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Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:21pm On Nov 18, 2021
BigJoe19:
What makes you think you will kill him and not him killing you, lol?
There are a thousand says to kill a man.. undecided

If he does kill me, that's his luck
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:22pm On Nov 18, 2021
BigJoe19:
If your murder someone that beats you, so how are you different from him, lol.
don't mind that DEVIL in human form
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
U are insultive and u lack good manners. Note: I rarely lay my hands on ladies except it has gone beyound the point i can bear. Like i said b4, u are ver rude, insultive and lack good manners.
But you defend men who do... undecided
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:24pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
I know there are men who are rude, disrespective and insultive but no matter what, men can never be as women. U are just a good example of a rude, disrespectful, insultive lady.
this one of the many disadvantage of westernization woman challenging man pheeww.....
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:24pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
don't mind that DEVIL in human form
A woman physically hurting a man as a form of revenge is a devil but when men do it, it's perfectly understandable... grin

I'm glad you already know I'm the devil... kiss
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:29pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
this one of the many disadvantage of westernization woman challenging man pheeww.....
Challenging men? Who the hell are you not to be challenged? undecided

Most of you are poverty stricken lowlifes who have nothing to offer anyone... Are still being supported by your parents, extended relatives and friends... Don't have degrees, or a decent job... Net-worth less than 10million... Have never even travelled out of the country... Not a single property... No initiative, imagination.

You seriously believe you deserve respect for having a penis? undecided
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:32pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
You don't get the point... No one is perfect... We simply 'tolerate'...

I tolerate insults... You tolerate them too...

We aren't logs of wood who have zero reaction...

I personally have a temper... But I never make a move to hurt anyone... But if you physically assault me, I'll make the extra effort to 'retaliate'...

I'm an adult... If you can't correct me like your agemate when I'm wrong.. that's your business.

But don't dare raise your hand to hit me...

I won't use my fists on a little kid...
So men are nothing more than animals... They beat women, kick them... And even use the most foul words to make them insecure...

I don't beat men...not because I'm perfect or I'm a saint... But I'm decent...

But if you prefer to fight dirty but hurting me... I will to...

And the irony of how you don't think I could be a psychopath... grin

Personally, I avoid conflict...
Yes your right...
All of us get skoin skoin for head undecided...
Even me wey dey advice you to walk away, e get some matters wey fit make me wipe you two by two plank for head grin grin kikikikikiki... Or I fit hold myself wipe you USB cord for neck grin grin kikikikikiki... But you go Sha feel something for body grin

Buh on a serious note Sha...
In cases involving men and women conflict...
Most physical abuse by men on women usually stem from an underlying resentment caused by verbal abuse and disrespect on the man by the woman...
I'm not in anyway, trying to blame any sex or justify the other... It's just like my elders here will say "na small tin dey cause big wahala"...

So we as so called adults, lets learn to comport ourselves properly and know how to manage conflict, because proper conflict management is one of the proof of maturity...

"Avoid conflict if you can, buh if you must fight, then fight constructively"
---Favfables

What's the meaning of the bolded though?? undecided correct that assumption
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:34pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
Challenging men? Who the hell are you not to be challenged? undecided

Most of you are poverty stricken lowlifes who have nothing to offer anyone... Are still being supported by your parents, extended relatives and friends... Don't have degrees, or a decent job... Net-worth less than 10million... Have never even travelled out of the country... Not a single property... No initiative, imagination.

You seriously believe you deserve respect for having a penis? undecided
IT'S NOW OBVIOUS THAT U ARE SUFFERING FROM WICKED HEART SYNDROME I'D ADVICE YOU SEE A DOCTOR ASAP SCUMBAG WITH ZERO VALUES
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by cooooooks(m): 1:36pm On Nov 18, 2021
Nne don't tolerate insults from people you know, even in jest.

But yeah I get it. Some people take gender generalisations too far. They assume that their woman will not carry knife, or gun (epidemic now in the USA of black ladies killing their men or ex men).

Cheers.
Datboredberry:
I know... But men think...they are the only ones with egos... The only ones who gets hurt when insulted... The only ones who can resort to violence...

None is true! God knows how much I hate being put down with words...

I have self-pride... I have a temper... If I can tolerate the sh**-load of verbally abusive men... Anyone else can!!!

I've been bullied by men... I simply take a break to cool down...

I nearly poisoned a friend of mine... Thank God I didn't! But that was my breaking point... I literally snapped.

Men can be extremely rude... And annoying... But they act like women are the only ones who behave badly...

