My girlfriend and I we've been dating for years now, but what I just want to talk about is this.
My girl said she's want to buy hair and the amount is 55k I said okay but later on she said its bone straight I said I don't have money for that I'll send her the 55k if she wants to add to it to get her bone straight no wahala which was 65k.

Okay now she was not feeling fine she used about 18k at the hospital to buy drugs and other stuff,but I didn't get paid on Friday so I used my own fees money because I'm rounding up my project, I wanted to pay 200k into my school account then sent her 40k to get the hair but that night she sent the money back saying she don't need it anymore and I was like why are you behaving like this,she said she does not know what to do with the money,then after much talking telling me that she does not have money in her account and she tool from her mom account this that, I said okay fine I'll send you 55k but this one one don't have money why not use the 55k for yourself at least na hair not that your ugly I'll still try getting you hair don't worry but your health comes first, she said no she don't need my money it's not by force that she have survived without my money.

I told her it's not about my money but just use it to take care of yourself I know its little she said no almost turn fight, guys please m I at fault here or is there something I didn't say right ,please girls too I need your response on this please.

Thank you.

Brace up for heartbreak, a bigger paying guy is on board!

guy you must be a very slow and dull person old is she why not encourage her to get a job doing and also tell her that you can not roll with somebody who earns nothing to take care of her immediate needs

I hate to advise simps just as I hate to do favors for vaginarians so I'll rather scold than advise you. Keep wasting money on your olosho girlfriend whereas your sisters and cousins are following Obi Cubana on Twitter hoping for a giveaway. I pray that I don't forget to use condom the day I'm supposed to have your type as son. Anu ohia.

Ok

It is called common sense.

you lack it in totality





wait for the redpillers.



lights my kpoli in peace

I bet if your fellow guy man requested 50% or less of that money to start a business you would feign hardship and brokeness.
No dey rate women,I see what she's trying to do here and thank god for trp lol
She's still trying to manipulate you but you wont see it,trust me she's risking that 55k to get more from you later on. If you like apply sense if you like no apply na you sabi,she would put you heart in a blender and shred it without batting an eye.

@op look in the mirror and tell Nairalanders what you see?!

Chai �

I can't tell you how to spend your money

And I don't think you need advice

That thing you're looking for , you would find it.

But please don't come here looking for who to simpathize with you.

It's well with you my broda

Some guys mumu o

To slap you dey hungry me.

Here we go again.......................................

Send her more money. Borrow from Loan sharks send her money. Be ready for premium tears.

You need to unplug bass. Runaway from oneitis. You're under that girl's control, better focus on yourself

My problem be say, people like you no de take advice. You go still shake that ur head 500 times, still do wetin u want do.
Babe way u never even marry go de manipulate u untop ur own money! 55k na small money for Nigeria? As e easy, why she no work buy am for herself?
Owner go just allow PESTS/LEECHES de make owner suspend owner sense of reasoning.

What?

You are begging a girl to waste your money?

A girl who cannot buy her own hair?

A girl who cannot pay her own bills?

A girl who has standards she cannot even afford?

WTF!

Don’t make me curse you young man. I fit swear for you.

You and the girl are both M^d! Inshort una dey cwaze!
i just hope this story is a lie!
how can sum1 be dis da.ft!
go for a lady that is not a liability una no go hear

Someone whose account is blinking red wants hair of 55k?

That was how one that her salary is #25k went to get hair of #90k and expects me the good son of a good father to pay

U simp


She emotional blackmailer & cankerworm






Useless




Both of you

That is someone's salary for a month or even less.
Why some pple dey find that amount or even less to pay bride price mk him for get rest of mind.
By the time you pple hit the labour market, nor be person go tell you.

This is what happens when an ajebutter is dating a manipulative gold digger.

Abort!!!

There are billions of women out there!

Most men have been in this situation at one point in there life.

My advice for you is to break up with that girl cos from what you wrote up there, it's clear to the blind and audible to the deaf that your girlfriend is manipulative. Leave her now while you still can cos if you marry am, I don't know what will happen ooo.

NB: EMOTIONS HAVE A WAY OF CLOUDING OUR JUDGEMENT AND SENSE OF REASONING.

@GFICECOLD, don't you think this girl is manipulating you? If dating is like this then how will the main marriage be?

The bible said it's better to live under a leaking roof than to live with a quarrelsome/hot tempered woman.

All your thread on NL is because this girl.

I no dey like read this kind news for here

E go dey make me dey vex

Op please an you help me with5k

No be force I de use

This kin stuffs dey irritate me

Just smash her head on the wall

What is Nigeria turning to? A struggling student sending his gf 55k for hair? Is something wrong with you op? If you continue like this, I wonder what will happen to you in a few years. This is very wrong. Don't allow yourself to be used just because of sex. Take back your money and let her go, you will see another girl. Trust me, she doesn't love you, if at this stage you already getting such bills. Nigeria under Bihari calls for discipline and saving something by the side to start up a small business after school. Don't be wasteful

You're doing d right thing bro..when you finally get ur salary just transfer 90% to her & don't forget to use d remaining 10% to take her out OK..you're doing WELL..

E be like say you dey fear to loose the girl abi i noh understand.
she noh fit use her own money treat herself just because of hair so definitely if you wan die sef she noh go drop money for your treatment niye... person wey una don dey date for so long.
If she leaves you, abeg who loose?
e be like say u neva chop d kpekus before bah?

Impostor:
What is Nigeria turning to? A struggling student sending his gf 55k for hair? Is something wrong with you op? If you continue like this, I wonder what will happen to you in a few years. This is very wrong. Don't allow yourself to be used just because of sex. Take back your money and let her go, you will see another girl. Trust me, she doesn't love you, if at this stage you already getting such bills. Nigeria under Bihari calls for discipline and saving something by the side to start up a small business after school. Don't be wasteful

This one na very small thing. You go see boys wey dey burst their school fees on top babe head. The population of men that hardly make use of their logical brain in their relationship with women will always outnumber the liberated men folks.

If I know this girl or have her number, I would call her to encourage her to screw you even more!
You are emotionally attached to women and you think you will make it? WONDERS!
I just want to believe that this is a fake story and that you are just catching cruise with it.

You are daft and dumb

The girl is a cunt...

Two dumbass don jam... Na matter of who dumb pass go lose

No give am shishi