₦airaland Forum

Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

Nobody should help this bastard , as matured as u are u uss all your allawee take gamble, idiot

godfrey02:
LOL... Die by fire will not stop all these things.. If you can cut yourself off from internet is the only solution..


I see bet house as a toilet and whenever I pass by any bet house, I look at it with disgust because I see people who are pained standing outside, young guys thinking about their life... It's just too bad.. If only our govt can step in and close these bet shops..

All networks were able to ban twitter after the presidency gave an order,
If our network can also ban them too it will be good

Please, government, keep them open.

Let it help us weed the wheat from the chaff.

Let it help us identify the idiiots in out society, frustrate and depress them until they decide to end it all. Then Nigeria will be left with smarter people.

Lets stop killing the devil and start killing stupidity!

STUPIDITY DIE!

STUPIDITY DIE!

STUPIDITY DIE!

vickydevoka:
Gambling is bad especially when u are from poor background. Two guys i know killed themselves bcus no hope. Hunger n frustration everyday.

Leave gambling for rich people or people with hand work.

Teachers, corpers, small salary earners n SME should stay completely off.

Fantastic!

VULCAN:
Surprisingly, your problem isn't gambling.

Your problem is indiscipline.

Gambling is just where you chose to express your lack of discipline.

I read a post here a few days ago of a guy who never bets more than N100 and sometimes he wins good money.

I respect that level of discipline.

The fact that you also cannot teach the kids is another sign of your indiscipline.

Teaching those kids is supposed to take place regardless of what happens unless there is a death in the family or something close to that.

But your indisciplined self wants to abandon that responsibility.

Let me share advise now

Decide that you will NEVER bet more than N1000 at once and if you lose then the next bet must be N900 and if you lose then the next bet must be N800 and so on.

Only if you win do you go back to betting N1000

If you lose 10 times in a row then you pack it up as that is a clear sign that it is not for you.

If you can discipline yourself you can do this, if you can't then your type has already lost their future because you will bet with your company's money and end up in jail.

It's because you haven't seen anybody who destroyed their life by uncontrolled gambling that you are still there.

Only the disciplined survive

Most intelligent advice I have seen so far.

You are one of the millions of Nigerians in this self inflicted mess. Quit it asap for tou mental health sake

Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

malcom1X:
Enter lesson mode sharperly. Tell them to pay for lesson, if they will.

Tell principal that you have nothing to eat, he might provide for you. If he doesn't then tell him to give you a months break then....

Enter corpers lodge, tell them you don't have money that you'll pay once they pay you. You'll be eating till you get paid, but they have rules that are not that hard to follow.

Or cry your own cry.

I did bet my last NYSC allowance too. On the last payment where they pay you three months, I bet all on bet9ja and I won 400k. I did it because I didn't want to go home empty handed.

I'm glad mine didn't end up like you. I stopped betting ever since. I trekked from one local government to another to collect the money.

But guy you mess up, you dey bet 33k with cash for another man's land wey you no know anybody wey you go fit ask of cash.

Which state you trek BTW 2 LGAs?

Promoter2:
Don't be too hard on yourself. Everybody dey get when e dey f up.

Try to source for some money for your upkeep.

Forget gambling for now and act as your monicker says

One day, everywhere go stew. Cheers.

No kill yourself, na money you lose no be life.


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Thanks Bro. I really appreciate! You too much

Amtrak:
That you have gambled your alawee away just this once is not the real problem... the real problem is that you could have a gambling problem.

That I Know & Thanks for reminding me.
Hopefully I'll get through this..

Domipraiz:
Bro wake up and be strong
Gambling destroy which I believe u have seen.
Forget ur past and think of 2moro which will be great for you.
Remain bless
Jesus love you

Thanks a lot Bro.
This means a lot!
I'm working on my problem! Real soon I'll be better off.

Akanaz:
I'm glad you said you need advice and not financial help because if you had won, you wouldn't have remembered nairaland at all. Well, I would advise you to stay away from gambling completely and if that's a lil bit difficult because you don't have any other means to shore up your meager income, you should also learn to gamble wisely.

And as for advice on how to move on, just accept your fate and seek financial help from friends and relatives who would have benefited from your earnings if you had won.

Thanks bro. You've written well¡
I'm getting over it. I just hope I don't fall back

SimeonOTC:
NYSC total allowance is about 396k for 12months..I was able to save 300k from it.., after p.o.p, the state I serve paid us 96k, making it appropriately 400k, as I type this now, the money is still in my acct since February we passed out..how was I able to save this much? I am low-key nigga, never gambled, wasteful or even have a girlfriend dispite have lots of younger ones that look up to me, I have big problems, but I handle the strategically..that aside anyway..

