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Lilsameey:
..That's it, Always felt like having someone, The opposite sex to talk to, relate with, and a babe that loves making money by herself, But everything is bleeped today. I don't want a pest, I make my money, She makes hers, I take care of her, She does the same to me.

This isn't bad but know that you should provide for your family. It's your responsibility! Praying for a woman who will take care of herself is poverty mentality.

Nazgul:
Why are you complaining...she made it clear to you from the onset that she's not interested in bonding, she just want to be mere friends.

You on the other hand wanted to force your way into her life with your hard earned money despite the fact she made her stand on the matter clear to you from day one, which you should have easily understood that she's in a relationship and doesn't want to compromise.

To me, that girl didn't do anything wrong.

One carat gold for you.

One major reason why I hate dating is because d FEMALE folks make it look like RELATIONSHIP is all about THEM. As a guy, u hv got to woo dem, wait 4 dem to decide, spend 4 dem, listen to dem, understand dem, nd still try to keep dem. Its very absurd. Selfish interest. Seriously, I praise guys who have dis habbit of goin after girls here nd there.

Nazgul:
Why are you complaining...she made it clear to you from the onset that she's not interested in bonding, she just want to be mere friends.

You on the other hand wanted to force your way into her life with your hard earned money despite the fact she made her stand on the matter clear to you from day one, which you should have easily understood that she's in a relationship and doesn't want to compromise.

To me, that girl didn't do anything wrong.

I didn't say she was wrong. I am only telling the o p that his idea on how to know if girl is interested may not work. Moreso, the girl was forcing the friendship on me. She wasn't interested in the relationship and I don't want the friendship, but she was accusing me of neglecting her friendship.

nijaomegacode:
She already turn you down. Y do u stress yasef?

If you understand my point well, I said she opted for friendship. A friend that calls you everyday didn't call you for two months, and you never care to call or text him, is that one a friend?

999monikers:
na so girls dey be bro.
met two girls on different scenarios, called, took them out on dates, messaged and checked up on them. I later deleted Their Numbers off my phone to check if they'll call back or even check up on me for WhatsApp, for where, it's over 4 months now and they don't care if I exist. na so them take go

It seems like you are the only one that understand my write up here. Some girls are like that. One girl turned down my proposal, and she is always quick to ask for a favor.

Jamahyel:
Na man you be. I had the same experience, its not worth it. This one the day i post on WhatsApp is when she will post. I will delete her number too

Lolz, it was an experience. Since I started reading books and reading write up on nairaland, I have grown beyond my mumu for girls. Those girls are really bad.

brosom:
I talk am, most of this online redpillers are capital SIMP in reality

U see ur life, after telling a friend not to be friends with any girl that turned him down.

Stop deceiving people oo..

Hahaha, I am not a redpiller. I am just a normal guy that don't allow girls to take undue advantage of me. The incident happened long ago, then I was simping anyhow. The advice I gave to my friend was just a common sense.

Demigod22:
Hahaha, I am not a redpiller. I am just a normal guy that don't allow girls to take undue advantage of me. The incident happened long ago, then I was simping anyhow. The advice I gave to my friend was just a common sense.

u were SIMPING around lol.

Ok oo, how u re better now.?.

Demigod22:
If you understand my point well, I said she opted for friendship. A friend that calls you everyday didn't call you for two months, and you never care to call or text him, is that one a friend?

Brother code 1: never stay friends with a girl you have feelings for; either she turns you to ATM or you browse her puna as bestie while she date another guy.
I think she would haveturned you into an ATM because you don't strike me as someone who is smart enough to knack her kpekus.

nijaomegacode:
This isn't bad but know that you should provide for your family. It's your responsibility! Praying for a woman who will take care of herself is poverty mentality.

,..Shey dis one nah olodo nih?, Reason with my post well, I say babe wey be sey we go gather get money,...no be sey one person go get and another one go dey poor. ,..Which one be poverty mentality, Do you think am a poor man as I dey like this?

nijaomegacode:
If you're trying to get a girl and you're not sure if she has feelings for you or not, just give her attention for about two weeks; calls, visit, gift, complements etc. Then stop.
If she goes one week and didn't get in touch with you or tried to contact you, MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
She's a waste!!!

Guys, Nigerian girls aren't worth the stress at all.

Learning.

nijaomegacode:
If you're trying to get a girl and you're not sure if she has feelings for you or not, just give her attention for about two weeks; calls, visit, gift, complements etc. Then stop.
If she goes one week and didn't get in touch with you or tried to contact you, MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
She's a waste!!!

You are not serious. You think a woman can fall in love with you within 2 weeks? Keep fooling yourself

nijaomegacode:
Brother code 1: never stay friends with a girl you have feelings for; either she turns you to ATM or you browse her puna as bestie while she date another guy.
I think she would haveturned you into an ATM because you don't strike me as someone who is smart enough to knack her kpekus.

