QùinModah) who was secretly butthurt by how DonaldKiñg10 sorted his revenge opened a thread on this issue. CAPSLOCKED and MJBOLT can remember this story. I had to go to the ashewo thread to give him some red pill advice; I just had to help a brother. Here is a link to QùinModah's thread where she copied and pasted DonaldKiñg's story.

https://www.nairaland.com/6311441/donaldking10-actions-towards-wrong

DonaldKiñg's story:

typing...
I will go through that thread and as for this delusional alphas that start acting weird all in the name of being alpha...they just always crack me up.

I have a friend that something on the internet about what and alpha should be like... lol this guy naturally doesn't have a deep voice but began to force it so much so that when he speaks we could barely hear him...he wants to be alpha so bad that he walks with his arms wide apart and some other weird stuff but forgetting the inner workings of what it takes to be it( introspection, deep thought about life, self realization and optimization e.t.c.) plus the burning desire to be successful(financially) and look good via home workout or more preferably hitting the gym, all this not to get the girl but just trying to be the best version of yourself.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heironymos(m): 10:52pm On Sep 30, 2021
Martinez39s:
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OMG

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enigma2049(m): 11:04pm On Sep 30, 2021
palmshots:


Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked cheesy grin

Guys please Don't be a simp




grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:12pm On Sep 30, 2021
heironymos:

I will go through that thread and as for this delusional alphas that start acting weird all in the name of being alpha...they just always crack me up.

I have a friend that something on the internet about what and alpha should be like... lol this guy naturally doesn't have a deep voice but began to force it so much so that when he speaks we could barely hear him...he wants to be alpha so bad that he walks with his arms wide apart and some other weird stuff but forgetting the inner workings of what it takes to be it( introspection, deep thought about life, self realization and optimization e.t.c.) plus the burning desire to be successful(financially) and look good via home workout or more preferably hitting the gym, all this not to get the girl but just trying to be the best version of yourself.
grin grin wtf did I just read. Alpha/red pill wannabes are among the funniest sets of people. grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:14pm On Sep 30, 2021
palmshots:
Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked cheesy grin

Guys please Don't be a simp
But they said you friend is the real mvp. grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:25am On Oct 01, 2021
luminouz:

Janemena's husband cheesy cheesy

Oh. That woman that twerks on Instagram? Shebi she's still twerking as they're married?
You're wife and possibly mother of your children will be shaking her buttocks for the attention and gratification of strangers on the Internet, your friends go dey watch am even save am for their phones.

The children of all this Instagram models and thirst trap attention seekers on the Internet.. Their school life no go easy o. Especially male kids in secondary school when puberty is dawning and hormones are on the rise, your mates, seniors, juniors even some teachers go just dey watch person mother objectify and disgrace herself and family.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:46am On Oct 01, 2021
Martinez39s:
I don see too many cases to know that simping is a disorder of the mind.

You won’t blame that Donny guy.
Bro it is not easy when in such situation.
Reading that thread brought a bitter memory to me and I just let it slide from my brain before I start crying.
Donny”s story is closely related to mine - the love, efforts invested in the relationship,money, time and the promise gotten back by my lady to always love me, never to do anything that will hurt me, promised never to leave me for another man, promised me nobody else will see her unclothedness again till she dies except me. I was feeling like the luckiest man in the world, as if other men complaining about relationship or women are just unfortunate and are not lucky enough to get their real Half etc.
I built my life and wall all around her and our future, to me I thought everything is for better for worse, in riches or hunger.
I never knew I was on my own. When she started messing up - banged her cousin during IT, banged 2 more guys in school during her HND days while I was busy placing her on monthly allowances, bought her laptop etc.
I nearly died bro, I nearly died - I almost had cardiac arrest, my chest was always heavy and couldn’t breath very well, I was dying while my suppose gf was busy banging. Nairaland didn’t even helped matters, it was when I mistaking got to know nairaland and regular threads were being opened by guys who had been heartbroken by their gfs - virtually similar to mine as if I was the one they were talking about.
They jest, badmouthing, toungelashing by some bad nairalnaders compounded my misery.
Since I didn’t die of that incident, I believe I can’t die of women related death again, it will be another thing entirely that will kill me in this life.
Though I am married now with kids and a good woman and I try my best for them in my own little capacity, I don't feel guilty whenever I engage in extra marital affairs because my conscience doesn’t trouble me. Everything just looks normal as if what am doing is right (who knows, maybe it is right) because deep down I know that the only reason why my woman is still with me and respect me is because I can provide and immediately that changes, she will also change it for me. So now that I have the upper edge, I don’t see any reason to play fair.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kevincal144444: 4:59am On Oct 01, 2021
emmaodet:


