Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Lmao...

If she is economizing things I believe their must be a reason...try to find out what the reason is, And see where you can come in as man of the house.

Or does it warrant you shopping with her.

bummyla:
I understand your pain Sir! Am in it presently! You are lucky your wife cooks, my own hates to cook and when she cooks she serves me like a slave or a houseboy. Sometimes when I see my food I weep inside, sometimes I eat, sometimes, I ignore! Me and you are the same, I buy suya every night to avoid, trouble at home. Most times the eba is hot while the soup is full of ice, she will say use the hot eba to dissolve the ice soup or go and employ a house girl. The only difference is that mine is from Akwa Ibom, when she cooks she must add all the protein in large quantity.

I don't know why but the bolded made me laugh out loud so hard

You guys are trying abeg. With Una money again?

Munzy14:

Hehehe sarcasm...

Married man no suppose near pot when wife is there na..

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"

It's not mature

Let her serve you by dishing out several meats and then you take as many as you want from it. That's how our fathers were served. Then she returns the rest. Simple!

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

Onye mummy...A mam na i ga erute ebe a

The woman suppose feed her hubby well, ume ka eji afu oku n'abali o

Op was a 21 years old law student less than 2months ago.

Now, he's a working class man, married with kids.

What an over night transformation

Take time to go to market yourself on Saturday or after Church service on Sunday, buy enough meat, fish or chicken for the week.
Don't be angry, it's because of her background.

Eat outside when coming back from work
Reject the food, pretend you're going to bed with empty stomach. Repeat the act if she does not change. Don't worry most women can't stand their husband refusing their food. Thank me later.

Oga, you sef you ORDER your wife? In this generation? No wonder she doesn't listen. Both of you are there fighting for power. Now, it's about Food. That's her office Sir. Time 4 her to decide...

Barrister without sense, definitely a charge and bail barrister.

Sijo01:
Op was a 21 years old law student less than 2months ago.

Now, he's a working class man, married with kids.

What an over night transformation

Eh yah... Na wah oh

Women can be funny atimes...no vex my brother

Bro,
you're not alone. I have complained to my wife several times about the food thing.
So I just go to the kitchen and fetch the quantity I want for myself.
It's my money and I will feed myself well.

Mariangeles:


She's probably too stubborn and places so much importance on food.

I bet she won't like it one bit when you go to her pot. Kukuma manage her like that.
You will adjust laslas. The lord is your straingth

Lmao..

PlayMaker14:
I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

Simple as ABC. Some men sef.

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Mature ke? Where hungry dey! Omoh bros no go dere..serve yourself or starve yourself.

PlayMaker14:
I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

is as simple as that no too much stories.

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

This statement "what would people think" continues to destroy lives! In your own house, what is "people" business with your peace and joy?

Why is food so important to some people?


I am very ashamed of what I saw here.

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

i926:

This is ludicrous. In his own house? He needs no permission for nothing.


No woman on Earth fit carry food do shakara for me.

Chop knuckle, bro.
M sister does that at times… pisses me off all the time.
Just because say dem give am small power to dish food, e go come dey oppress person, dey treat pesin anyhow. You go dey ask am who get this food im go keep you quiet.

Munzy14:

Onye mummy...A mam na i ga erute ebe a

The woman suppose feed her hubby well, ume ka eji afu oku n'abali o

Op di ka o wu onye oke nri and the wife probably doesn’t want him to put on too much weight, or she wants him to shed some.
It could also be that the wife was raised in a home where they ration food and it’s difficult for her to adjust.
There must be a reason.

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You still get money to be chopping a lot of meat in this Buhari's economy?

I don't understand.

Who is making this current model of men? You people complain just about everything.

Jeeez!

/

People cannot use their own hands to sweeten their marriage life again…hei

If your story is true, then the lady might be a witch. That's how some of them behave, trying to provoke you without any reason.

Wo, go to the market. Cook and dish food yourself

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

u should be honestly appreciative and grateful to that woman...
U remember that RHYMES "some have food but can not eat, some can eat n have no food... you have food n u can eat, glory be to thee o lord amen" I bought things for home n was never cooked for till the marriage hit rock! Be grateful once again.. sir!

Mariangeles:


The husband himself knows why he hasn't gone to dish food for himself.
With his story, you should understand the kind of person his wife would be.

Hahahaha. You're so right and funny. I agree.

Give her more money she will put more protein in ur food next

Mariangeles:




Op di ka o wu onye oke nri and the wife probably doesn’t want him to put on too much weight, or she wants him to shed some.
It could also be that the wife was raised in a home where they ration food and it’s difficult for her to adjust.
There must be a reason.

Definitely

O ga awu ndi daddy a eji tray ekuputara nri..

But then, wife should listen to hubby na, ya wuru kwam, ngwa nwaanyi several times ya ju, Mu ajuru ya nri.

And you know how painful it can be..

firstbornson:
Oga, you sef you ORDER your wife? In this generation? No wonder she doesn't listen. Both of you are there fighting for power. Now, it's about Food. That's her office Sir. Time 4 her to decide...

Hmmm well said. No one likes to be ordered. Not even kiddies. Be polite with your request and you can get just about anything you want. But some husbands will be doing like Commando. "Iya Basira, go get me water". Tufiaka!

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

Baba you own your wife with her pot of soup and everything in the house please just humble yourself enter your kitchen gegeli and add to dish more meal and protein for yourself. Lobatan

farmboyy:
Why is food so important to some people?


I am very ashamed of what I saw here.

No go there o, some can kill for food o..

Anything can happen in UAR...trust buhari era on this one