Good evening ladies and gentlemenz!

This is my first topic and y'all have to pardon me for my way of writing.. ..

My girlfriend of 2yrs normally complain of me being annoying and not being in charge of our relationship, I love this lady so much that I can do anything for her.

We stay far from each other, I message her regularly, bombard her with calls and she do complain, I felt like since we hardly see, communication would bridge the gap, mind you she's my everything and I don't want to lose her, we've not had sex just romance and I respect her decision.. I am always online to reply or send her a message like every given opportunity that u would wonder if am idle or something.. . . if she sends a reply, I quickly reply instantly.. Whenever I ask her how I have been annoying and the rest, she replies with I don't know, if I ask, how I can stop it she still give the I don't know reply

Tonight we had big issues and she told me it was cus of my attitude that she accepted to date someone else, after much talks and all, she asked me to change and she's giving me 2 months to show her or give her the real man she needs, someone to take charge of our relationship and I should captain it well.. . Honestly, I don't know what to do but swore to make it up to her.. .

Y'all should come to my aide

Good women are hard to find these days.. . Thank you

Guy man,stop giving her that too much attention,let her do most of the calling and texting and most importantly don’t always agree to everything she says ,try and stay by your words most times….

She just want you to ride, just drive her crazy that's all.

[quote author=yuping post=107813120]She just want you to ride, just drive her crazy that's all.

I can't sef, marriage b4 sex

Manlikechoba:
Good evening ladies and gentlemenz!

This is my first topic and y'all have to pardon me for my way of writing.. ..

My girlfriend of 2yrs normally complain of me being annoying and not being in charge of our relationship, I love this lady so much that I can do anything for her.

We stay far from each other, I message her regularly, bombard her with calls and she do complain, I felt like since we hardly see, communication would bridge the gap, mind you she's my everything and I don't want to lose her, we've not had sex just romance and I respect her decision.. I am always online to reply or send her a message like every given opportunity that u would wonder if am idle or something.. . . if she sends a reply, I quickly reply instantly.. Whenever I ask her how I have been annoying and the rest, she replies with I don't know, if I ask, how I can stop it she still give the I don't know reply

Tonight we had big issues and she told me it was cus of my attitude that she accepted to date someone else, after much talks and all, she asked me to change and she's giving me 2 months to show her or give her the real man she needs, someone to take charge of our relationship and I should captain it well.. . Honestly, I don't know what to do but swore to make it up to her.. .

Y'all should come to my aide

Good women are hard to find these days.. . Thank you

Sorry Bros but she is no longer your girlfriend,the quicker you know this,the better for you..don’t allow that girl make you her second choice …

viceddy95:
Guy man,stop giving her that too much attention,let her do most of the calling and texting and most importantly don’t always agree to everything she says ,try and stay by your words most times….

Thank you

viceddy95:

Sorry Bros but she is no longer your girlfriend,the quicker you know this,the better for you..don’t allow that girl make you her second choice …

It's just hard

I enjoyed your write up till the point she said she has started dating someone else and giving you time to change and "captain "the relationship. What I can deduce from what you just wrote and my advice for you is that; her complains about you not leading the relationship is a shallow one as she did not tell you in details what she meant by that. To me I believe that she is tired of the distant relationship, where it is only through communication that she knows that she has a boyfriend. When last did you go to see her and how often do you see each other? I can also tell that the new person she is dating must be in the same state or area with her which made her quickly decide to move on to dating him. My advice for you is in two forms which you have to chose one from. Firstly make out time to go and see her physically or take her out to a conducive place where the both of you can sit and discuss your relationship, as I feel she is comparing it with others which her friends may be involved in. Secondly, since she did not see you as an important part of her life and decided to give another guy a chance without considering the effects it will have on you, I will say you should also move on. Also if you intend to go in into another relationship after your healing period, please make sure it will be with some one you can see physically and also within the same state as you.

boxer022:
I enjoyed your write up till the point she said she has started dating someone else and giving you time to change and "captain "the relationship. What I can deduce from what you just wrote and my advice for you is that; her complains about you not leading the relationship is a shallow one as she did not tell you in details what she meant by that. To me I believe that she is tired of the distant relationship, where it is only through communication that she knows that she has a boyfriend. When last did you go to see her and how often do you see each other? I can also tell that the new person she is dating must be in the same state or area with her which made her quickly decide to move on to dating him. My advice for you is in two forms which you have to chose one from. Firstly make out time to go and see her physically or take her out to a conducive place where the both of you can sit and discuss your relationship, as I feel she is comparing it with others which her friends may be involved in. Secondly, since she did not see you as an important part of her life and decided to give another guy a chance without considering the effects it will have on you, I will say you should also move on. Also if you intend to go in into another relationship after your healing period, please make sure it will be with some one you can see physically and also within the same state as you.

