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Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Ellasure: 10:04am On Oct 27, 2021
Please allow the elderly young man to have access to other people apart from your mother.

Living a life is very important to everyone and old age does not imply seclusion from other people in the neighborhood
. It is not sex that your old father is looking for but keeping company with living people. I am sure that you don't want him to die very quickly.

If I check well your mother travel a lot and most times leave the man alone. Young people need to broaden your view on life.


Life is in phases. What you do when at 29 years is definitely different from what you do at 29, 39 , 49 years of age. Therefore whenever you see someone doing something somehow please put on your thinking caps. You can not learn everything in a classroom or church sermons.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 10:59am On Oct 27, 2021
If it's this his character that will make him live longer, abeg let him be. That woman is helping in prolonging his life, your mum should concentrate on her happiness please.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Chuknovski(m): 11:01am On Oct 27, 2021
Munzy14:
The truth is most people dishing advise here, don't even know what their fathers are doing currently...grin

Bitter truth.

Nature must fill up the vacuum.
Soo true, they dont know shiii,its crazy to allow nature sometimes
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Eyinju112(f): 11:03am On Oct 27, 2021
Icouldhave:
upkeeps I send Before a week and half am starting to get calls.
i just tire
Start sending the upkeep to your mom, since dad can’t manage the home properly again, let mama give us a try
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Baselm: 11:09am On Oct 27, 2021
Please, let this man enjoy his old age. Is your mother still ready to have sex with him if he is interested?

He is just exercising his body. I don't think your mother cares about his sexual life anymore.

If you want him to stop, reduce his allowances.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by crackhaus: 11:23am On Oct 27, 2021
oluwafeolami:
Your signature caught my eye cos I use it often.

Through adversity to the stars.

You sabi
It's one of my favourite quotes of all time... cool

First encountered it written on a monument in memory of Apollo 1's journey to the moon... and from then on, it stuck.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Praktikals(m): 11:44am On Oct 27, 2021
Midas01:
You pity her future husband because she stated the fact unlike you fools that have been supporting the man and claiming he should be allowed to do what he wants when if it was a a woman doing such you'd call her olosho and claim that all her children need DNA test.
So I am now a fool for holding a view that is not same as yours, abi? To abuse your parents deh hungry me, but I will let it pass. Dont do that again
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 12:02pm On Oct 27, 2021
Munzy14:
Easier said....You will be bothered +
Easier said? You don't know me. cheesy
Yes, I will be bothered at first, then I'll slowly and gradually disconnect from such a man emotionally. And once I disconnect, there's no going back. My heart will never trust him again.

You see, the thing with unfaithful men (or emotionally manipulative people in general) is that they not only want to do what they want, they also want you to be affected by it, and that is where the power of indifference comes in to counter their intention. Very powerful weapon.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by danilmo: 12:05pm On Oct 27, 2021
Saintmary:
So, instead of condemning women to bearing the consequences of their aging, why not treat the problem by boosting their estrogen levels and helping them with osteoporosis so they can have a fulfilling life even after menopause.

Nawa for patriarchal medical practices.
Don't turn it to patrichial Medical practice as u claim. Boosting with hormones as u said predispose women to endometrial and breast cancer.

Managing menopausal syndrome entails using the lowest dose till final withdrawal of the mgt.. so it's not just advisable atall, clear it mind off patriarch bruhaha, that's nature unfavorable act to women
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 12:13pm On Oct 27, 2021
Irondome1:
Wisdom no go kill you Ada.
Who are you? cheesy
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 12:18pm On Oct 27, 2021
Munzy14:
grin grin

Agadi mege enjoy orgasm..
Agadi gwoga ofe! grin
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Saintmary(f): 12:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
danilmo:
Don't turn it to patrichial Medical practice as u claim. Boosting with hormones as u said predispose women to endometrial and breast cancer.

Managing menopausal syndrome entails using the lowest dose till final withdrawal of the mgt.. so it's not just advisable atall, clear it mind off patriarch bruhaha, that's nature unfavorable act to women
I believe nothing is impossible. I'll keep researching until I find solutions.

IVF was an impossibility many centuries ago, now everyone can access it.

It's all about mindset and the purpose of the research. That is why I mentioned patriarchy. Imagine women taking charge of a research that would help them lead better lives in old age. Definitely, they'll come up with something better.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by EjaikreTheViper(f): 12:24pm On Oct 27, 2021
Bola146:
Irresponsible old fool, carry go wink wink or na you dey chop papa grin grin
JUST AS YOUR SHAMELESS PROSTITUTE MOTHER USED TO DO.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by jennifer22(f): 12:26pm On Oct 27, 2021
tommy589:
If he enjoys the woman company he would still go. Let him enjoy the little time he has left with this known area woman or you want to push him to another that will get pregnant
Let the man enjoy some pu**y shuooo
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Munzy14(m): 12:26pm On Oct 27, 2021
mariahAngel:
Easier said? You don't know me. cheesy
Yes, I will be bothered at first, then I'll slowly and gradually disconnect from such a man emotionally. And once I disconnect, there's no going back. My heart will never trust him again.

