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You are not well at all... How can you love who does things you don't like and who is quick to anger ? Abi don't you know such woman fit stab you to death one day ? My brother no let love cloud your emotions in accepting red flags you don't like or won't be able to bare in future.

You love toto gens gender??

Free her for her type

With all that you have mentioned staying off, would be most advicable.

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

Very easy to anger , is bad enough. Mix in some alcohol and nicotine, then you will have a cocktail of trouble.

Can you and your future children, handle it? Will she be able to handle it if Her in-laws can’t handle it or will she fly of the handle? …

You know what to do.

EDIT:

Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. - Proverbs 20:19

haakeem2:
IF he can't that means he is a simp!

The funny thing is most of you here that open mouth waaaa to shout SIMP at any slightest thing are the real ones but faceless forum no go allow us see. Lmao

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

Why not tell her to stop drinking and smoking and help her maintain her anger.

Story for the Gods

Ok

Those qualities are the qualities of a runs girl (popularly known as ashawo).

If you also smoke, drink, and behave like her, you can marry her (birds of a feather flock together). But if you’re not like her, don’t smoke or drink like her, you should look for a lady that has the qualities you’re looking for in a wife.

Marriage is a life time thing. It’s not something you manage or endure.

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

End the relationship immediately

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

OP.... that's the clue right there.

haakeem2:
Thank GOD you know that she isnt ur type.............
Do u fornicate? If yes bleep her twice or thrice then dump her.

when i meet your type iwill tell my escorts "hack'him" and if your dads with you "haakeem2"

you are a pathetic being that dont deserve oxygen

Olayetan:
Why not tell her to stop drinking and smoking and help her maintain her anger.

Trust me, It is not that easy
The change must come from within

Op should move on

flokii:
@OP Have you tried to sit down and discuss with her on her habits.. habits can be dropped if the person is ready and willing.

Don't make the mistake of judging a book by its cover.. some look bad on the outside but have the purest of hearts when you probe deeper.

It's on this same Nairaland that I read a story of an SU that prays before committing sin of fornication.

So if you like the girl, talk to her, advise her, love her and she might blow your mind.

Can't this discussion with ones GF be done standing or lying down?

Each time there's an issue with couple y'all don't skip the phrase "sit her down and discuss with her"

Olayetan:
Why not tell her to stop drinking and smoking and help her maintain her anger.

Tell her to stop drinking and smoking and Help her maintain her anger? Just like that?

Is He an anger management therapist with magical powers for curing alcohol and Nicotine addictions?

Even if He is, maybe He just wants to be Her Man and not her babysitter.

haakeem2:
IF he can't that means he is a simp!

Oga, grow up - not being a terrible human being with no empathy is not being a simp ..thats how you learn all sorts of psychopathic behaviour under the guise manliness .

GeneralPula:
I’ve never seen anyone that smokes and that’s get easy to anger..

Wetin she dey smoke?

A natural peaceful smoker will become more peaceful and sweet after smoking
In thesam way, a natural violent smoker with anger issues will become more violent and angry after smoking

Rexnegro:
You are not well at all... How can you love who does things you don't like and who is quick to anger ? Abi don't you know such woman fit stab you to death one day ? My brother no let love cloud your emotions in accepting red flags you don't like or won't be able to bare in future.

Love is not a pure science, one can love another without loving certain things they do, good or bad.

How one deals with it is a separate issue.

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

Leave her and give her advice as a friend. That’s all u can do.

How did u catch feelings for such a gal when u don’t like her habits??

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

kill her

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

this is how you people use ' wife material " to spoil your life .
Please , oga,.leave the girl alone - let her go and find someone who deserves her , abeg.

Who wants to be married to a judgemental asshole !

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

Dump her......... What more do you want us to say.......

You are about the eat your favorite meal, but on the edge of the meal, you see a dash of shit .........


Would you clean the shit away or eat the food........

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

What do you love about her you only told us what you dislike about her.

Okuze:
Trust me, It is not that easy
The change must come from within

Op should move on

I've made a girl stopped smoking cannabis and drinking alcohol, the only challenge he will have is the anger issue...

He shouldn't give up easily, he should make attempt and if it's not yielding positive, he can walk away.

it should be RUN OOOOO

Ocholu:
OP let me be real with you;

RUN!!!!

govnor4551:
Hi guys..... I love this babe but I can't marry her.
She love drinking, smoking and very easy to anger.
What should I do?
Help.

You don't know what love is, leave her if you want to. No dey disturb us.

Kill urself then

brosom:
Meaning u re simply lusting after her physiques.


If really u love her as u claimed, you would make her see reasons with u on why she should stop such life, and you'll be also be patient with her why she under goes the process of change because change doesn't happen a day, but daily, weekly, monthly and even years.

The question is can u wait??

I doubt it.

The real question is: "Is it worth it?"