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Skepticus:
I feel you.

I understand the part of you not putting much focus on you looks. Many men function well in society without seeking other people's validation. You don't have to be flashy. However, do try to groom yourself well, even, if you don't care about people accepting you. Here is why: Grooming yourself well without being flashy means that you are in have your life intact and care about your body. Also, people tend to treat you well and do you favours, when they see you well-groomed even when you care less about what they think of you.

Regardless, make sure your aim is for the bag and make sure they are invested enough to secure your future (married or not) and improve your health, so you can live long enough to enjoy the fruit of your labour.

You’re right.

Carchoice:
Most men are after free/cheap sex, sex that whenever they have an erection, the lady is readily available to do the job. They don’t know this is the most deceptive trick ever.

Here’s how it works;

At first you are happy the sex is cheap and ready whenever you want it. Your brain automatically starts using this particular lady or ladies to fill the gaps.. When you try another lady and She turns you down, you bother less because there’s a cheap one already filling the void. When you get high on substance and ring another lady, if She disappoints you, you bother less because there’s a cheap lady ready to do the job that same day or as early as the next day. No stress. No demands. It’s poison.


Free/cheap sex are always the best because you can fvck them for hours and they are never tired, they are ready to satisfy you, you can turn them 180 to 360 degrees they won’t complain. They are always dripping wet, they moan louder to massage your ego. Over time you stop using protection because you start to feel you own it (SOME GUYS ARE VERY GUILTY OF THIS). Some men don’t know when to withdraw after 2 to 3 sex meeting with the lady. They move to the 2nd stage of their fall.


Overtime, the free/cheap sex starts to become scarce. Why? Some woke ladies know the game they are playing while some are just fed up of the whole “free” thing. When it becomes scarce with different excuses as to why they can’t turn up as usual. Your ego becomes bruised. This is the second stage of the fall. The men unconsciously starts doing the chasing. You become more hornier with an intense chase. Common sense will not tell some men to back down. it was free initially, why is it becoming tough all of a sudden? They want to know why, then the free/cheap sex starts making demands directly and indirectly.

“When I come today, you will not touch me”

You will answer affirmative just to make her come, in your small mind you’ll think when She comes, you’ll have your way as usual. You are actually going deeper. While some agrees not to touch her, this is the trickiest part, because when She comes and you really don’t touch her for sex, this creates more room for chit-chat and bonding that was never in the sexlationship. She starts moulding you to her taste and preference. “Is it every time we will be having sex” becomes her new slogan. She starts fixing a date to visit you, making demands directly. And the idea of it being free from the beginning keeps deceiving you into thinking it is all an act from her which you can easily correct.


It is at this stage some woke ladies will now give conditions of “relationship or no more sex”. While some foolish men starts getting jealous because they think that thing they were getting free, another guy is probably now taking charge. EGO bruise.


The next stage is where some men do get lost, they start agreeing to some if not all of her demands, start acting caring and paying attention to the lady, treat her right, when She comes they won’t won’t touch her, they starts discussing more often, subbing stories starts pouring in to get the emotional side of the weaker men. from here some men will say “she’s a very nice and hard working lady, I should ask her to be my girlfriend”


Now the chase is now in your court. Something you were getting for free that was massaging your ego, that you used to boast to your guys when they see the lady leaving your apartment and sometimes they hear how she was screaming and moaning, now have a mind of it’s own but common sense will not let you reason clearly because of Konji.


My Redpill brothers, I can confidently tell you that a greater percentage of men in a relationship and those getting married started it this way. I was a victim of this, I lost to 4 ladies, one in 2017, one in 2018 and two in 2019 and 2020. My saving grace was at the last stage, they start asking and making demands.


The last lady in 2020, She came to my house, we were both naked and She was on top of me for close to 30 min, teasing her Vee with my Pee, She would use her Vee to kiss my Pee for me to feel the wetness. She had done this same thing 2x prior that day. I tried severally to position her well and slide in but She wouldn’t let me, She would raise her self up instead. I saw my sorry self begging her to let me in. She was laughing and said “Konji go kill you today”. Then She said “******, if we are going to start dating after, I will put it in”


I told her to get off me, She was still teasing, I gently pushed her aside and told her I don’t agree to manipulations because of sex. Immediately the table turned, She said I had been using her for free sex all along. That was the end of it.


Moral of the post, don’t think a lady is giving you free sex, that’s where it ends. If you don’t use your sense, there are so many ways for her to trap you. She can even go as far as getting pregnant and turn a wife or you even make her the wife while the reality is, you were manipulated into it with free sex.


