Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

You are very correct my G

Can you take care of me in a typical nigerian girl's language actually means "will you buy me iphones, card, take me for shopping, give me money to fix hair and nails whenever I need?"

Modified#
This is in response to some comments by some very myopic ladies (i suppose) on this thread.

Look at this scenario:
- I have a very good job that pays very well (nigerian standard)
- i hired a cook and a cleaner to take my laundry bimonthly and maintain my appartment.
- i can get s*x whereever and whenever I want. I mean it literally. I get advances even from married women in my estate.

The question now is, what exactly could a typical nigerian girl offer me. State one good reason why I should take care of her?

Is very wrong for a lady to ask a man such question , when you are not her father. Relationship is all about understanding, not, I come chop!

Can you take care of me?

No . I cannot, I should not, I will not, I must not.. .

I Hate Selfish Self Centered Women With Passion.

I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

lograr:
Can you take care of me?

No . I cannot, I should not, I will not, I must not.. .

Nope, I would not
Nah, I shall not
Nay, never will I
Negative!!! I ought not

Lack of understanding causes it,if only they realized that God made them to be helpmate not to be solely depend on the Man but to support

The question is intimidating.

Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

It's a waste of valuable time.

Just let her go
Nothing special in her pussy

THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

sounds like an excuse to enable bad behavior, if a woman wants to shiit test an Alpha then she should be ready to face the repercussions. no time for female manipulative nonsense. on that ground maybe she is not that intelligent

if she asks can you take care of me, i will say yes only if you are a virgin below 25, if either answer is NO....Then she Belongs to the streets. you get to be entitled at your peak fertility but would be trained by me in the process. the indoctrination must be cleansed.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feels so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.
Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.
Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Its wrong, its shows her hungry and poverty mentality.

Her questions should be:

Do you love me?

Can I trust you ?

Do you believe in me etc

but I want to fvck her.

I just asked one my homies; yo nigga, what you gon'do? He replied, yo Spysees!... *smiles* I'mma say YES! Then proceed to hit her sweetcunt97 times, suck/f0ndle her succulent sweetbuns senselessly like a crazyman, thereafter dump her mothafuckin' a$$ and move on like Willy Rozz.... *grin* I won't try that shiit, got no time to waste, not even a sec!

"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

Gentle0wavez:
The question is intimidating.

Gentle0wavez:
The question is intimidating.

If she ask me such question....Local man go just japa....I go just disappear

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feels so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.
Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.
Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Hahaha. That's a psychological question but unfortunately you failed to realize that.

Every woman wants to be reassured that a man in their life is a man, not just a weak one. Hope you got my drift?

I think I would reply
Yes, I'll take care of you so well that you be coming for me everytime.

Naija girls are tiring I swear

Can u take care of me?




Who's your daddy?

Nigerian lazy girls syndrome.
Most of them have nothing to offer

ibkonekt:

sounds like an excuse to enable bad behavior, if a woman wants to shiit test an Alpha then she should be ready to face the repercussions. no time for female manipulative nonsense. on that ground maybe she is not that intelligent

I wish I can like this a hundred times.

illicit:


It's a waste of valuable time.

Just let her go
Nothing special in her pussy

I knew that before coming to woo her. So I must bl££p that pvssy

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

actually the op, integrated the phrase in a particular condition.. when going for a date!
you are not wrong in your assessment, you not totally correct either
some will argue a relationship especially of this context should be mutual.
so why asking such questions.

Iceyjayz:
Naija girls are tiring I swear

this is a common thing amongst some "type" of girls irrespective of their country of stay or origin.

I'm i your father

You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.