I won't physically hurt someone who verbally hurts me... I'll either think of a clever come-back or walk away...
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Truvelisback(m): 1:38pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
But you defend men who do... undecided
Defend men who do what?
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:40pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
A woman physically hurting a man as a form of revenge is a devil but when men do it, it's perfectly understandable... grin

I'm glad you already know I'm the devil... kiss
i weep for the man u will call husband infact rip to him in advance
if a woman behave herself in the first place there will be no reason for hitting her but unfortunately they won't probably because they know what to say and how to say it
the day women realises that they are not equal with men the better for all of us
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
Defend men who do what?
she is a lunatic bro
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2021
Favfables1:
Yes your right...
All of us get skoin skoin for head undecided...
Even me wey dey advice you to walk away, e get some matters wey fit make me wipe you two by two plank for head grin grin kikikikikiki... Or I fit hold myself wipe you USB cord for neck grin grin kikikikikiki... But you go Sha feel something for body grin

Buh on a serious note Sha...
In cases involving men and women conflict...
Most physical abuse by men on women usually stem from an underlying resentment caused by verbal abuse and disrespect on the man by the woman...
I'm not in anyway, trying to blame any sex or justify the other... It's just like my elders here will say "na small tin dey cause big wahala"...

So we as so called adults, lets learn to comport ourselves properly and know how to manage conflict, because proper conflict management is one of the proof of maturity...

"Avoid conflict if you can, buh if you must fight, then fight constructively"
---Favfables

What's the meaning of the bolded though?? undecided correct that assumption
I agree...

Bolded: autocorrect... I edited it... "Some men..."

I personally hate violence... I think Nigerians relish it... In my government school, you should see how the teachers maltreat their students... It made me sick... Stripping them naked, using canes... They wouldn't treat a fellow adult the same way...

People use their advantage over others... It's not as if I don't understand why some man beat their wives... They were angry... But I hate that they can only exhibit self-control when they'be been provoked by a fellow men... It tells that the only reason they yield to their temper when dealing with women is because they can!!!

Men insult eachother, then settle the dispute in a bar... Give the same treatment to your wives and sisters too... Since you obviously can...

The first time I was ever flogged in a school, I thought they was metal in the middle of the cane... My hand hurt so badly...

Before, I attended only schools owned by foreigners in Nigeria... Never abused a child... My family tried not to... If my mum was harsh, she would apologize...

I'm not perfect, but I'm less inclined than most to resort to violence...

I think of the way children are being handled like cattle and we wonder why Nigeria is in the mess it's in...
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Truvelisback(m): 1:48pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
she is a lunatic bro
I don't just understand her. I only gave a simple reply b4 she started using abusive words.
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:50pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
i weep for the man u will call husband infact rip to him in advance
For getting married to a woman who doesn't tolerate domestic violence? My loss... undecided

I'll pray to change, so I get the woman-beater God intends to bless me with... Dimwịt

Truvelisback:
Defend men who do what?
You tried to defend domestic violence... Stop playing the fool... It doesn't suit you.. undecided

purefacti:
IT'S NOW OBVIOUS THAT U ARE SUFFERING FROM WICKED HEART SYNDROME I'D ADVICE YOU SEE A DOCTOR ASAP SCUMBAG WITH ZERO VALUES
Please, come and pummel me... Maybe you would feel more like a man... undecided
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
I don't just her. I only gave a simple reply b4 she started using abusive words.
Who insulted you? You called me rude and insultive and bad mannered... The other idiot called me a lunatic...

Do you see me playing the victim card, crying like a little bịtch? Man up for Christsake! undecided

This generation of wimps... Crying when a woman argues with them... Jeez
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 1:55pm On Nov 18, 2021
cooooooks:
Nne don't tolerate insults from people you know, even in jest.

But yeah I get it. Some people take gender generalisations too far. They assume that their woman will not carry knife, or gun (epidemic now in the USA of black ladies killing their men or ex men).

Cheers.
Exactly! Everyone is a risk. Don't incite chaos... Don't yield to it... wink
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 1:58pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
For getting married to a woman who doesn't tolerate domestic violence? My loss... undecided

I'll pray to change, so I get the woman-beater God intends to bless me with... Dimwịt

You tried to defend domestic violence... Stop playing the fool... It doesn't suit you.. undecided

Please, come and pummel me... Maybe you would feel more like a man... undecided
congratulations u just won the best mad feminist awards for the Year 2021 congratulations once more
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by BigJoe19: 2:02pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
There are a thousand says to kill a man.. undecided

If he does kill me, that's his luck
Ok but he has higher chances of killing you, so don’t feel too happy.
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by BigJoe19: 2:05pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
don't mind that DEVIL in human form
She thinks she’s tough. Most people that brags like her, their partner beats them to stupor and they lie to the public that it’s just injuries.
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 2:06pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
congratulations u just won the best mad feminist awards for the Year 2021 congratulations once more
Feminist? I'm definitely not a feminist... undecided

You're mad because I don't respect men for their joysticks or because I don't want to be beaten?
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 2:07pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
Who insulted you? You called me rude and insultive and bad mannered... The other idiot called me a lunatic...