Mind you, cheap or costly, they are the same but I’m just removing the veil beneath what most men don’t know about free/cheap sex. A free/cheap sex always comes with ease, calmness and peace of mind but it is the worse. If you think the redpill will get you free/cheap sex, be prepared because this is where the real test is.

Wow this is crazy bro. Nice analysis.

It's crazy how red pillars are always broke ass hungry men. Fools go secure the bag and stop fooling yourselves

My son God bless you. Where this money came from it would keep multiplying. Carries more weight physical and spiritually than aww baby thanks. Do things for your parents. E get why.

Qasak:
My son God bless you. Where this money came from it would keep multiplying. Carries more weight physical and spiritually than aww baby thanks. Do things for your parents. E get why.

Some of them no dey even see "thanks" collect

Kholiwe:
It's crazy how red pillars are always broke ass hungry men. Fools go secure the bag and stop fooling yourselves

Vagina is that you?

PUSSYHOE:
Vagina is that you?

Go and ask your mother.

Kholiwe:
Go and ask your mother.

Vagina will be vagina instead to insult me she attack her own gender. Woman na devil, devil na woman.

PUSSYHOE:
[s] Vagina will be vagina instead to insult me she attack her own gender. Woman na devil, devil na woman [/s].

Have you asked you mother?

Kholiwe:
Have you asked you mother?

Get behind me vagina!!!!!

PUSSYHOE:
Get behind me vagina!!!!!

Go and tell that to your mother.

Kholiwe:
Go and tell that to your mother.

Toto i go slap you o

PUSSYHOE:
Toto i go slap you o

Is that how you slap your mother?

Kholiwe:
Is that how you slap your mother?

Toto you dey craze?

PUSSYHOE:
Toto you dey craze?

Ask your mother

Pussyhoe, why can't you just abide by the simplest rule here? How many times should it be stated that no quoting of trolls and f monikers

PUSSYHOE:
Toto you dey craze?

We don't mention or respond to females on this thread. We simply ignore them. That's a cardinal rule here.

Emmynator:
Some of them no dey even see "thanks" collect

I Dey tell you broda

This truth was revealed by a lady

#StayRedpilled

fattprince:
Many things. Whatever you do, do it for your own gain. You can agree even though you don't find her attractive but you can have sex with her. Nope don't agree, just say you've heard her and she should give you time. But between that period suggest sex with her, she will agree thinking that will make you date her. When you don't want sex anymore ghost her or better still break up with her with "you are not the problem, it's me I don't deserve you" And if you don't want sex with her tell her you are sorry but you have someone you dating already and you aren't interested.

hehehe...

What you do depends on your personality...


She's easy meat...


You can either take advantage and use her to settle your sexual needs...


Or



You can simply just ignore her....both calls and messages etc...


Trust me... She already knows she's ugly there's no need to shatter her self esteem more by rejecting her outrightly..


Remember don't be chosen... Always choose


Does she look like she can add anything else to your life?


Alot of women have connections..


And some doors will be opened for you because a woman vouched for you....


Use their connections oo...


You don't have to sleep with or date every woman you come across...


Just keep them interested enough long enough for you to sap what you need from them...

As long as you are stingy with your resources when you with her, you'll be fine...


Look at the bigger picture

Jessepaid:
hehehe...

What you do depends on your personality...


She's easy meat...


You can either take advantage and use her to settle your sexual needs...


Or



You can simply just ignore her....both calls and messages etc...


Trust me... She already knows she's ugly there's no need to shatter her self esteem more by rejecting her outrightly..


Remember don't be chosen... Always choose


Does she look like she can add anything else to your life?


Alot of women have connections..


And some doors will be opened for you because a woman vouched for you....


Use their connections oo...


You don't have to sleep with or date every woman you come across...


Just keep them interested enough long enough for you to sap what you need from them...

As long as you are stingy with your resources when you with her, you'll be fine...


Look at the bigger picture

betterstyle

Jessepaid:
hehehe...
What you do depends on your personality...
She's easy meat...
You can either take advantage and use her to settle your sexual needs...
Or
You can simply just ignore her....both calls and messages etc...
Trust me... She already knows she's ugly there's no need to shatter her self esteem more by rejecting her outrightly..
Remember don't be chosen... Always choose
Does she look like she can add anything else to your life?
Alot of women have connections..
And some doors will be opened for you because a woman vouched for you....
Use their connections oo...
You don't have to sleep with or date every woman you come across...
Just keep them interested enough long enough for you to sap what you need from them...
As long as you are stingy with your resources when you with her, you'll be fine...
Look at the bigger picture

Always go for a girl that chooses you.. that's what ubunja said.

