Lightway:



No proof

Just lies

Herbsworks:
Ubunja once made a post about an underground club where married women go to pick guys and some guys wanted to crucify him and I’m here to tell you that it’s real. The problem with being a married woman is that she can’t just walk up to a guy and ask him for sex or give a guy green light but she can only do this by visiting male escorts. Most cheating married women get guys from popular websites like codedruns while some get hooked up by their friends.

90% of male escorts are patronized by married women cos an average single lady with tons of guys at his beck and call will never pay a guy for sex. And most often, before the wife hooks up with the guys they first exchange nudes. So if you see a chat on your wife phone exchanging nudes and she says it was just nudes don’t believe her cos it always start from there.

I had a married woman that lives in Lagos who always look for an opportunity to send me her nudes. Married women are always quicker to send nudes than single ladies cos some of them are so deprived sexually that they seek for any opportunity to get in the mood.

The male escort industry is one of the most powerful industry in the world cos a guy who f*cks a married woman well can manipulate her to poison her husband and she will likely do it.

If only married men knows the insults their wives rain on them to their sidecock

If you believe you don’t need to know who your wife is chatting with then you may soon lose her.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

luminouz:

You lost when you found her a job without her being your babe first. Who told you she would date you because she was grateful for the job,when she doesn't love you. Big difference!!
You lost when you asked her out AFTER getting her a job. She told you she is a virgin bla bla bla and without confirmation,you believed that shiit? Didn't she say she dated cute guys before?
You lost when you started putting her priorities first and not yours.
She knew she had you dead to rights and now she is slinging you along with emotional drivel. What is that stuff about church denominations? I fear girls who say that shiit. Because it shows a closed up mindset. If you are both Christians, why should denominations be an issue again? Besides, you are the man, she should attend your church when you marry,unless you don't want but the fact that she used that as a condition which you accepted, told me,she shit-tested you and you didn't pass. If she can get away with that, she will get away with other things.

Advice: For me, it's either break it or make it time. Break it by going silent and getting another girl by the side. She clearly told you you are not her spec. What else do you want to know? You even played the VN six times. Showed who is emotionally invested in the relationship.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.

I'm seeking to get married soon, so I recently got into a relationship with this lady I've been talking to last year. I helped her get a job in Lagos and she came over. Her parents paid her rent and thanked me. Since I've always wanted to date her (good girl, virgin, and beautiful) I used the opportunity to ask her out since she now has a job here in Lagos.

She accepted but have me a tough time accepting because of difference in church denomination. I had to assure her that it won't be a problem when we get married, though she had always made her stand clear since we first met.

The issue now is this - yesterday she was telling me how some guy from her hometown got her number and was trying to ask for her hand in marriage and all that. She went on to tell me how he's old and can't put his words together bla! bla! bla! I began to whyne her that she's a hot cake and everyone will always want her and I fully understand that.

After all the praises I was giving her on how people live things of value like her, she sent a VN telling me stop it that she was just telling me how late marriage affects even men too and I should stop making her the subject of the discussion, that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

I played that part like 5 times already. We are in a relationship, why would she say that. Am I not what she wants physically? I've just been asking myself since yesterday. Throughout our friendship, I've never bothered to ask her what her ideal man is but she has said how she dated cute guys previously but couldn't move further because they lacked in character. Sincerely, I'm just an average guy physically, calm, introvert and funny.

I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

Herbsworks:
During my Simping Days:

This incident made me stop chasing women and spending on them cos it made me realize that if a woman doesn’t want you all your efforts, gifts, money towards her will be taken for granted.

Some years ago I had a crush on a coursemate of mine after we had graduated. Noticed she started drawing closer to me but I wasn’t redpilled armed to know how to manage the situation so I simped. She was into modeling at that time so I took it upon myself to become her manager. I hooked her up with few modeling gigs even tho she wasn’t paid I sometimes footed her bills to attend the events. I managed her to an extent that her pictures was on some Nigerian newspapers. I did all these cos I thought doing them will buy her heart and make her love me

We became so close that we could chat and call from morning till night without being bored. She showed signs of green light but I was so foolish to think being nice to a woman will make her reciprocate my feelings towards her.

While I was doing all these I was struggling financially. I took the bull by the horn and asked her out which she rejected :- when I asked her her reason for rejecting me she said she needed someone that is a hustler and someone that can take care of her luxury desire (meaning someone that is financially capable).

As a simp I thought maybe I could stay as a friend maybe one day she would change her mind. But she never did cos I kept asking her every year for 4 years and she kept giving me the same answer. So I got angry and blocked her on all platforms. A friend of mine asked her why she rejected me cos he knows her cos we’re all course mates. Her response was that it came as a shock to her cos she has taken me as a friend and brother

Fast forward to few years later I got a job in one of the telecom companies and I noticed she started drawing closer to me. What gave me the mind to cut all ties with her then was when she posted a guy on dreadlocks and tattoos on her WhatsApp status with the writeup “MCW my padi, the only one that understands me” Hahaha. So while I was doing church boy and a good guy, she wanted a badboy with dreads and tattoos. I wasn’t surprised cos her ex was a yahoo boy in the south.

But my question was why has she started finding me attractive now that she feels I have a good job?? She was 24 then and she’s 28years now and time is no longer on her side. Now she wants to use me as her retirement plan after whoring around and giving her best years to “bad boys”. She is currently dating a guy that I’m too sure she’s the one that choose him which confirms the statement that men should allow women chose them and not the other way round. It’s really true that alpha bleeps and beta bucks.

