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Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:09pm On Oct 18, 2021
I work at a catering services at Benin City, I'm the store keeper. I leaves in the staffs quarter with our manager and the gate man and it happened to be where our office is also located.
Few months ago, one of our worker came to stay with us, before she came we were running a communal system of living at the kitchen level, we hardly cook because of the the nuture of our job, food is always available in the freezer and all things in freezer belongs to we all. This colleague of our had issue in her relationship and relating with people but that is not my concern at the moment. The issue here at hand is that tomorrow she will be traveling to Lagos to see her people. Meeen! You need to see the things the babe took from the freezer... Yes! she told us she will be taking somethings to her people in Lagos which we agreed but we only approved fried chicken and fish...This evening this babe package things from the freezer for tomorrow journey when nobody was there but after she finished, we were to go outing with our boss this evening but I decided not to go but she went after she left I decided to go to the freezer and check what she took because I don't trust her. Lo and behold I was shocked to see what this babe took. She took the fill things:
Fried chicken
Fried fish
Row beef
Sauce beef/hides
Fried puff puff, samosa, swing roll
Row samosa and swing roll
I am not happy about it so I'm thinking what to do tomorrow because this night I'm not going to bother her. I'm just thinking what to do, should I allow her to go with the all the stuff and then take action when she return or I should report to our manager. I don't understand this girl for real. We had never had issue because of food but this girl I just don't understand her.

Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:12pm On Oct 18, 2021
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Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Sonnobax15(m): 9:13pm On Oct 18, 2021
grin
Mennnnnnnn,That girl na future looter...

Like seriously, op, I'd advise you to Simply call her,sit her down and talk some sense into her.....Na thief character this girl display so undecided. Because if the manager get to know about am na, she's likely to be sacked because she be thiefffffffffff undecided

For this life,dem say girls no too sabi thief,but if you venture see any female thief en, mennnnnnnn,give her chance because that girl fit thief pikin comot from pregnant woman belle without being caught undecided
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by PENNYSWAP:
Op stopping lying on a public forum .

Just say the truth and no body will beat you .

You made sexual advances at her and she turned you down , you come chop winch for her matter , turn your self to monitoring spirit cum village people .

Why will you reject the outing your boss offered to you all just to search the freezer cuz she no gree give you kpekus.... huh huh huh

Guy you dey fall my hand I swear
Because of kpekus you are search another grown up person bag .
What if she claim you are the one that wants to frame her up or maybe she’s looking for the money she wants to give her parents and you are the one searching her bag .
I pity your wife , bag searcher
Tuaaaaaaaaaah.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by FanOfMyself: 9:17pm On Oct 18, 2021
This is too much. The future is what again?
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Godada(m): 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2021
huh



Is she going to feed her village people for the remainder of the year?


Shun gentility.


Get your superior involved and rebuke her publicly.



Remove those stuffs.



She will be going with nothing.


Future looter like her
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by UncleKoboko: 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2021
She want go open her own Branch? grin
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:25pm On Oct 18, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin
Mennnnnnnn,That girl na future looter...

Like seriously, op, I'd advise you to Simply call her,sit her down and talk some sense into her.....Na thief character this girl display so undecided. Because if the manager get to know about am na, she's likely to be sacked because she be thiefffffffffff undecided

For this life,dem say girls no too sabi thief,but if you venture see any female thief en, mennnnnnnn,give her chance because that girl fit thief pikin comot from pregnant woman belle without being caught undecided
My brother, I weak when I saw the things, the thing is that if I tell our manager, I'm very sure she is going to take a lot of things from what the babe took.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Emocruize(m): 9:26pm On Oct 18, 2021
Omo i no fit laugh. and when she meet her people she will be like 'i bought these things myself.
they always want to exploit any small opportunity.
What did they tell you about Nigerian girls
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:27pm On Oct 18, 2021
FanOfMyself:
This is too much. The future is what again?
Too much indeed.
I didn't even talk about drinks oo
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by frozen70(f): 9:28pm On Oct 18, 2021
Irijosa777:
I work at a catering services at Benin City, I'm the store keeper. I leaves in the staffs quarter with our manager and the gate man and it happened to be where our office is also located.
Few months ago, one of our worker came to stay with us, before she came we were running a communal system of living at the kitchen level, we hardly cook because of the the nuture of our job, food is always available in the freezer and all things in freezer belongs to we all. This colleague of our had issue in her relationship and relating with people but that is not my concern at the moment. The issue here at hand is that tomorrow she will be traveling to Lagos to see her people. Meeen! You need to see the things the babe took from the freezer... Yes! she told us she will be taking somethings to her people in Lagos which we agreed but we only approved fried chicken and fish...This evening this babe package things from the freezer for tomorrow journey when nobody was there but after she finished, we were to go outing with our boss this evening but I decided not to go but she went after she left I decided to go to the freezer and check what she took because I don't trust her. Lo and behold I was shocked to see what this babe took. She took the fill things:
Fried chicken
Fried fish
Row beef
Sauce beef/hides
Fried puff puff, samosa, swing roll
Row samosa and swing roll
I am not happy about it so I'm thinking what to do tomorrow because this night I'm not going to bother her. I'm just thinking what to do, should I allow her to go with the all the stuff and then take action when she return or I should report to our manager. I don't understand this girl for real. We had never had issue because of food but this girl I just don't understand her.
Well, if the management and the whole system has been good to you, you already have enough evidence to nail her

