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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by awoxalat(m): 11:48pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by bigpicture001: 11:50pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Guy exactly this same thy happened to me on my ex... Sh is very dark, flat chested and flat assed.. it disturbed me alot in the beginning, I was so so concerned, but her intelligence, focus ND hardwork spurre me on... I den decided to kill the feeling of that required feature and move on.... The relationship continued in flying colours.. but am struggling to find her sexxy.. Dou we make love, but I pre- meditate to mk it happen. Her quality is top notch.. in d end. I stopped struggling. And concentrated on what iv got.. The fear is that marriage is a long journey whee u might fall out of attraction for ur wife if u don't back down now... Sex is very Paramount to marriage.. and its appeal should come naturally and frequently...a lady will not move ahead with you on such feeling of not-very -attracted. Simple. leave her.. QED. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:03am On Oct 07, 2021 |
I hope your case isn't that of colourism. If you don't want her again then let her be, better tell now than fall out of love when you're married. Unless God gives you light skinned kids, she doesn't determine what your children will look like. Also, it's like you've not seen light skin people give birth to dark skin kids abi? Chiefsosa: Amadioha can strike anybody anytime. He shouldn't overlook the fact that it might be the girl that is even managing him self. Also, you should be happy with her because you can't expect a whole lot from a person, she already has 70%. May you not end up with the wrong person just because of looks. That thing wey you dey find, you go get am. God help you. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by CsRockefeller(m): 2:22am On Oct 07, 2021 |
I'm in a similar situation. It's tough because she's tall, smart and also a virgin. Not that she isn't beautiful, but she isn't too fair, and she's not from my Geo political zone. Right now, I'm trying not to be too committed, just place myself in the middle so that I might fall in or out if the need arise. Its a tough one because at a point, I really wanted her. But now that marriage is in the picture, I'm beginning to have my doubts. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Teerach: 3:34am On Oct 07, 2021 |
CsRockefeller:Na wa o. Lol. Your own is "Not too fair and Geopolitical zone wahala?" Abeg carry mud and begin mould your own. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by HRHQueenPhil(f): 5:46am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: They are lying to u, giving u theoretical advice..that's why men cheat..at least one reason...if u are already feeling like this..don't go further, d woman u are attracted to makes your dlck stands just thinking of her not excuses wen it's time to make love Think well and pray well abt it 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ofor1: 6:10am On Oct 07, 2021 |
My brother beauty doesn't hold marriage but character does. You can be with queen of the world yet you see devil in her face. My advice to you is to stick with character and you will be blessed. Do you know that after wedding, you barely see the beauty in your wife, it's her character that you will be seeing and interested in. It's outsiders that will be appreciating her beauty. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Shokoloko(f): 6:16am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: If at this early stage your partner already sometimes looks unattractive to you, cheating is loading. The heart wants what it wants. If up till now a part of you is still pining for a certain type of lady, there will be a lot of regrets Some people say love is a choice but why don't we make it easier for ourselves by marrying what we like. The eyes must be satisfied and already before marriage dissatisfaction is cropping up. I may not give this advice to a lady but because MEN ARE VISUAL.... Feelings are usually magnified after marriage. If this lady doesn't make you feel like jumping her everytime you see her then..... Your intuitión is telling you to back down. Listen to it! NB I didnt say let her go. Don't make any hasty decision. People will advice based on experience and personality. You might not have the same personality with the advisor. Some people can train their brains to settle for what they wouldn't have naturally accepted while some brains will not accept to settle. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ceeceeuwa: 7:45am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Just let her go! Don't come and cause emotional trauma for her in marriage. The truth is that you are not into her. There is always that ideal person for everyone. The right person that will accept her despite what you term "fluctuating look" will come along. You will also meet your so called "light skinned" beauty when the time comes. Good luck! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Smara(f): 7:56am On Oct 07, 2021 |
I’d say free her cos you may cheat on her eventually What a chameleonic relationship Free her 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by TolaniLuv: 9:32am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Sapiosexual lol! It’s good for u Na most of the are ugly . |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by FolabiCash: 9:32am On Oct 07, 2021 |
I know character is very good , but why will I be with someone that's not attractive ? Bruh there are several smart and fine girls. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by twilliamx(m): 9:32am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Obviously you don't want her so please send me her contact let me pair her up with someone that will appreciate her no matter how she looks...those qualities you listed has already made her qualify for the prospect. Beyond average is good enough..so I will wait PS: good women are like fine wine, if your store it property it will get better with time. 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Harddiskng(m): 9:33am On Oct 07, 2021 |
I’m sure you are wondering ”if she can’t take carr of herself, how does she want to take care of you or the children”. Let no one decide you looks (outward presentability) is important, I for one don’t like dirty people (general uncleanliness or scruffiness). Well take God you open eye see am before you jump inside (marriage), as you don see the matter it’s left for you to decide. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by josite: 9:33am On Oct 07, 2021 |