O.p I laugh you, if you dnt stop, I swear bro, you go suffer.. heavy suffer..
I ones gambled long time ago.. gambling does interest me..I really don't know why.. there is a spirit in me that always fight anything that takes away my hard earn funds, I go back to the drawing board to see how to starve the thing or addict or better still, look for an alternative.

O.p try this little solution, it may rewire your brain.

Channel all your funds into a 'legit' saving financial app, where you can watch the money grow through interest or investment, apps like cowry saving app, rice investment app, piggyvest..
Always login just the way you login your bet app to check your money and interest been sent to you daily and also check for other investment opportunities in the app, check for other people's savings and funds they have invested, you will be amaze and challenged to save and invest like them or more than then, you will shock to know that in this country, people save like mad man, I jst loggin piggyvest and saw some saved 5milli in his target savings, about approximately 20-40k interest will be paid to him every month for absolutely doing NOTHING!!

Try this, but first, delete and unsubscribe from all bet apps as well as uninstalling them..starve yourself from betting for some days.

I want to learn that cowry savings stuff,can you orientate me?

InvestorO:
Accept the fact that you are loser when it comes to gambling and there is no trick you can pull off that you can win or recover your money back,...

Let your subconscious mind know that so when the urge of gambling comes again,you keep your money to your self....

It is urge to recover your losses back that mostly keeps gambling addicts into deeper shiit in a rabbit hole they never come out from

True talk.. I'm working on that!
Thanks so much

seyz91:


no be help you need
.na serious beating plus enough slap you deserve

when it comes to gambling and lending out money, gamble or stake what you can afford to loose same as lend money you can afford to loose

help kee you there

Thanks Bro.!! I seriously need am! I no mind make I order two slaps from you wey go rewire my brain so i fit get sense. Make I drop addy?

Gamesmart:
Most intelligent advice I have seen so far.

at first i thougt you were against gambling,after this your response,i now know you're a correct guy

vickolex:
You are one of the millions of Nigerians in this self inflicted mess. Quit it asap for tou mental health sake

Definitely... I'm working on that!
I'll be better off real soon, that I know.
Thank so much

Tony142:
Nobody should help this bastard , as matured as u are u uss all your allawee take gamble, idiot

Thanks for the comment!

Gamesmart:
This shows your IQ is too low to manage and improve your life.

I guess so!
I know for a fact i'm getting there though.

Gamesmart:
Advice on how to stop yourself from doing what you should not do that is bad for you?

Mehn it's not as easy as you think!

Akanaz:
I'm glad you said you need advice and not financial help because if you had won, you wouldn't have remembered nairaland at all. Well, I would advise you to stay away from gambling completely and if that's a lil bit difficult because you don't have any other means to shore up your meager income, you should also learn to gamble wisely.

And as for advice on how to move on, just accept your fate and seek financial help from friends and relatives who would have benefited from your earnings if you had won.

Gambling is not a means to shore up income!

That is stupidity!

written007:
Until you accept what gambling does psychologically to you, you would not stop.

Know this and know peace: Gambling is a lose lost street, a two way street, if u like, with same finish line. One is You Lose and the second is you 'win' which allows your mind forge unhealthy habit that traps you until you lose.

That's deep & hard to grasp
Bottom line I'll get rid of it that I know.
Thanks so much

isax:
it is alright, you are not dead.
At least I thank God you are alive to see the result of your deeds. As some other people get depressed over issues like this. That is a life learning lesson, learn and move on.
Failure is not final.

On a lighter note just to get you to smile; YOUR TOPIC REACHED NAIRALAND FRONT PAGE!!!!!

And I've learned my lesson this time for real!
I hope I don't fall back anymore....

I did smile bro. No Cap
Thanks so much i'd appreciate

Dahustler007:
I've been there bro.
I'm trying to change my mind it's just hard! That's why I came here for some advice on how to get over this.

Delete your gambling apps and use a phone without internet access. Change your paths to avoid you're favorite gambling spots. Keep away from your old friends, tell them you're meditating or something. Face your teaching with new vigor.

You're a gambler. You will say you've heard, but you actually haven't. What you're feeling is remorse that will last until your next salary. Once that salary comes you're back to square one, isn't it?

BRATISLAVA:
Delete your gambling apps and use a phone without internet access. Change your paths to avoid you're favorite gambling spots. Keep away from your old friends, tell them you're meditating or something. Face your teaching with new vigor.