You're talking another thing

Lightway:
Always go for a girl that chooses you.. that's what ubunja said.

You're talking another thing

hehehe...

This niggarr...

Lol...


As much as I want to ignore what you just said...


I am free to choose any ideology I want that suits me...


What works for A might not work for B...


Follow ubunja...

Men learn don't be fooled by any woman facade of virtue how much more as an expired single mother or past her prime fertility years to tie you down with kind gestures

ZooCountry45:
I have noticed that woman like single mothers and those between the age of 27,28,29,30 appears to be
1.kind
2.good
3.submisive
4.humble
5.well behaved
6.thinks straight.

Why are woman in those age like that?

Those in their 18,1920 to 25 has no heart again.. Lol.. Una go dey 200 dey date one babe...

MJBOLT post=107403820:

for your peace of mind and sanity, avoid women in that age bracket especially those above 30, avoid single mothers too.
The nice behavior they show is a lie just to deceive men into getting committed to them,don't fall for it,you will regret it.

Lightway:
Always go for a girl that chooses you.. that's what ubunja said.

You're talking another thing

Women choose who to fuvk

Men choose who to wife up

DEMZEE:
Women choose who to fuvk

Men choose who to wife up

Hehehe...


True....


You subconsciously choose a woman when you give her your attention and time even if you don't want a relationship with her...


Women choose who to bleep and who not to bleep

Jessepaid:
hehehe...

What you do depends on your personality...


She's easy meat...


You can either take advantage and use her to settle your sexual needs...


Or



You can simply just ignore her....both calls and messages etc...


Trust me... She already knows she's ugly there's no need to shatter her self esteem more by rejecting her outrightly..


Remember don't be chosen... Always choose


Does she look like she can add anything else to your life?


Alot of women have connections..


And some doors will be opened for you because a woman vouched for you....


Use their connections oo...


You don't have to sleep with or date every woman you come across...


Just keep them interested enough long enough for you to sap what you need from them...

As long as you are stingy with your resources when you with her, you'll be fine...


Look at the bigger picture

Great. This another option I didn't consider. You know all I wrote up there and this one you added are just what they do to men. So nothing wrong in turning the game on them.
But if I were to do one thing I'm going with your last opinion. Who says men can't be rich by playing them girls?

Jessepaid:
hehehe...

What you do depends on your personality...


She's easy meat...


You can either take advantage and use her to settle your sexual needs...


Or



You can simply just ignore her....both calls and messages etc...


Trust me... She already knows she's ugly there's no need to shatter her self esteem more by rejecting her outrightly..


Remember don't be chosen... Always choose


Does she look like she can add anything else to your life?


Alot of women have connections..


And some doors will be opened for you because a woman vouched for you....


Use their connections oo...


You don't have to sleep with or date every woman you come across...


Just keep them interested enough long enough for you to sap what you need from them...

As long as you are stingy with your resources when you with her, you'll be fine...


Look at the bigger picture

At the bolded, as the gatekeeper of commitment, men must choose, definitely. However it is better to choose after you have been chosen.

Being chosen has it's perks, you don't have to go through the hassle of choosing someone that doesn't choose you, in this case people often do things to make the one whom they have chosen choose them too.
The truth is both parties choose each other, but the one who chooses first is almost always starting from a position of weakness.

Now you won't always be chosen by your specs, and in such cases you can decide not to choose them back or leverage on their attraction to get other things from them like you suggested.

Jessepaid:
hehehe...

This niggarr...
Lol...
As much as I want to ignore what you just said...
I am free to choose any ideology I want that suits me...
What works for A might not work for B...
Follow ubunja...

You're a loser

Emmynator:
At the bolded, as the gatekeeper of commitment, men must choose, definitely. However it is better to choose after you have been chosen.

Being chosen has it's perks, you don't have to go through the hassle of choosing someone that doesn't choose you, in this case people often do things to make the one whom they have chosen choose them too.
The truth is both parties choose each other, but the one who chooses first is almost always starting from a position of weakness.

Now you won't always be chosen by your specs, and in such cases you can decide not to choose them back or leverage on their attraction to get other things from them like you suggested.

hehehe...


No argument here all valid...



A wet cloth can be twisted in many ways to get the water out..