So I happen to travel to a city . I told one of my old time friends that I will stay with him for a week plus sha trying to save hotel cost.He said he will be travelling to see his fiancé but I can come sha. In my mind I am like ok he will just let me stay for the few days he will not be in. Since I will be leaving next week. Anyways sha he has told me already this evening that he will be travelling tomorrow how I wan take do am, I was shocked, and confused wanted to tell him I will stay until he is back, but I could figure he was trying to tell me I can’t be there, and to keep my lil Ego So I said I will look for hotel. Hoping he will say I can stay but my guy dey even give me hotel options. I buy food to eat as wellI, cos I don’t wanna be a pest. the money I have aint much for hotel for my remaining days in this city but we move sha. Lol just shocked cos I know if he was in my shoes I will tell him to stay until I am back. It’s a 2 bedroom flat so I am not in his space at all. We rented house together in our uni days so na my padi wey i believe suppose reason the matter well. I suppose vex na or it is only normal for me to leave the house?

Him no try

Bros so weiting U wan make we do U....

Human being can never be trusted, e shock you?

The wise man said
" It is better to go where you are celebrated than to go where you are tolerated"

Time and opportunity changes people,

That's what u have to understand.

Angry for wetin??

Na your house??

Well I don't expect much from people so situations like this doesn't surprise me at all..

Don't expect much from friendship, I learn that very early in life.Take it as it is and look for a way out and stop calling everyone your friend, you will only know your true friend when you are in need.

Maybe he is not your friend after all.


Nah you dey live in "friendship" Eldorado.

Guy,move out and on....

No be today friends don dey loosegaurd friends na .

lilvicky68:
Angry for wetin??

Na your house??

Well I don't expect much from people so situations like this doesn't surprise me at all..

Guy no be my house, quite well. If na girl dey stranded I don’t think he will tell the girl to go and get hotel because he no dey house for few days . We be padi men many years ago uni days so close we got house together so I gats feel some kind way. I need help but he sly me. Anyways I didn’t show my emotions we are still talking. I go move. Na me F up sha cos I really rate this my guy high.

Men are their own what?

If I tok say una no dey helep each other naw, y'all will be asking for my head on a platter o. As per agenda-ing. Shey this one na agenda too?

Anyway, not my biz. Dey adjust una kinging crowns any how una want am. There are plenty women matters to focus on.

My gee, my niggur, omikomkom brotha'... Kikikikikikiki.

Obaxxx:

Guy,move out and on....

No be today friends don dey loosegaurd friends na .

Lesson learnt. Lol just pained of how I dey always brag to my pals say if at all I need help in this life my guy go come through. And I didn’t even ask for financial help o. E shock me

I'm glad he showed you his true personality very early. Kindly leave his apartment and get an affordable or relatively cheap motel for your remaining days in the city. If you ain't that much on cash you can ask your family or someone close to you for cash till you get back to your abode.

Your nigga ain't your nigga until you are at your lowest. Always remember that.

Stay safe!

Leetika:


Guy no be my house, quite well. If na girl dey stranded I don’t think he will tell the girl to go and get hotel because he no dey house for few days . We be padi men many years ago uni days so close we got house together so I gats feel some kind way. I need help but he sly me. Anyways I didn’t show my emotions we are still talking. I go move. Na me F up sha cos I really rate this my guy high.

You get luck say you no come reach there meet him house lock without notice..
Na that one for pain pass..

Leetika:


Lesson learnt. Lol just pained of how I dey always brag to my pals say if at all I need help in this life my guy go come through. And I didn’t even ask for financial help o. E shock me

I learnt this lesson a very long time ago.....Na when my own blood sister kane me for street for Abuja,na from that day I get sense for full 90 minutes

Leetika:


Lesson learnt. Lol just pained of how I dey always brag to my pals say if at all I need help in this life my guy go come through. And I didn’t even ask for financial help o. E shock me

I understand your pain. I got niggas too that will come through for me anytime and they are even the ones that always want me to visit them and have fun but I like my space always.

I guess I'm luck with my niggas.

You don't sound responsible enough for someone like me to welcome you in my home. Everyone in this country is a suspected criminal now so taking in someone into your home now especially an old friend who you don't know what he is currently into may land you in prison for what you nothing about. I won't blame him until I hear his reasons before person carry yahoo boy wey EFCC dey trail keep for his house.

OP, although this guy is your friend, he doesn't owe you anything. It's harsh but it's the truth. The reason you are disappointed is that you had an expectation of how he would let you stay in his accommodation and that expectation was not met. Just because you would've let him stay at your place doesn't mean he's willing to do the same for you.

OP, I would take this as a lesson and either cancel the trip so you can save up more money or just stay at a hotel. In the future, start keeping this friend at arm's length. Reciprocate the same energy if this vibe he's giving you continues. Maybe his time in your life is coming to a close.

Nonexisting1:
You don't sound responsible enough for someone like me to welcome you in my home. Everyone in this country is a suspected criminal now so taking in someone into your home now especially an old friend who you don't know what he is currently into may land you in prison for what you nothing about. I won't blame him until I hear his reasons before person carry yahoo boy wey EFCC dey trail keep for his house.