LoL, I will assume not to understand what you mean by me not smart enough to knack the kpekus. But you are right about the ATM and bestie thing. I have outgrown her now. I was successful with women after period of simping, but I have other things to focus outside women now.

brosom:
u were SIMPING around lol.

Ok oo, how u re better now.?.

LoL, yes I am better now. Thanks to nairaland and other books that helped me. My neighbors are always envious of me because of my easy way with girls. But now na money we the find.

Demigod22:
LoL, I will assume not to understand what you mean by me not smart enough to knack the kpekus. But you are right about the ATM and bestie thing. I have outgrown her now. I was successful with women after period of simping, but I have other things to focus outside women now.

Great guy you are.

Promzy99:
One major reason why I hate dating is because d FEMALE folks make it look like RELATIONSHIP is all about THEM. As a guy, u hv got to woo dem, wait 4 dem to decide, spend 4 dem, listen to dem, understand dem, nd still try to keep dem. Its very absurd. Selfish interest. Seriously, I praise guys who have dis habbit of goin after girls here nd there.

Yes o. Do you know why this is?
Because they lose everything in the relationship. Once they accept you, they lose themselves to you.

bepositive11:
You are not serious. You think a woman can fall in love with you within 2 weeks? Keep fooling yourself

How long does it take a woman to call in love?

nijaomegacode:
How long does it take a woman to call in love?

It depends. But a woman can only love you when she truly knows you -- both your goods and bads. If she accepts you as a whole. If not it's just infatuation

Day 1: Women are beeches and leeches

Day 2: Swallow the redpill and cut off all interactions with women

Day 3: See this girl I met today...

Day 4: How to know a lady is interested in you...

Day 5: How to get her to like you. Work out, smell good, dress clean

Day 6: I collected this girl's number, we've been speaking for two months, but she's not giving me the green light

Day 7: Me, too. There was one banny like that I like. I bought apples and bananas for her. I just want a woman to love uwuuu

Day 8: A woman is made up of love, her feminine essence. She can give everything to you in love as she's emotional

See all of them sharing stories of one girl or the other they are pursuing. Person wey say that gender no love LOVE pass anything, na Lie Muhammad's grandson. Ahan. They can die and do anything for it.

See all of them above. **yinmu**

bepositive11:
It depends. But a woman can only love you when she truly knows you -- both your goods and bads. If she accepts you as a whole. If not it's just infatuation

Hmmmm. What is your birthdate?

nijaomegacode:
Hmmmm. What is your birthdate?

What concerns you with my birthdate?

2wks too much nal

bepositive11:
What concerns you with my birthdate?

Shey u go answer first.

Magnoliaa:
Day 1: Women are beeches and leeches

Day 2: Swallow the redpill and cut off all interactions with women

Day 3: See this girl I met today...

Day 4: How to know a lady is interested in you...

Day 5: How to get her to like you. Work out, smell good, dress clean

Day 6: I collected this girl's number, we've been speaking for two months, but she's not giving me the green light

Day 7: Me, too. There was one banny like that I like. I bought apples and bananas for her. I just want a woman to love uwuuu

Day 8: A woman is made up of love, her feminine essence. She can give everything to you in love as she's emotional

See all of them sharing stories of one girl or the other they are pursuing. Person wey say that gender no love LOVE pass anything, na Lie Muhammad's grandson. Ahan. They can die and do anything for it.

See all of them above. **yinmu**

This is no news.

Polynek:
2wks too much nal

Haba!

nijaomegacode:
If you're trying to get a girl and you're not sure if she has feelings for you or not, just give her attention for about two weeks; calls, visit, gift, complements etc. Then stop.
If she goes one week and didn't get in touch with you or tried to contact you, MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
She's a waste!!!

It's not a good way to know , if she's only interested in money she'll call you regularly but it doesn't mean she's interested in you

nijaomegacode:
This is no news.

Of course, it isn't. Thank you for confirming your hypocritical and contradicting utterances that changes like the weather; just like your monikers, too.

Lilsameey:
..That's it, Always felt like having someone, The opposite sex to talk to, relate with, and a babe that loves making money by herself, But everything is bleeped today. I don't want a pest, I make my money, She makes hers, I take care of her, She does the same to me.

Omo na this kind girl I get o. I always feel happy. not superficial with social media. Extremely intelligent and working. Her dream big die. Though mine big pass. She said she is lucky to have me because most guys idea of women dey warped

Semaj77:
It's not a good way to know , if she's only interested in money she'll call you regularly but it doesn't mean she's interested in you

Right.
So how would you know she's interested?

nijaomegacode:
Right.
So how would you know she's interested?

No concrete way to know but if you're at your lowest with nothing to offer her and she still calls you frequently then she may be interested in you