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Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by mamaafrik(m): 2:33pm On Nov 18, 2021
emmanuelbrown26:
Office politics is a Very common thing among the west.
won deoooo,demographer,have you travelled Eastward or Southward before,elenu yanmayanma
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by shopwiser: 2:40pm On Nov 18, 2021
CripsyFairly:
I am viewing your stupidity.... Please make sure you come for me fast before I get you. You will use this same hands to write apology. There is no kind of name you haven't called me. I won't reply you. Keep writing. But for the money. Wait forever


BUT WHEN WE ARE READY. I WILL SEND YOUR MONEY... THE SAME WAY YOU CAME TO WRITE NONSENSE... YOU WILL USE THAT SAME HAND TO APOLOGY HERE TO GET YOUR MONEY PUBLICLY
This is the thief.. i came to purchase a fone from him... And he changed his mind after i have transferred money to him yet he refused to refund me and keeps threatening me... You can see how arrogant and shameless he is...he has my account number.. you all should tell him to send my 43k back... I'm ready to spoil his name throughout this platform....plus he should be fast.... ...he claims he would send my money and keep wasting time.. abi... If a business didn't go through aren't you bound to send the money back to the owner ......now his new trick is that i should stop texting him...he was shouting at me on my money.... That's what vexed me that i came to put it all here for you guys to see
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by CripsyFairly: 2:41pm On Nov 18, 2021
shopwiser:
This is the thief.. i came to purchase a fone from him... And he changed his mind after i have transferred money to him yet he refused to refund me and keeps threatening me... You can see how arrogant and shameless he is...he has my account number.. you all should tell him to send my 43k back... I'm ready to spoil his name throughout this platform....plus he should be fast.... ...he claims he would send my money and keep wasting time.. abi... If a business didn't go through aren't you bound to send the money back to the owner ......now his new trick is that i should stop texting him...he was shouting at me on my money.... That's what vexed me that i came to put it all here for you guys to see
TILL I DIE... FOR YOU TO WRITE GIBBERISH... YOU WILL NEVER GET MY RESPONSE ANYMORE .. GOODBYE.... !

Shebi your blood dey Sabi hot.... If I start my own... I won't even remember you ever existed. Because I still come here to reply you .. you think you can sit at the comfort of your house to insult me? You have already spoilt everything for yourself. You said I am not a soldier. Neither am I a responsible... So why would you request a scammer to return your money. That brain when dey hot go make you loose money. And at the end the people gingering you will move on with life... You will bear the loss alone... My little unsensible advice
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by emmanuelbrown26: 2:48pm On Nov 18, 2021
mamaafrik:
won deoooo,demographer,have you travelled Eastward or Southward before,elenu yanmayanma
I'm a confirm traveler baba. Having worked with them in difference firms, I can categorically tell u that West like office politics very well.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by shopwiser: 2:53pm On Nov 18, 2021
CripsyFairly:
TILL I DIE... FOR YOU TO WRITE GIBBERISH... YOU WILL NEVER GET MY RESPONSE ANYMORE .. GOODBYE.... !