Lol so with what I wrote there it sounds like I am not responsible?Wow. By the way I and my friend are in both profession. And it’s a very responsible profession I will leave it at that. I know what he is currently into also. Dem no dey trail me I changed city and stopped over at his to sort some things out. Hence I needed a host to get my shit together. We do communicate from time to time so this is not a ‘ I called him out of the blue thing’He happened to be in that city so why not reach out to him. I don’t sound responsible enough from a write up . Na wa !

iRepNaija1:
OP, although this guy is your friend, he doesn't owe you anything. It's harsh but it's the truth. The reason you are disappointed is that you had an expectation of how he would let you stay in his accommodation and that expectation was not met. Just because you would've let him stay at your place doesn't mean he's willing to do the same for you.

OP, I would take this as a lesson and either cancel the trip so you can save up more money or just stay at a hotel. In the future, start keeping this friend at arm's length. Reciprocate the same energy if this vibe he's giving you continues. Maybe his time in your life is coming to a close.

At last statement exactly . I will keep him at arms length from now on. Expectation is the root of all heartaches true true.

To be honest with you, many unmarried Nigerian guys are as parasitic as their female counterparts.

Sometime last year when they eased the lockdown, a friend of mine told me he wanted to come to Lagos for an interview or so, he used to be my lodge mate back then in school, when I heard it was a job interview he was coming for, I didn't want to be seen as an enemy friend who feels threatened with the success of his friends, so I went to my parents place and gave him the keys to my place.

This guy stayed for about a week, by the time I came back to my house, I made a vow never to allow any of my single male friends spend the night in my house.

This guy turned my house to a hotel, lodged girls, emptied my fridge, left used plates and pots in the kitchen, even used condom and the sachet was in the bedroom. The rooms were so untidy, in fact I regretted giving up my place to him, cos I took him to be a mature person.

So my friend don't be offended, most people change not because they're wicked or heartless but because of the overgrown kids that disappointed them in the past when they decided to honour such request.

If you have a family member in that city make contact with them or better still contact your church, they can hook you up with a member for the few days you have to spend.

Good luck.

Nazgul:
To be honest with you, many unmarried Nigerian guys are as parasitic as their female counterparts.

Good luck.

Sure thanks

Don't be angry, why?
Be happy you know him now

Don't be angry, why?
Be happy you know him now

Magnoliaa:
Men are their own what?

If I tok say una no dey helep each other naw, y'all will be asking for my head on a platter o. As per agenda-ing. Shey this one na agenda too?

Anyway, not my biz. Dey adjust una kinging crowns any how una want am. There are plenty women matters to focus on.

My gee, my niggur, omikomkom brotha'... Kikikikikikiki.

load of bullcrap

iRepNaija1:
OP, although this guy is your friend, he doesn't owe you anything. It's harsh but it's the truth. The reason you are disappointed is that you had an expectation of how he would let you stay in his accommodation and that expectation was not met. Just because you would've let him stay at your place doesn't mean he's willing to do the same for you.
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Friends are meant to watch out for each other.

OP, I would take this as a lesson and either cancel the trip so you can save up more money or just stay at a hotel. In the future, start keeping this friend at arm's length. Reciprocate the same energy if this vibe he's giving you continues. Maybe his time in your life is coming to a close.

Stop this kind yarn, friends are supposed to watch out for each other.

A very close friend(atleast I thought of him as my inner circle friend) did something similar to me last year, I cut all ties with the guy.

Nazgul:
To be honest with you, many unmarried Nigerian guys are as parasitic as their female counterparts.

Sometime last year when they eased the lockdown, a friend of mine told me he wanted to come to Lagos for an interview or so, he used to be my lodge mate back then in school, when I heard it was a job interview he was coming for, I didn't want to be seen as an enemy friend who feels threatened with the success of his friends, so I went to my parents place and gave him the keys to my place.

This guy stayed for about a week, by the time I came back to my house, I made a vow never to allow any of my single male friends spend the night in my house.

This guys turned my house to a hotel, lodged girls, emptied my fridge, left used plates and pots in the kitchen, even used condom and the sachet was in the bedroom. The rooms were so untidy, in fact I regretted giving up my place to him, cos I took him to be a mature person.

So my friend don't be offended, most people change not because they're wicked or heartless but because of the overgrown kids that disappointed them in the past when they decided to honour such request.

If you have a family member in that city make contact with them or better still contact your church, they can hook you up with a member for the few days you have to spend.

Good luck.

Welcome back from the other side. I hope you had a nice time on there.

Magnoliaa:


Welcome back from the other side. I hope you had a nice time on there.

I'm fine o...

I head you're not engaged in my absence, so you couldn't even wait for me.

Nazgul:

I'm fine o...

I head you're not engaged in my absence, so you couldn't even wait for me.

Not engaged or now engaged?

Magnoliaa:

Not engaged or now engaged?

Now engaged...na tension in typing cause am.

commot from pesin house na wao commit from pesin house na wao