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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Bribri: 12:43pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Epic summary of what's currently obtainable. You write so well. Wish I could write this good. Learnt a lot from your write up. uote author=CaveAdullam post=106512902]1. I've observed that ladies that are average or below average in looks tend to be of higher mean in virtues like faithfulness, loyalty, commitment, obedience, submissiveness in comparison to their counterparts. And these virtues serves as veneer to complement their looks. 2. Since her looks is unstable, meaning that there are sometimes when you're really attracted to her, then, ensure that you call her to notice so that she can maintain the looks that makes you get attracted to her. 3. You are simply expressing an evolutionary behavior in men and it's so funny. Yeah, men want beautiful women so that the beauty will eventually be passed to their offsprings and into future generation. Because beauty symbolizes good health and quality genes that can possibly survive and reproduce. So, your desires are in line with nature. 4. Understand: many beautiful women lack the qualities being possessed by your spouse. So, if you are interested in looks, have it in mind that you will expecting a woman who deem her beauty as virtue and will struggle to be more of a virtuous woman because she will always feel her beauty deserves a constant applause. Your spouse can maintain her virtuousness to a higher degree than the former because she knows that you've chances with other women, ergo, will do whatever thing to keep you attached. 5. The best for you is to cultivate these virtuous qualities in a woman with good looks, however, this is a task (almost) impossible because attractive men and women tend to be more narcissistic. Or, you wait for a beautiful woman who got both. But in this era, it is (almost) impossible to find a beautiful woman that's virtuous! The only time you can as well find such kind of women are during their epiphany phase, but by this time, why buy the cow that was once milked free? Or, a pretentious beautiful woman wearing the linens of virtue? 6. If you can help your spouse cultivate her looks fine. If you can't, go for the beautiful ones you desire. But better a woman that choose you above other men because only then you can enjoy the relationship while it last. Rather than you choosing her. For the former, she will be the one trying to ensure that the relationship holds the most. While for the later, the burden of the longevity of the relationship falls upon you greatly. 7. By and large, your peace of mind is of paramountcy, go for what will give you peace and be aware of the left, right and inconspicuous consequences. Take care. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 12:46pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Her father must have worked in NEPA that year, na the insults when we dey insult them don mount on top this innocent girl. If you have a committed and respectable and decent girl at 30 you better guard her properly , because girls nowadays in this street are not smiling. Either them get sugar daddy or yahoo boys or into runs. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Longsleeve: 12:47pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
CsRockefeller: Light skin women are my spec.. Stop fighting the thoughts embrace it and have peace.. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 12:54pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Please let that poor woman go. Don't marry her because it's evident you'll resent her and cheat. You're the type of man that will cheat when she's pregnant and her body is no longer the same. Spare her the potential heart break and let her go. There are multitude of men who will appreciate her for who she is. You're very selfish and shallow; She doesn't deserve a person like you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 12:54pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Belafonte: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: This one don come with textbook post again. Ontop complexion or faithfulness. Professor of Women's Issues and Female Psyche 402 lecturer at Redpill University, 6969 Misogyny Lane. Nawa ooo. Harvard go have need of you oh. This one that your writing ability is just wasting here. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Omoluabi16(m): 1:00pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
This O.P dey vex me. I really hope she doesn't end with you but someone much better. How can you even focus so much on trivial things like wanting fair children Marriage is not for boys and girls! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by MufasaLion: 1:01pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
dettolgel: Not everyone is gonna be a dullard like you. I'm not the cause of your misfortune. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by MufasaLion: 1:02pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
TolaniLuv: I don't seem to understand your point. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:02pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Omoluabi16: Asinnn. I'm really vexed. And that CsRollercoaster guy. Kai. Mehnnn. Very annoying. Ah God. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:05pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
dettolgel: He say pancakesexual. Naim be say my own orientation go be sharwamasexual and coldstonephile niyen o? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by scanner1000(m): 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: Am also in same shoes as well, my gf is not beautiful but am just trying to move on with her because of her moral upbrings. She is a virgin too and she promised till we get married before she will give it to me, aside from that she is caring and having wife material qualities. Both of us are Corpers (nysc). Sometimes am feeling ashamed when I addressed her as my gf base on her look. She is not my kind of gal I want in terms of beauty but her moral attributes is closed to perfection, which makes me still keep d relationship.. I also need mature advice 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Srallens(m): 1:08pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:. After reading your take, and seeing how elaborate this submission is... Just wanna say thank you. Many persons yet unmarried will find this piece very useful 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
This one that everybody on this thread is just hitching up with virgins ear and dear, watin dey occurate? . . But if that girl is truly as intelligent as you portrayed, op, I hope she dumps your silly ass! Nonsense. Forming sensible grammarian but no form of depth. Mtcheew. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Newboss(m): 1:12pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Deeper life girl. Na so most of them be. OP, na wahala you dey romance so. Las las, after marriage, she go give you toto timetable. Your prick is already sending you coded messages. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Dazydear: 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
