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What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? Value!

My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value- Added-Woman (VAW)

Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price?
They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.
If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the attention of her own husband. Rachael was practically in
control of Jacob. Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.
Gen 29:9 Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd. How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the
house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industrious nature!
After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael.

Sex doesn't keep a man, value does.
Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah.
Having children is good but adding value is better.

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect you as In-law and value her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home.

Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants, whaooooo..... Future will tell.

Be a Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you. DON'T BE A LIABILITY.

©Lalasticlala. Help to push this to FP so that our women can learn.

Una Problem for this life no just pass woman matter.....Every second and minute,na women matter una dey discuss...

Any way,back to your topic,I think you're right to an extent...But what I don't believe is that can any woman possess all of them in her without any flaws?

Ehinjuola:
What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!*

My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value- Added-Woman (VAW)

Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price?
They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.
If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the attention of her own husband. Rachael was practically in
control of Jacob. Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.
Gen 29:9 Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd. How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the
house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industrious nature!
After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael.

Sex doesn't keep a man, value does.
Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah.
Having children is good but adding value is better.

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect you as In-law and value her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home.

Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants, whaooooo..... Future will tell.

Be a Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you. DON'T BE A LIABILITY.

©Lalaticlala. Help to push this to FP so that our women can learn.

wow you really make my day
OP can I copied and paste it to one of my friend on Facebook she really need to read and see for herself

Nice one OP...
But, to train your child to be so in Nigeria today will be difficult... because, even after all the training they will still be influenced by those entitled and brainwashed Naija babes..
Today, an average Naija girl feels she is entitled to have all from a man. and not born to suffer ...

Shalom!

awesonjr:
wow you really make my day
OP can I copied and paste it to one of my friend on Facebook she really need to read and see for herself

guy "made"copy"
i think this is intentional

Candidlady:
guy "made"copy"
i think this is intentional

this one you dey follow me up and down I no understand you

awesonjr:
this one you dey follow me up and down I no understand you

your stench wont let me breathe

Candidlady:
your stench wont let me breathe

ohh I see madam English isokay continue

lol, let me go get some breakfast, i dey come...

Ehinjuola:
My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value- Added-Woman (VAW)

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #1
you can be the most hardworking woman on earth and your man still wont respect you...and thats because men respect women for different reasons. expecting all men to respect and love all women for the same reason is not only foolish, its a joke!

If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.
If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #2
... and you may add value to some men's life and they will STILL not respect you. stop thinking that all men are the same. there are many hardworking women out there that were dropped/cheated on and/or divorced simply because their men found a better/finer/younger woman etc. lets be real here!

Sex doesn't keep a man, value does.Having children is good but adding value is better.

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #3
children are VALUE to men/family. even better, you can be the best/hardest working woman on earth, if you dont have kids for your Nigerian man, chances are, you will be looked upon as a liability. duh!

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #4
you are so narrow minded, you dont understand that ADDED VALUE GOES BOTH WAYS...if a man doesnt add value to a woman's life, she will be gone too (unless you are married to an olosho who is with you for your money, and will leave you the day a richer man comes along)

I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect you as In-law and value her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home.

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #5
do you think that there are parents out there who raise their children to be lazy liabilities?!?!? the majority of parents out there are trying their
best to raise the best possible children, sadly....there is something called LIFE, and life has a way of messing with people's plans.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants, whaooooo..... Future will tell.

ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #6
men fall for their maid because they are deluded h0rny goats. a real man would COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE and do everything in his power to better his other half, because she is a representation of himself and his family. to better your wife is to indirectly better your children's life, your future etc. men who decide to disrespect their wife/family/life and sleep with their maids are garbage disrespectful/untrustworthy/unfaithful/dishonest being that aint worth shiiit. if this is what you call value then you are surely mistaking.

Be a Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you. DON'T BE A LIABILITY.

FINAL ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE
men respect women who have the right CHARACTER that they require! some men require a submissive wife, others require a woman who brings her own share to the table; others require a trophy wife etc etc etc.
what works for Taiwo may not be what works for Emeka, let alone Ahmed. TO EACH THEIR OWN!

Wow

MrBrownJay1:
lol, let me go get some breakfast, i dey come...



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #1
you can be the most hardworking woman on earth and your man still wont respect you...and thats because men respect women for different reasons. expecting all men to respect and love all women for the same reason is not only foolish, its a joke!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #2
... and you may add value to some men's life and they will STILL not respect you. stop thinking that all men are the same. there are many hardworking women out there that were dropped/cheated on and/or divorced simply because their men found a better/finer/younger woman etc. lets be real here!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #3
children are VALUE to men/family. even better, you can be the best/hardest working woman on earth, if you dont have kids for your Nigerian man, chances are, you will be looked upon as a liability. duh!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #4
you are so narrow minded, you dont understand that ADDED VALUE GOES BOTH WAYS...if a man doesnt add value to a woman's life, she will be gone too (unless you are married to an olosho who is with you for your money, and will leave you the day a richer man comes along)



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #5
do you think that there are parents out there who raise their children to be lazy liabilities?!?!? the majority of parents out there are trying their
best to raise the best possible children, sadly....there is something called LIFE, and life has a way of messing with people's plans.



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #6
men fall for their maid because they are deluded h0rny goats. a real man would COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE and do everything in his power to better his other half, because she is a representation of himself and his family. to better your wife is to indirectly better your children's life, your future etc. men who decide to disrespect their wife/family/life and sleep with their maids are garbage disrespectful/untrustworthyunfaithful/dishonest being that aint worth shiiit. if this is what you call value then you are surely mistaking.