Shebi your blood dey Sabi hot.... If I start my own... I won't even remember you ever existed. Because I still come here to reply you .. you think you can sit at the comfort of your house to insult me? You have already spoilt everything for yourself. You said I am not a soldier. Neither am I a responsible... So why would you request a scammer to return your money. That brain when dey hot go make you loose money. And at the end the people gingering you will move on with life... You will bear the loss alone... My little unsensible advice
oga eat the 43k na....curse don follow you... Plus very soon you would hear from me... Abi na that account get bvn....jus relax ..... Let my court order reach bank....then you would hear from me... your details would be released...be calm...no fear .... grin 43k is never a loss...its a sweat but not a loss.....my laptop is times 10 the price of that amount don't be stupid... You are a thief..... bear your name without shame.....i have bever seen a scammer that doesn't have shame...you refused to send my money back abi....cool down.. something huge is coming for you i promise.. your connect better be a General...cos mine his.. and you can't escape this ...be it you are impersonating been a military man...you would see...no fear smiley
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by CripsyFairly: 2:56pm On Nov 18, 2021
shopwiser:
oga eat the 43k na....curse don follow you... Plus very soon you would hear from me... Abi na that account get bvn....jus relax ..... Let my court order reach bank....then you would hear from me... your details would be released...be calm...no fear .... grin 43k is never a loss...its a sweat but not a loss.....my laptop is times 10 the price of that amount don't be stupid... You are a thief..... bear your name without shame.....i have bever seen a scammer that doesn't have shame...you refused to send my money back abi....cool down.. something huge is coming for you i promise.. your connect better be a General...cos mine his.. and you can't escape this ...be it you are impersonating been a military man...you would see...no fear smiley
ok sir... Keep me updated when your bank needs me. Take care ... Let me eat the money for now
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by shopwiser: 2:56pm On Nov 18, 2021
CripsyFairly:
TILL I DIE... FOR YOU TO WRITE GIBBERISH... YOU WILL NEVER GET MY RESPONSE ANYMORE .. GOODBYE.... !

Shebi your blood dey Sabi hot.... If I start my own... I won't even remember you ever existed. Because I still come here to reply you .. you think you can sit at the comfort of your house to insult me? You have already spoilt everything for yourself. You said I am not a soldier. Neither am I a responsible... So why would you request a scammer to return your money. That brain when dey hot go make you loose money. And at the end the people gingering you will move on with life... You will bear the loss alone... My little unsensible advice
oga shut up...if them born you well start your own... All i need is your address... And bank assure to bring it out... Shut up.. you foolish thief.....have some self shame ..you claim you are bigger but can't return common 43k back to its owner....you are not honest...so get out ..... senseless thief...you would come begging i promise you
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Tayor23(m): 2:56pm On Nov 18, 2021
Tenshades:
There will always be enmity between an auditor and corrupt workers.

Since he knows the nature of his job, he should try and do his things on low key because those 'colleagues' won't turn up on his high key event.

It's nothing to worry about, though.
me that do naming of my boy that I invited just 4 people...I don’t believe in many people
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by CripsyFairly: 2:58pm On Nov 18, 2021
shopwiser:
oga shut up...if them born you well start your own... All i need is your address... And bank assure to bring it out... Shut up.. you foolish thief.....have some self shame ..you claim you are bigger but can't return common 43k back to its owner....you are not honest...so get out ..... senseless thief...you would come begging i promise you
ok sir. Thank you sir... Permission to carry on sir grin... Hand go soon touch you soon sir
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by shopwiser: 2:58pm On Nov 18, 2021
CripsyFairly:
ok sir... Keep me updated when your bank needs me. Take care ... Let me eat the money for now
they won't need you... You will be picked..so relax...hunter turned to hunted...i will put a stop to your rubbish operations....if you are not scare why did you delete all yout post thief....


Baba talk say na relocation sales... Now him don delete am...


Thief..

Guys check this link .... screenshots are there...

Lemme even expose you on other threads
https://www.nairaland.com/6850405/#107627525
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by HABRUZZY(m): 3:01pm On Nov 18, 2021
shopwiser:
Any body that deal with this guy will regret.. he is a thief impersonatiolng being an officer plus he is a ritualist.. i barely escaped with my life 2 days ago... Police is on the matter... His guy almost stab me 2 days ago...i was stabbed in my hands inside the same barracks....I tried purchasing his redmi note 9s and i was scammed 43k... Aje... on my ancestors i will hunt you down... You can't escape...you will see...

This is his number.. 09131490899. He calls himself Lieutenant ifeanyi.


The account number he uses to steal is

2040300362 FIRST BANK

BRINGIDE AMBER ROSE


I have pictures of the guy too...

He is a thief... Serious thief
karma will always take it stand shopwiser your bad mifi that you Sold to me months back is still in my drawer oooo . You can't do someone bad and expect good oooo
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Bimpe29(m): 3:44pm On Nov 18, 2021
I am in the same shoes with your friend as I'm an Auditor in my place of work.

