dontrulee:


I understand that ladies are more affected by what they hear. So when a guy whom they perceive to be credible promises something to them like marriage, they loose guard and become almost blind to all the red flags leading to a cycle of repeated heartbreak. And that is why most ladies will conclude that all men are the same. The truth is, not all men are the same, it's the ladies that remain the same in the different relationship they enter into and of course, they will have the same outcome with their previous relationship.

Simran94:


By the "You", I meant Nigerians that always come online to bash the federal government for not fulfilling their promises

Simran94:


It is typical of you men to always give excuses for each other whenever you "err" but always castigate women every single chance. If it was a lady that left a guy to marry someone else, you people would have slutshamed her.

Simran94:


It is typical of you men to always give excuses for each other whenever you "err" but always castigate women every single chance. If it was a lady that left a guy to marry someone else, you people would have slutshamed her.

Ciscogod:



Ok, The first few months , Everything was going well, I think 6months down the line, She and her mom started pressuring me for marriage and I know I'm not financially buoyant then.

Besides. I'm more of an introvert, I think I do not know what I actually wanted before asking her out, But she developed great feelings for me in the relationship. I dont wanna hurt her, I called her and told her everything . She did not give up on it

ISelectMySins:


Lol. You didn't say anything or any bad things she did, besides the fact that you don't know what you want, lol. Anyways, I don't blame you ooo lol.

Radionigeria:
Hey! H're u dis monin?

vislabraye:


Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

Bola146:


My good friend good morning sir. I'm fine and you?

Radionigeria:
i'm ok.. Wishing u the best of today

Bola146:

Thanks and you too. Take good care of yourself

Ciscogod:


Truthfully, She did no wrong but we are not just compactible as she does not compliment me in my defaults. Reason I said I do not know what I wanted when I got involved in the relationship

ISelectMySins:


Lol. Funny. You are not compatible because she doesn't give compliments? Hmm. We are different sha. Me personally, I don't really care whether you compliment me or not.

dontrulee:


Hmmmm... 3 years of an undefined relationship. You may see it as wickedness but in real life scenario it's not. who knows, she can get married in less than a year after the breakup. Life is unpredictable!

dontrulee:
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I hear you boss. Women should be pampered like egg, not to be broken and eaten.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

MisfitHPG:
I am not even being gender specific no gender should be deceived,lied to,or hurt when they give committment,if a person can't give back commitment,then they shouldn't take it from someone

tyup:


The most stupid and senseless bout you girls is the fact that y'all are sex as y'all greatest asset! like who on Earth cursed the black female race for crying out loud?? you couldn't even say something like all those times she's help you, stayed with you bla bla, atleast wouldn't that have been reasonable??

Damn, break loose from that curse and stop being an unexposed subliterate

Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel

dontrulee:


You're right Sir. Unfortunately we are in Naija where everything is almost a cruise! Commitment to a thing is a big deal these days

Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

A001:

Please, any update, bro?

Ciscogod:


Truthfully, She did no wrong but we are not just compactible as she does not compliment me in my defaults. Reason I said I do not know what I wanted when I got involved in the relationship

dalass:


You're obviously still a kid. You're now earning more money and now seeing better spec which you want better than her

When the time comes and you want to marry, that's when you'll realize you have left wife material

Ciscogod:


She's a banker and she's earning more than an average Nigerian homes . Money has never been the issue

dalass:


You don't forgive, you don't forget, you're divided by zero. You're black hat??

Are you a cultist

musicwriter:


So you think everything will be over once you get rid of her and make her take the blame?

Look, the way the algorithm of nature works is that once you successfully get rid of her, nature would think you love that type of thing (of course, you've proved you love it) and nature would lead you to (not one) but many people who'll do same or similar thing to you. And it's not because nature is doing it to punish you, rather it's just giving you what you prefer, just like watching one YouTube video would suggest more similar videos to you. This is where ignorant religions got their "reap what you sow " and God nonsense but which is just the law nature at work. Every living thing is subject to this law including your God if it exists.

Danielkelly:
Don't marry does you love, don't marry does who don't love you but marry does that love you. E get why.. Nna hold your ears let me speak something to your ears.

sharpwriter:

Otega, Oghenetega, Oghene miyeruwe Oghenetega, ejiro Oghene, Oghenetega