Please I need mature advise on how best to handle this.

Yes we dated during NYSC 2015/2016 in South West with no promise of marriage. After NYSC she moved back to her own state in South South while I moved to another city in search of a greener pasture.

She kept calling and even chatting me up on WhatsApp up, keep tagging me on Facebook until I had to unfriend her on Facebook because I like my privacy.

Last three months she met a guy from my state who was asking her out, rather than outrightly accepting or turning the guy down, she showed the guy my picture that I'm the only one she dated and will never date any other guy in her life. She gave the guy my number to help her beg me. The guy called me, introduced himself and started telling me how much the lady told her about me.

This is scaring the hell out of me already, is this normal ?

I need your advise on how to tell her to go and get herself a husband. Insults are also welcome.

Its a simple word, tell her straight you are not interested, block her is her wahala is much.

This her love for you is very serious ooo. Hmmm! Tell her u don't want her again.

I thought u are a female, ur moniker is questionable.

OVB123:
This her love for you is very serious ooo. Hmmm! Tell her u don't want her again.

I told her that several times already.

This morning she already sent me 9 messages on WhatsApp. She sent me her flight ticket which she already paid for, informing me of her intention to come spend the weekend with me.

Dbarrzx:
I thought u are a female, ur moniker is questionable.

Guy, na advise I need.

Tell her you got a girl pregnant during your time apart. Tell her, that the child is Almost two years old and the family have threatened fire and brimstone if you do not marry her one of which include you would not see your child again. And you have vowed never to marry more than one wife. But man I would brotherly advice you, if you are sexually attracted to her and she is okay financially and from a good family, please give her a chance. This is a woman who loves you. It's hard to see women who genuinely loves for that long these days. I am envious of you. You don't have to love her to marry her, our forefathers did not, unless you are not giving us the full picture. Does she have any form of disability that you are not proud of??

Others want true love, you see true love u d run.

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

True love way others dey find.. You see am you dey run, dodge, complain. . Op no allow me to tell you say make thunder fire you... Oga e dey very clear say baby love you.. .

Wetin dey worry you... If girl love you like this,she go dey ready to suffer with you.. Come rain come shine, Bros... I swear to knack you 2by10 they hungry me

You don enter am.

I keep telling guys. If you know you can't or won't continue a relationship with someone, don't approach that fellow at all. You don't mess with peoples emotions and leave them high and dry then say, it was just a relationship.

Is not Normal but you have to accept the fact some people find very difficult to move on after the end of a relationship, they lack what it takes...
If you love her give her a chance but if you don't just ghost her sometimes it's better to be the one that love you the more

TheFearless:
Please I need mature advise on how best to handle this.

Yes we dated during NYSC 2015/2016 in South West with no promise of marriage. After NYSC she moved back to her own state in South South while I moved to another city in search of a greener pasture.

She kept calling and even chatting me up on WhatsApp up, keep tagging me on Facebook until I had to unfriend her on Facebook because I like my privacy.

Last three months she met a guy from my state who was asking her out, rather than outrightly accepting or turning the guy down, she showed the guy my picture that I'm the only one she dated and will never date any other guy in her life. She gave the guy my number to help her beg me. The guy called me, introduced himself and started telling me how much the lady told her about me.

This is scaring the hell out of me already, is this normal ?

I need your advise on how to tell her to go and get herself a husband. Insults are also welcome.

You chop pkekus you wan run,you don buy market by fire �

What people want us what you are running away from, from your write up she isn't billing you, she is just showing how much she loves you and she is been sincere about it.

So what is the issue here, is she not beautiful enough or what?

Why are you rejecting her?

TheFearless:



I told her that several times already.

This morning she already sent me 9 messages on WhatsApp. She sent me her flight ticket which she already paid for, informing me of her intention to come spend the weekend with me.

She's obsessed with you and it's not a good thing.

When someone is Obsessed with you, it's not a good thing and it's even more dangerous when the person that is obsessed with you is showing you all these attention and emotion and you're not showing the same emotions back. This is the stage where you need to be sleeping with one eye open


Just pray for your sake that it won't get to the stage of
"If I can't have you, nobody will have you"

You de form Alpha king now abi for your mind

I blame that girl wey no de give herself respect

In few years to come,I bet you,this op go regret how he dey treat this banny now...

In a society where it's nearly impossible to find a banny who'll show you genuine love,if you ever by mistake find one,you better treat her with maximum respect..

TheFearless:
Please I need mature advise on how best to handle this.

Yes we dated during NYSC 2015/2016 in South West with no promise of marriage. After NYSC she moved back to her own state in South South while I moved to another city in search of a greener pasture.

She kept calling and even chatting me up on WhatsApp up, keep tagging me on Facebook until I had to unfriend her on Facebook because I like my privacy.

Last three months she met a guy from my state who was asking her out, rather than outrightly accepting or turning the guy down, she showed the guy my picture that I'm the only one she dated and will never date any other guy in her life. She gave the guy my number to help her beg me. The guy called me, introduced himself and started telling me how much the lady told her about me.

This is scaring the hell out of me already, is this normal ?

I need your advise on how to tell her to go and get herself a husband. Insults are also welcome.

How old is she?

prodige001:


How old is she?

29

What do I know about true love

Op are you a lesbian?

U don buy job

Wahala na you don enter OP.

Lilsameey:
U don but job

.........buy

Omo

The5DME:
.........buy

,..Thanks you jhare,...I don dey doze wen I type am..

Lilsameey:
,..Thanks you jhare,...I don dey doze wen I type am..

Dbarrzx:
I thought u are a female, ur moniker is questionable.

The thing weak me, people get mind this day to say they are gay/lesbian.

Na you disvirgine the girl ?

TheFearless:



I told her that several times already.

This morning she already sent me 9 messages on WhatsApp. She sent me her flight ticket which she already paid for, informing me of her intention to come spend the weekend with me.

Guy, He be like say money dey your hand
Because this kind love no dey again...

Isokoson1:
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

True love way others dey find.. You see am you dey run, dodge, complain. . Op no allow me to tell you say make thunder fire you... Oga e dey very clear say baby love you.. .

Wetin dey worry you... If girl love you like this,she go dey ready to suffer with you.. Come rain come shine, Bros... I swear to knack you 2by10 they hungry me

Baba Na lie. This kind of love most times is suffocating and you will be getting threats upon threats anytime you want out.
Babe can go as far as harming herself or the guy if shit goes wrong.
Niggah run. you can't endure that kind of relationship.

you dont know what you have bro.
are there issues you are running away from:
if not, a lady waiting on you for 6 yrs is a lot of loyalty which you might not easily find anywhere.

my 2cents