You see, the thing with unfaithful men (or emotionally manipulative people in general) is that they not only want to do what they want, they also want you to be affected by it, that is where the power of indifference comes in. Very powerful weapon.
Heheheheheh...were ya nwaayooo...Just pray you don't meet his type...

Only a woman who has experienced what the mom is passing through ga a ghota udi ihe a..

You know football spectators sabi play the game pass the real footballer on the pitch.. cheesy

Ma chukwu ekwekwa la o, gi enweta udi di a, yes you will disconnect fine...but going down in instalments..lol..especially when u come for meeting ndi nne, i kwuo pim umu nwaanyi ibe gi agwa gi okwu...you will go home and think.. grin grin


Forget, In this life pray you settle with your own...Onye wu ya hu gi, obi na ato ya uto o..

You see these young guys that carry bible on campus, preaching from genesis to revelation, na dem dem.

You see those ones that frown at flavour, Phyno, Olamide's songs but can mime frank Edward, don moen ma chioma Jesus na dem... grin grin

You see those ones that frown when you wear make up, body hugging out fit, na dem.. cheesy

You see those ones that stay at the front seat of church, na dem... grin

Then if you see ndi association anyi, AKA ndi uwa.. grin grin na we dey make good hubby las las..lol
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Midas01: 12:30pm On Oct 27, 2021
Carry yourself and gerrout of my mention. Shey na only you get monopoly of insulting people's parents.

Don't contaminate my mentions with your low IQ.
Praktikals:
So I am now a fool for holding a view that is not same as yours, abi? To abuse your parents deh hungry me, but I will let it pass. Dont do that again
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Munzy14(m): 12:30pm On Oct 27, 2021
mariahAngel:
Agadi gwoga ofe! grin
grin grin

Many men are doing that sha...

I know one of our former female deputy governor in the last administration, na so the hubby dey jump from one charlet to another with small small babes ha na agbati ya ahu.. grin
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by zakkxx: 12:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
Young man don’t believe everything your mother told you because she want to have total control of the money you are sending! Don’t send any dime to your father through your mom!! Continue to send money to him directly!! This are some of the lies women tell to make u hate their father and like her the more!! Even if it is true, advice him and pray for him but continue to send more money to him!! If you refuse to listen you will become a dad if u are not already one and your children will do it to u and u will know how painful it is!! Please send more money to the man!! For training u? More money please!!
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mariahAngel(f): 12:57pm On Oct 27, 2021
Munzy14:
Heheheheheh...were ya nwaayooo...Just pray you don't meet his type...

Only a woman who has experienced what the mom is passing through ga a ghota udi ihe a..

You know football spectators sabi play the game pass the real footballer on the pitch.. cheesy

Ma chukwu ekwekwa la o, gi enweta udi di a, yes you will disconnect fine...but going down in instalments..lol..especially when u come for meeting ndi nne, i kwuo pim umu nwaanyi ibe gi agwa gi okwu...you will go home and think.. grin grin


Forget, In this life pray you settle with your own...Onye wu ya hu gi, obi na ato ya uto o..

You see these young guys that carry bible on campus, preaching from genesis to revelation, na dem dem.

You see those ones that frown at flavour, Phyno, Olamide's songs but can mime frank Edward, don moen ma chioma Jesus na dem... grin grin

You see those ones that frown when you wear make up, body hugging out fit, na dem.. cheesy

You see those ones that stay at the front seat of church, na dem... grin

Then if you see ndi association anyi, AKA ndi uwa.. grin grin na we dey make good hubby las las..lol
grin grin grin

Ihukwa gi ehn.... grin
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Munzy14(m): 1:04pm On Oct 27, 2021
mariahAngel:
grin grin grin

Ihukwa gi ehn.... grin
grin
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by ollins(m): 1:41pm On Oct 27, 2021
Please let the Old man enjoy himself jare,ok jokes apart,at the age your father is,he is truly blessed because these days you see some men from 40s no longer sexually, active,impotent etc and your dad is still active at 80,abeg you people should free him,he has paid his dues,he has taken care of you his kids,what else?
This is one of the reasons I tell men to save up for old age o because of situations like this,you can see the op being advised to reduce money sent to his father.
Men ,save up money for your old age so that you can flex yourself without needing to beg anyone.
The best you can do as a son is to advise him and take care of your mum.
The truth is that life is in phases,your Dad is now living a new phase,try and understand for you will get old too one day.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 27, 2021
Munzy14:
As long he is healthy and had reserve in his youthful days, erection go stand gidigba...A man is ever ready...Unless a chronic ailment takes the best part of him..

