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Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Cinema4d: 9:24pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
InfinityFabric:What?! Please tell me this is a joke, I need to clear my doubts before I respond. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 10:03pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Candidlady: I no sabi the above phrases, but I'm pretty sure the second one is Yoruba. Maybe now would be a right time to mention that I'm not Nigerian. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 10:04pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Lightway:Yes. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 10:19pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Cinema4d:Reply all you want, women aren't built to be the bread-winners. Mandating a woman to work is praising an anomaly. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 12:53pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
Farfalla:Female orgasm isn't necessary, just an add-on. Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.Assuming most women are capable of the truth, guys will just try to get better. Not cry like babies like women do. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Bolarineliza202: 1:27pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
helinues:You're 100% right,you've said it all. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Savedday: 1:53pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them! |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 5:55pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
InfinityFabric:I agree it isn't necessary. That could explain why many wives and girlfriends still stay in marriages/relationships even when they're sexually frustrated. InfinityFabric:If Nairaland is anything to go by, it's not the women who cry and whine about stuff. It's the men. They see single women, they cry Shiloh. They see pre-wedding photos, they cry. They see divorced women, they cry. They see a woman with a new car, they shout clitocurrency up and down. They see a woman over 28 without a child, they cry menopause. They see Linda Ikeji at 38 get a baby, they cry and curse. They see a woman marrying a wealthy man, they curse her that she's in for the money. They see a woman with a not-well-to-do husband, they mock her that her shakara don end. They see a woman borrowing urgent 2K, they cry. They see a financially stable, career-oriented woman, they shout feminist up and down. They see a woman pick a good man, they curse and mock her for picking a simp. They see a woman with a playboy, they cry that she likes bad boys. They meet a woman who's kind to them, they say she's pretending so she can get the ring. They meet a mean, cold, manipulative biatch, they cry that women are naturally evil. Perhaps in another world women cry like babies, but on Nairaland, it's the boys who take the cake. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 7:48pm On Oct 21, 2021 |
That could explain why many wives and girlfriends still stay in marriages/relationships even when they're sexually frustrated.Societal shaming on them which the Western world have forgotten do play a part. Plus she doesn't get to leave with 50%+ of the man's stuff on her way out. If Nairaland is anything to go by, it's not the women who cry and whine about stuff.Can't let logic fly out the window and open door for emotions. When I say cry, I mean literal cry with tears. Women can't handle the truth. Guys might rage but will try to get better, tell your spouse she's fat and ugly or smelling and see three buckets of raw, unrefined tears. Followed by family meetings for 6-months. When a woman asks for the truth, she wants something to make her feel better. When a man asks, he's looking to get better. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Nobody: 1:26am On Nov 15, 2021 |
InfinityFabric: 1. Is there any law that says a woman should not work when her husband is alive?? So she should just stay home and become a liability to her husband ba?? 2. Kikikikikiki ... So it is a man's physical structure that is built for stress 3. Oga there is no shame in a woman who works to earn money, whether or not she has a husband!! Which kind mentality be this one sef..... Mtttttcheeeeewww... 4. Wait o... So you're saying that all women won't respect her husband if he doesn't have money?? Or they won't respect a man if she pays some bills Chai!! Na wa o for your mentality o... Either ways. .. To each his own... |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Kobojunkie: 1:39am On Nov 15, 2021 |
helinues:More like majority of these men have some sort of Robinhood complex, believing themselves Godsent saviors to the women they chose for themselves. If a man does not want the stress of bearing it all, then I see absolutely no reason why such a man would choose for himself a spouse that is not independent, with her own life going, long before the marriage. The blame shouldn't be on the women but the foolish men who date them. 1 Like |
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