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I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 5:25pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Beginning to feel somehow this days, and it’s majorly because of my height. So I just turned 21 this year July and then I discovered I’m 5”5 in height. I’m not really into girls for now, but then when I’m ready for the relationship stuffs I don’t think I can approach ladies cause I think I might be at a disadvantage because of my height. I do get ladies that are attracted to me in school, I believe that’s because I’m fair and intelligent. Top 1% of my class, just graduated with a very good result too. But I think it just ends there, I kind of feel bad about my height. For those who will say I should go make money, that isn’t my problem now because I’m doing quite good financially for a 21 year old. The issue now is how to improve my confidence because I feel I’m at a disadvantage when I’m ready to go into a relationship Is it even possible to add a couple of inches before 25? |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by DaddyRochie1642: 5:31pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
The Lord is your strength 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by lilvicky68(m): 5:33pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Men stop growing at age 40.. Have hope |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by donbachi(m): 5:35pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Just occupy till he comes. 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 5:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by budaatum: 5:49pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
You need to find something worthwhile to be insecure about! https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-50242981
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Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 5:50pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
budaatum: Isn’t this enough headache for me, allow me |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by budaatum: 5:51pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SimpleGuy001: Point is, this should not be a headache at all. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 5:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
budaatum: I get, but it’s easier for you to say. Thanks anyway |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by budaatum: 5:54pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SimpleGuy001: It is indeed easier for 5ft3½ me to say. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 5:56pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
budaatum: Hmmm. Thanks anyway |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by mystery22: 6:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Try hanging, and symmetric dressing to create some taller illusion.. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Iamagoodgirll: 6:27pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SimpleGuy001:you're still young and you will keep growing as you age and make sure you're eating healthy food 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Nobody: 6:31pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Iamagoodgirll: At 21, chances of growing again is super slim. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Jamesbiodun(m): 6:51pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
lilvicky68:liar go back to your biology 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Truvelisback(m): 7:48pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I don't know why u are worried abt ur height. Are u shorter than Aki and Pawpaw? |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Truvelisback(m): 7:50pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Jamesbiodun:Biology teacher, pls tell us when men stop growing. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by blinking001(m): 8:02pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SimpleGuy001:Take the redpill |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by sheanzy(m): 9:38pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
And here I am 6.02ft tall feeling short This life no balance |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SenecaTheYonger: 9:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
lilvicky68:Men stop growing at twenty, actually eighteen |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Nobody: 10:08pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong with your height, OP. Height is predominantly determined by genetics and by 18, it's set in stone, so at 21 now, there's nothing you can do about it than to accept it. You've to love and accept yourself yourself to attract the right girl who will, in turn, love and accept you. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by czarr(m): 10:53pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Like who likes you. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Akposkibo(m): 11:24pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by talk2hb1(m): 3:24am On Oct 04, 2021 |
KPK & NPK fertilizer does help Radarada post, Radarada response |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Taywon: 5:33am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Make friends with tall people... |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Ofadaman(m): 7:03am On Oct 04, 2021 |
For someone who claims to be intelligent, It took you to turn 21 before you discovered you're short, and when you did the only thing that bothered you was not being able to talk to girls because your short. For someone who claims to be intelligent you have a very shallow mental strength to even lose a war in your mind before you even tried , you didn't make any attempt you just concluded. I'd tell you sir, that you aren't smart or intelligent you're just as dumb as any other average person and if you claim to be the most intelligent person in your circle then you have really dumb people around you Good day sir 1 Like |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Ayo2004: 7:22am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Mr man,go and make better money,you are not yet financially stable enough Women rules for men they date is only for the poor "I can't date a short man" "I can't date an ugly man" I can't date a man old enough to be my father" "I can't date a man that doesn't last in bed" "I can't date a baby daddy" If he is rich,all these excuses fly out the window Ask Ned if you don't believe |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by JOACHINpedro: 7:33am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Very simple situation but question is are you ready for it? |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Hypnotise: 8:44am On Oct 04, 2021 |
There are some things that can’t be changed. You just have to find a way to cope with it. Btw limb lengthening surgery is done in India but it’s damm fvcking expensive |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by Clinghton: 12:18pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Are your parents tall, if yes you would. Try eating foods with high protein like beans to improve your height. |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by jackyraw09: 12:28pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
SimpleGuy001: Be wise enough to focus on your strengths and not your weaknesses bro. You can’t do much about your height but would you rather weigh yourself down with negative self-opinion or just ginger yourself up and focus on using your intelligence to win the ladies over? The choice is yours |
Re: I’m Starting To Feel Insecure!!! by SimpleGuy001: 6:59pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Ofadaman: Take a chill pill bro, like I said it never bothered me until recently. So what are you saying......... |
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