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Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Kobojunkie: 12:49pm On Oct 17, 2021
Babalola0920:

Hahaha please read what you wrote ?
If isn't correct that's pathetic
You read again the claim you made. How can I, for example, correct God, whom I respect? undecided
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by udeh3(m): 7:01am On Oct 26, 2021
Seeing people's comment make me pity for this generation and beyond, especially ladies. In recent times, violence from men in marriages have really reduced due to consistent advocacy against domestic violence in homes. For me, I condemn this act in all totality

Sometime ago, I slapped my spouse once for consistently doing what she knows was wrong having being together for sometime. I was provoked and gave her a slap. Though, I had to apologise later with all sincerity. After the incident, the next day, she apologized and vow never to repeat it. Sometimes, situations might warrant this, it might be either way. So, why arresting your husband for slapping you?

Do these days married couples even understand differences and tolerance anymore? Any marriage that has endured 10yrs and it's getting more interesting has gone through serious endurance, perseverance, patience and discipline.

Your marriage is sacred. The man was wrong, but the woman didn't do the right thing. No matter what, it was a slap. The best way to let your man understand what he has done is wrong is not by retaliating

Women are loosing tolerance and perseverance daily
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by udeh3(m): 7:37am On Oct 26, 2021
musiliyukayode:
A husband material is not suppose to be a wife batterer.The most valuable prize a man can pay on a woman is respect. You earn respect ,you dont demand for respect. How would you have reacted, Should another man slapped your wife?

This was same line my friend's fiancee quoted and that relationship ended after a year and some months. See, In a marital relationship, your husband don't solicit for respect. He doesn't need to beg for it. He deserves it by the virtue of you being his wife. Infact, you agreeing marrying him is enough reason to respect him

What men call love is obedience and respect, but most ladies lacks it.

I see many people quoting the scriptures. The scriptures said "wife honor". Infact, honor is a higher word than respect.

This is where today's problem in marriages starts from. Many women don't respect their man, married or not, they think the man should earn it. Is he your boss at work? Infact, what they try at home with their husbands can't be done in the office, simply because the boss pays them. You can earn respect from your colleagues, male or female, but you must honor your husband

If you're not ready to honor, respect and be obedient to a man, please, don't marry him
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by musiliyukayode(m): 12:22pm On Oct 27, 2021
udeh3:


This was same line my friend's fiancee quoted and that relationship ended after a year and some months. See, In a marital relationship, your husband don't solicit for respect. He doesn't need to beg for it. He deserves it by the virtue of you being his wife. Infact, you agreeing marrying him is enough reason to respect him

What men call love is obedience and respect, but most ladies lacks it.

I see many people quoting the scriptures. The scriptures said "wife honor". Infact, honor is a higher word than respect.

This is where today's problem in marriages starts from. Many women don't respect their man, married or not, they think the man should earn it. Is he your boss at work? Infact, what they try at home with their husbands can't be done in the office, simply because the boss pays them. You can earn respect from your colleagues, male or female, but you must honor your husband

If you're not ready to honor, respect and be obedient to a man, please, don't marry him
what is marriage? There is no compulsion in marriage. Marriage is a strategy, There is no guarantee for strategy to succeed.For a woman to be obedient or honour her husband does not guarantee the success that marriage. If a man see himself as the head of the family, he must equally see the wife as the neck of the family. Can a head stand without the support of the neck. What is even called a husband? The duties of a husband is to provide her wife with shelter, food and clothing which the modern day women can provides for themselves.Any man who needed respect and honour in his marriage must equally prepare to accord same to his woman. Else he should remain single for the rest of his life.
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by udeh3(m): 9:57pm On Oct 27, 2021
musiliyukayode:
what is marriage? There is no compulsion in marriage. Marriage is a strategy, There is no guarantee for strategy to succeed.For a woman to be obedient or honour her husband does not guarantee the success that marriage. If a man see himself as the head of the family, he must equally see the wife as the neck of the family. Can a head stand without the support of the neck. What is even called a husband? The duties of a husband is to provide her wife with shelter, food and clothing which the modern day women can provides for themselves.Any man who needed respect and honour in his marriage must equally prepare to accord same to his woman. Else he should remain single for the rest of his life.

I don't understand your point... Provision is related. Do you mean if the man lost his job, he losses his honor as a husband. Does honoring your man involves money?

My dear, if you must marry a man, marry a man you should honor. There's no criteria for honoring your husband. The woman honors the man while in return, the woman is loved. But what we have today is some women putting priorities on money and others, thereby disrespecting your husband.

Most men don't come home early from work. Many looks great but are battling with BP.

For any reason, you have to honor your husband. It's non negotiable
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Osiris12: 11:49pm On Dec 01, 2021
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Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:08pm On Jun 16, 2022
Verysmart101:


So how can u call the police on ur husband and still be answering his Mrs? Really!!!! No woman will ever try that shit with me and still leave in d same house with me never.Once I answer the police the marriage is over from there.

you need to think deep

How can you hit your woman and night you want to make love to her ?

Getting arrested does not strip any titles
Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Isholaws(m): 10:53pm On Jun 16, 2022
You are a stupid man you even have a gut
to come and post this rubbish she did a mistake she for arranging soldier for you
Na that time your go coret

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