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potent5:
Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

Best comment of the year

AmericanDad:
Yea its mine cos she either sleeps at my place or I sleep at hers more than 5times everyweek.

If she is good via character and otherwise, Biko, marry her

Long talk is not needed again

If she is a good person and you think both of you are compatible for marriage,go ahead and marry her

Good

AmericanDad:
Nah its mine cos I was with her when her period finished...and we had sex when she was off the next day

Whaaaattttt, had sex the next day her period finished.
Bro dat pregnancy is not urz

DNA first.

When the girl is telling you what people in the office will say is to test you.
She want you to continue to insist on the marriage, ,, so that you're the one she's doing a favour to marry you.
ALL THESE ARE PRETENCE.,,,,, FEAR THE DAUGHTERS OF EVE.
Nevertheless, my advice is,,,,, DON'T MIND WHAT YOUR COLLEAGUES WILL SAY,,,, DON'T MIND HER STATE OF ORIGIN,,,, DON'T MIND YOUR PEOPLE AT HOME, ,,, MARRY HER, ,, ASAP ASAP ASAP.
Think of your happiness, ,, think about the girl's character, ,, think about the New_baby you steal from paradise and brought to this hellfire of a country, ,,,,,, THEN AFTER BIRTH, ,, GO FOR DNA TEST,,, Because WOMEN'S MIND IS DEEPER THAN THE RED SEA.
I rest my case,,, my Lord.

You messed up man! Am not judging you anyway cos we are all sinners!

Are you trying to marry the girl because you got her pregnant? OR Are you trying to marry her because you love her and wants to spend the rest of your life with her?

The answer to these questions will give you a clearer direction.

Marriage is too big of a Union to dive into at anytime with any kind of reason. This is highly Divine and must be entered when you are ready with the right reasons.

One of the main causes of divorce is going into marriage with a woman you don't love! Love is a decision not really a feeling. It comes with pain and joy, good times and bad times but because you have made that decision, you can be able to move on.

If you enter into marriage because of any other reason outside solid love. You will come out for every other reason when things go south.

Think and pray!

Don't abort the baby. Always take care of the girl with or without marriage.

Remain Blessed.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Trumann:
It is a fact that you Igbos treat your women poorly. Look at how the Ojukwus are treating Bianca. Stop being blind and sort out your mess.

I was right you are a tribalist. So you only have the example of one Igbo family and you generalized.
Also it's not like you have heard from the family''s side.
I had my secondary education in ogun state. One of our male teachers died and his family took everything including the sofa in his house.
I do not blame Yoruba people for the actions of this family. I would never say yoruba's treat women badly.
You know very little about the Ojukwu case so stop saying what you don't know.
Ojukwu married 3 women hence the conflicts in deciding who gets what.
It's similar to what happened afferent MKO died except that MKO's case did not get to court.

DICKstractor:



Dont marry her bro
Don't marry her

From the kind of news we see here on nairaland every day on paternity fraud, I've come to the conclusion that, in this generation, a child has no father until he is born and DNA test done


What if the child is your boss' or another colleague's. Oh, you think you are the only one enjoying the cookies? Let me tell you now, kpekus is an accommodating bottomless pit. E no dey discriminate.


Wait and do DNA. You'd be surprised when the child is born, he will look like the security guy




Office romance gone sour

kpekus= Accommodating Bottomless Pit (ABP) Kai! Nairalanders una nor well!!!

This is a nice story man..I am happy it ain't real..

Calabar and sex 5&6

1Sharon:
3rd party should not be involved in a marraige.

These why marriages are collapsing in western world and also in Africa now because of these nonsense. 3rd party are allowed in all areas of life except marriages . Rubbish

kellyezekiel1997:
Whaaaattttt, had sex the next day her period finished.
Bro dat pregnancy is not urz

We had sex countless times days and weeks after that day

If she will respect you and you can live her ,them go ahead and marry her

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Congratulations, God just made it easy for you. Invite me for the wedding no waste time !

Which organization could be paying up to 500k I'm Nigeria today? Abi u dey joke ni

AmericanDad:
We had sex countless times days and weeks after that day

Bros please you haven't responded to me na. I'm stranded, I'm looking for work please.

What type of organization do you work and what role . Help a life.