₦airaland Forum

olola4:
Marrying two wives is not an option or solution.

ebitng:
Bro, it starts from the relationship days. Never worship your girlfriend during courtship or obey her too much.
I pity pussy niggas kneeling down to propose to a girl they want to marry. it stinks to me. Over years, A bad woman will ride on you and turn your children against you.
Another big point is the woman's background. If your girls family never respect their father, Run for your life. Bad background can never make a good home.
Our forefathers died at a very old age because they lived like kings in their own homes.
Their wife's respects and worship them like Gods. There was fears in women then.
Who are you to go against their decisions then as a wife.

ebitng:
Bro, it starts from the relationship days. Never worship your girlfriend during courtship or obey her too much.
I pity pussy niggas kneeling down to propose to a girl they want to marry. it stinks to me. Over years, A bad woman will ride on you and turn your children against you.
Another big point is the woman's background. If your girls family never respect their father, Run for your life. Bad background can never make a good home.
Our forefathers died at a very old age because they lived like kings in their own homes.
Their wife's respects and worship them like Gods. There was fears in women then.
Who are you to go against their decisions then as a wife.

IreneJane:
Two wives isn't a solution but like 3 ,4 and above wives will solve the problem .... behold , I planned it from the moment I got engaged to my fiancé, I don't just ask out any lady I can't marry , I have 3 gillfriends on standby for now, if my main fiancé (getting married this December) bleeped up, no fight , no divorce , nothing , I will just be happy to impregnate others .. I have vowed that anything that make me marry second wife, I will continue every year because 2 wives is bad that's why I disagree with my fiancé over court Registry except traditional.... If you like crucify me , but I have seen most of naija girls life , the only thing you need as a man is to be hardworking make this money and never run your mouth like tap when hitting their toto, don't let them know your next move

larryking540:
take your time and explore till you meet the right person ,,,you will away have to spend more on her , than she is willing to do ,so bro no need to be afraid take your time and pick the write person be it educated or not or semi educated

AlphaAlex:
Facts bro all facts before you even decide to make a girl your girlfriend you have to ensure her attitude towards you is in check, it you allow her start disrespecting you she will continue and increase the frequency and extent of disrespect as you continue with her , most guys no go hear they will prefer to suffer to get a girl and be eating disrespect just for pussy,

larryking540:
piussy is the most cheapest commodity u can every get ,sorry for using the terms commodity because our modern lady's made it look like commodity to hawk about ,,
one of my ex whom I dropped a while ago ,intended us to come back but she already killed the vibes yes ,I too love her so she took advantage of the love cylce ,I love her courage but you can't leave a relationship and want to come back anytime you like ,as if say na play ground to toy with ,no vex ,I spelt the NO word ,even the gift way I buy na dustbin I throway some put and the ones way fit the new girl in the picture I give her ,case close ........

sylve11:
"Children are defence for their mother against any enemies, be their father or anyone. So the best time for you to arrange yourself very well is when the woman soldiers " children " are still young. Immediately they matured every woman turn to Aso rock."

See this? You're so correct.

AlphaAlex:
Fact is no man should let any woman stress him if she’s not willing to Follow his program or Agenda, men in Nigeria have pampered girls too much now they act like entitled little children.

henryobinna:
it doesn't matter for what reason he wants to sell them or whether rental incomes are able to build a new one. The house is his, he can decide to sell it and burn all the money. No one has the right to question his decision/authority on his own properties unless those people gave him money to build the house.

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

Imustnottalk:
let leave tradition aside put yourself in the woman's shoe or the children your father just wake up one day that he wants to sell his house and he is going back to village how would you feel about it, what about if the woman has business in city is she going to leave to follow the man to the village

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..
The wife may be wrong but the man is even wronger, Lol.. how can you sell a house in the city and go build one in the village?
How much is house rent in the village compared to the city? And who wants to stay in the village? Times are hard..
once upon a time i wanted to buy a land and I was advised to consult the families of the man that wants to sell to avoid future problems..
Well the lazy children should hustle for their own head

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

MPESA:
This is nonsense, firstly I don't support him selling a choice property to build in the village... Secondly which of the useless future is she fighting? , three of his five children studied abroad probably living there and the said man has other properties probably Worth more than the duplex , She's be selfish here who knows if the so called children are the man biological.

P.s
A round table talk would have better at least they will make other suggestions if they don't all agreed to sell the duplex instead the woman start dey threatening him.

RightToReject:
This isn't your story. You simply edited someone's true-life family experience she shared on a thread here a few weeks ago, parading it as a firsthand experience. You can't fool everyone.

babyfaceafrica:
How can you exercise rights on another person's property when they are not dead? Is that not greediness

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

IamAsiri:
If you had read all the comments under that person's story, you would have seen his too, not faraway and very similar to that OP's story.

Lawlab249:
A man that worked in an oil company, that has malls littered across the country with multiple storey buildings and a duplex even, but doesn't have a house in his village? This tory no pure, aswerugad! Anyways, for the sake of academic exercise, no law bars a man from selling his property. He does not even necessarily need to divorce his wife to achieve that. Tell your huncle to call me on 0912 7724742, I do help him sell those stuffs in a heartbeat, and I can also get him his divorce. He can also setup an NGO, donate everything he worked for to the Foundation to be held in trust for the specified objectives. If he wishes to setup a Limited Liability Company and transfer title of those properties to the Company (wherein none of his family members will be shareholders/directors), I can help him do that. Or he can simply Will those properties to any charity and don't say a word about it till he dies. He should ensure that the will is registered at the Probate and that the Executors are reputable firms (not individuals). If he wants EFCC SCUML Certificate for anything, he can call me.

But I urge you uncle to find a way to put his house in order. Women should stop making life difficult for men.

EmperorTolson:
It could be a joint property na.
Haven't you heard of it before, even there are cases where wife contributes larger percentage of family project

babyfaceafrica:
But it isn't stated in the write-up. If its joint ownership, that's a different case.

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

Sonnobax15:
That's the Problem...But something I learnt from the old man's opinion was that a man who has more than one wife wouldn't be subjected to the problem of one wife..Once one of them fvck up,na to pack to the other..Once that one fvck up,na to relocate to the third.. Until their heads go relax . Kolo

RightToReject:
A typical response of a too clever by half element! Direct your mention to small-minded people like you and make a fool of them.

Sonnobax15:
That's the Problem...But something I learnt from the old man's opinion was that a man who has more than one wife wouldn't be subjected to the problem of one wife..Once one of them fvck up,na to pack to the other..Once that one fvck up,na to relocate to the third.. Until their heads go relax . Kolo

Let him go and marry more wives na. Since more wives is solution to problems. His flawed reasoning is why he cant even make good decision in choice of wife. Or he prolly was fucking around dashing whores his money only to now start selling the ones the wife was using to console herself all these years . He should go and marry more land et us hear word. They misbehave when young only to start acting like victims when they grow old