That 85year old man will comfortably fertilize a 21year old lady...
Erection on an old man?no na
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by MondayOsunbor(m): 2:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?
when you are 85 years old you have the right to misbehave and do everything you want simple
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by danilmo: 2:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
Saintmary:
I believe nothing is impossible. I'll keep researching until I find solutions.

IVF was an impossibility many centuries ago, now everyone can access it.

It's all about mindset and the purpose of the research. That is why I mentioned patriarchy. Imagine women taking charge of a research that would help them lead better lives in old age. Definitely, they'll come up with something better.
Funny, oya now. Make ur research if u want to if it worth doing, remove patriarchy headache from ur head. Then u LL think freely and productive . It's a free world though.

Oya let me help ur findings, what if u have a total hysterosaphingohorectomy , likewise the breast is removed to rule out the possibility of cancer, then u can bam ur system with regulated oestrogen shocked. Lol. Of course ur Genital will come back like the premenopausal own..

cool wink
Enjoy
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Munzy14(m): 2:59pm On Oct 27, 2021
Iyaebe:
Erection on an old man?no na
Which one is no na?

I dey tell you reality, you are saying no..smh
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by ojasweb(m): 3:09pm On Oct 27, 2021
Midas01:
You Nigerian men don't have sense at all. You pity her future husband because she stated the fact unlike you fools that have been supporting the man and claiming he should be allowed to do what he wants when if it was a a woman doing such you'd call her olosho and claim that all her children need DNA test.

Double standards and hypocrisy has really messed up your brains.
Calm down and face the reality. Men and women sexuality are not the same. There's nothing like double standard in supporting the man. A woman, if allowed to get married to two men legally, she still won't be able to have 1 biological child for each man within a year. If this doesn't mean a thing to you, then nothing else can.

Even if a woman is legally allowed to have as many men as she wants at the same time, throughout her lifetime, she won't be able to have 100 children.

A single man can have thousands of children even within a year. That is natural and the reality.

You can support women on equality but not on the level of sexuality. Both are completely different.

While most women hate sex at older age, many men start liking it more because burden of raising children and work is no longer there, and they have nothing else to worry about.

So, it is better to control your emotion while addressing issues and face the reality. The children can talk to their dad and let him see reasons why he should not do what he's doing, but not on the basis of comparison of him and the wife.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Saintmary(f): 3:11pm On Oct 27, 2021
danilmo:
Funny, oya now. Make ur research if u want to if it worth doing, remove patriarchy headache from ur head. Then u LL think freely and productive . It's a free world though.

Oya let me help ur findings, what if u have a total hysterosaphingohorectomy , likewise the breast is removed to rule out the possibility of cancer, then u can bam ur system with regulated oestrogen shocked. Lol. Of course ur Genital will come back like the premenopausal own..

cool wink
Enjoy
Yes o.
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by irunoko(m): 3:21pm On Oct 27, 2021
Bola146:
I thought you are a man? Accept the fact and stop insulting people here if you are indeed 40 old lipsrsealed lipsrsealed you have almost insulted everybody that adviced you, pages going to 10 sad sad. You just included that people should not insult you after how many comments? Nobody insulted you, you need to accept the fact because truth is always bitter grin grin? Koburu

Please don't insult me o
since he has all the answers why then is he coming to NL to receive advice from online strangers

40 years old man wey no get sense
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by irunoko(m): 3:31pm On Oct 27, 2021
ollins:
Please let the Old man enjoy himself jare,ok jokes apart,at the age your father is,he is truly blessed because these days you see some men from 40s no longer sexually, active,impotent etc and your dad is still active at 80,abeg you people should free him,he has paid his dues,he has taken care of you his kids,what else?
This is one of the reasons I tell men to save up for old age o because of situations like this,you can see the op being advised to reduce money sent to his father.
Men ,save up money for your old age so that you can flex yourself without needing to beg anyone.
The best you can do as a son is to advise him and take care of your mum.
The truth is that life is in phases,your Dad is now living a new phase,try and understand for you will get old too one day.
yes he's allowed to have fun and enjoy his life but not by bringing embarrassment to himself and children.

There are other decent ways an 85 year old Man can enjoy himself.stop encouraging rubbish
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Bola146(f): 3:37pm On Oct 27, 2021
EjaikreTheViper:
JUST AS YOUR SHAMELESS PROSTITUTE MOTHER USED TO DO.
You could identity your olosho Mama's business, na so you her daughter took it from her grin leave old papa alone wink
Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by mediclife1987(m): 4:05pm On Oct 27, 2021
GlorifiedTunde:
What did I hear you say?

A man of 85 is not supposed to have sexual urges?
Don't mind them. They've forgotten Father Abraham.

He thinks we're evening newspapers that age like milk. He doesn't know we age like fine wine. cheesy
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