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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by falcon01: 7:19am On Nov 09, 2021

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

he's a man with needs! He has been holding it in for long, what he did was wrong but don't blame him

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by kaywhy09(m): 7:21am On Nov 09, 2021

greenie77:
Which devil?

Devil Konjiel cry

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by smartzee01: 7:26am On Nov 09, 2021

I just can't believe this was written by a normal person.
Please sir, seek for medical help.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Leetika: 7:26am On Nov 09, 2021

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Rapist. fool

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by hashtagged(m): 7:28am On Nov 09, 2021

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Bloody rapist does she owe you sex

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Newboss(m): 7:28am On Nov 09, 2021

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Kick her out. Don't give her any two weeks.

Be a man, not a simp

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by hashtagged(m): 7:29am On Nov 09, 2021

LilMissFavvy:
This is why it's not good to live with a boyfriend. You are not ready for marriage, so allow her go and find a better man. You don't have self control, you don't have good attitude, you beat and rape a woman. Just look for money and give her, let her rent a house, I guess the two weeks she mentioned is as a result of lack of finance. Tomorrow when your wickedness hunts you and you can't find another good woman, you will say that women are evil* . If she was a bad woman, she would have framed you up for rape, non*sense.

He is guilty he actually tried to rape her

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by sofiscatedmoron: 7:29am On Nov 09, 2021

Another guy has started lashing her , so she wont give it to you anymore

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by BRATISLAVA: 7:32am On Nov 09, 2021

cococandy:
Very disgusting thread.

The fact that he felt okay to come discuss this here says more than enough.

He was expecting sympathy, which he is getting from other rapists. Hear people saying that he sounds remorseful. Will "remorse" unrape the lady? Or will marriage do that? Surely if it were their daughter they would be so quick to forgive and forget while she lives in trauma?

These are the demented reasonings from men in Nigeria that promote rape.

The idiot that confessed to rape has deactivated.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by angelfallz(m): 7:33am On Nov 09, 2021

He said rape apologist. I've been called a rapist before. So, you calling me a rape apologist tells me that you're still in nursery school when it comes to trying to shut me up.

You're the one who needs to grow up. You failed to realise the manipulation that the girl is doing.
You talk about women being more than sex objects, but in this case she is clearly a sex object, that is getting paid through the guy accommodating her.

Their relationship is transactional. She is bringing her body(sex object) to the table, while he is bringing his home to the table.

Like I said before na una type women dey manipulate well well. grin

Awon rape apologist grin

Readability:
Lolz, should I call you a rape apologist or maybe you're ignorant that women are equally a human being like you? Grow up bro, women are better than just sex object and learn to respect a woman's no.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by sematec(m): 7:33am On Nov 09, 2021

just break up

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by sematec(m): 7:34am On Nov 09, 2021

just break up rapist

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Awoo88: 7:34am On Nov 09, 2021

First abd foremost you are a wimp. The baby is only tolerating you. Na condition make dey open legs for u. That you have to force and still fail shows the girl is not on your level.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by hashtagged(m): 7:34am On Nov 09, 2021

You are wrong I don't use her for sex only because I have had spent a lot of money on her including 2 major surgery . I take care of all her needs and give her whatever she wants. If I didn't love her I wouldn't be spending a lot of money on her. Like I said earlier I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitudes.

You are a bastard you are not ignoring the fact that you are a bloody rapist. If you were saying this in my presence I for light you.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Kobojunkiee: 7:35am On Nov 09, 2021

Prettychild:
What I am saying is that if my sister who is in a relationship with someone that she has prayed about and he mistakenly tries to force himself on her,I will encourage her to forgive him BUT if it happens again, then she should cut off the relationship. I use myself as an example, I dated a guy for 4 years without sex, one day he tried to force himself on me, I pushed him, he realized his mistake and stopped. I didn’t break up with him for that because I understood what he felt at that point. Till today, I hold him with high regard

Well, let's compare this here with what you claim you experienced. You said you dated a guy and then one day he tried to force himself on you. undecided

Did he force you down, tear off your clothing in order to have his way with you? And when you resisted him, did he use violence against you? undecided

I am trying to understand if there is a pattern here to any of this. undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by hashtagged(m): 7:36am On Nov 09, 2021

Teleprompter:
Sense would not kill you

Society and double standards.

Why did she living with him. Have they not been having sex before now? Maybe even rough sex. They are both at fault. If she visited him one afternoon and he did this to her, it would be very different. She mid have known this guy had the tendency to be forceful. Where does her family think she is living?

Why are you supporting attempted rape, If you work 24/7 you would know that you get tired. You are a lady and you are doing this, you disgust me

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by toprealman: 7:37am On Nov 09, 2021

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

You actually raped.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Saintmary(f): 7:38am On Nov 09, 2021

FORWARDEVERLY:
Seems both of you are referring to your fathers... Not the Op.
The post and response from you and Saintmary should be meant for you both Dads..

One truth lots of you are unwilling to face is that.

KARMA IS REAL.

Oya say amen:

May my children be treated the way I treat other people's children.

Whether you say amen or not, you will reap what you have sown, and may your karma come swiftly and harshly.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Kobojunkiee: 7:39am On Nov 09, 2021

Prettychild:
When you rephrase your question according to the scenario, I will answer you. For the records, I am not yet a woman but a young girl who would soon be a woman.