Thanks bro


She just blocked me.. . Am really devastated right now.. . . But anyways, I will try visiting her and if she still adamant


I will let her be. . .. Thanks am really not in good shape now.. . Thanks

Manlikechoba:



Thanks bro


She just blocked me.. . Am really devastated right now.. . . But anyways, I will try visiting her and if she still adamant


I will let her be. . .. Thanks am really not in good shape now.. . Thanks

Then go with my second advice as that is suitable to you. Take it easy my brother as it was not your fault, she does not deserve a good guy like you. Take heart my brother, all will be well. I don't think it is advisable to go visiting her any longer as she has moved on and going to see her will only remind you of the pain you are currently passing through. As said before, please take it easy, you deserve better.

boxer022:
Then go with my second advice as that is suitable to you. Take it easy my brother as it was not your fault, she does not deserve a good guy like you. Take heart my brother, all will be well. I don't think it is advisable to go visiting her any longer as she has moved on and going to see her will only remind you of the pain you are currently passing through. As said before, please take it easy, you deserve better.

Thanks

Manlikechoba:



Thanks bro


She just blocked me.. . Am really devastated right now.. . . But anyways, I will try visiting her and if she still adamant


I will let her be. . .. Thanks am really not in good shape now.. . Thanks

I don’t even know what to advise you. I suppose break bottle for your head.

Carchoice:




I don’t even know what to advise you. I suppose break bottle for your head.

Lol., life no balance

Manlikechoba:
Good evening ladies and gentlemenz!

This is my first topic and y'all have to pardon me for my way of writing.. ..

My girlfriend of 2yrs normally complain of me being annoying and not being in charge of our relationship, I love this lady so much that I can do anything for her.

We stay far from each other, I message her regularly, bombard her with calls and she do complain, I felt like since we hardly see, communication would bridge the gap, mind you she's my everything and I don't want to lose her, we've not had sex just romance and I respect her decision.. I am always online to reply or send her a message like every given opportunity that u would wonder if am idle or something.. . . if she sends a reply, I quickly reply instantly.. Whenever I ask her how I have been annoying and the rest, she replies with I don't know, if I ask, how I can stop it she still give the I don't know reply

Tonight we had big issues and she told me it was cus of my attitude that she accepted to date someone else, after much talks and all, she asked me to change and she's giving me 2 months to show her or give her the real man she needs, someone to take charge of our relationship and I should captain it well.. . Honestly, I don't know what to do but swore to make it up to her.. .

Y'all should come to my aide

Good women are hard to find these days.. . Thank you

when they’re tired, they bring up silly excuses

Manlikechoba:
Good evening ladies and gentlemenz!

This is my first topic and y'all have to pardon me for my way of writing.. ..

My girlfriend of 2yrs normally complain of me being annoying and not being in charge of our relationship, I love this lady so much that I can do anything for her.

We stay far from each other, I message her regularly, bombard her with calls and she do complain, I felt like since we hardly see, communication would bridge the gap, mind you she's my everything and I don't want to lose her, we've not had sex just romance and I respect her decision.. I am always online to reply or send her a message like every given opportunity that u would wonder if am idle or something.. . . if she sends a reply, I quickly reply instantly.. Whenever I ask her how I have been annoying and the rest, she replies with I don't know, if I ask, how I can stop it she still give the I don't know reply

Tonight we had big issues and she told me it was cus of my attitude that she accepted to date someone else, after much talks and all, she asked me to change and she's giving me 2 months to show her or give her the real man she needs, someone to take charge of our relationship and I should captain it well.. . Honestly, I don't know what to do but swore to make it up to her.. .

Y'all should come to my aide

Good women are hard to find these days.. . Thank you

It's beats my imagination that a guy could be in a supposed relationship with a lady and yet something would go so wrong.

Maybe it's because he wishes that things will work out.

How would allow a lady to waste 2years of your life?

Now she has accepted to date another guy because she doesn't Value you at all.

How you made yourself a spare tire at this juncture is sad but should also guide you in your next relationship.

Toughened up, soldier. The life of a man is not a bed of roses.


Love with your head not your heart. Easier said than done. But worth the effort.

Since she has blocked you, move on, she was just a time waster.

Never, date a girl that tells no sex. That shit is doomed from the onset.

Holly Gram OP na THUNDER go fire u... woman no gree GIVE u KUNTUS, only romance and u de happy wit her decision. Na only God knw how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. Na people like una de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U.... U NO 1 GET SENSE... WTF MAN

Your girl no well,she is obviously a toddler.see ehn,just listen to my advise,nothing you do will be pleasing to her eyes.pls dump her to avoid further mishaps.she is not matured enof to be in a relationship

Na mumu dey allow girlfriend use am catch cruise....