If is this same story I read on another platform that you came here and modified it, you didn't add you've dated the lady for 6years and she has all the quality and your only problem was that she is dark because you told your mum about it, after these long period of dating you didn't notice she was dark, cos the platform I saw this complain you said you will show her the comments made by people but unfortunately almost everyone bashed you there and you have moved over to Nairaland to modify the gist, I just hope you're not same person shaa..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by salvation77177: 1:17pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Your problem is more of spiritual than physical. Can't understand why someone look attractive today and the next day unattractive. Please if really love this lady and she meets your wife material, start seeking for spiritual help from genuine sources. I don't mean fake prophets and alfas, please? Go meet a man of God you trusted and explain the situation to him. He will know what to do. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by princewarri1985: 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
You found yourself a decent virgin girl and you are still complaining about her looks, because we have like only 500 virgins left in Nigeria, be grateful you got yourself one, if you know you are both compactable and she will give you peace of mind, marry her before you lost her to someone else, if you really want a light skin girl, then go for all those fine yellow benin girls that look like oyibo but if them open mouth speak english na missiles go come out and their body count has gone off the roof, so make your choice, but bros wait first oh, this one you keep refering to her looks, he be like say she do face like monkey wey lick lime oh, please describe her looks more for us. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
scanner1000: Are you handsome? This one that you're feeling ashamed of her. If you're not physically attracted to her then break up. It's evident you don't even love her and you're just in the relationship for the virginity and so-called moral attributes. She's just a placeholder to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Adjovi: 1:26pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
I totally understand you. I do have same issues with my girlfriend but you see ehn I can't leave her for anybody in this life. While I was younger I liked fair ladies and would love to settle with one but you see love can be funny. I love her even tho she's dark in complexion and has everything I need in a wife. When money enter love, love is sweeter. When you have money as in better money. Her beauty will come out more and you'll appreciate it even better. 2 Likes
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Lmfaooo. that one will just be writing dissertations up and down. They take their sexism to extreme levels and feel they know so much about women 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by scanner1000(m): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Hyerin: I can't say am handsome but am OK with my look. I would have break up with her but I know it will be hard to see such virtue lady. Twice I threatened her with breakup during some misunderstanding, she will cry all day and threatening to kill herself. Besides she is asthmatic s . Secondly she is too committed to her self dat don't want to give me her virginity unless marriage. Sometimes it makes d relationship bored. After dis our nysc, I think I will take a bold step and cut it off 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:31pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Hyerin: Asinnnnn. Na serious dissertation and inaugural lecture speeches. The thing dey always funny me. Always trying hard to appear wise, formal and whatever. 'Cheers, Thank You.' From the stables of CandleAmbulance bla bla bla. Be deceiving himself. Na eeeeverywhere he go dey post like that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Adjovi: 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
scanner1000: There are no perfect women of there, you bring the one you have to perfection. I hope you won't regret your actions in the nearest future. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Lmao. That's peak loser behaviour right there because I don't know who he's forming for on an anonymous forum and if you have to write such lengthy texts on every post, chances are you're probably jobless. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
ArticleBeast: To me, I see the guy being childish. He is looking for a mirage. He is still a boy...no wonder, age is nothing but a number 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 1:41pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Hyerin: He. And one other one wey dey call himself TheUndertaker. Aswear, they crack me up like silly. Really crack me up. Form alfa one one account, simp offline and on another account. Yeye dey smell. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by olabrinks(f): 1:42pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Light skin beauty.. light skin children. Is it not stretch marks, saggy breast and green veins that will take over once she gives birth to to 2-3 kids after 40? 80% of light skin women bleach and they give birth to dark children. You will see them bleaching their innocent kids to cover their tracks. Forget packaging, beauty fades. Al these insta babes, if you see them naked and raw.. there’s nothing but flaws everywhere. Even girls as young as 25, stretch marks and discolouration everywhere. If you want your babe to package better, that’s a different story. But if you’re looking for a raw near perfect beauty, you have a long road to enter. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
scanner1000: You should break up with her. Just tell her nicely you're no longer interested rather than leading her on. With time, she'd get over it. she also sounds like she has some sort of abandonment issues. Please tell her to see a therapist. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
chinchonglee: The OP of a boy is a racist 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by scanner1000(m): 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Hyerin: She doesn't have any abandonment issues. D funny thing is that like two guys I know has been asking are out but I feel jealous when she do tell me.. Seriously I am in a state of dellimma |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
scanner1000: You don't even love this lady yet you're jealous. You sound possessive and that's not healthy for you nor her. Anyways, that's literally your business. The solution is right before you but you're too egocentric to think outside your feelings. There's nothing more to it. |
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