That explains a whole lot! undecided

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by TMANO: 7:41am On Nov 09, 2021

Just get employed.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by oluwafeolami(m): 7:42am On Nov 09, 2021

cococandy:
Tomorrow this idiot will be on nairaland making xtupid posts about virginity and body count. At the same time, the lot of you don’t even take no for an answer yet somehow you want women are have never had sex. Because how?
I wish your girlfriend had the impetus to arrest you for attempted rape and sexual assault.
Disgusting low grade animal

In as much as I agree with you 100%, calling him an idiot is totally out of it. He brought a situation and you could have still made ur point with clarity and apt ness without the name calling. Good morning

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by jornwhite: 7:43am On Nov 09, 2021

Prettychild:
What I am saying is that if my sister who is in a relationship with someone that she has prayed about and he mistakenly tries to force himself on her,I will encourage her to forgive him BUT if it happens again, then she should cut off the relationship. I use myself as an example, I dated a guy for 4 years without sex, [b]one day he tried to force himself on me, I pushed him, he realized his mistake [/b]and stopped. I didn’t break up with him for that because I understood what he felt at that point. Till today, I hold him with high regard

i wonder why everyone here is pretending like they've never witnessed some iota of force, men alway want sex while women have mood for sex, so coercion & struggles are bound to happen, like i said if he can regain control over himself then their is nothing to be judgemental about. from page 1 to 20 people are just being judgemental then you begin to wonder why reactions online never reflect into our society.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Saintmary(f): 7:45am On Nov 09, 2021

BRATISLAVA:
Do you think anyone would believe her if she reported it?

They will ask her if he's been spending money on her. According to men, that is enough entitlement criteria to rape any female.

Few years from now she will meet one of the morons who parade this forum, and he will say that she went back to her ex who she agreed to have sex with, then felt guilty then said he raped her.

All she has to do is to go to the right places.

She should not go to the police first.

NGOs, activist lawyers can help her, rape is actually a serious offence and I love the way it's handled in Lagos State.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:45am On Nov 09, 2021

Simran94:
You are the clown here, the OP would have Raped the girl if she had not scratched his face out of defense. People like you and the OP end up raping and killing women all in the name of satisfying your sexual urges

You fickle lot keep acting like the world revolves around your vagina. OP may be culpable with his approach to the matter, but I'm not going to jump on the bandwagon of you SJWs and demonize him over one silly mistake.

Your friend and sister, Chidimma. Remember her? She's the cold-blooded killer of Ataga, the Super TV Boss. A married man with kids. Where was the outrage? No talk of her rotting in jail and all that gibberish. Some idiots even saw her as being too pretty to be a killer. She was seen cat-walking her arse to the courtroom the last time we heard of her.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Essien45: 7:46am On Nov 09, 2021

You're a rapist and very immature for a relationship.
Imagine if your sister or daughter in future opens up you to tell you this is what their boyfriends did to them?
Honestly, you don't deserve that lady because you are an opportunist and a rapist.

How I wish I know you, you no go like am.
Animal.

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by frozen70(f): 7:50am On Nov 09, 2021

jornwhite:
really ! Can anyone(man) understand a gender driven by emotion, i think the only thing a man can successfully understand is a woman's body relative to sex mode.

That's a good start at least

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Wearetheugliest: 7:51am On Nov 09, 2021

You rapist grin

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by frozen70(f): 7:52am On Nov 09, 2021

chinchonglee:
He didn't kept her in chains.
If the girl is tired of staying, she can leave.

If lack of wants can make a woman a slave then she shuld go and hustle.

You women always try hard to change all circumstances against man even when you are at fault because you know clearly the society would support you.
Stop blackmailing op emotionally, he didn't do anything wrong. The girl can leave the house.

Don't also be surprised the girl is already f*cking another guy in her place of work.

Base of your comments, have you ever wondered why the society supports women

That's an assignment for you, make your research

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by oluwafeolami(m): 7:53am On Nov 09, 2021

Trying to force her for sex was totally wrong, but we all are ignoring the fact that the lady in question might have started cheating on d guy with another guy that satisfies her which may in turn lead to her now found behavior. Because she’s working she should padlock her kpekus abi? Then she should not disturb d guy for anything not even the accommodation too.

Two lovers are staying together and they are not married yet, three weeks without sex and it’s not as if she’s on her period or she’s sick, guys make we talk true, if na we also we go vex just that my guy shouldn’t have been forceful. He could have waited till day break and tell her is mind. She even agreed to leave after 2 weeks which meant she has already made up her mind to leave d guy so her plot is working fine. Bro u just lost ur lover, move on and don’t be a simp. You will be fine, although forcing her was totally wrong. Good morning

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by lomprico(m): 7:53am On Nov 09, 2021

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Rapist!

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by chinchonglee(m): 7:53am On Nov 09, 2021

frozen70:
Base of your comments, have you ever wondered why the society supports women

That's an assignment for you, make your research

Am that Jobless?

Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by BRATISLAVA: 7:54am On Nov 09, 2021

Saintmary:
All she has to do is to go to the right places.

She should not go to the police first.

NGOs, activist lawyers can help her, rape is actually a serious offence and I love the way it's handled in Lagos State.

The first right place would always seem to be the police station, and with the types of men in Nigeria that is not going to do her any good.

Seems Lagos is the only state with sense, then. We don't know if the violent rapist lives in Lagos.

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