flokii:


What kind of advice is this? he is looking for ways to resolve his issue, you're trying to complicate things.

So his wife should cook, he should then go into the kitchen to cook protein and eat?.. the suya he is eating sef soumds much better

You don't understand. He should buy the protein he wants the wife to use and cook, instead of letting the wife buy it herself... Then instruct the wife to use all of it. This way the wife will be learning how he likes it...

Mariangeles:

E be like say you wan be like cubana chief priest.



Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

And what the wife is doing is not disrespectful abi?.

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

SHARAP
there!!!

On-top food wey na me dey provide?.

mildteddy:


You don't understand. He should buy the protein he wants the wife to use and cook, instead of letting the wife buy it herself... Then instruct the wife to use all of it. This way the wife will be learning how he likes it...

Oga he gives her money to buy food, he has the right to tell her what he wants to eat. If he starts rejecting her food or not even giving her enough funds that will turn to another issue...

Op, abi u don't give your wife enough money?.

maestro299:
Brother, accept my sympathies, but I must tell you one truth: in a monogamous relationship between a man and a woman, especially one that has resulted in marriage and children, it is the woman who generally holds power. Except in over-oppressive cultures e.g. some Islamic states like Yemen, Somalia, Iraq etc, generally women always determine what goes and what doesn't in the relationship and the home. So unless you are prepared to send her out of your life/end the relationship, you just have to abide by her conditions. Sorry, but that's just the way it is. When a man married to a woman, he gives up a large part of his power and freedom.

This is for only weak men

Mariangeles:


Oga calm down! Na just food.
There are ways to go about these kinds of issues without blowing it out of proportion.

All oga needs to do is to be patient with his wife till she adjusts to the way he wants.

Op, una just marry?

Nwanyi oma, I no dey play with food at all. I can easily forgive someone for throwing palm oil on me, but don't fvck with my food.

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

ati guardian angel
You see, hustle o mek meat no come bring unnecessary protection for family, or make your family no come turn Afghanistan were protection dey Paramount

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Bro since you have told her several times, she knows what u want, some times women tend to punish men in some ways, hope you too are satisfying her in some ways, try and understand this lines I wrote, women love to adhere to what their husband want, so maybe she is trying to remind you to also satisfy her in some ways which maybe u can only understand, That is y she is using the food level which you love to remind you to also make her happy lobatan

And pls never serve ur self because if you do that you will reduce the respect you have have as a man in the house, men need to understand and calculate everything around us.

Mariangeles:


Oga calm down! Na just food.
There are ways to go about these kinds of issues without blowing it out of proportion.

All oga needs to do is to be patient with his wife till she adjusts to the way he wants.

Op, una just marry?

If it’s just food, it shouldn’t be disrespectful for him to get it himself.

Oizee:
this op too like enjoyment,... may be e no too enjoy when e dey small, he come swear say e go work hard and enjoy im life when he grow, his wife come b economist now....

You don finish the story

Guy the only tru enjoyment in this world is to eat ... Tell her to serve you ur stew and meat separate. Then u choose the numbers of meat u wanna eat. . simple solution

care4you:
and you too! go and do the same

Na so you like meat reach ?

Will send the herds men to keel kattle at obudu kattle ranch for you.

Barrister026:


Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

my brother to make her change you av to reject it and if possible go and get something to eat outside, I tell you women hate it and I bet you she'll change big time......just try it on two ocassion

Says

Kaeboy:


So why are guys hyping marriage?
You get married and return to days when you receive orders and restrictions from your parents as a kid. You are scared to complain because you don't want "wahala". Na your superior you go marry?

Your wife consider dishing food for you as slavery So she serve you iced soup lwkmd. I swear I will rather divorce and stay single than allow some shit you married folks allow cos WTF!

My brother, seems marriage is a return to those dark days of conforming to parental restrictions with loss of freedom.

Not all women are like that but then it’s a huge gamble because you can never tell what she would become after marriage

joyousever:
When I detest constant eating of meat, some people like it much.

Cc Begat40
SATANIST

joyousever:
When I detest constant eating of meat, some people like it much.

Quick question, have you dated SATANIST? He has been going around on threads saying you guys had a fling

Nigerian marriage is a scam. Women are selfish and self centered. There are other ways to rear children than marrying these daughters of eve.

Hmm for house I no chop well for work still no chop well , I resemble the person wey follow vote in Buhari ni , me go enter kitchen dish out for myself ooo walai

Rubbiish:
If your wife is doing this to u, I can imagine what she will do to your visitors. Majority of men of this generation are pathetic!


I never knew I was wasting my time on a 21 year old kid! Jeez! I will stop commenting on issues raised on this forum henceforth!

A 21 year old is a kid?

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Oga, you're grown up now you don't need much meat. A piece or two pieces is enough for you. It's the kids that need more meat because they are still growing. Give them at least three pieces each! Eat less meat, you don't need it Man

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Why don’t you shop for groceries yourself and probably come up with a menu of what you want to eat when at home? You’ll already know the quantity you bought. Seems she’s very frugal even when it comes to food to the point of spending food money on other things. Maybe she was raised in a household that struggled to feed and due to the circumstances, got used to being economical with food. Knowing how much food is in the house will help you and as people suggested, dish out your own food.

Barrister026:

Okay thanks

it is your house o , infact cook for her one day without meat amd see her reaction to caution her or put plenty meat for her to show how you like your food. Abeg this issue na small thing say God provide now how to chop am cocn be headache lolzzzz

Invite any members of her family, senior members be it her dad or mum for weekend, give her enough money to cook and wait till she serve them 2 or more meet, that is when i will remove 2 BIG out of the 3 meat she serve, message deliver and i will then wait.

Don't mind the mentally deformed nitwit who cloned my account and that of Koyyes to beg for money on this forum all to defame one's character. I've gotten his real names already. He's notoriously known as a chronic troublemaker with severe mental disturbance. What he does is that, when once he brings his rubbish to someone and you treat his Bleep up. He'll clone the person's username to use it to beg for money and gay partners.

Winnerly:


Quick question, have you dated SATANIST? He has been going around on threads saying you guys had a fling

Mariangeles:

E be like say you wan be like cubana chief priest.



Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

Allow my foot, disrespect that she started. I will assault the kitchen, even desecrate it until she gets the gist

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

What about the part where he said she's diverting the money meant for the protein.......I think rather than economizing she's taking advantage

Foodqueen:


Ur mother right?

No. Your mother who taught her useless wh.ore of a daughter how to send the provider of the house to the kitchen to serve his own food.

Your father is as good as dead with cretins like you as the women in his life. Beasts

maestro299:
Brother, accept my sympathies, but I must tell you one truth: in a monogamous relationship between a man and a woman, especially one that has resulted in marriage and children, it is the woman who generally holds power. Except in over-oppressive cultures e.g. some Islamic states like Yemen, Somalia, Iraq etc, generally women always determine what goes and what doesn't in the relationship and the home. So unless you are prepared to send her out of your life/end the relationship, you just have to abide by her conditions. Sorry, but that's just the way it is. When a man married to a woman, he gives up a large part of his power and freedom.

see as you just open mouth dey talk nonsense.

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Na people you marry or your wife ?