| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by chris51(f): 3:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
This your so called revenge is foolishness. Is it your wife's fault that you had a poor background?
Why should you want to take revenge on her because of her privileged background? I bet, you will only hurt yourself.
Both of you should try and give your offsprings what you did not have the opportunity to get when you were growing up. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by chris51(f): 3:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
chris51:
This your so called revenge is foolishness. Is it your wife's fault that you had a poor background?
Why should you want to take revenge on her because of her privileged background? I bet, you will only hurt yourself.
Both of you should try and give your offsprings what you did not have the opportunity to get when you were growing up. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by kpolli(m): 3:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Only question I have is how did you guys meet? |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by abike12(f): 3:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
avoid poor men because of things like this |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Oyiboman69: 3:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
after going through some comments on here...I really understand where you're coming from. the only problem you have is trying to weave your spouse in your situation as the cause. however, you can take a break, tell your wife that you'll be traveling to a far away place, go on,drink beer,party, bang enough pussies,met different people and come back after one or two months. don't forget that there are some generation who don't use hand set and computer which we are enjoying today cos life is not always fair . I strongly believe this will ease your anger and you'll definitely see life in different perspective...happy marriage life 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by sandra50(f): 3:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oga it's still not your wife's fault but that of your parents..a family that worked so well in life wouldn't have to worry about anything should anything happen to either of them or both..it's still your parents fault please leave the innocent woman alone because she is not the cause of your problem.why are you being so ungrateful to maker?don't you know that even the people that went through worse things in life can not still afford the things you can afford or would have preferred you suffered for the rest of your life? LiegeMan:
thanks for the advice,
But Dad joined his ancestors when I was still in elementary school owing to diabetes, Mom single handedly trained me and my siblings through out elementary, and secondary school till the burden became much on her to carry alone, it wasn't their fault in any way.
I've not done any of what I stated. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Kakamorufu(m): 3:54pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Guy, u no need am.
Let it go. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by BigBashiru: 3:59pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Oyiboman69:
after going through some comments on here...I really understand where you're coming from.
the only problem you have is trying to weave your spouse in your situation as the cause. however, you can take a break, tell your wife that you'll be traveling to a far away place, go on,drink beer,party, bang enough pussies,met different people and come back after one or two months. don't forget that there are some generation who don't use hand set and computer which we are enjoying today cos life is not always fair . I strongly believe this will ease your anger and you'll definitely see life in different perspective...happy marriage life This is good advice.... |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by bukatyne(f): 4:04pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
TOPCRUISE:
Hmm. In simple terms she bleeped and sampled a lot of dicks for fun and for money while she was on campus and later settled down with a gentle innocent man like you. You are now angry when you find out and you now want to see how she will react if you do same with women now that you have the cash @Bold: Exactly the OP's anger and not the 'he was poor/struggling while she was comfortable' meaning people are reading to it. I believe the stressing of her parent's financial background is to tell us that she had no reason to hop about. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me sincee I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You are a big fool am sure you are one of those between 1980- 1990 Una no dey get sense! Just imagine "ire/anger" "I want to have my revenge" "careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now." You don't deserve her at all |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by tctrills: 4:07pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Your point is, your wife had fun and you did not and now it's paining you. go and work on yourself. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Ernestforyou: 4:08pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You are still a baby and not yet ripe for marriage |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by bukatyne(f): 4:12pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
DissTroy:
This is complete gaslighting.
If she were open about her past while dating, maybe he wouldn't have married her.
He's giving hints you are all ignoring. She was a nightcrawler, screwing multiple guys and clubing all over. She probably even aborted.
In school I didn't go wild or did drugs or had wild parties and órgies banging RANDOM women or knock up a woman then got her to get an abortion.
I still haven't done any of these things and I'm probably one of the least religious persons on Nairaland.
Stating that, I'd consider it cheating if I find out my partner was screwing around in her past, probably abusing substances too and/or did abortions.
I've always been upfront with the females in my life over the years about these things. Some think they are smart and can hide their past but when I find out, I call it off. And you'd never know I've called it off until months later.
I'm not expecting she should be a saint but don't go banging random dudes, aborting and abusing substances then think I'd accept you because it's your past. No!
Actions have consequences and I'm not going to spend the rest of my life dealing with the consequences of your juvenile delinquency. Never. I don't care if you have been canonised now.
Let people choose who they want to be with. Very few people understand the OP. This post summarizes it. Even women who married as virgins feel more cheated when their husband cheats. You always here the 'He met me as a virgin, why did he cheat?' 'I was never a side chic, why does my husband have one?' 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by promiseland245(m): 4:13pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
What if decides to take her own vengeance on you by Suffering and going to do menial jobs, carrying blocks and suffering knowing fully well that while she was enjoying herself in the past, you were suffering. I have just one question for you, does that make sense to you? LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Raalsalghul: 4:14pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
bukatyne:
Very few people understand the OP.
This post summarizes it.
Even women who married as virgins feel more cheated when their husband cheats.
