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Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Walkee: 11:27am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Delta state has serious problems with their inheritance and succession laws. How exactly did you people abandon our tradition here in Edo state? Who is a wife to tell a husband what he can or can't do with his own property? Delta men are a big disgrace. You don't need court approval or the approval of your wife's family to relegate her back to her father's rubble. What's wrong with all these delta people sef. That's how this my girlfriend said their family lost their father's property to an uncle, what nonsense! |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Kirkman: 11:29am On Nov 08, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi:My exact line of thought too. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by RightToReject(m): 11:31am On Nov 08, 2021 |
This isn't your story. You simply edited someone's true-life family experience she shared on a thread here a few weeks ago, parading it as a firsthand experience. You can't fool everyone. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Walkee: 11:31am On Nov 08, 2021 |
madridguy:oga the problem here is the man and his delta people who have no culture or tradition. In my place a woman has zero say in matters concerning inheritance even if she is your own daughter or mother talkless of ordinary wife whom you can tell to get the fucck out of your house this evening and she'd have no choice other than leave. The only time your sons have say is after you are dead and they have done all the traditional rites. I dey shame for these delta people |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by ojasweb(m): 11:31am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Omakraid: Women know how to put themselves in check. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Sunnydoo: 11:32am On Nov 08, 2021 |
So sad. Very very sad. Who knows when the battles of life will rise against him. That's y we all must grow to be able to know the mind of God at every point of life. Only God can and will give joy and peace absolutely. This story is worrisome. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Adlac(m): 11:32am On Nov 08, 2021 |
madridguy: You must be a Yoruba man to have Understand this Trick! |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by themanderon: 11:32am On Nov 08, 2021 |
A man at war with his own family is the worse condition a man can find himself in. It's just like when Absalom turned against his father David. Who will now bury him when he dies? May God not give us unfortunate children who cannot reason well even if one of their parents are wrong they side with him/her. The properties are his and he can do whatever he wishes with it. After all, the house in the village will still be inherited by the children. Wisdom is required here as the man needs his children as much as they need him. Na wao, seeing a family you toiled for crumbling before your eyes can be very unpleasant. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by LordReed(m): 11:33am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: LoL if he had married a 2nd wife his predicament would have been worse. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by larryking540: 11:34am On Nov 08, 2021 |
MPESA:bro even if he do DNA test,the kids can end up to become his blood ,I have seen a lady feed the kids each time the father is not around ,will the ideology of your father beat me ,see my back ,or your father didn't give money at home today it is my money I am using ,man I stand at the window see a lady creating a big wall bw the father and kids ,bro ever since then ,man it's good to marry rightly and don't condole nonsense as a man never ,even at gun point hold your stand as a man 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Belleful: 11:35am On Nov 08, 2021 |
This story get K-LEG. the op hasn't told us the real reason his uncle and his wife and children are Fighting. With all the wealth ur uncle have, he couldn't build a house in is village? Now that he is retired, with all the money he his collecting from his many houses, he still couldn't build a new house. And now just to sell only one of his many houses to blind a new house has gotten him injected from his own house to become a tenant, why the wife and children are leaving comfortably in d house he blind with is hard earned money. Hmmmm. 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by larryking540: 11:36am On Nov 08, 2021 |
LordReed:someone would have been dead by now via poison,but the doctor might just rule it out as cardic arrest ,case closed |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by larryking540: 11:37am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Belleful:baba there are people like that o,they go say no worry within 3 months if I wan build house for village the house go stand within 3 months ,so most of them are not in a haste |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Walkee: 11:39am On Nov 08, 2021 |
