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Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Cinema4d: 9:24pm On Oct 20
InfinityFabric:

Why should a woman work when you - the so-called husband is alive ?
Does their physical build-up look like the one built for stress ?
And what type of work would she do ? The one under another man ? No shame from you!
And if it's not even under a man, you'll be cool with 8 - 5 ?, 9 - 4 ? Heck even worse than that ?

Many of you complain about lack of respect then goes on to split the bills with her. Ok ooo!
What?! Please tell me this is a joke, I need to clear my doubts before I respond.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 10:03pm On Oct 20
Candidlady:

sis "ankali da allah". "omo de lo nshe" lol

I no sabi the above phrases, but I'm pretty sure the second one is Yoruba. cheesy

Maybe now would be a right time to mention that I'm not Nigerian. wink
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 10:04pm On Oct 20
Lightway:


Are you a woman and above 25

Yes.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 10:19pm On Oct 20
Cinema4d:

What?! Please tell me this is a joke, I need to clear my doubts before I respond.
Reply all you want, women aren't built to be the bread-winners. Mandating a woman to work is praising an anomaly.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 12:53pm On Oct 21
Farfalla:


If those women were to tell you the whole truth, you'd know that most of them don't even enjoy sexx and many of them have never experienced or-gasms, at least not with you. cheesy

They may put up a semblance of enjoying just to boost your ego because most members of the "logical" gender are clueless things. They can't even detect fake or-gasms.

They talk about you to their female (and sometimes male) friends behind your back about how clueless you are but they just have to manage your inadequacy for one reason or the other. Meanwhile, you're out there praising your performance while thinking somebody's daughter is enjoying sexx with you. No, she's not. She just loves you, so your inadequacies don't bother her in a major way.

Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.
Female orgasm isn't necessary, just an add-on.

Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.
Assuming most women are capable of the truth, guys will just try to get better. Not cry like babies like women do.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Bolarineliza202(f): 1:27pm On Oct 21
helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage
You're 100% right,you've said it all.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Savedday: 1:53pm On Oct 21
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 5:55pm On Oct 21
InfinityFabric:

Female orgasm isn't necessary, just an add-on.
I agree it isn't necessary.
That could explain why many wives and girlfriends still stay in marriages/relationships even when they're sexually frustrated.

InfinityFabric:

Assuming most women are capable of the truth, guys will just try to get better. Not cry like babies like women do.
If Nairaland is anything to go by, it's not the women who cry and whine about stuff. It's the men.

They see single women, they cry Shiloh.
They see pre-wedding photos, they cry.
They see divorced women, they cry.
They see a woman with a new car, they shout clitocurrency up and down.
They see a woman over 28 without a child, they cry menopause.
They see Linda Ikeji at 38 get a baby, they cry and curse.
They see a woman marrying a wealthy man, they curse her that she's in for the money.
They see a woman with a not-well-to-do husband, they mock her that her shakara don end.
They see a woman borrowing urgent 2K, they cry.
They see a financially stable, career-oriented woman, they shout feminist up and down.
They see a woman pick a good man, they curse and mock her for picking a simp.
They see a woman with a playboy, they cry that she likes bad boys.
They meet a woman who's kind to them, they say she's pretending so she can get the ring.
They meet a mean, cold, manipulative biatch, they cry that women are naturally evil.

Perhaps in another world women cry like babies, but on Nairaland, it's the boys who take the cake.

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Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 7:48pm On Oct 21
That could explain why many wives and girlfriends still stay in marriages/relationships even when they're sexually frustrated.
Societal shaming on them which the Western world have forgotten do play a part.
Plus she doesn't get to leave with 50%+ of the man's stuff on her way out.

If Nairaland is anything to go by, it's not the women who cry and whine about stuff.
They see single women, they cry Shiloh.
They see pre-wedding photos, they cry.
They see divorced women, they cry.
They see a woman with a new car, they shout clitocurrency up and down.
They see a woman over 28 without a child, they cry menopause.
They see Linda Ikeji at 38 get a baby, they cry and curse.
They see a woman marrying a wealthy man, they curse her that she's in for the money.
They see a woman with a not-well-to-do husband, they mock her that her shakara don end.
They see a woman borrowing urgent 2K, they cry.
They see a financially stable, career-oriented woman, they shout feminist up and down.
They see a woman pick a good man, they curse and mock her for picking a simp.
They see a woman with a playboy, they cry that she likes bad boys.
They meet a woman who's kind to them, they say she's pretending so she can get the ring.
They meet a mean, cold, manipulative biatch, they cry that women are naturally evil.

Perhaps in another world women cry like babies, but on Nairaland, it's the boys who take the cake.
Can't let logic fly out the window and open door for emotions. When I say cry, I mean literal cry with tears.
Women can't handle the truth. Guys might rage but will try to get better, tell your spouse she's fat and ugly or smelling and see three buckets of raw, unrefined tears. Followed by family meetings for 6-months.

When a woman asks for the truth, she wants something to make her feel better. When a man asks, he's looking to get better.
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Favfables1: 1:26am On Nov 15
InfinityFabric:

1. Why should a woman work when you - the so-called husband is alive ?

2. Does their physical build-up look like the one built for that kind of stress ?

3. And what type of work would she do ? The one under another man ? No shame from you!
And if it's not even under a man, you'll be cool with 8 - 5 ?, 9 - 4 ? Heck even worse than that ?

4. Many of you complain about lack of respect then goes on to split the bills with her. Ok ooo!

1. Is there any law that says a woman should not work when her husband is alive?? So she should just stay home and become a liability to her husband ba??

2. Kikikikikiki grin...
So it is a man's physical structure that is built for stress

3. Oga there is no shame in a woman who works to earn money, whether or not she has a husband!! Which kind mentality be this one sef..... Mtttttcheeeeewww...

4. Wait o...
So you're saying that all women won't respect her husband if he doesn't have money?? Or they won't respect a man if she pays some bills

Chai!! Na wa o for your mentality o...

Either ways. ..
To each his own...
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Kobojunkie: 1:39am On Nov 15
helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage
More like majority of these men have some sort of Robinhood complex, believing themselves Godsent saviors to the women they chose for themselves. undecided

If a man does not want the stress of bearing it all, then I see absolutely no reason why such a man would choose for himself a spouse that is not independent, with her own life going, long before the marriage. undecided

The blame shouldn't be on the women but the foolish men who date them. undecided

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