You won’t blame that Donny guy.
Bro it is not easy when in such situation.
Reading that thread brought a bitter memory to me and I just let it slide from my brain before I start crying.
Donny”s story is closely related to mine - the love, efforts invested in the relationship,money, time and the promise gotten back by my lady to always love me, never to do anything that will hurt me, promised never to leave me for another man, promised me nobody else will see her unclothedness again till she dies except me. I was feeling like the luckiest man in the world, as if other men complaining about relationship or women are just unfortunate and are not lucky enough to get their real Half etc.
I built my life and wall all around her and our future, to me I thought everything is for better for worse, in riches or hunger.
I never knew I was on my own. When she started messing up - banged her cousin during IT, banged 2 more guys in school during her HND days while I was busy placing her on monthly allowances, bought her laptop etc.
I nearly died bro, I nearly died - I almost had cardiac arrest, my chest was always heavy and couldn’t breath very well, I was dying while my suppose gf was busy banging. Nairaland didn’t even helped matters, it was when I mistaking got to know nairaland and regular threads were being opened by guys who had been heartbroken by their gfs - virtually similar to mine as if I was the one they were talking about.
They jest, badmouthing, toungelashing by some bad nairalnaders compounded my misery.
Since I didn’t die of that incident, I believe I can’t die of women related death again, it will be another thing entirely that will kill me in this life.
Though I am married now with kids and a good woman and I try my best for them in my own little capacity, I don't feel guilty whenever I engage in extra marital affairs because my conscience doesn’t trouble me. Everything just looks normal as if what am doing is right (who knows, maybe it is right) because deep down I know that the only reason why my woman is still with me and respect me is because I can provide and immediately that changes, she will also change it for me. So now that I have the upper edge, I don’t see any reason to play fair.

I was literally laughing while reading your story and that of the other guy martinez talked about.
Thank God for redpill.

I had practically the same story as yours. I nearly destroyed the girl when she cast me, because I couldn't even imagine myself living a life without her. At a time I was just looking for money to go get married to the love of my life. Hahaha, simping bad o.

There's nothing I didn't sacrifice just to make sure this girl was happy. Broke ass nigga like me then, hahaha. Chai, nawa o. I fought and quarreled with anyone that has a contrary view about my girl. This life sef. SMH.

When she left me, I cried. Me wey be strong man naturally na im this girl turn to cry cry baby. My world crashed. I couldn't think of anything else to do with my life. No be small thing guys.

I wanted revenge so badly but at the same the time the love I had for her couldn't let me go the extreme. I just left everything for nature to take it cause. Lol

I left Nigeria after few months, I suffered but in the cause of the suffering. I learnt my lessons.

N.B: Women no be your friend o. They go mess you up when you least expected it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by donaldking10: 5:11am On Oct 01, 2021
emmaodet:


You won’t blame that Donny guy.
Bro it is not easy when in such situation.
Reading that thread brought a bitter memory to me and I just let it slide from my brain before I start crying.
Donny”s story is closely related to mine - the love, efforts invested in the relationship,money, time and the promise gotten back by my lady to always love me, never to do anything that will hurt me, promised never to leave me for another man, promised me nobody else will see her unclothedness again till she dies except me. I was feeling like the luckiest man in the world, as if other men complaining about relationship or women are just unfortunate and are not lucky enough to get their real Half etc.
I built my life and wall all around her and our future, to me I thought everything is for better for worse, in riches or hunger.
I never knew I was on my own. When she started messing up - banged her cousin during IT, banged 2 more guys in school during her HND days while I was busy placing her on monthly allowances, bought her laptop etc.
I nearly died bro, I nearly died - I almost had cardiac arrest, my chest was always heavy and couldn’t breath very well, I was dying while my suppose gf was busy banging. Nairaland didn’t even helped matters, it was when I mistaking got to know nairaland and regular threads were being opened by guys who had been heartbroken by their gfs - virtually similar to mine as if I was the one they were talking about.
They jest, badmouthing, toungelashing by some bad nairalnaders compounded my misery.
Since I didn’t die of that incident, I believe I can’t die of women related death again, it will be another thing entirely that will kill me in this life.
Though I am married now with kids and a good woman and I try my best for them in my own little capacity, I don't feel guilty whenever I engage in extra marital affairs because my conscience doesn’t trouble me. Everything just looks normal as if what am doing is right (who knows, maybe it is right) because deep down I know that the only reason why my woman is still with me and respect me is because I can provide and immediately that changes, she will also change it for me. So now that I have the upper edge, I don’t see any reason to play fair.

