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NohurryInLife:
Bro, I know as you dey feel, but the truthful truth be say, that babe get wetin she dey hide or better still "her face still dey outside & she never know wetin she want". If I may ask bro, how old she be ??

Na that beauty be her problem. You know say plenty guys go dey disturb her now, so for her mind, she be real MVP & she fit dey play all of una together.

Bro, try dey komot her matter from your mind small small. I know say e no easy though, but wetin you wan follow God and fate drag ??

She's 26 years old

You begged her? She’s using you as a side nigga and you’re begging her?

Guy you should value yourself some more. If you mend things with her she will have conditioned you into accepting rubbish. Next time she’ll fvck another nigga and tell you (like that babe on Twitter) that at least she was screaming your name.

Endsars007:
She's 26 years old

Chai!!
But bro, abeg no dey beg 4 love I take God beg you. The best na make your woman love & want you pass as you love & want her. I no say make you no love her ooo, but na she suppose love you pass. Shey you get ??

2special:
wrong advice, absolute wrong counsel, if the O.P treasure his peace and sanity kindly ignore this advice

You are not the Op
Who do you think wants to be suffering or labouring alone

Endsars007:
Though I respect the person that introduced her to me but don't like the country where she studied, I intentionally left that part so you won't have bad impression about her because of the honest advice I want from you guys.

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My dear, just follow your heart, because you are the one that understands the feelings

When a woman is ready for marriage a man will know through her attitude

KiNg0G:
God please don't let my male offsprings to be a weakling like this op.

AMEN......................... x100

She suggested the breakup and moved on faster without any emotional attachment and your here crying like a baby

If you marry her and your marriage last pass 2 years make I bend

She will still suggest divorce and move on

22o62021:
She suggested the breakup and moved on faster without any emotional attachment and your here crying like a baby

If you marry her and your marriage last pass 2 years make I bend

She will still suggest divorce and move on

Hmmmmmm

Endsars007:
Thanks, but it's not easy

u have no choice than to move on, if u press 2 hard she will take u 4 a fool

Jmarjr:
u have no choice than to move on, if u press 2 hard she will take u 4 a fool

Thanks, I just penned a page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.

Thanks for everybody that contributed, I really appreciate.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

Guy abeg don't be this above^^

Endsars007:
Thanks, I just penned a page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.
Thanks for everybody that contributed, I really appreciate.

uwlc

Endsars007:
That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.

The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.

This is where she had you lol. You didn't see her and you went looking for her? Lmao. She knows she's got you hooked and will manipulate the hell out of you. Look at you searching for what was never yours. She's even kind, she for use your head play ball. Be like you never know girls.

NohurryInLife:
Bro, I know as you dey feel, but the truthful truth be say, that babe get wetin she dey hide or better still "her face still dey outside & she never know wetin she want". If I may ask bro, how old she be ??

Na that beauty be her problem. You know say plenty guys go dey disturb her now, so for her mind, she be real MVP & she fit dey play all of una together.

Bro, try dey komot her matter from your mind small small. I know say e no easy though, but wetin you wan follow God and fate drag ??

Real advice.

I would suggest the bros gets numerous ladies to dot over, not necessarily date them all but keep them close so when one is playing funny, he moves to another and another and another.

This is the game women play, two can play they say.

NohurryInLife:
Chai!!
But bro, abeg no dey beg 4 love I take God beg you. The best na make your woman love & want you pass as you love & want her. I no say make you no love her ooo, but na she suppose love you pass. Shey you get ??

I swear down, I dey gbadun you gan ni.

Begging for love is a no no, not just for men but also for women. It's better to be to be single than beg for love from anyone.

Just ask for the love, if them give am, follow along. If them no give the love, meet another person.

Unless you are extremely ugly and miserable, you should never ever beg for love. Not even from friends or families.

AfroKnight:

You begged her? She’s using you as a side nigga and you’re begging her?

Guy you should value yourself some more. If you mend things with her she will have conditioned you into accepting rubbish. Next time she’ll fvck another nigga and tell you (like that babe on Twitter) that at least she was screaming your name.

I don't know why the thing dey pain me sha.

Na people like OP Dey make small small girls do shakara.

Tomorrow, the girl will show any guy that shows interest in her that their is a rich 32 year old man begging her for love.

Chai!

Karleb:
I don't know why the thing dey pain me sha.

Na people like OP Dey make small small girls do shakara.

Tomorrow, the girl will show any guy that shows interest in her that their is a rich 32 year old man begging her for love.

Chai!

Honestly OP fvcked up big time. Guys should stop treating these women like they are perfect angels or something. They can disappoint you at any time.

Op you begged a liability?

Sometimes women think They re doing men a favour by just talking to them ,some are so full of themselves they b acting like d only woman in the world .

My advice is dump her and move on ,don't be under pressure to settle down and even if people are putting u under pressure understand that's when d marriage starts having faults these people won't b there so be wise in your dealings, don't let anybody rush you.