Of a truth, audit/compliance should really be avoided if one is given the opportunity of choosing where to serve in an organization, particularly as a Chartered Accountant.

I have been severally castigated and bad-mouthed here in my office simply because of my insistence towards ensuring right things are done at all points in time.

But, my pure heart, objectivity and sincerity have been sustaining and pacifying me.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Nobody: 4:03pm On Nov 18, 2021
Ussycool:
I am not a Audit officer nor a Manager but from the look of things, every job has two side of it. If you are harsh type (tough boss) that lack human sympathy, then 80% of your coleagues will hate you.

The man in question is to be blame, he should have understand that his relationship with people around him matters a lot.
My piece.
In Office(Nigeria),if you are not corrupt you will be hated....
99% of Nigerians are corrupt.
It may not be about the way he relates with his colleagues, it may be that he is dutiful in his job. To most Nigerians, corruption is normal when it favours them.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by lonelydora: 4:13pm On Nov 18, 2021
Hideki:
A childhood friend who works in the financial sector invited my family and I for his child's dedication. I honoured the invitation with my family but I observed that a section of the hall that was reserved for his colleagues was almost empty.

He was also not popular in church hence, only few members were present. The hall was about 20% filled. Thank God I went with my family at least we occupied space.

After the ceremony I asked his wife if he didn't inform his colleagues, she said " they hate him at the office, they hate him because he is in control/audit ". huh. She also said that " a lady has threatened my life once because, my husband investigated a case involving her and recommended that her services be terminated".

I pondered for a few minutes how I will cope if I were he? Control/Audit officers/Managers can you relate?
Haa! Audit and HR people are the most hated in any organization
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by SensualMan: 4:24pm On Nov 18, 2021
babtaima:
Way to go man.. fellow dreadhead here, keep
Slaying man !
JahGuide!!!!!!

Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Timothyoj(m): 4:25pm On Nov 18, 2021
gerrardomendes:
I work with control and audit too. Approach to work matters a lot. Most of my friends are in other units and we flow well. We sit out together and enjoy ourselves. I am more like a father figure than an executioner to them. Though I take a tough stance when I need things to be done. It makes them confide in me and provide me necessary Intel. I deliberately let them know that I see everything they do and I will not hesitate to escalate any wrong doings. They fear me but don't hate me. They like me but don't disregard me. They feel my absence when am not around. They even prefer to talk to me than to talk to their supervisors. We are all employees and there is life after work. Do the right thing but don't kill people in the process. Give them a long arm to improve except the person deliberately wants to perpetuate fraud and put you in trouble. The job has taught me that no one has a permanent seat. Today you may be the oga, tomorrow you may be reporting to someone who was your boy. Policies change, positions get collapsed from time to time, roles are redefined and reassigned. If the tables turn, will you remain relevant in the system? Will other units wholeheartedly absorb you if you are drafted? I have seen people who saw themselves as king Kong beg their former subordinates for favours. Some lost their job and are struggling because nobody wants to associate with the wicked. That teller might be the door to your next level after you leave that job. As a Guy man you need to use your head.
See wisdom talking, Baba louder pls
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Odogwuskido(m): 5:16pm On Nov 18, 2021
Use your head... Do your work and go your house. Even Jesus Christ was not loved by all!
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Tenshades(m): 5:20pm On Nov 18, 2021
Tayor23:
me that do naming of my boy that I invited just 4 people...I don’t believe in many people
Simple!
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Hkff: 6:30pm On Nov 18, 2021
Oh
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by ikenna44: 6:44pm On Nov 18, 2021
Immediately I read the heading... I knew he had to be an auditor! It's a burden that we carry to ensure that our colleagues can sleep well at night knowing that they have a job to go back to the next morning... Even if we are hated for it!

