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Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 14, 2021
Belafonte:
She's playing the emotional card on you because she's keeping you on ice as mumu husband that she can tell anything and he will believe, also she will manipulate the hell out of you because she knows you love her.

Like others have said, broom her fast. I can't imagine that she will find it easier than the guy's mum to convince him to part with cash. Na Yankee she go learn her own persuasion skills? Oga, no go jonze, you cannot lay claim to community goat without becoming embarrassed in the end
God bless u bro. Obviously the mother is behind the move to get her for his son. Some battles are not worth d fight.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 14, 2021
Muzikluva:
You can imagine the guy oh! Coming to seek advise from those who barely know him or the girl sef. She stayed with him all through yet he wants to throw it all away. Instead of him looking at ways to take her out of there, he is seeking validation to dump her and shouting “thank you” all over the thread like a robot!
Oshey!
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Snitch24(m): 3:50pm On Nov 14, 2021
2special:
Coded and smart girl, she knew you will be suspecting reason for her to tell you the guy is disturbing her and she didn't accept...
The real odogwu
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by AllKnowing:
OP I can tell you how to keep this babe (sex or company):

1. Pull back. Don’t call always. Don’t ask personal questions like “Where are you now?” Or “Who are you with?”

You can’t help her financially so don’t box her in. Let the other guy provide for her. They’ll box her in failing to understand that an impoverished babe is not one to catch. If you pull back you’ll be the one she comes to confide in and complain about how everything is coming to a head for her.

2. Be her recreation. She’s mentally stressed and will want to find ways to let off steam. If she wants sex, give it and quietly let her go (repeat number 1).

At the end of 3 months you’ll realize you were just being worried for nothing. There’s no happily ever after for a male & female relationship in this 21st century.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by KingDash: 5:47pm On Nov 14, 2021
SmellySperm:
They've been banging her since. You should be more concerned about poverty alleviation
hahaha.. no be lie... make him zero him mind for the girl bis.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by DropsMic(m): 5:49pm On Nov 19, 2021
Malory:
They have been doing it already. Forget long story
You na guy man.. No girl fit scam you
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by playapayaski: 5:49pm On Nov 19, 2021
She's getting it already, slamming his way in recklessly and all.. Bitter truth, take heart.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Nobody: 5:50pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
I can help you tap her WhatsApp and get her WhatsApp messages delivered to your phone. With that you will know what happens on her chats
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by ABANGWABOI(m): 5:50pm On Nov 19, 2021
The way all this small small lover boys marvel me on nairaland eeh..
GF not wife.. and you think you can control her or have an opinion on what she does...

Mcolumo come and talk to this kid..
Davash22 come and talk to this kid
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by lalalista: 5:54pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
Thanks bro. I appreciate
you must be a foolish person to have to listened to those fools commenting rubbish
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by ThePeaceMan(m): 5:55pm On Nov 19, 2021
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Caseless: 5:59pm On Nov 19, 2021
Needsansa, I really sympathize with your girl. She's going through a lot. All you can do now is to support her and don't act in a way to push her towards the other guy she's staying at his family's place.

If she go be your own, no one can take her away from you. Flow with the tide until you're stable and ready to make her comfortable.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Truvelisback(m): 6:00pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
Ur girl is in a lion's den. The woman she is living with is taking advantage of her. She wants to set her up with her son for Sex, relationship or whatever.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by tctrills: 6:01pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
It's not like you have an option here.
Just hope she comes back to you
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by wallrichy: 6:03pm On Nov 19, 2021
For your sake ke?


If this is a true story then na wa to you..
That gal is traumatized from her last experience and it look like you don't know how to handle her matter properly..
All I am gonna tell you is that she loves you and if you leave that gal she might never forgive you even if she tells you she did..
If only you know what it means for a lady to be abused..guy man take care of that gal and don't allow anything hurt her.. she's not cheating on you..
Show her love abeg for my sake..pls also find a means to take her out of that place she need to be loved..that kinda gal doesn't really need your money she needs affection from you..
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by jaxxy(m): 6:04pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
She’s in a delicate position, love is the last thing on her mind unless it comes with some comfort or opportunities.

She may not have anything to do with the guy if she doesn’t like them anyways, girls don’t get like that unless the boy knows how to treat her rather than all the nonsense they have been doing sofar.

Look at ways to be self sufficient. U have a another motivation to do it now. learn more skills.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Princedapace(m): 6:07pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
God bless u bro! It is somehow painful, but this is d best I can do for myself - move on.

There was a the she told me that the same guy saw my photo and referred to me as being ugly. And she had to remove my photo from her phone background photo.
Give me her contact..

I go help her learn tech skill for free

Since u are moving on.. She go dey useful to her self at least but she go dey fvck grin
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Brunicekid(m): 6:09pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
God bless u bro! I've moved!
Have you heard from the girl's side? Don't conclude by all these comments... Hear what the girl has to say.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by marsup: 6:10pm On Nov 19, 2021
Put her in a corner, and concentrate on your life.
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Aarenasbaba(m): 6:11pm On Nov 19, 2021
Tell her to be wearing 3 pants whenever she wants to sleep in the house
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Someodds: 6:15pm On Nov 19, 2021
Nwa Mugu
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by FutureIsFemale(f): 6:18pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
You don't have money and you're dating. Who does that?
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Olam09(m): 6:19pm On Nov 19, 2021
Malory:
They have been doing it already. Forget long story
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by sammirano: 6:22pm On Nov 19, 2021
When are you going to marry her?
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Aforxzy(f): 6:26pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
There was a the she told me that the same guy saw my photo and referred to me as being ugly. And she had to remove my photo from her phone background photo.


This is wrong nau. (at the bolded)
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Nyanabo(m): 6:26pm On Nov 19, 2021
This one is gone. I don't think they may have done something, but what I can say is that small love has gone out from your side towards the other guy. With time you would see it from her attitude.

Many won't agree but when there is no money there is no serious love. E no get how you wan twist am.

Try move on. cool
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by GboyegaD(m): 6:27pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
That's not gonna be a loss. I've been trying to withdraw for some time now but she's been somehow emotional, and I don't want to be tagged a heart breaker. I already have enough reason to move on
Which are?
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Champneys: 6:29pm On Nov 19, 2021
needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me smiley
Ok
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Abfinest007(m): 6:30pm On Nov 19, 2021
What stops u from taking her to your place.if u are still living with ur mum then u shouldn't be talking about girlfriend
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by safarigirl(f): 6:31pm On Nov 19, 2021
If you have to come online to collect relationship advice from random strangers on the internet, you probably have no business being in a relationship.

So, yeah, quit the relationship. She will get over you, so, don't worry about her. People dey recover from heartbreak steady
Re: My Girlfriend Been Living With Family Friends Whose Son Is Asking Her Out by Mvena(f): 6:33pm On Nov 19, 2021
How all these things dey take reach front sef
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