Now I’m the one doing shakara for her. And I have noticed that whenever I reply her messages it’s as if she has found salvation ; she now calls me fine boy and Abuja big boy

I am going to share more, and how I changed from being a good boy to a redpiller after reading Ubunja posts and my sexcapade as an Abuja bachelor using he redpill

CsRockefeller:
Please I need opinions on an issue, not insults.
I'm still asking myself if I am just a stop-gap plan. Been thinking of gradually leaving the relationship. We aren't even 2 months in.

that she knows what she wants and when she sees what she wants, she will go for it.

Tonnyray:
You are not a man until you master the art and power of silence especially when dealing with women.
Same with soul piercing eye contact.

PrinxArthur1:
When a gal *my coursemate* that was doing shakara then chatted me up this night, I wish you all could feel my cold replies to her

Tonnyray:
1. There was nothing wrong in getting her a job. Don't allow anyone guilt trip you over that. Be kind and helpful to anyone and everyone you find yourself in the capacity to. It's only a problem if you only do it for people you seek pecuniary or carnal favors from.
2. Doubtless she has given you vibes you are not her ultimate desire, but then 98% of women settle with men who are not their "perfect" male. What you have penned down depicts she will bounce when a better option comes. Nothing new. Even if you date and marry the woman that chooses you, there are no guarantees she still won't find a worthier male sometime down the line and emigrate (either physically or emotionally). Don't kill yourself over this. You don't know who is presently chyking her or what her circle of friends are telling her.
3. The most important information is what you have not highlighted which is: have you controlled the narrative of this relationship dynamics so far? You're an introvert, so am I so I can readily relate with your worldview sort of. Unfortunately many of us never realize the fact that in our quietness and solitude lies a strength very few other temperaments can match.
Now understand women are naturally fickle creatures. That she doesn't feel you're the best she can get right now does not in any way invalidate you. Know this and know peace. Majority of the ones called "evening newspapers" now once had hundreds of men wooing them that they referred to as not their spec. Less than 15% of women get to marry their spec in case you don't know and majority still end up regretting even after nailing this "spec". Don't for the life of you get drawn into their web of "hypergamic" confusion.
4. Way forward: Silence.
You need to blank her. If she values anything you have she will come running. If you blank her well enough she will add pleading and begging to the mix. Of course we all know it's because she has no better alternative but again that describes the generality of women. If she does not do the above simply move on. One of the positives of this thread has been the emphasis on having an abundance mentality.
In the event she makes the effort to get back it's now time to stamp your authority on things. Do not mince words. Tell her to go find what she wants and not waste both your time. If she makes it through this (usually with begging and claiming you misunderstood what she said as they always say) then it just might be worth the shot.
But:
1. Never again lose guard.
2. Control the narrative of your relationship dynamics
3. Eternal vigilance is key.
4. No repeat mistake is tenable.
5. Never fear to walk away

One love.

Herbsworks:
Why you are happy that your “good wife” has accepted to do family planning, also be watchful cos majority of cheating wives are those on birth control cos no matter how many dicks they f*ck they can’t get pregnant

Most Married women who doesn’t care to f*ck a sidecock raw or allow him cum inside her are those on birth control.
While birth control is helping you to prevent having too many kids you can’t cater for, birth control also helps the women to f*ck around without getting pregnant. If not for DNA test some men wouldn’t have known that their wives cheated or is cheating on him

ubunja:
HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU'RE AN ALPHA?


when you don't need a relationship to get what you want from women.

Lightway:



My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend

Please sir can you explain why a girl will go back to her abusive boyfriend

Even after the new boyfriend treats her with love care and affection

Herbsworks:
Whenever I see men celebrating after so many years of “waiting on the lord” and the wife suddenly gives birth I laugh

Unfortunately, most of the kids does not belong to their husbands. On the street, some married women look for guys that looks like their husbands to cheat with or pay to impregnate them. So the child may look like you doesn’t mean it’s yours, only a DNA test can confirm.

Some married women will never allow you to f*ck them without a condom while some will even ask you to f*ck them without a condom and even cum inside of them. Some women are now engaging in anal cos their husbands will know if they their sidecock f*cks their p*ssy but unfortunately these men don’t check their wives asses. That woman that doesn’t allow you to have anal sex with her may be keeping that area for their sidecock.

Then how do you know if your wife/fiancée engages in anal sex without having it with her? Just push a finger in her ass during sex and check if it’s tight. A virgin ass is always tight while a disvirgined ass will always have a lose flesh at the top. Something like a clitoris.

The rate at which married women cheat nowadays is alarming cos most married men believe that they married the best and most loyal wife after eve

For those guys asking me to hook them up with married women sorry I don’t do that cos I don’t have married women on my contact

ubunja:
because no woman wants a tame dragon. They wanna tame the dragon themselves. She wants the abusive ex boyfriend to be sweet as you after she's done with him. You are boring cause you're already perfect.

And also women who deal with abusive men are addicted to the highs and lows of drama that release all sorts of neuro chemical reactions in their brain. They're as hooked to those emotions as a cocaine addict is hooked on his drugs. Check it out, the abusive man mistreats a woman 80% of the times which stresses her out and hurts her deeply,, but then once in a bluemoon, like, the other 20% of the time, the abusive guy is extra extra sweet. That sweetness, coming after such a long period of pain, hits like a drug and it's effect on the woman is unreal. It's a high like no other. It's especially sweet. A caring sweet guy who's nice 24/7 Cant create that reaction. Hence a girl once she dates an abusive man she goes from one abusive guy to another,, because she's chasing that chemical hit. She needs help just like a druggie to break free.