You always here the 'He met me as a virgin, why did he cheat?' 'I was never a side chic, why does my husband have one?' Bukatyne very few people oh. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by eguarojeona: 4:19pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Just be a responsible man,husband,father.And don't emperil, infect her with STI.You no too get sense sha |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by bukatyne(f): 4:21pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:
That's the funny thing, he doesn't have a past. Tragically funny. If the OP is true, he does not have a past! |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by brainycaleb(m): 4:23pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
If you want revenge, you should make sure you dig two graves, one for you and your wife. The past is filled with many things, just look to the future. And forget that childish thought of revenge out of jealousy that she use to be so young, wild and free. She's married now so ask yourself, does she still live like that!  |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by bukatyne(f): 4:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:
Bukatyne very few people oh. Or maybe they do and just want to make him feel stupid/invalidate his feelings.  |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
So here's the thing. Are you saying that if your own parents were wealthy too, you'd have lived an irresponsible lifestyle? What would you achieve if you go ahead with your plan? Let me tell you. A lifetime of regret, that's what awaits you if you tried that. You want to throw the lessons that the Universe taught you into the bin. You want to start from the scratch again, yeah? Your path in life, your destiny in this life is different from that of your wife. Use the lessons you learnt when you were hustling and seeing yourself through school as lessons for your children. Teach them what life really is like so that they won't have to pass through what you did. There's no point getting angry with your wife. You guys didn't know each other then, did you? And I want to believe that since you married her she's no longer living that kind of life. We all have our past whether you admit yours or not. You are not Mr perfect. She's now your WIFE. You must protect her and cherish her. That's the promise you made, the oath you swore. If it bothers you, sit her down and talk to her about it and how you feel. If she's a smart woman she'll make an effort to let you know she's no longer that girl. Then it's your job to forgive the past and move on. There are reasons you love her and married her. Focus on those reasons. If the worse comes to the worst, go for post-marital counseling together. All the best. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Gee64: 4:27pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Stop taking delta weed you nor hear...See how it is showing you the wrong way to go. When e clear for your eyes your wife done jakpa. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Crunchy12(m): 4:28pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
GO AHEAD OOO, YOU HEAR, YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO YOUR DOOM! You better see her for who she is today and move on with your beautiful marriage. Be wise and don't be a fool. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Ofadaman(m): 4:29pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Imagine if you got married to a rich women, would you go back those you wasted years and make money as you should have?? |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Why the hell did you get married? Wtf is wrong with you? If you wanted to catch up on the fun you've missed then you should've stayed single! Now, you want to punish an innocent woman because she was privileged and you weren't? You're such an insecure fellow. I pity the woman. She should've married her class and not a wretched fool like you. LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by membranus: 4:35pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:
Vengeance? What you describe if stewpidity instead!
If there is anyone for you to be pissed at , it should be your mother and your father who both failed to invest in your education resulting in you leading a hard life in college. Their incompetence as parents is what robbed you of all you desired.
Now, if you chose to destroy your marriage in order to fulfill those vain desires now, you will have cemented yourself a fool responsible for destruction of your future for the sake of those desires.. your wife will still have no fault in any in it. You have no right to insult his parents in a public forum. And if your own parents are that super, why are we not seeing their names in Guinness Book of Records, and Nigerians Who is Who? And the people giving like nods must be of the same hues as you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by nomoreloss03: 4:35pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Mr. Avenger, brother bitterness, you better try to be at peace with yourself. If you carry out what is in your mnd, you will live to regret it all the days of your life. My advice, be at peace with yourself. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Ketapu: 4:37pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Most men do not know the meaning of true happiness until after they get married. By then, it is too late.
I understand your pain bro.
Women peak years is between their teenage years to about 25 years. They enjoy themselves to the fullest then. Once they are done enjoying, they will look for a f0ol to turn to their husband.
Men peak years usually start around age 35. It is at this age he starts becoming successful in his career and makes a lot of money. He gets more attention from females by then since he has what females want, which is provision. Unfortunately, most guys get married before their peak years and would have settled down with one of those women that enjoyed their peak years.
Sorry again. You are one of those unfortunate guys who didn't know this fact before he got married. As my first statement said, it's too late now. She has enjoyed her life and trapped you down with marriage. 6 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by mariahAngel(f): 4:40pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by iamezekwesiri: 4:41pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Abeg shift joor...
That you didn't live the life she lived on campus was because you were not on that pedestal.
You're fortunate that she married you sef..
See yeye talk wey you carry come TL |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by EmyGod(m): 4:45pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:
Op, the mistake you made was getting married in your peak.
You should have taken like five years break once you became successful to navigate and understand the world of women: explore, travel and enjoy the good things that life has to offer.
Your wife used her peak to live the life of the party: socializing, having fun at parties and careless sex (who knows), going on dates .
In your case, you spent the majority of your youth toiling to develop yourself due to your humble background, you've attained relative success (your own peak); it only makes sense you have your own fun too instead you're now weighed down by marriage responsibilities and feeling cheated.
You should have thought about this before saying your wedding vows.
One more thing, if your wife is the supportive type given her family background, then drop this anger and see how you can make it work. You're in, you're in.
The Op did not know that if he had lived the life he desired whether he will be alive today or later make it in life with his current stage. People don't know what they gain until they understand where they would have being without hardwork. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Kobojunkie: 4:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
membranus:
You have no right to insult his parents in a public forum.
And if your own parents are that super, why are we not seeing their names in Guinness Book of Records, and Nigerians Who is Who?
And the people giving like nods must be of the same hues as you. Insult his parents? I didn't insult them but told the the truth of his situation to him. It so a parent's responsibility to provide for a ward. When that responsibility is not met, it is failure on the part of the parent. Denying it will not change the fact of it. Having super parents does not mean one ends up in Guinness book of records or any of that nonsense. It simply means one's needs are met, this while one is still under the care of one's parents. Rather than take your frustrations out on others, take time to ponder these things so you can truly understand what it means to be a parent to a child. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Hardey10(m): 4:52pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
You don't need to do that
We don't choose the life we want , life chose our paths for us and either good or bad, it's our respective decisions to either better it or remain there.
Just be thankful bro, I am sure u cam boost call yourself self made and proud of how far you have come. Personally, I think it conclusion is a terrible one. It's not enough to make u go into such life
Men, we always want to know our partners past (I can take it no matter what?, What happens after is anyone's guess. Don't feel inferior sir or is she acting like shes better? |