You're a gambler. You will say you've heard, but you actually haven't. What you're feeling is remorse that will last until your next salary. Once that salary comes you're back to square one, isn't it?

I'm actually new here
Thank Goodness there are no betting shops around! I've deleted every betting related app on my Phone and I'm going off the internet for some time tomorrow probably!!
I'm taking my sim card out of my phone... That's the plan..hopefully it'll work.


Thanks for the comment bro.

efficiencie:
Stop whatever you are doing right now. Listen to the voice of truth. The instruction I am about to tell you will most likely help you regain your sense. Hence it imperative you follow the instructions with utmost devotion, all sense of seriousness and a purpose driven resolve.

Instructions:
1. Kneel down
2. Close your eyes
3. Raise your hand
4. Remain in this position for 2 hours
5. In this condition keep shouting at the top of your voice Oh, God. I need help
6. Continue doing this for two hours.

The Black monkeys' idiotic solution to everything.

Gamesmart:


The Black monkeys' idiotic solution to everything.

its pathetic

Drsnives:
Mountain of fire man

I no be MFM o but the case require MFM kind of prayer

Dahustler007:
I'm actually new here
Thank Goodness there are no betting shops around! I've deleted every betting related app on my Phone and I'm going off the internet for some time tomorrow probably!!
I'm taking my sim card out of my phone... That's the plan..hopefully it'll work.


Thanks for the comment bro.

There are many threads on overcoming gambling on the forum. Several people quit it.

Your sim card isn't the sinner here: you are.

Remove your gambling card from your life and you're going to be fine. Why don't you have any other activities you do? Begin extra lessons for the students. Join choir in a church. Or go and start a farm.

Gambling comes when people don't want to work but want extravagant riches. And you want to know the truth? Unless you work for it, you can't get it. Ask Whitemoney. Nothing good comes easy. See how many years it took him to get there?

BRATISLAVA:
There are many threads on overcoming gambling on the forum. Several people quit it.

Your sim card isn't the sinner here: you are.

Remove your gambling card from your life and you're going to be fine. Why don't you have any other activities you do? Begin extra lessons for the students. Join choir in a church. Or go and start a farm.

Gambling comes when people don't want to work but want extravagant riches. And you want to know the truth? Unless you work for it, you can't get it. Ask Whitemoney. Nothing good comes easy. See how many years it took him to get there?

its like fame,its not for everyone

Sakamanje

JerryJJZ:
Nigerians and savage responses.

Anyways, @OP, you need understand the simple logic to get out of this mess. If not, you will keep going and coming forever. Gambling is more spiritual than physical. The spirit of gambling is like that of pornography. They are both difficult to exclude. I have been a victim of both scenarios. My gambling was worst to the extent I derive beautiful formular and strategies to help me win. Other people use my strategy to win big but it never profited me. I studied bookies like a 3 unit course and I mastered the art of the odds. I read books and subscribed to different punting channels. I dedicated my time to it and I took it as a real business. But in the end, I kept loosing and loosing and loosing. I left countless times and vowed never to come back, na lie oooo... few months later, am back to my Bet9ja. I have to tell you this, so you can understand you are not alone, but I left the crew already.

I finally left gambling 5 years ago. And only one principle helped me "Gambling is a spiritual manipulation that bargains your destiny with the physical". To further buttress the fact that gambling is spiritual, you will see yourself imagining things you will buy, even without winning yet. You book games, even in your sleep. Your mind and attention is always in bookies. You dont bother calculating the ratio of your lost funds to your gains. Even if you do, you never have the courage to let go. You seldomly hear whispers on which games to pick. You always, as in, always and always think that your next game may be your breakthrough game, even if it never happens.

I make bold to tell you, only your strong will and determination can help you out. You must wholly conclude NEVER to engage in that activity again. When your will is strong enough, your prayer will become more effective.

Finally, in my own case, I finally concluded my case was worse because God never wanted me to continue in gambling. My wealth isnt hidden there, and that was it.

I dont know if you can relate with this. But this is my story and encounter. If your faith is strong enough, I can provide you with bet9ja log in details so you can calculate how much I burnt in this bookies, you will be shocked sir!

Spiritual ko, Liquorual ni.

Black man, continue calling stupidity a spiritual problem.

Dahustler007:
For real its not actually the money that made me to cry... It's how I'm destroying my Life!
I don't wanna continue like this. Deep down I really wanna stop. I'm tired¡

Then fcukking stop!! Gambling is nothing but a hopeless mirage. Trust me if gambling makes people rich then las Vegas should boast of the worlds richest. But guess what? Gamblers die broke and miserable because they try reaping from a system that reaps them to be successful.