budaatum:
Immature people jumping into marriage!

Know that the money you pay feeds your child, and wherever it is it must eat.

pappy2000:
i have told her that i am no longer paying child support until she takes the child back to abuja but she insisted i must continue to pay and she wont take the child back, later her mom called me and pleaded the matter should be settled which i said no , now she took me to human right this lagos state public defender and the lawyers there said they will charge me to court for domestic violence which was a trumped up charges and she is still using the pix in which her ex battered her as evidence. now i have two options its either i crazed in for her desire to be collecting 20k monthly from me which i signed or they said they will take me to court which means iif i get convicted i will loose my job i work in the coporate world. i am so sad i met her , ts sucidal , Iintend to remarry next year , but hey what do i do , .

Nonexisting1:
Brother, go backwards into her life to deal with the evil daughter of Jezebel. Look for that her exboyfriend and look for her old friends too especially the ones she had issues with. Since she wants to fight dirty, there must something you can get on her as well. Instead of paying her 20k monthly, spend on a private investigator to get a dirt on her and square things up. Men should stop going after vaginarians who were previously bullied by their exboyfriends. Most victims of domestic abuse are abusers themselves too.

pappy2000:

i am 42 i believe i am older than u thanks for the comment anyway, she beats me in that game

pappy2000:
Please i will be very fast there is this evil lady that i got married to something in 2019 the marriage didnt last more than 4 months down the line we separated went our different ways and she insisit i should pay for child support which i started giving from september 2020, she had the baby in april 2020 travelled to her sister in abuja after the divorce but her family was expecting me to come and beg them whiich i refused so out of shame they said she should move on which i am also not interested in taking her back to cut the long story short when we were together then she showed me a pix of her ex battered her to tell the truth we have also had fight too now i have told her that i am no longer paying child support until she takes the child back to abuja but she insisted i must continue to pay and she wont take the child back, later her mom called me and pleaded the matter should be settled which i said no , now she took me to human right this lagos state public defender and the lawyers there said they will charge me to court for domestic violence which was a trumped up charges and she is still using the pix in which her ex battered her as evidence. now i have two options its either i crazed in for her desire to be collecting 20k monthly from me which i signed or they said they will take me to court which means iif i get convicted i will loose my job i work in the coporate world. i am so sad i met her , ts sucidal , Iintend to remarry next year , but hey what do i do , .

pappy2000:

i am 42 i believe i am older than u thanks for the comment anyway, she beats me in that game

Nonexisting1:
Brother, go backwards into her life to deal with the evil daughter of Jezebel. Look for that her exboyfriend and look for her old friends too especially the ones she had issues with. Since she wants to fight dirty, there must something you can get on her as well. Instead of paying her 20k monthly, spend on a private investigator to get a dirt on her and square things up. Men should stop going after vaginarians who were previously bullied by their exboyfriends. Most victims of domestic abuse are abusers themselves too.

pappy2000:

i am 42 i believe i am older than u thanks for the comment anyway, she beats me in that game

Creativeace:
Request costody of the child, how old is he again ?

Your ex wife knows how to pull strings, you should beat her at that game !

Even if it takes giving into the court's demands for the mean time, you have much too lose and she has nothing to lose, which is exactly why she has got you in a tight spot

You've got no fault,
She was once your sweetheart, so she knows which buttons to press.

If you're smart enough, you can beat her at her own game, if they aint giving you custody, you can start paying the support till you figure out what to do, and that my friend is your descision alone !

Nonexisting1:
Brother, go backwards into her life to deal with the evil daughter of Jezebel. Look for that her exboyfriend and look for her old friends too especially the ones she had issues with. Since she wants to fight dirty, there must something you can get on her as well. Instead of paying her 20k monthly, spend on a private investigator to get a dirt on her and square things up. Men should stop going after vaginarians who were previously bullied by their exboyfriends. Most victims of domestic abuse are abusers themselves too.