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She is cheating.

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

Exactly. Married people way no de fùck for 3 years living together plenty. Wen wahala start to come, u both go lose interest

frozen70:
Imagine ❗
So you just kept her in your house for sex purposes

Why not marry her and then settle down with her

Is it new to you that, work with Lagos traffic and stress have reduce the sex urge in women

I can see that sex is the only thing that is bordering you, it doesn't really end in sex.
Think straight

Reduces urge for both gender.

Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again?

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg...

...the fool is an obvious rapist..

This is a troll na..

lkillbrokehoes:
This boy is obviously sick in the head

And the girl too who has turn her to sex worker without bride price. She could have been killed you know?

So u are been having haram sex since all dis while chaii

The mother of the girl is a failure and while the father of the girl is a super failure and both should be arrested and let them do community services for 3 months so other parents can learn.

This is not a true story! Nop I can't believe this really happen! Nah is not possible, this is a write up or should I say a make up story.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Useless and wicked rapist. How I wished you can be tracked.

Why live together with a lady for so long without making her your wife. This how you chase away her potential suitors and abandon her later in life.

You are not ambitious, at this age all u think is who to live in with and be having free sex 3 to 4 times weekly.

Shameless old fool

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

first go and report yourself to police for rape, after you serve your jail term, go and pay her bride price, then you can enjoy Free sex as a responsible man, but for now, you are a rapist, and you are a thief.

If she sues you after some years for rape, the public would think she's bitter.


Just let her go before you cause more harm.

frozen70:
You too are are reasoning at all, he kept someone daughter in his house, as what ?
Who invited her and what for if not sex ?
Probably the girl parents are poor and needs food and she gets free food in his house, what do you expect her to do

Don't you know that lack of wants can make a woman a slave because she is helpless

If the girl have responsibile parents, would she be out of the home that long

He didn't kept her in chains.
If the girl is tired of staying, she can leave.

If lack of wants can make a woman a slave then she shuld go and hustle.

You women always try hard to change all circumstances against man even when you are at fault because you know clearly the society would support you.
Stop blackmailing op emotionally, he didn't do anything wrong. The girl can leave the house.

Don't also be surprised the girl is already f*cking another guy in her place of work.

Just let her go... If u can do this to her just cus of this... I wonder wot will happen to her if u find out she is cheating on u.. na kill u go kill her

frozen70:
Understand your woman and her sex mode, it really helps
Women love sex but they are not randy like men

really ! Can anyone(man) understand a gender driven by emotion, i think the only thing a man can successfully understand is a woman's body relative to sex mode.

You are a mumu man..... Why can't you kuku marry when you have been enjoying sex like 3 to 4 in a week sometime some married men are not getting.. The girl just realized that she's just a sec toy in your hand and is obvious you can't make a good husband. I will advise the girl to leave you ..

Why not marry her. I pity that lady. She is just as useless as you. Why having her 4 times a week when she is not your wife. When you are done you will look for a virgin.

Why is nobody unclickable?? Seun, Lalasticlala come answer quenshun

Sex is sweet when the two of you agree to participate without any form of coercion. Don't force or rape!

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Ephesians 5:5 ESV
For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.


Say no to Fornication, you are playing with hellfire!
Sin might be sweet abnitio but it has a bitter ending. Run!

You want to know what to do for her to give you sex willingly... Marry her. She has been giving you free services all the while and you've refused to do what you ought to have done long ago. Free version has expired, to enjoy premium version without ads, pay for the service.

Kobojunkiee:
What you are trying to tell us here is that if a man attempted to rape your sister but failed because your sister fought him tooth and nail, it is OK because it only happened just once?

What I am saying is that if my sister who is in a relationship with someone that she has prayed about and he mistakenly tries to force himself on her,I will encourage her to forgive him BUT if it happens again, then she should cut off the relationship. I use myself as an example, I dated a guy for 4 years without sex, one day he tried to force himself on me, I pushed him, he realized his mistake and stopped. I didn’t break up with him for that because I understood what he felt at that point. Till today, I hold him with high regard

studentofTruth:
In other words, women want their men to cheat!

women are not direct creatures, i've said much already, Lets just say women want a man every other woman is attracted to,

Oga Broda, I Beg, Learn how to wash and dry your Underwear in PRIVATE. Which one you come carry your UNDERWEAR HANG for [b]Main Road make everybody wey dey pass see am?

[quote author=ityP post=107451431]Oh. So, as long as a rapist rapes once, it's ok. Are you truly a woman[/quote
When you rephrase your question according to the scenario, I will answer you. For the records, I am not yet a woman but a young girl who would soon be a woman.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, you only ATTEMPTEd to rape her - you failed because she strongly resisted! But you made sure to give her a dirty slap for daring to resist your attempt?

Dude, stop talking already.... you should be charged for assaulting that woman.

I wonder if this is the first time you have forced yourself on a woman before.

white knight

Sex is something that occurs out of love ,and I bet you no matter how tired she might b ,if truly u guys have sex 3 to 4 times a week and she enjoys it ,then suddenly she stops and could b able to endure it for 3wks ,then my brother ,as she found a new job,she found a new interest in a man ,but I must condemn bitterly you forcing and going as far as tearing her pants ..gosh !!! ...that's been stupid and been a dog ...d best is allow her leave your house and you focus on your future ,cos truly dat babe no b your babe ...my 1 cent ...

crackhaus:
Always ensure you have another woman somewhere — one with whom you've developed a good friendship with over a period of time, and with whom you can have sex with without any commitments.

Unless you're not that kind of guy who has a lot of female friends, having one among them who can have casual sex with you should not be so difficult.

The point here is, don't go and rape/kill someone's daughter just because she didn't give you sex, I take God beg you.
Get it elsewhere if you can't hold yourself.

Enough is a word for the wise...

The only mature advice here so far.....cos even if she finds out she wont even blame u cos she'll feel she made u go outside cos she refused to give it to you. Only a hungry dog goes outside to eat shit

This rapist just reported himself on Public Forum.

I hope the Police can do the needful.

And the account has been deleted.
This guy needs counseling with a therapist and to carry out restitution in court

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Who raised you guys this way. My goodness.

You really lack home training.....

Probably you are a product of burden school.....

Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult.

How can you keep a girl in your house and feel entitled to 2-3 times sex every week? A girl you have paid a dime for her head and you want to be living like husband and wife with her.
Are you alright?

What do you do for a living? Do you have plans of marrying her? Why not go and settle her people if you much desire her.

If she didn't put up a fight, you would raped her...you need to be ashamed of yourself and not coming here to rant and be seeking for advice.