seyz91:women are easier to handle when they are many. Your girlfriend will respect you more if she knows you have other girlfriends. Same with your wife. All my forebears married at least 3 wives. My grandfather married 12 and lived till over 100 years. If you have many wives they will all focus on their little quasi-family and try to cater for them and make sure their children are better than others. They will have less time to give you trouble. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by amendara1: 11:41am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Your uncle should have secretly go for DNA test for all the children before he takes any step to talk with the wife. I'm very much sure most of the children are not his... Tell him to instruct the court to call fie DNA test, but he should hide himself before the result come out... All the best |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by yinkeys(m): 11:41am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:Smart men will tell you women value men who have options than the guy who has none or chose to have none. They’re messed up in the head but that’s how they operate. Herd mentality Go read The Rational Male, it will explain better 1 Like |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 08, 2021 |
What a family.. I can't even entertain the thought of fighting my popsy. Someone i so much love, respect and value in every way. But some children aren't well in the head sha. Their mom must have been poisoning their minds against him before now and this means the story is probably one sided. Something else is going on in that house. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by madridguy(m): 11:44am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Leave emotion and be realistic my sister. Signum: |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Pablo25: 11:46am On Nov 08, 2021 |
hmmm |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by MPESA(m): 11:49am On Nov 08, 2021 |
larryking540: Chai God help us we men,You just dey scare me now for this marriage stuff... The greatest mistake a man will make in this life is to end up with the wrong woman.... |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by babyfaceafrica: 11:52am On Nov 08, 2021 |
EmperorTolson:How can you exercise rights on another person's property when they are not dead? Is that not greediness |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by babyfaceafrica: 11:54am On Nov 08, 2021 |
marsup:I like this advise, sell everything and japa go village |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by SilvanusII(m): 11:55am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Your conclusion is very foolish really |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Bibors(m): 11:57am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Why was he taking permission from the wife to sell his property? Its an investment and his investment. Didn't the wife work? Doesn't she have her own investments? Your Uncle is a weakling and a sisi. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by okoroemeka(m): 11:57am On Nov 08, 2021 |
FlipModeSquade:you are very correct,with the condition of his house I don't think the blood pressure of the man can be normal ,but I think the best way to manage a woman is to closely study her character,if you are flexible and diplomatic there is always a way to handle women if you are ready to shed your pride and see from her own perspective or else he is heading closer to the grave. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by delpee(f): 11:58am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: This is very disheartening. The man deserves peace to enjoy his life in retirement. He has every right to build a house in his village. It's his hard earned money. He can choose to spend it as he wishes. The sons should work hard to build their own estate. Beating up their dad is sacrilege. I can't imagine that happening in my environment. They'll pay for it one way or the other. A godly and wise mother will not allow such to happen. Training children to wait for inheritance is so inhibiting really. The sons may end up selling everything. Yorubas say, oun ti a ko ba sise fun kii tojo, oun ti a ba fi ara sise fun lo npe lowo eni. Summary....you benefit more from the labor of your hands. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by sylve11: 11:59am On Nov 08, 2021 |
madridguy: "Children are defence for their mother against any enemies, be their father or anyone. So the best time for you to arrange yourself very well is when the woman soldiers " children " are still young. Immediately they matured every woman turn to Aso rock." See this? You're so correct. |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Dagger79(m): 12:00pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
This matter no be here ohh... Omohh |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by Imustnottalk: 12:06pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Walkee:let leave tradition aside put yourself in the woman's shoe or the children your father just wake up one day that he wants to sell his house and he is going back to village how would you feel about it, what about if the woman has business in city is she going to leave to follow the man to the village |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by ebitng: 12:08pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
AlphaAlex: Bro, it starts from the relationship days. 2 Likes |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by larryking540: 12:11pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
MPESA:take your time and explore till you meet the right person ,,,you will away have to spend more on her , than she is willing to do ,so bro no need to be afraid take your time and pick the write person be it educated or not or semi educated |
Re: My Uncle Is In A State Of Dilemma. by henryobinna(m): 12:12pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi:it doesn't matter for what reason he wants to sell them or whether rental incomes are able to build a new one. The house is his, he can decide to sell it and burn all the money. No one has the right to question his decision/authority on his own properties unless those people gave him money to build the house. |
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