And one thing I know very well about love is that you can't find it ,it finds you ,so Don't chase women for marriages just go with the flow and trust me you would know d one for you when she comes .for now continue to build your business and also work on ur growth as an individual .GL

Karleb:
I swear down, I dey gbadun you gan ni.

Begging for love is a no no, not just for men but also for women. It's better to be to be single than beg for love from anyone.

Just ask for the love, if them give am, follow along. If them no give the love, meet another person.

Unless you are extremely ugly and miserable, you should never ever beg for love. Not even from friends or families.

Ugly ke, me that several people has complimented to be handsome... Even the first time I was going to see her at the hospital, immediately I stepped out, I was complimented by one okada man.

MikeofKd:
Sometimes women think They re doing men a favour by just talking to them ,some are so full of themselves they b acting like d only woman in the world .

My advice is dump her and move on ,don't be under pressure to settle down and even if people are putting u under pressure understand that's when d marriage starts having faults these people won't b there so be wise in your dealings, don't let anybody rush you.

And one thing I know very well about love is that you can't find it ,it finds you ,so Don't chase women for marriages just go with the flow and trust me you would know d one for you when she comes .for now continue to build your business and also work on ur growth as an individual .GL

Thanks

From what I just read, I cannot say that you have any anger issues or bad attitude. She was not sincere with you from the beginning of your relationship with her. She must have been double dating and I am sure she met that other guy before you. The signs were all there to show you that she was not really interested in the relationship. She was just pretending so as to get things from you which I believed she succeeded in getting. How can a lady who claims she loves you and wants to spend time with you as you if you are to end your relationship with her? You do not need to bother yourself much over this as I can comfortably say that she has moved on. You on your own have to also move on with your life, forgetting about her. She was looking for an excuse to end the relationship and she hinged it on bad attitude and anger issues. Does she even know what anger issues mean?

There's competition going on in her life, let her be than getting married and spending the rest of your marriage begging her to love you.

Clinghton:
There's competition going on in her life, let her be than getting married and spending the rest of your marriage begging her to love you.

I align with your submission

boxer022:
From what I just read, I cannot say that you have any anger issues or bad attitude. She was not sincere with you from the beginning of your relationship with her. She must have been double dating and I am sure she met that other guy before you. The signs were all there to show you that she was not really interested in the relationship. She was just pretending so as to get things from you which I believed she succeeded in getting. How can a lady who claims she loves you and wants to spend time with you as you if you are to end your relationship with her? You do not need to bother yourself much over this as I can comfortably say that she has moved on. You on your own have to also move on with your life, forgetting about her. She was looking for an excuse to end the relationship and she hinged it on bad attitude and anger issues. Does she even know what anger issues mean?

I don't think she knows what anger issues mean... I never once shouted at her nor beat her... All what I did was to care for her.

Mistake No1 is you begging her.
Mistake No2 is you asking her frnd to call her
Mistake No3 is you involving her Anty
If i was you i will pretend like nothing happen and ignore her for days trust me she will have call you. You have already messed up the whole process.

Endsars007:
There is this lady I met about two months ago, she doesn't live in the state I resides but her grandma is from my town. She was introduced to me by her aunt. I am very close with the aunt but more closer with the aunt's mother. We got along very fast through WhatsApp call because there is no dull moment between us.

I have gone to visit her in her aunt's place and she has come to see me and stayed for some days where I live. She was accepted by everybody close to me, in fact she was given money by everyone of them.

I'm a professional, age 32, within two years I started on my own, I have my own car, and a house but remaining finishing touches. A lot of people have been disturbing me to settle down, which I seriously want to settle but things are not just working out.

Being boss of my own I decided to travel two weeks ago to see my lady with the hope of knowing her better, we agreed to stay in my friend's house. She studied abroad and she's currently doing her IT. She normally stays with her friend from Monday till Wednesday or Thursday depending on her schedule and she will go back to her aunt. When I told her I will be coming over to spend two weeks with her, she was very happy, and also worried because I will be leaving my work.

We both agreed that the first week, her aunt won't know, and the second week, we shall inform her aunt about my presence because I will be attending a wedding of my friend in that state and she will follow me.

We both enjoyed each other presence, but one thing I have observed about her even before I left my town, there might be sometime like 2 hours, she could be incommunicado, if I asked her, she will give one excuse or the other.

When we started our relationship, I had asked her whether she's in any relationship, she said no but some guys are disturbing her which she has said she cannot date them.

I observed something about her while we were together, she normally delete all her chats with people, she deleted all the pictures we snapped together, we both saved our numbers with lovely names, she will change mine anytime she leaves my presence, I noticed that about three times before confronting her. She apologized and I told her to use my name if she's not comfortable with it again but will also change her number to her name since she's the person that suggested we save each other's name with lovely names. She said she will use the lovely name.