Hideki:
A childhood friend who works in the financial sector invited my family and I for his child's dedication. I honoured the invitation with my family but I observed that a section of the hall that was reserved for his colleagues was almost empty.

He was also not popular in church hence, only few members were present. The hall was about 20% filled. Thank God I went with my family at least we occupied space.

After the ceremony I asked his wife if he didn't inform his colleagues, she said " they hate him at the office, they hate him because he is in control/audit ". huh. She also said that " a lady has threatened my life once because, my husband investigated a case involving her and recommended that her services be terminated".

I pondered for a few minutes how I will cope if I were he? Control/Audit officers/Managers can you relate?
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by mamaafrik(m): 6:44pm On Nov 18, 2021
emmanuelbrown26:
I'm a confirm traveler baba. Having worked with them in difference firms, I can categorically tell u that West like office politics very well.
you like wahala
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by ikenna44: 6:49pm On Nov 18, 2021
Bro... Trust me... They hate you!!!

I'm telling you from experience! The day you resign or get moved to another unit... You will see their true colors!

gerrardomendes:
I work with control and audit too. Approach to work matters a lot. Most of my friends are in other units and we flow well. We sit out together and enjoy ourselves. I am more like a father figure than an executioner to them. Though I take a tough stance when I need things to be done. It makes them confide in me and provide me necessary Intel. I deliberately let them know that I see everything they do and I will not hesitate to escalate any wrong doings. They fear me but don't hate me. They like me but don't disregard me. They feel my absence when am not around. They even prefer to talk to me than to talk to their supervisors. We are all employees and there is life after work. Do the right thing but don't kill people in the process. Give them a long arm to improve except the person deliberately wants to perpetuate fraud and put you in trouble. The job has taught me that no one has a permanent seat. Today you may be the oga, tomorrow you may be reporting to someone who was your boy. Policies change, positions get collapsed from time to time, roles are redefined and reassigned. If the tables turn, will you remain relevant in the system? Will other units wholeheartedly absorb you if you are drafted? I have seen people who saw themselves as king Kong beg their former subordinates for favours. Some lost their job and are struggling because nobody wants to associate with the wicked. That teller might be the door to your next level after you leave that job. As a Guy man you need to use your head.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by emmanuelbrown26: 9:04pm On Nov 18, 2021
mamaafrik:
you like wahala
I have them as my closest but we have all hv our limit of doing things
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by stevyhann: 9:27pm On Nov 18, 2021
There is no way that ICO/A will be liken by colleagues especially those with something to hide.
I have numerous enemies as Control and Compliance.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by CandidNotes: 11:44pm On Nov 18, 2021
If you know, you know... grin

Rgade:
Like QA and testers in the IT sector.
I’m sure those ones too would be receiving death threats from developers.
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Glocal1: 7:09am On Nov 19, 2021
shopwiser:
God bless you... You fully understand.. plus they will try to play with your emotions... Wetin i no beg this guy with ... He would tell me... He would send it by so so so time.. time will reach i will call him... He would start talking cock and bull and be finding fault unnecessary with me...over two days now...he refused to send....we tried to do a business and I was being honest and based on trust thinking he is a military man... I wired 43k... The next thing i started hearing story... Plus threat ..and some guys that wanted to stab me that day.... threatening me to leave the barracks right away....omo ehn .. shame no gree me tell my people..but I'm glad they finally know and was even telling me i should have told them since... grin it's well for that guy....ooo whatever comes... I don't really have a forgiven spirit sha
Did you see and meet him and do you have his pictures?
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by shopwiser: 7:17am On Nov 19, 2021
Glocal1:
Did you see and meet him and do you have his pictures?
I met someone that be claimed its is boy ..but i know its him... I have described him to the Army ....no escape for him...cos he is impersonating being a Nigerian military officer
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Benetrri: 11:04am On Nov 19, 2021
Selfmotivated:
How real is this
Very real
Re: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Benetrri: 11:04am On Nov 19, 2021
AmDayo:
Bleep you
You blocked me
I only block people who misbehave. You will be fine.
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