Another guy don dey bang her frm the corner and she wan guilt trip u... Abeg try dey comot ur mind frm her side, reduce the calls and msgs and see if she will care... If she doesnt, shes nt for u...

That girl will come back to beg OP and Op will SIMPly collect her back.... Ode

Op,the truth of the matter is ,I don’t think you were able to meet up with her financial demands…

[quote author=Manlikechoba post=107813159][/quote]
Then let her go, to free yourself of from emotional pain.

viceddy95:
Op,the truth of the matter is ,I don’t think you were able to meet up with her financial demands…

Money ain't the problem bro

Cus am equal to the task

Got her lots of birthday present on her day 6th of November 2021...

B4 going over for my younger bro place for his birthday on the 10th of November

Eyahhh! Pele o. She blocked you after collecting birthday gifts from you. Some girls are just crazy.

Anyway, she doesn't like you. If I am her I would have been honest with you. I won't even collect chin chin from you. Women should have integrity. If he's not Bleep.ing you or you don't like him don't collect gift that will hook your throat.

OP, sorry o. I know it seems impossible but you will definitely meet someone else that's more compatible. No think am too much.

luvmijeje:
Eyahhh! Pele o. She blocked you after collecting birthday gifts from you. Some girls are just crazy.

Anyway, she doesn't like you. If I am her I would have been honest with you. I won't even collect chin chin from you. Women should have integrity. If he's not Bleep.ing you or you don't like him don't collect gift that will hook your throat.

OP, sorry o. I know it seems impossible but you will definitely meet someone else that's more compatible. No think am too much.

Thanks dear

Manlikechoba:


Money ain't the problem bro

Cus am equal to the task

Got her lots of birthday present on her day 6th of November 2021...

B4 going over for my younger bro place for his birthday on the 10th of November

Bros forget the babe,don’t call or message her again,even if she later unblock you and call or message you,friend zone her for your own good…

viceddy95:

Bros forget the babe,don’t call or message her again,even if she later unblock you and call or message you,friend zone her for your own good…

Thanks man

Just dey with some friends now to clear my head

Manlikechoba:



Thanks bro


She just blocked me.. . Am really devastated right now.. . . But anyways, I will try visiting her and if she still adamant


I will let her be. . .. Thanks am really not in good shape now.. . Thanks

Welcome to the club

Like someone said: "to love is to die"

You feel this way because you have loved.

Do you know why we sulk whenever we fail at love? It's because we haven't embraced love as one of the challenges of life. Now let me ask you, if you get sacked tomorrow, won't you find another means of survival? Will you keep on sobbing while your stomach starts dancing and your account balance reduces? Does it mean you never cared or liked your job because you moved on?


Take that same mentality to your love life. Find love and give it your best shot, makes sure the feeling is mutual. If things don't work out as you planned, don't sob, don't sulk, move on. It's natural to find love and give love so don't make anyone make you feel that you were stupid or foolish.

You will heal, and when you heal, get up and find love again. And if that love doesn't work, find another one, and another until you find one that is bespoke, just well suited for you.

Love is beautiful my brother. Be hopeful, you will find. All good men eventually do.

No one values what they see daily, too much of availability birth worthlessness.

Holly Gram OP una never NACK, only ROMANCE and u respect her DECISION.. Na people like una de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my old KALA. WAITING DE WORRY U... U NO 1 GET SENSE. WTF MAN

CsRockefeller:


Welcome to the club

Like someone said: "to love is to die"

You feel this way because you have loved.

Do you know why we sulk whenever we fail at love? It's because we haven't embraced love as one of the challenges of life. Now let me ask you, if you get sacked tomorrow, won't you find another means of survival? Will you keep on sobbing while your stomach starts dancing and your account balance reduces? Does it mean you never cared or liked your job because you moved on?


Take that same mentality to your love life. Find love and give it your best shot, makes sure the feeling is mutual. If things don't work out as you planned, don't sob, don't sulk, move on. It's natural to find love and give love so don't make anyone make you feel that you were stupid or foolish.

You will heal, and when you heal, get up and find love again. And if that love doesn't work, find another one, and another until you find one that is bespoke, just well suited for you.

Love is beautiful my brother. Be hopeful, you will find. All good men eventually do.

Best of the best. . . I really appreciate

Offpoint1:
No one values what they see daily, too much of availability birth worthlessness.

Sure.. . Future still dey na

We go jam one day, make she just get luck find better husband cause if she see me with my woman and how I treat am.. . Jealousy go enter