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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by scanner1000(m): 2:15pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Hyerin: Thanks for ur advice.. Just dat I have pride because all d gals I have dated are beautiful but none have good morals like her. Secondly she doesn't stressed me financially and she still can't let me go. Am in dellimma between beauty and virtuous woman.. I am having plans to settle down after my service and in my late 20s. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Myahuza: 2:19pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Set her free please and didn't waste her time from all that you have being saying I think even if you convince yourself now that it's okay in the future you will wake up one day and realize that you are in the arms of a wrong person or even worse meet someone that is complete specimen of that you are looking for Wich can result in you cheating or breaking the relationship. Yes I understand she is a good person with good attributes but can you wake up to her every day for the rest of your life with her with out being miserable. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 2:23pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
You never reach to marry |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nofcks2give: 2:24pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: You should first of all figure out the type of ladies you're into based on physical appearance and you shouldn't feel bad or think it's vane that you're taking that into consideration. Secondly, since she's still in school her change in appearance might be due to that because school stress sometimes robs people of the necessary time to take care of themselves enough to look their best, especially if she's schooling where the weather is harsh. Lastly if worse comes to worse and you feel her looks is a deal breaker which you can't compromise on, then it's better if you let her go so you both can be happy and move on. It would be nice if you don't hurt her self esteem by telling her about this though. I usually don't comment on these type of issues. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Ndidi2: 2:25pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Godbless3:III oh my I wasn't insulting haba! I was marvelled on how constructively he/ she made his or points.. Pls modify ur post God forbid it l Wii insult someone on dis facelee forum. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by TenQ: 2:33pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Looks is not too important in marriage. Infact, if your wife is former miss Nigeria, once you marry her, you wouldnt see that again as any big deal. The things that are most important to men in marriage are: A woman who 1. Presents and atmosphere of PEACE and RELAXATION around the home 2. Honours and Values your IDEA, WORK, PERSONALITY and PRESENCE 3. Serves everything (FOOD, SEX, SPEECH, etc) as serving Her King 4. Will not take advantage of your WEAKNESSES and VULNERABILITIES What make women look different? Their Hairstyle and Makeup! Be the one to select her Wardrobe and Hair styles 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by eguarojeona: 2:40pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Just get money.Your kids will be fine. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by BRATISLAVA: 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: The new trend is virgins. The same men who constantly slut shame women, call them whores and bitches are all suddenly about to marry virgins. Wonderment! Is it that virgins aren't scarce any more? These people are comedians. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by BRATISLAVA: 2:47pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
olabrinks: "80% of light skin women" do not bleach. People are born with light skin. Everything isn't bleaching. You people are always at extremes once you hear about light skinned ladies. What crime did they commit to be born that way? Some are jealous and look down on light skinned women, others are just after them as if they are the only women that matter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Gudbadguy: 3:03pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
scanner1000:Physical and sexual attraction is also important.no go dey look outside after marriage o 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by CsRockefeller(m): 3:10pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: I don't know about others but I am always surrounded by virgins anywhere I find myself. It even makes me wonder if the scarcity of virgins is being overblown on the internet. At my current workplace, my seat colleague is a virgin and very light skin (The Igbo type) but she's kinda local and has constant mood swings. The first day I contacted my current lady here on Nairaland, I immediately knew she was a virgin and she recently confirmed it, but I knew all this while. I also had a very short interaction with 2 virgin ladies here on Nairaland but unfortunately, we couldn't proceed further. They might be scarce to other persons but not to me, perhaps it's due to my type of personality. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by mechanics(m): 3:18pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Since you are not okay with her look, is better you free her so she can move on with her life, even the beautiful ones do have marriage crisis, you better build your home on God and forget appearance. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by scanner1000(m): 3:19pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Gudbadguy: So Wat ur advice for me. Should I end d relationship? Please b sincere. I won't get angry or emotional. Am just confused right now |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by BRATISLAVA: 3:23pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
CsRockefeller: It's one of the reasons you're hanging onto someone you know you will cheat on: virginity. But this your discernment that you immediately knew she was a virgin, and she confirmed it, how much older are you than she is? I don't believe virgins are scarce, rather karma is returning to men who lost their virginity and deal recklessly with ladies. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Drogunov: 3:25pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
seunmsg: Completely out of line with discussion. Utter nonsense! |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by CsRockefeller(m): 3:27pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: She was 23 when we met, she's 24 now, and I'm approaching 29. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by olabrinks(f): 3:43pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Naturally light skin women still bleach their skin to be lighter, so yes 80% of fair women bleach in Nigeria. This is facts and everybody knows this. And when you take off the makeup, the wigs, the waist trainers and clothes..look at them in raw lighting.. it’s not a pretty sight. All these bleaching products destroy the skin and by 35-45 they look aged and haggard. As you spend most of your day on NL quoting people, think twice before you quote me. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:45pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
OvaSabi1:My sister, please go through his post again and see. He said she meets over 70 percent of his expectations of a marriage material. His only problem is that she is dark. That lady cannot be beautiful in the morning and ugly at night, is she a witch? He said she has many suitors and that is why I encouraged him to not waste her time. Looks is important in marriage and if he is not sure he likes her looks, he should free her quickly. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by denbroc: 5:46pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
uihik |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:48pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
olabrinks:Allow them please to continue hustling fair women, they don't know complexion is in the DNA. A bleached girl will give birth to very black children for them. Nansense! |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by NaBanga: 6:13pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Most of these stories are just HIRED bloggers who write stories for Nairaland. They are always easy to spot. However the fact that Seun allows them to perpetuate colorism and racism is really baffling. Black people don't love themselves. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Blacksavage: 6:15pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: Brother man your happiness na Im matter no go kee yourself because of toto,those hoes ain’t meant for relationship……. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Omoluabi16(m): 6:18pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:lol. Later you go dey read 'please hide my ID, my wife is this and that. Case of not knowing what they want actually want. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Queenserah26(f): 6:58pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
I'm learning. Godada: |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Kooldame: 6:59pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
I think a lady you would like to choose as your life partner shouldn't be a lady you just want to manage her look.Even if she has a natural look you should be satisfy with her look.I have discovered that lots of young ladies try to look so attractive with the help of make up but once they are into relationships they become so comfortable with their partners and they care less about their looks,if she has being natural since you have met her and you feel she has unstable look which affect the affection you have for her then why did you go far by proposing to her when you knew sometimes her unstable look disturbs you.If this continues and you go ahead to marry her, I pray you will not start cheating on her whenever you are not attracted to her. My advice for you is to let her know she should try and apply some make up so she can look more presentable,for her to go about naturally without any make up shows she's a beautiful lady,even if she's d religious type she should once in a while apply pancake and if you are not still satisfy then free her. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Truvelisback(m): 7:12pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
No commess. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by nairabacks(f): 7:19pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
OP you're not ready yet for marriage and you know what ? That's perfectly Ok Don't pressure yourself get your priorities and requirements right and don't rush into anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 7:35pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Fashdeejay:You're so smart |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Munzy14(m): 7:49pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Pierocash:Period. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Munzy14(m): 7:51pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Who is the fair lady you are eyeing..
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 8:48pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: It's like I need to go and buy an artificial hymen or surgically reconstruct one oh, so I can catch a good man. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Magnoliaa(f): 8:49pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
Omoluabi16: It's yeyerity and nothing else. 1 Like 1 Share |
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