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Bewiseedet:
Mind your business.
Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

Bewiseedet:
Mind your business. Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

Unruly7:
How you portray the girl evil without saying anything bad about your son lol

If the girl is a chain smoker it means your son is a chronic smoker

If the girl is a prostitute it means your son is one

If the girl is not responsible for sleeping in a man house, your son is irresponsible for sneaking in a girl in his father's house VERY DISRESPECTFUL

Atleast the girl is working your son isn't working

The problem here is your son maybe you help him get a job and his own apartment

Since he has decided to be useless let him continue



Before you quote me remember The girl won't come to the house if the boy didn't invite her

Xilsbridalhouse:
Oh I feel your pain ma, but I feel you need to be extremely strict. Men can be stubborn, but ladies are a bit weak. Perhaps you could invite a police to threaten her from sleeping in your home! What sort of disrespect is that ?

Secondly, I usually don’t stress my self about issues like this when I can go on my knees and pray to God. You need to pray to God to make both of them enemies, like He should scatter whatever connection is between both of them. Prayer works sooooo much!!!!! Also use words like “ Unless he isn’t my son, unless I didn’t breast feed him etc “ and watch how Heaven will arise for your sake.

Fornication should never be supported or encouraged.
Don’t stress yourself again, with time you won’t see her again.

Bewiseedet:
Mind your business. Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

wisemum:
I appreciate all the comments and advice given to this topic. I am very grateful to all who found the time to respond to my request. In the multitude of counsel, there is safety. I have learnt from every contribution ranging from the most ridiculous to the intelligent. I am already exploring some of the good advice. Thank you all.

SavageResponse:
Why should she mind her business when things are about to go wrong in her own house?

Unruly7:
How you portray the girl evil without saying anything bad about your son lol

If the girl is a chain smoker it means your son is a chronic smoker

If the girl is a prostitute it means your son is one

If the girl is not responsible for sleeping in a man house, your son is irresponsible for sneaking in a girl in his father's house VERY DISRESPECTFUL

Atleast the girl is working your son isn't working

The problem here is your son maybe you help him get a job and his own apartment

Since he has decided to be useless let him continue



Before you quote me remember The girl won't come to the house if the boy didn't invite her
Well said �

dahnimoh:
Maybe there's free food in your house

bigjackass:
Wetin you dey talk . Know what better? A girl is parading naked in the corridor in her family house where her husband also lives and you say she should mind her business. It is her house and not her son's house. Infact any girl coming there that doesn't feel she should respect his parents does not deserve to be embraced by them. That girl is a shameless prostitute because if she has any good intentions for the guy she will take his parents discussion with her serious and stop spending the night there.

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.

My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.

He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.

He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.

Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.

He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.