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Take a deep breath, get your mind of the thought, after many hours come back and read your write up. You don't need any elderly advice or suggestions. Na just devil dey sing for inside your head to do rubbish.

funshint:
Is she still living that kind of lifestyle? Is she not fulfilling her duties to you as a wife? So why do you want to set your house and future on fire because of a past that bears no correlation with your present? We are not destined to live thesame life pattern. This "revenge" you want to take; you'll only end up hurting yourself because it has no basis. What has happened in the past belong to the past nothing can change it. Accept this and have peace!

Stay away from naija ladies, una no go hear
You never see anything... Waiting to hear how she DP(double pene...)

You're free to do all that, just leave the woman out of it. Go party and flirt with whoever you want, just don't waste her time. You don't really have a problem, na you dey find problem for yourself.


Oh, she's even your wife sef.
You're high.

LiegeMan:
thanks for the advice,
But Dad joined his ancestors when I was still in elementary school owing to diabetes, Mom single handedly trained me and my siblings through out elementary, and secondary school till the burden became much on her to carry alone, it wasn't their fault in any way.
I've not done any of what I stated.

Good that you've not done any of what you said you feel like doing because trust me, you want to head on a journey of no return.

Your wife is an innocent as anything.

Don't embark on indirect self termination. Stay faithful to your wife and family.

Mr you just want to give yourself reason(s) to live a wayward life. Congratulations you have yourself cooked and baked dumb reasons to destroy your home.

OP, I don't mean any disrespect to your personality but, trust me, you are not matured; maturity is different from age. First of all, you are about to end your marriage very soon because of some unreasonable childish acts, and if care is not taken, you may remain in and out of marriage for the rest of your life. Why? We are not born equally. The more you move in life, the more you meet people who are, were, and would be above you. If you don't want to nuture any ambition of committing suicide, accept how God made you and work harder.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

You are a sick man. And I hope she dumps your ass. Anger and vengeance over what happened before she met you? You are really sick

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

what I can say to you is the college you attended is a useless one. Now people can see reason why Rich people will never want thier daughter to marry poor niggers, just because of Op stupid mentality. Now cash is flowing, you want to revenge, I will advise your wife to just give you sniper because what awaits you is more than disaster in your new adventure. Ode

I will advise you to sto thinking backward and focus on how you can strength your relationship.and don't listen to gossip..if she is not a problem to you no y you want vex? It's not normal bro.not all that gliters is gold..may God see you through.

LiegeMan:
thanks for the advice,
But Dad joined his ancestors when I was still in elementary school owing to diabetes, Mom single handedly trained me and my siblings through out elementary, and secondary school till the burden became much on her to carry alone, it wasn't their fault in any way.
I've not done any of what I stated.

Truth is bitter

You will end up wasting your money in the name of revenge

As long as she's not living same lifestyle now that both of you are married, let the past be buried

Na gods go purnish you...your suffer never do you. Mumu. Because small money don enter your hand now you wan turn fucker. That is why is not advisable you suddenly turn a poor man into a wealthy person because the wealth go eventually kill am.

If all these stupidity you wrote are real you don't deserve any advice na proper beating and make DeM tie you for poll wire you need. Were.

That your wife had a wild past does not give you the right to go the extreme with your own life. That was her past and it is now (if I am right) her past. That she survived and made it through that wild past may not be same for you, that is if you dare to thread that path. The Bible tells us There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. Consider your path to greatness to be rough and tough and hers mild and merry. Stay put your course and allow God help you navigate to a rewarding and blessed future. Shalom

If this isn't fantasy, what can we call the above story?

Just listen to yourself, op. Her father gave her a middle income life, and somehow it's her fault that you were bricklaying? Do you have a problem with your fellow man? You are looking for revenge? On whom? Why didn't you marry a lady who was sweeping the road so that you could be at the same level in life? Did they tie you with an chain to her?

The hearts of men are desperately wicked. Fear men.

