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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by abumeinben(m): 3:16pm On Oct 03, 2021
This is the beginning of responsibility. Man up and face the game. You nor go die.


And remember, you gradually sliding off the childish request: "Mommy/Daddy send me something na"

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by McStoic(m): 3:21pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

The first help you need is to come out of gambling. Only a genuine heart to heart talk with God and a compelling desire to change can help you do that. Once you have resolved to end it, you can seek other helps. Cos if you succeed in getting about times of two of that money now i.e 66k, you will still rush back to it, to chase the ones you lost. YOU ARE ONLY SAD BECAUSE YOU LOST MONEY AND NOT BECAUSE YOU LOST A BET! THINK ABOUT THAT! YOU ARE STILL NOT YET DONE WITH IT!!

Quitting bet is not easy, but you will be glad you did ..

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by McStoic(m): 3:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:



Bro. I ain't looking for some pity to make me feel better. I'm just looking for help on how to get rid of this habit that's destroying my Life. I got problems for real.

Thanks for the word!

You probably played virtual to have lost such huge amount..

Like I said before, God factor is always necessary when we encounter dead ends in life ..be more prayerful and engage in activities that will occupy you from the habit. Distance yourself from that betting app and delete the links, sites and contacts etc that fuel the habit..

Stay away from following football passionately. Go to the investment and business section of Nairaland, you will find other business and ideas that will help you forget/replace the habit. Hope these help for now...

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 4:05pm On Oct 03, 2021
Gandollar:
Op needs raba, not all these motivational talks mbok. shocked

Are you from Kano State?

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 4:17pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡


wow! your future is calling bro! it's good to make mistakes but a real homie does not make the same mistake twice.

ask for help from whatever you believe in and i assure you that help will come.

BABA U NEED SPIRITUAL BACKUP AS A MAN because LIFE NO B BEANS!


SPIRITUAL BACKUP!

THE RICH DON'T PLAY WITH IT. BUT U WILL SEE A POOR MAN LIVING CARE FREE.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A POOR MAN AND A RICH MAN IS SPIRITUAL BACK UP.

THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE GIVEN U TODAY IS PRICELESS

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by mu2sa2: 4:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
Freestainworld:
When they said gamble responsibly, una no gree
Which one be gambling " responsibly"? Gambling na gambling!
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 5:13pm On Oct 03, 2021
femi4:
God forbid

You Criticize a nigga? & you don't wanna help him get better!
Hope that makes you feel better about yourself though?

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Oct 03, 2021
Don't worry op, hunger will teach you a lesson.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 5:33pm On Oct 03, 2021
nniero11:



wow! your future is calling bro! it's good to make mistakes but a real homie does not make the same mistake twice.

ask for help from whatever you believe in and i assure you that help will come.

BABA U NEED SPIRITUAL BACKUP AS A MAN because LIFE NO B BEANS!


SPIRITUAL BACKUP!

THE RICH DON'T PLAY WITH IT. BUT U WILL SEE A POOR MAN LIVING CARE FREE.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A POOR MAN AND A RICH MAN IS SPIRITUAL BACK UP.

THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE GIVEN U TODAY IS PRICELESS




WORD! Priceless indeed!
Thanks Bro. I really appreciate... I'm working on my spiritual Life likewise.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 5:34pm On Oct 03, 2021
HenryDion:
Don't worry op, hunger will teach you a lesson.


I've been through it all!
I don't wanna go through it again.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 5:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
abumeinben:
This is the beginning of responsibility. Man up and face the game. You nor go die.


And remember, you gradually sliding off the childish request: "Mommy/Daddy send me something na"

Real Talk! Thanks Bro.
I wanna fix up my Life.
First by getting rid of this bad habit. Tryna figure how?

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Walkee: 6:10pm On Oct 03, 2021
felixzo1:
please relax every problem in life has a solution. there is always a way out, only time will give you options on what best to do.

do not beat your self too much , we all make mistakes but be willing to learn from them and grow. No gambling it destroys.
this is a lie though
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 6:14pm On Oct 03, 2021
McStoic:


You probably played virtual to have lost such huge amount..

Like I said before, God factor is always necessary when we encounter dead ends in life ..be more prayerful and engage in activities that will occupy you from the habit. Distance yourself from that betting app and delete the links, sites and contacts etc that fuel the habit..

Stay away from following football passionately. Go to the investment and business section of Nairaland, you will find other business and ideas that will help you forget/replace the habit. Hope these help for now...