there's a reason why i don't take all these guys forming redpill advisers and alpha-males here on nairaland serious until i get to see & know them personally in reality.
the Martinez guy be forming boss here, but if u check deep down u would get to find-out there's actually a bıtch out there he's simping for.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Fatalveli(m): 5:22am On Oct 01, 2021
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:22am On Oct 01, 2021
donaldking10:
There's a reason why i don't take all these guys forming redpill advisers and alpha-males here on nairaland serious until i get to see & know them personally in reality.
the Martinez guy be forming boss here, but if u check deep down u would get to find-out there's actually a bıtch out there he's simping for.
Mr. Donald, I have no problem with you and we are not quarrelling. Your story was just used to illustrate some points. Everyone one on this thread have had a blue pill past where they simped one way or the other, some worse than others; yours isn't even the worse case. No one is belittling you. We don't judge here. Your ordeal happened in the past, and I will like to believe you have learnt your lesson and gone red pill since then. You are welcome to share your red pill experiences and lessons since your ordeal.

Finally, I am not simping for any girl, never! grin I have outgrown a lot. Good morning, bro.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ma373733(m): 6:48am On Oct 01, 2021
palmshots:


Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked

Guys please Don't be a simp



Mtchew! Use vex scatter her well


Infact take pictures of banging her sef

If na me eh I would quickly record what she was saying with my phone

The thing wey vex me pass be say that simpazee is someone's MVP here

Nonsense

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jerry59: 6:54am On Oct 01, 2021
Wow, people have really gone through sh!t for "love" cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jerry59: 6:56am On Oct 01, 2021
ma373733:



Mtchew! Use vex scatter her well


Infact take pictures of banging her sef

If na me eh I would quickly record what she was saying with my phone

The thing wey vex me pass be say that simpazee is someone's MVP here

Nonsense
Don't loud your voice comrade grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:02am On Oct 01, 2021
DAY 274, REDPILL 2021

I don't know who needs to hear this: don't commit to a relationship that will require you to fight with the effigies of her ex(es); better to remain single than shed premium tears! Better to remain single than commit into a precarious relationship!

Authority: don't be a simp!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Akinbahm(m): 7:05am On Oct 01, 2021
Martinez39s:
During my correction, he was still claiming that he is an alpha who doesn't take nonsense. I guess the error of thinking virgins are special, in some nawalt sense, got to him. I hope he later learnt his lesson sha. What men will do for love and pùssy ehn. SMH.

Do you know I have this crazy ideology of not believing NAWALT on paper (Ideally) but 98.67% accepted AWALT on pitch (Realistically). cool

On the virgin or no virgin nah discussion I don’t want to delve into much because I don’t have much evidence and/or experience to back it up cause I deal/believe so much in theory and practical combined. But the little knowledge I have is if as a guy u have a virgin lady at your disposal lead her into your frame and don’t loose guard by bending rules for her to accommodate her useless excesses I got the knowledge indirectly from my uncle and Dad because the moment u loose guard u r a goner but learn to b dynamic so as not to be seen as an authoritarian.

Let’s take Abramovich Chelsea’s squad as a case study for those who are not into football Abramovich has this strictness of not embracing failure from players and coach once any of the duos are not performing to expectations b ready for ur sack letter irrespective of the player and or coach calibre and he is getting the trophies and money in returns base on his strict law.

Above one can deduce he made this strict law and he never bend it to accommodate Laziness from his workers, the moment he start to accommodate his employees excesses he is a goner thank God Arsenal don dey trend that path also. So, peeps learn and or inculcate this attitude of Abramovich into your personality and apply it in all ramifications not just women matter alone.

You see one thing I realize about Men is that if a fellow man crush our ego by telling us the truth we will b bitter and see the person as a small pickin with no life experience instead of putting the ego aside and learn one/two but if a woman crush our ego come see total submission from we blue-pilled men. grin

Sorry for the long post ah don’t know what came over me this morning...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Akinbahm(m): 7:15am On Oct 01, 2021
palmshots:


Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked cheesy grin

Guys please Don't be a simp


KiNg0G, our MVP don finally get upgraded to another level ooh...

Make we talk true if u b comedian u go get fame small instead of forcing ur self to b seen as what you are not.

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