FINAL ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE
men respect women who have the right CHARACTER that they require! some men require a submissive wife, others require a woman who brings her own share to the table; others require a trophy wife etc etc etc.
what works for Taiwo may not be what works for Emeka, let alone Ahmed. TO EACH THEIR OWN!

how I wish I could like dis a million times dis is the sad truth men. He is right but u re also right

MrBrownJay1:
lol, let me go get some breakfast, i dey come...



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #1
you can be the most hardworking woman on earth and your man still wont respect you...and thats because men respect women for different reasons. expecting all men to respect and love all women for the same reason is not only foolish, its a joke!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #2
... and you may add value to some men's life and they will STILL not respect you. stop thinking that all men are the same. there are many hardworking women out there that were dropped/cheated on and/or divorced simply because their men found a better/finer/younger woman etc. lets be real here!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #3
children are VALUE to men/family. even better, you can be the best/hardest working woman on earth, if you dont have kids for your Nigerian man, chances are, you will be looked upon as a liability. duh!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #4
you are so narrow minded, you dont understand that ADDED VALUE GOES BOTH WAYS...if a man doesnt add value to a woman's life, she will be gone too (unless you are married to an olosho who is with you for your money, and will leave you the day a richer man comes along)



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #5
do you think that there are parents out there who raise their children to be lazy liabilities?!?!? the majority of parents out there are trying their
best to raise the best possible children, sadly....there is something called LIFE, and life has a way of messing with people's plans.



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #6
men fall for their maid because they are deluded h0rny goats. a real man would COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE and do everything in his power to better his other half, because she is a representation of himself and his family. to better your wife is to indirectly better your children's life, your future etc. men who decide to disrespect their wife/family/life and sleep with their maids are garbage disrespectful/untrustworthyunfaithful/dishonest being that aint worth shiiit. if this is what you call value then you are surely mistaking.



FINAL ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE
men respect women who have the right CHARACTER that they require! some men require a submissive wife, others require a woman who brings her own share to the table; others require a trophy wife etc etc etc.
what works for Taiwo may not be what works for Emeka, let alone Ahmed. TO EACH THEIR OWN!

how I wish I could like dis a million times dis is the sad truth men. He is right but u re also right

Op, karma was working for him
He jilted on his brother
Absconded with his(Esau's) blessing
Denied him of his blessing twice
Took his brother's birthright all because of porridge
Someone that can't help his brother when he needs food. He was more concerned of his brother's birthright
It was the mother that mastermind the scheme(Rebekah, their mother oo) .. Fear woman my brother

Sorry I'm deviating the topic
Jacob is paying for his crime to me oo

Esau has already built a city while Jacob was pursuing love(SIMPing)

In the descendant of Abraham, all the first sons missed it
Ishmeal lost it to isaac
Esau lost to jacob
Ruben lost to Joseph

Literally, Abraham's first heir was Ishmael
It would had been
God of Abraham, Ishmael and Esau



And also, All the promised child(Ren) were all born when there mum were old

MrBrownJay1:
lol, let me go get some breakfast, i dey come...



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #1
you can be the most hardworking woman on earth and your man still wont respect you...and thats because men respect women for different reasons. expecting all men to respect and love all women for the same reason is not only foolish, its a joke!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #2
... and you may add value to some men's life and they will STILL not respect you. stop thinking that all men are the same. there are many hardworking women out there that were dropped/cheated on and/or divorced simply because their men found a better/finer/younger woman etc. lets be real here!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #3
children are VALUE to men/family. even better, you can be the best/hardest working woman on earth, if you dont have kids for your Nigerian man, chances are, you will be looked upon as a liability. duh!



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #4
you are so narrow minded, you dont understand that ADDED VALUE GOES BOTH WAYS...if a man doesnt add value to a woman's life, she will be gone too (unless you are married to an olosho who is with you for your money, and will leave you the day a richer man comes along)



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #5
do you think that there are parents out there who raise their children to be lazy liabilities?!?!? the majority of parents out there are trying their
best to raise the best possible children, sadly....there is something called LIFE, and life has a way of messing with people's plans.



ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE #6
men fall for their maid because they are deluded h0rny goats. a real man would COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE and do everything in his power to better his other half, because she is a representation of himself and his family. to better your wife is to indirectly better your children's life, your future etc. men who decide to disrespect their wife/family/life and sleep with their maids are garbage disrespectful/untrustworthyunfaithful/dishonest being that aint worth shiiit. if this is what you call value then you are surely mistaking.



FINAL ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE
men respect women who have the right CHARACTER that they require! some men require a submissive wife, others require a woman who brings her own share to the table; others require a trophy wife etc etc etc.
what works for Taiwo may not be what works for Emeka, let alone Ahmed. TO EACH THEIR OWN!

Very well written!!!

Ehinjuola:
What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!*

My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value- Added-Woman (VAW)

Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price?
They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you.
If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the attention of her own husband. Rachael was practically in
control of Jacob. Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.
Gen 29:9 Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd. How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the
house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industrious nature!
After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael.

Sex doesn't keep a man, value does.
Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah.
Having children is good but adding value is better.

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to their man. Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect you as In-law and value her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home.

Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants, whaooooo..... Future will tell.

Be a Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you. DON'T BE A LIABILITY.

©Lalaticlala. Help to push this to FP so that our women can learn.

Can you define what you mean by value?

You are looking for a woman to support you financially?

If you had all the money you needed to raise a family, would you still want that so called value from a woman?

A woman will eventually have to go through child birth and bring them up. Woman spend much more time bringing up kids than men because that is their nature -- they are more nurturing

Every woman has a right to want what she wants

A woman would be pleased to not have to stress over money on top of bringing up her children