Let the manager see all she took from the evidence she has with you, then, you may suggest to them to inform her not to come back to the business again

But make sure you come with a clean hand, so that you don't do anything close to that in that organization

More so, make sure that, they keep your information secret from others do that your colleagues won't see you as informant

In other words, don't confront her but you can report her to the manager
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:30pm On Oct 18, 2021
Godada:
huh



Is she going to feed her village people for the remainder of the year?


Shun gentility.


Get your superior involved and rebuke her publicly.



Remove those stuffs.



She will be going with nothing.


Future looter like her
I'm also trying to prevent her from being disgrace and the same time I don't want to spoil her mood when she is traveling tomorrow...
So I'm just thinking we will address the issue if she return, I took those pictures as evidence in case she deny it.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by UndauntedYOCA(f):
Abeg confront her, not you alone. You and the others should confront her and get those things back.
She's self-centred, she no know say you go eat?
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by lilvicky68(m): 9:33pm On Oct 18, 2021
Her people are much.. grin
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Godada(m): 9:34pm On Oct 18, 2021
Irijosa777:
I'm also trying to prevent her from being disgrace and the same time I don't want to spoil her mood when she is traveling tomorrow...
So I'm just thinking we will address the issue if she return, I took those pictures as evidence in case she deny it.
If you have feelings for her............fine.


Call her to order before she leaves.


One thing is sure and also a fact: she is a taker.

Stay away from a taker.

They drain you off like a parasite and move on
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 18, 2021
She wan go appease her village people grin
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Irijosa777(op): 9:45pm On Oct 18, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
Op stopping lying on a public forum .

Just say the truth and no body will beat you .

You made sexual advances at her and she turned you down , you come chop winch for her matter , turn your self to monitoring spirit cum village people .

Why will you reject the outing your boss offered to you all just to search the freezer cuz she no gree give you kpekus.... huh huh huh

Guy you dey fall my hand I swear
Because of kpekus you are search another grown up person bag .
What if she claim you are the one that wants to frame her up or maybe she’s looking for the money she wants to give her parents and you are the one searching her bag .
I pity your wife , bag searcher
Tuaaaaaaaaaah.
Shame on you big time
You think everyone is pervert like you.
Why should I bring myself so low to your level
Guy you don't deserve my attention.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by ceede2: 9:56pm On Oct 18, 2021
I can assure you she's not coming back, that last supper, if she has her way she will go with the Fridge.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 18, 2021
Just ignore her
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Truvelisback(m): 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin
Mennnnnnnn,That girl na future looter...

Like seriously, op, I'd advise you to Simply call her,sit her down and talk some sense into her.....Na thief character this girl display so undecided. Because if the manager get to know about am na, she's likely to be sacked because she be thiefffffffffff undecided

For this life,dem say girls no too sabi thief,but if you venture see any female thief en, mennnnnnnn,give her chance because that girl fit thief pikin comot from pregnant woman belle without being caught undecided
She is related to Martin looter.

Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Don999: 10:18pm On Oct 18, 2021
Looter Loot Looted items grin angryall of una na thief.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Truvelisback(m): 10:21pm On Oct 18, 2021
Irijosa777:
I work at a catering services at Benin City, I'm the store keeper. I leaves in the staffs quarter with our manager and the gate man and it happened to be where our office is also located.
Few months ago, one of our worker came to stay with us, before she came we were running a communal system of living at the kitchen level, we hardly cook because of the the nuture of our job, food is always available in the freezer and all things in freezer belongs to we all. This colleague of our had issue in her relationship and relating with people but that is not my concern at the moment. The issue here at hand is that tomorrow she will be traveling to Lagos to see her people. Meeen! You need to see the things the babe took from the freezer... Yes! she told us she will be taking somethings to her people in Lagos which we agreed but we only approved fried chicken and fish...This evening this babe package things from the freezer for tomorrow journey when nobody was there but after she finished, we were to go outing with our boss this evening but I decided not to go but she went after she left I decided to go to the freezer and check what she took because I don't trust her. Lo and behold I was shocked to see what this babe took. She took the fill things:
Fried chicken
Fried fish
Row beef
Sauce beef/hides
Fried puff puff, samosa, swing roll
Row samosa and swing roll
I am not happy about it so I'm thinking what to do tomorrow because this night I'm not going to bother her. I'm just thinking what to do, should I allow her to go with the all the stuff and then take action when she return or I should report to our manager. I don't understand this girl for real. We had never had issue because of food but this girl I just don't understand her.
Why u no take ur own share? Abi u come benin come count fried chicken and fish?

Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Nobody:
Inform your colleagues, then y'all inform your boss together to avoid being blamed for taking those things.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by foleskay(m): 12:10am On Oct 19, 2021
Instead of comfronting her,why don't u just pick some of those stuff and hide them. I know she dare not raise alarm cos she understands its implication. Habba. This is too much. What does she expect you to be eating when she leaves. Just pack some of the meats and remain some for her.
Confronting her could lead to enmity BTW you both. So just pack some and leave her confused.
Olee
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Kobojunkie: 12:16am On Oct 19, 2021
Irijosa777:
Fried chicken
Fried fish
Row beef
Sauce beef/hides
Fried puff puff, samosa, swing roll
Row samosa and swing roll
I am not happy about it so I'm thinking what to do tomorrow because this night I'm not going to bother her. I'm just thinking what to do, should I allow her to go with the all the stuff and then take action when she return or I should report to our manager. I don't understand this girl for real. We had never had issue because of food but this girl I just don't understand her.
Since you are alone with her. Go to her and tell her in the calmest of tones that you think she took too much stuff from the fridge. undecided
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Kobojunkie: 12:17am On Oct 19, 2021
foleskay:
Instead of comfronting her,why don't u just pick some of those stuff and hide them. I know she dare not raise alarm cos she understands its implication. Habba. This is too much. What does she expect you to be eating when she leaves. Just pack some of the meats and remain some for her.
Confronting her could lead to enmity BTW you both. So just pack some and leave her confused.
Olee
Ah Ah! Na children dem be? undecided
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by PENNYSWAP: 12:19am On Oct 19, 2021
Irijosa777:
Shame on you big time
You think everyone is pervert like you.
Why should I bring myself so low to your level
Guy you don't deserve my attention.
The shame is on you for searching a woman’s bag , even if she’s your wife you don’t have any right to search her bag
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by AfroKnight: 12:40am On Oct 19, 2021
Some people have no home training. They don’t know they should treat other people’s properties better than theirs.

This reminds me of those guys in my uni. They would ask you for milk and sugar and when they serve themselves you’d wonder who really owns the milk and sugar cos they have no shame in scooping giant servings. Same with guys you lend your perfume to. They would just keep spraying until you complain.

If your manager is aware that she would be taking some food home, please ask him/her to check. If the manager is not aware, then it’s up to you to correct her. But I assure you, she will hold a grudge against you and maybe accuse you of doing the same thing.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by femi4: 6:22am On Oct 19, 2021
UncleKoboko:
She want go open her own Branch? grin
She's the real palliatives grin
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by phemy36(m): 7:08am On Oct 19, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
The shame is on you for searching a woman’s bag , even if she’s your wife you don’t have any right to search her bag
If you are female, I pity your to be husband, because you have same mentality and character with the taker been mention in op write up. Is she the owner of those things she packed. So others should suffer because of her. She's free to pack everything in the house without been checked because she's female. I don't jus understand what you are insinuating, no wonder the husband sent her packing, because this character can send someone to his early grave. @ op be wary of the girl. Because you people will wake up one day and discover she has pack your belongings and lied against you when you deem it fit to claim them back.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by idu1(m): 7:29am On Oct 19, 2021
grin grin grin


I no fit laugh abeg.

she's a looter.
Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Tokskob2008: 8:40am On Oct 19, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
The shame is on you for searching a woman’s bag , even if she’s your wife you don’t have any right to search her bag
But she has the right to search and the freezer of all it's goodies baahuh

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