Just last week, we were together, when a number called her different from the people she has been saying have been disturbing her, that number has called her once while she was beside me, she didn't pick the number then. Immediately I saw the name, I told her to pick the phone and put it on speaker, she picked and told the person she will call back later. Immediately, I showed facial anger, immediately she said should we end the relationship and I said if she likes. She left my friend's place. Note she normally pick people's calls and put it on speaker particularly those who are disturbing her.

That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.

The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.

I narrated the incident to some of my friends, they advice I see her the following day before leaving for the wedding, I got to her work place, I was told she's not on duty. I made effort to located where she stays because I have not gone there before. I was lucky to get there but was told by her friend that she left the house than usual. Her friend called because she wasn't picking my calls. She lambasted me on phone. Later that night I called the friend who told me she didn't come home that night.

I was forced to inform the aunt about the misunderstanding who doesn't want to inter fare in the matter.

I later begged her, she said it's over between us that she cannot live with someone that have bad attitude or anger issues.

My question have I really shown any bad attitude or anger issue?

I don't why I am reading this and getting angry with you at the Same time�. Isn't it obvious she has someone if not people she is dating ? Please don't stress yourself pleading when she totally at fault. I would advice you to leave this girl because a girl who wants you will do anything to make u feel okay. She went to see another man while u r busy looking for her. Please stop acting like a Simp that will give more reasons to joke with ur feelings.

Endsars007:
Thanks, I just penned a page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.

Thanks for everybody that contributed, I really appreciate.

I swear to God you they vex me. Which kind man you be the massage wasn't necessary. You no even shame talk am say you page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.

Endsars007:
I don't think she knows what anger issues mean... I never once shouted at her nor beat her... All what I did was to care for her.

As I said she was not sincere with the relationship. She was just looking for a way to quit and blamed it on anger issues and bad attitude.

johnsmhelia15:
I swear to God you they vex me. Which kind man you be the massage wasn't necessary. You no even shame talk am say you page farewell message to her on WhatsApp.

I'm very sure the girl won't read it.

Endsars007:
There is this lady I met about two months ago, she doesn't live in the state I resides but her grandma is from my town. She was introduced to me by her aunt. I am very close with the aunt but more closer with the aunt's mother. We got along very fast through WhatsApp call because there is no dull moment between us.

I have gone to visit her in her aunt's place and she has come to see me and stayed for some days where I live. She was accepted by everybody close to me, in fact she was given money by everyone of them.

I'm a professional, age 32, within two years I started on my own, I have my own car, and a house but remaining finishing touches. A lot of people have been disturbing me to settle down, which I seriously want to settle but things are not just working out.

Being boss of my own I decided to travel two weeks ago to see my lady with the hope of knowing her better, we agreed to stay in my friend's house. She studied abroad and she's currently doing her IT. She normally stays with her friend from Monday till Wednesday or Thursday depending on her schedule and she will go back to her aunt. When I told her I will be coming over to spend two weeks with her, she was very happy, and also worried because I will be leaving my work.

We both agreed that the first week, her aunt won't know, and the second week, we shall inform her aunt about my presence because I will be attending a wedding of my friend in that state and she will follow me.

We both enjoyed each other presence, but one thing I have observed about her even before I left my town, there might be sometime like 2 hours, she could be incommunicado, if I asked her, she will give one excuse or the other.

When we started our relationship, I had asked her whether she's in any relationship, she said no but some guys are disturbing her which she has said she cannot date them.

I observed something about her while we were together, she normally delete all her chats with people, she deleted all the pictures we snapped together, we both saved our numbers with lovely names, she will change mine anytime she leaves my presence, I noticed that about three times before confronting her. She apologized and I told her to use my name if she's not comfortable with it again but will also change her number to her name since she's the person that suggested we save each other's name with lovely names. She said she will use the lovely name.

Just last week, we were together, when a number called her different from the people she has been saying have been disturbing her, that number has called her once while she was beside me, she didn't pick the number then. Immediately I saw the name, I told her to pick the phone and put it on speaker, she picked and told the person she will call back later. Immediately, I showed facial anger, immediately she said should we end the relationship and I said if she likes. She left my friend's place. Note she normally pick people's calls and put it on speaker particularly those who are disturbing her.

That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.

The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.

I narrated the incident to some of my friends, they advice I see her the following day before leaving for the wedding, I got to her work place, I was told she's not on duty. I made effort to located where she stays because I have not gone there before. I was lucky to get there but was told by her friend that she left the house than usual. Her friend called because she wasn't picking my calls. She lambasted me on phone. Later that night I called the friend who told me she didn't come home that night.

I was forced to inform the aunt about the misunderstanding who doesn't want to inter fare in the matter.

I later begged her, she said it's over between us that she cannot live with someone that have bad attitude or anger issues.

My question have I really shown any bad attitude or anger issue?

As hurt as you might feel, just forget about her and move on.