Too many embittered, damaged, broken younger men are on the loose looking for a female to blame and punish for their failures. This is the type of man that most nairaland males are.

Bro dey vex say guys too chop him wife those days.Baba,nah her pass,let it go.

The way some people think is mind blowing on it own

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

You're not serious at all... How does your wife's past affect you? Who no get past? You will only end up hurting yourself and destroying your marriage

Rubbish thread.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Rest oga. What sort of immature mentality is this one? Vengence for what? She didn't know you. E no get stupidity person no go see for this forum

Nairaland stories to move traffic. Where did you meet your wife in your poverty stricken state and she agreed to marry you. Shior

You are mad.

Was it her fault you had to struggle to survive?? Abi what kind of gibberish is this man spewing Why not enjoy the so called life you want right now with her even if.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Continue, your mates are there discovering the sea route, manufacturing computers and you are there discovering your wife's past life. I pity you

what has that got to do with her now? why didnt u ask before getting marrid

Baby Husband. You are seeking vengeance because of your wife past. Rubbish

Just see it as you not being there to guide her at that youthful stage. So it was your fault for not finding her early, for not being rich enough to go to her school lol

Thing is, wives like her might even stay faithful in marriage because they’ve experienced it all.

If she’s let go of her past, then let it go.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Why the anger? She didn't put you in that situation neither did you write to her that her future husband was suffering and she refused to help. Sorry if I sound too harsh but it's seems the suffering is yet to let go off you.
I share similar fate with you when it comes to suffering and sponsorship of ones education, I did bricklayers' work as well. Let me shock you. There was a day I was trying to remove some water from a newly built soakaway so we could put finishing touches to the soakaway, one of the guys who newly packed into the house drove in an we greeted, he saw what I was doing yet he went inside and poo then flushed the nonsense down to the soakaway. I felt bad but I didn't blame him for my situation, I only asked God to help me and he did, today the story is different.
So even if I found my wife's past to be similar to yours, I can't act the way you are acting provided she is a changed person now. Some of those things she did were out of ignorance. So, you need to let go of the past. Be matured in your handling of marriage affairs.

@LiegeMan

You just want to self destruct.

Don't do.

Like you said, you just want to damn the consequences but the consequences will damn you too.

Women may not be trusted. But don't put yourself on a pedestal that will destroy you.
The consequences will borne a bi-product.

Even while you have the money or richer now, you are never too rich to become broke.

What I have learnt in this life so far is that people will only allign your goals with theirs when is suits their egocentric desire.

Don't destroy your beautiful beginning. Ask those who have treaded this way you are planning, the psychological effects are unbearable. It always ends in premium tears. Don't eat the trap the devil set for you, even though we say we always eat or attract traps.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Oga, you realise that you are married, right?
And what you are suggesting is tantamount to destroying your marriage- right?

And you want to do it?
Take a walk and think again, this time without the emotions. It doesnt help to think straight in a cloud of emotions.

This guy needs help

BRATISLAVA:
If this isn't fantasy, what can we call the above story?

Just listen to yourself. Her father gave her a middle income life, and somehow it's her fault that you were bricklaying? Do you have a problem with your fellow man? You are looking for revenge? On whom? Why didn't you marry a lady who was sweeping the road so that you could be at the same level in life? Did they tie you with an chain to her?

The hearts of men are desperately wicked. Fear men.

Too many embittered, damaged, broken younger men are on the loose looking for a female to blame and punish for their failures. This is the type of man that most nairaland males are.

Why can't you comment without dragging men into it?If men start now,you will still be part of the people that we be saying that Nairaland guys are so toxic.

Na the mumu post be this

melodyogonna:
Rest oga. What sort of immature mentality is this one? Vengence for what? She didn't know you. E no get stupidity person no go see for this forum

Lol.

The stupidity is mind-blowing.

Dis guy has not yet recovered from poverty mentality despite having n making good money now