Thanks so much
I'm planning on going off the internet for as long as I can.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 6:16pm On Oct 03, 2021
McStoic:


The first help you need is to come out of gambling. Only a genuine heart to heart talk with God and a compelling desire to change can help you do that. Once you have resolved to end it, you can seek other helps. Cos if you succeed in getting about times of two of that money now i.e 66k, you will still rush back to it, to chase the ones you lost. YOU ARE ONLY SAD BECAUSE YOU LOST MONEY AND NOT BECAUSE YOU LOST A BET! THINK ABOUT THAT! YOU ARE STILL NOT YET DONE WITH IT!!

Quitting bet is not easy, but you will be glad you did ..


I've tried to stop countlessly but I still fall back. I'm just working and hoping to stop it for good.. Thanks a lot!.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by sheanzy(m): 6:28pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
first of all, tell me the games that cut your ticket before I ask you to send ur account number
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by abumeinben(m): 7:11pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:


Real Talk! Thanks Bro.
I wanna fix up my Life.
First by getting rid of this bad habit. Tryna figure how?

Any money that comes to you, remove your saving first, then you can do whatever you want. Savings are not to be disturbed except for house rent, school fees, other essential projects.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by felixzo1(m): 7:14pm On Oct 03, 2021
Walkee:
this is a lie though
how explain
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Gandollar(f): 7:17pm On Oct 03, 2021
Karleb:


I will advice against giving him a kobo. Let him learn the hard way.

It's even better that it's just 33k and there's hope next month. If he doesn't learn now, he might gamble with a million tomorrow.
I'm still wondering how someone could be bold to say he gambled away his money and now wants people to make contribution for him

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 7:29pm On Oct 03, 2021
abumeinben:


Any money that comes to you, remove your saving first, then you can do whatever you want. Savings are not to be disturbed except for house rent, school fees, other essential projects.


Alright Bro.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 7:32pm On Oct 03, 2021
Gandollar:
I'm still wondering how someone could be bold to say he gambled away his money and now wants people to make contribution for him

Thanks for commenting on the post... I just need help on how to get rid of my gambling problem, I don't need no tip.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by zedegit: 7:35pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

You can pay off the debt as you get your monthly Alawee instalmentaly.
If you think it's spiritual, visit MFM in your location.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by zedegit: 7:38pm On Oct 03, 2021
Lamasta:
OP repeat after me....

My Father My father

Every spirit of gambling and recklessness
tormenting my destiny


What are you waiting for.......

.....Die, die, die, die..

T

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by lied(f): 8:25pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dont give up.
Winners never quit.
Take a loan, and play again.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by CaveAdullam: 8:56pm On Oct 03, 2021
This darkness you're witnessing now will pass away. Just take everything slowly, 2-4 months from now, you look back and leap for joy for this hurdle scaled through.

Try and mingle with the locales in your community. I believe they will have good hearts towards you as a Corp member. What's important here is not too much fretting, murmuring and crying. If you can eat daily even if it's once, you can overcome.

Only you can elevate yourself, please do!

Thanks.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by infogenius(m): 9:21pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

Come on! Forgive urself and give urself another chance. Your healing starts from there
Go on ur kneels and pray to God. Believe God to take off the rest
He will definitely respond to ur prayer in His own way.
My advice is this, once u pull through never mix up urself in gambling and debt. There is no way through this route.
All the best Bro

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by KamalGS: 9:42pm On Oct 03, 2021
Let go of the thinking the deed have been done . Just learn how to stop gambling using these tip.
You become who you associate yourself with. Change your circle of friends.
Stop going around the place of gambling
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by shomutuski(m): 9:44pm On Oct 03, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡


Better wake up, mugu no be only you owe for this life
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:03pm On Oct 03, 2021
Davash222:
You're a disgrace to your moniker!
You don get am. grin grin grin
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:32pm On Oct 03, 2021
shomutuski:



Better wake up, mugu no be only you owe for this life


Mehn my own too Much Abeg!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2021
infogenius:


Come on! Forgive urself and give urself another chance. Your healing starts from there
Go on ur kneels and pray to God. Believe God to take off the rest
He will definitely respond to ur prayer in His own way.
My advice is this, once u pull through never mix up urself in gambling and debt. There is no way for through this route.
All the best Bro



Thanks so Much Bro.
I'm trying my best hopefully I'll pull through

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:40pm On Oct 03, 2021
Karleb:
I don't see this as an issue. grin

Just take it as an opportunity to learn, another alawee is coming, if you like gamble with it again.


I hope I learn from this
Thanks a lot!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:42pm On Oct 03, 2021
Karleb:


I will advice against giving him a kobo. Let him learn the hard way.

It's even better that it's just 33k and there's hope next month. If he doesn't learn now, he might gamble with a million tomorrow.



Hopefully I've learnt my lesson!
All I need is a kobo of advice to get me through this mess.
Thanks for the comment.

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