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My fiancée is demanding me to gift her an iPhone on her birthday. However, I can't afford it. Should I take a personal loan?
There is a famous dialogue in When Harry Met Sally

‘I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship.’

‘Why?’

‘Because eventually things move on and you don't take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me "How come you never take me to the airport anymore?”’

The things you do just when you are getting into a relationship with someone creates your personality and profile in their mind.

You would be under immense pressure to maintain it.

So if you take a personal loan and buy iPhone now, in the next few years, you would have to figure out how to arrange money to buy her Macbook Air or Airpods or take her to an expensive date.

Instead, if you open up and tell her exactly you feel, it will set the right expectation about you.

She can then decide if she wants to be with you or not. Either way, the issue would be sorted once and for all. You will not have to bear any financial or emotional burdens, fears or silent frustrations all your life.

Just quit the relationship.

Thank God say God wey create heaven and earth kukuma know say I no go fit tolerate all these kind women for one day self

How much dem sell land for warri wey one useless bingo go tay dey bill me for iphone?

Well,op, e be like say you don already show yourself to her say you get money, that's why she wor massacre you with this kind expensive billing

Mr. Man,you better man up and tell her your fvcking mind now

And this is a real story or fake

Another SIMP in action

What's so hard to say I can't afford an iphone..

Biko don't be SIMPing

You could SIMPly go to apple headquarters slap d CEO for face nd collect as many iPhones u want for ur girlfriend

Olam09:
My fiancée is demanding me to gift her an iPhone on her birthday. However, I can't afford it. Should I take a personal loan?
There is a famous dialogue in When Harry Met Sally

‘I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship.’

‘Why?’

‘Because eventually things move on and you don't take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me "How come you never take me to the airport anymore?”’

The things you do just when you are getting into a relationship with someone creates your personality and profile in their mind.

You would be under immense pressure to maintain it.

So if you take a personal loan and buy iPhone now, in the next few years, you would have to figure out how to arrange money to buy her Macbook Air or Airpods or take her to an expensive date.

Instead, if you open up and tell her exactly you feel, it will set the right expectation about you.

She can then decide if she wants to be with you or not. Either way, the issue would be sorted once and for all. You will not have to bear any financial or emotional burdens, fears or silent frustrations all your life.

I just bleeped a girl today that mocked her boyfriend's stupidly about this kind of story. I just hope it's your girlfriend cus I'll still Bleep her tommorow and I'll revenge her wickedness with my merciless prick on your behalf.

Crowwe:
I just bleeped a girl today that mocked her boyfriend's stupidly about this kind of story. I just hope it's your girlfriend cus I'll still Bleep her tommorow and I'll revenge her wickedness with my merciless prick on your behalf.

i thought youre a girl

Birthday gifts are not to be demanded, you give wholeheartedly like a surprise...

Crowwe:
I just bleeped a girl today that mocked her boyfriend's stupidly about this kind of story. I just hope it's your girlfriend cus I'll still Bleep her tommorow and I'll revenge her wickedness with my merciless prick on your behalf.

Good one my nigga

Loan for phone?

Not even personal phone self? Na which phone your mum dey use wey u wan take loan buy iphone for a lady?

Are you sure everything is alright with you?

Vanilla4:
Birthday gifts are not to be demanded, you give wholeheartedly like a surprise...

Which is why I want to give you my dick wholeheartedly as a surprise. Drop more of your pictures so I'll make considerations on knaking you.

Crowwe:
Which is why I want to give you my dick wholeheartedly as a surprise. Drop more of your pictures so I'll make considerations on knaking you.

What do you mean? You guys/girls post funny stuff.

You can sell your phone plus TV and mattress if you have any to buy it for her rubbish.

Vanilla4:
What do you mean? You guys/girls post funny stuff.

That's because I know you're a guy with big hairballs.

Crowwe:
That's because I know you're a guy with big hairballs.

Okay, whatever that is.

Demand for what? Nawa oooo and you sef want to take a loan to buy iPhone for her. Sense is far away from both of u, especially you.

Vanilla4:
What do you mean? You guys/girls post funny stuff.

Common shut up and let him knack your brain out

Venom442:
Common shut up and let him knack your brain out

The person you quoted is male.

Seriously men are dumb. You can't tell me otherwise.

It appears you’ve answered your question buy yourself. Mods please THREAD CLOSED

@ Op if you take a loan to get her an iPhone as demanded for a birthday gift to please her, you will keep taking loans to see her happy. Op I’m a female, I use to tell ladies to ask men for what they can afford and not what they can’t afford. I’m not in support of you taking a loan to Please a lady who will still cheat on you tomorrow. Be wise. If she wants an iPhone let her work for it and not put unnecessary pressure on you. Instead, think of a profitable business worth taking a loan for.
Be Wise Man!!!!!

Olam09:
My fiancée is demanding me to gift her an iPhone on her birthday. However, I can't afford it. Should I take a personal loan?
There is a famous dialogue in When Harry Met Sally

‘I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship.’

‘Why?’

‘Because eventually things move on and you don't take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me "How come you never take me to the airport anymore?”’

The things you do just when you are getting into a relationship with someone creates your personality and profile in their mind.

You would be under immense pressure to maintain it.

So if you take a personal loan and buy iPhone now, in the next few years, you would have to figure out how to arrange money to buy her Macbook Air or Airpods or take her to an expensive date.

Instead, if you open up and tell her exactly you feel, it will set the right expectation about you.

She can then decide if she wants to be with you or not. Either way, the issue would be sorted once and for all. You will not have to bear any financial or emotional burdens, fears or silent frustrations all your life.