Do you see me playing the victim card, crying like a little bịtch? Man up for Christsake! undecided

This generation of wimps... Crying when a woman argues with them... Jeez
who is crying for you we are just concerned that Las Las a man who u so much despise will take u under his roofs
a raw acid like u hmmm..... it's well o
i always tell my g's to pray not against witches and wizards but against that particular gender that brought all this chaos upon us daughters of delilah elder sister to jezebel
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 18, 2021
BigJoe19:
She thinks she’s tough. Most people that brags like her, their partner beats them to stupor and they lie to the public that it’s just injuries.
I'm eighteen... undecided

Thank God the only men I've dated are fellow teens and Westerners...

Seems most Nigerian men are sadists who enjoy beating women... Like I said earlier, go beat a fellow men... It's sick when cowards drag power with those who are less likely to fight back...
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Truvelisback(m): 2:09pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
Who insulted you? You called me rude and insultive and bad mannered... The other idiot called me a lunatic...

Do you see me playing the victim card, crying like a little bịtch? Man up for Christsake! undecided

This generation of wimps... Crying when a woman argues with them... Jeez
Go and read my first comment u quoted me and see if there are no insultive words there.
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 2:12pm On Nov 18, 2021
BigJoe19:
She thinks she’s tough. Most people that brags like her, their partner beats them to stupor and they lie to the public that it’s just injuries.
i don't support domestic violence at all or hitting a lady either but that doesn't mean they should go around insulting people
every action has a consequence whether good or bad
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 2:13pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
who is crying for you we are just concerned that Las Las a man who u so much despise will take u under his roofs
a raw acid like u hmmm..... it's well o
i always tell my g's to pray not against witches and wizards but against that particular gender that brought all this chaos upon us daughters of delilah elder sister to jezebel
Lmao... You're a woman hater... I've dealt with your kind... Sexually frustrated incels who take our their frustration on women...

I'm raw acid? I'm a feminist? You're just trying so pathetically hard...

I hate men because I don't want them beating women? The logic! You're a special kind of genius...

I don't despise men... I only hate those who have zero respect for women... Those precious degenerates you're here defending...

It's so sad how you've probably never raised your hand to hit a fellow men...

Coward...
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
Go and read my first comment u quoted me and see if there are no insultive words there.
You insulted every female ancestor of yours...
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 2:16pm On Nov 18, 2021
Truvelisback:
I don't just understand her. I only gave a simple reply b4 she started using abusive words.
i love the effort you are making to correct her wrong perceptions but it seems she likes been mischievous
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Nobody: 2:18pm On Nov 18, 2021
purefacti:
i don't support domestic violence at all or hitting a lady either but that doesn't mean they should go around insulting people
every action has a consequence whether good or bad
1. Do men insult other men?

2. Do you beat the men who've insulted you?

3. Do you think it's justified to beat insultive women but perfectly ok to overlook men with bad attitudes?

Like I wrote earlier... Men and women who resort to violence are despicable...

As a woman, I'll let you know that most men are loud, foul-mouthed creatures who have zero respect for themselves...

Am I allowed to physically assault them? undecided
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 2:18pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
You insulted every female ancestor of yours...
dear nlanders please donate money let's buy strong chain for her cause she has lost it completely
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by Truvelisback(m): 2:19pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
You insulted every female ancestor of yours...
Lol, i can see that u are really bittered. It will be very difficult for a sane man to live peacefully with u in the same house.
Re: Does A Guy Have Every Right To Hit You by purefacti(m): 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2021
Datboredberry:
1. Do men insult other men?

2. Do you beat the men who've insulted you?

3. Do you think it's justified to beat insultive women but perfectly ok to overlook men with bad attitudes?

Like I wrote earlier... Men and women who resort to violence are despicable...

As a woman, I'll let you know that most men are loud, foul-mouthed creatures who have zero respect for themselves...

Am I allowed to physically assault them? undecided
how many men have you seen throwing tantrum the way a woman usually does i guess few if there is any
men don't talk they act
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