U will regret if u marry that girl because you yourself you are the most unstable man alive 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by franchasng: 9:33am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Hehe It is normal with majority of women; sometimes you will see them and they will look like something dragged out from a horror film, and you will be wondering if this is the same hot chick you saw yesterday This has made a lot of guys run from a girl they once toasted and had high hopes, only to see her next day and she is looking like ikwikwi 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by enemyofprogress: 9:34am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Op, is this your babe. Na her village people dey change her face o
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by MaXiK: 9:34am On Oct 07, 2021 |
N2B2: What if we turn out to be a good role model to couples and I don't make her suffer like you're saying?? I only came here to seek advice on areas I was having issues with. You have aired your view and I appreciated it. Future is not meant to be viewed with too much negativity. I am of the opinion that marriage need efforts from both partners to work out even if one marries Miss World. Marriage is about making decisions to be responsible, what comes may. If I don't have the intention of getting it right from the choosing level l wouldn't have been seeking advice here. We are brothers, be constructive in your criticism and be kind and gentle with your advice. Thank you 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by enemyofprogress: 9:35am On Oct 07, 2021 |
franchasng:the reason I broke up with bola146 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 9:35am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:So truly there are men that are stuck on that fair skin thing. Shame on you! I do not understand why a man should be hinging on fair skin, fair skin. If you can't appreciate that beautiful woman, please don't waste her time. Leave her and look for someone else. You will soon meet your match and you will still come to this same nairaland to tell the story of how she is dealing with you . Nansense! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by vvvbobby205(m): 9:36am On Oct 07, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by dex4sure: 9:37am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Wahala no dey finish....oga op wetin be your problem?
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Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Romanoff(f): 9:38am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Please leave that woman for a man that values her. She's not your wife. She's way too woman for you. Don't marry her and then resent her for not having light skinned children or marry her and start cheating on her. That woman didn't keep herself only to settle for someone who doesn't value her. Go look for your mammy water for river abeg. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by ziondaughter247: 9:38am On Oct 07, 2021 |
The truth is that you have started eyeing those slay queens outside, forgetting what those girls go through to look good! Better soup nah money kill am! Good looks can be bought with money. You will wear better clothes, use better skin products, makeup and even go for surgery. It is obvious you want something you cannot give. From the way you sound, you are not good-looking, neither are you rich! If you're so worried about your children's looks, why are you yourself not good-looking? If you are tired of the relationship, tell the lady let her find her square root, rather than wasting her time. But remember that the ladies you are eyeing for their good looks are mostly high maintenance ladies. Can you handle that? Also have you not seen wowo parents with very beautiful children? All these wowo senators and governors with their wives, have you seen their children before? Always looking beautiful and ajebutter, because there money to take good care of them from birth. Oga, go and make money 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by alizma: 9:39am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Look is very important, remember that was the first thing that drew your attention except if in your own case, na backside or chest. Of you are not ok with the look, happily step aside while still respecting each other rather than forcing your way into marriage only to be separated by daily fight 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by addexx: 9:39am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Every night. Plug her face to an electronic stabilizer to stabilize her face to your taste. Increase or reduce the voltage. |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Maariv: 9:40am On Oct 07, 2021 |
She is not your everyday woman. She is special and gifted. I am sure she is academically sound. She is something you won't believe either. Your observation isnt abnormal, it has nothing to do with you emotions is all about who she is. Loose her and watch what she becomes in fee years time. You might not be able to keep her though without paying some dues. Ogbanje isnt evil like most of you have been made to believe. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Smh 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Kirchoffs: 9:41am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK:Truth is you cannot outgrow it, if you eventually get married to her you will be disgusted am telling you facts , the solution is to end the relationship so that she can find someone that will appreciate her. Don't marry someone thinking that you'll be able to adjust or if they'll change. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Ewroghene1(m): 9:42am On Oct 07, 2021 |
If u miss this beautiful opportunity No regret am We are here looking nice dark skin lady's u da complain of children way you never born way go yellow Oh....na bleaching type you da like (Sing am like song) She da black She Sabi cook Normally..... She be wife material E belike say you no be her God sent husband? Make your mind no deceive you go marry wrong light skin lady because an of children If money da to take care of your children, they can never be charcoal but light skinned. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by tuboi: 9:42am On Oct 07, 2021 |
Abi your babe don mad before? |
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