siofra:
Oga why are you generalising please?

Mr, tunji Adedotun

Hmm,

Yiu are not okay. So she should not marry? If they don't marry now, you will still be the one to mock them. It is good for women to want marriage and although she made a hard decision, it is best for her. Now you stop being entitled. You are not ready, she is ready. 4yrs relationship like couple without marriage and you think God is pleased with two of you? Her decision is best. Now you park well.

Let her be. You don't want to marry her anytime soon. Everyone moves.

How do people date for 4years?

Make e no be like say na me dy give bad advice pass, but seriously if to say na me (which it can’t be cause In my sight no girl is worth marriage simply baby manufacturing)

If I was you, I go blast this girl t*t* like never before.. on the introduction day I go blast am, traditional marriage I go blast am, night to wedding sef I go chop again.. just to feel my satisfaction.. Might even get her pregnancy considering our long time connection..


Bro folo my advice, na the t@t@ you go miss pass trust me, so do as I say and walk out a smiling man.

garriAndsugar:
Most ladies feel once they are through with school or service, marriage should be next..

That's how one of my female friend too left me.. I just wished her well..

Your Female friend left you...na your gf... mtcheew

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

I did a post stating that Nigerian marriage is a scam, and many ladies came attacking me. Sadly some chewing-gum men joined the ladies. Marriage is the biggest achievement for majority of Nigerian ladies.

Sadly many, likely your girlfriend, make sure they extend their mileage to above 100k before marrying themselves off.

Be of good cheer

This country has really messed up lots of people. In the first place see the age you guys are graduating from university.
Dont misunderstand me oh, I am not blaming you but the system.
In other countries, a 28 year old already has kids and a mortgage.
Anyway, op, you are not ready to get married at least for the next 5 years by which time she will be over 30.
Free her to move ahead jare. Later later you sef will catch one chassis 22 year old to marry.

Felimax:
Please let her go in peace and pray God to bless her in her new pursuit of life. Ok?
Just be very okay with her decision please. As men our timing and theirs are not the same as somebody rightly said up there.
Personally, I refuse to marry a woman that our age difference is not loud enough. In no distant future you will meet the woman
God actually desires for you. Also do well to not keep in touch and even intimate with her after now I take heaven beg you, for your own good o. Experience don teach us something.
Goodluck!

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He is right

In my own honest opinion, it's not just one of the greatest achievement for women but ONLY Achievement

NickiSlay:
"Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria"

It's stupid and ignorant to generalise based on what one person did to you.

Moreign001:

Lol, thanks bro. But you just hit my wound! Bleep her, Chai.. My thing, lol.

You're not married to her, so, her body does not belong to you.

Why didn't you plan your introduction so she will know you're serious?

At all at all na im bad pass.

AutoBodyParts:
In my final year in school, I was attracted to one of my classmates and she too was attracted to me. When I wanted us to get serious, the lady bluntly told me it won't work that she is looking forward to getting married asap and that it will take me years to be ready financially for marriage. I left her and moved on to someone else. 4 years later i was ready for marriage and I got married she is till yet to get married

Like seriously? She never marry.

Just ghost her since she's married.

Cut off all ties Completely since she's married or getting married.

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

Eeyaah u are a man,but may God be your strength

Oga Moreign001, God just did a huge miracle 4u by saving u 4m d hands or rather fangs of Delilah but u may not understand d magnitude of d miracle yet until God unveils ur spiritual eyes. Several yrs down d line or mayb a decade 4m now u'll luk back n b grateful 2 God.
PS: Been dia, done dat! I'm speaking 4m empirical experience not scientific or anecdotal experience. If u know, u know! Move on, no b God leave u!

Moreign001:

Lol, thanks bro. But you just hit my wound! Bleep her, Chai.. My thing, lol.

It’s not your thing. You were just the current keeper.

I really don’t know why some men think they can marry their age mate. That your girl was more advanced than you in life as a lady and she has natural guttural requirements.

Let me guess, the new love of her life is 5 to 7 years her senior?

Cut of all communications.

You can't blame them, they are looking for somebody that will take care of them. That's their mission in life especially nigeria women

NickiSlay:
"Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria"

It's stupid and ignorant to generalise based on what one person did to you.

Add value to yourself simple no dey look for man to put all your life and family wahala on...

Cheating with ex...
paternity fraud...


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Once a lady graduates and prolly between the age of 21-25.
It’s just about marriage, nothing more.

Let’s be careful about accusing people of rushing , simply because they cannot afford the luxury of waiting for our own time.

Let them go. Wait for the one who can wait for you or who would be ready when you are.

Your friend gave you good advice. .. You will be all right.

deltateam:

It seems you never reassured her of your plans for her if at all you had any for yourself.

Women are like flower, she has to move on.

I did, I told her to hold on till after our Nysc next year.

AfroKnight:
I wonder why people gloss over the glaring detail here.

Did the man fall down from the sky to engage her? The only reason she got engaged was because she was steadily cheating on you. If you like, turn a blind eye to that detail. It tells you about her sneaky dishonesty.

She has sized you up and decided it would take some time before you became buoyant enough and she believed she couldn’t wait for that long. So she dumped you and chose someone who is ready in her books.

It’s not new. Girls have been doing this for ages. When guys dump them they say we used them but when they dump guys they say they followed the man who was ready. Conveniently forgetting the fact that they cheated steadily before they chose the new guy.

Forget her and her fake tears and move on with your life.

You are the only one saying it as it really is. The fact is that she's been cheating on him steady, before the whole marriage thing came up. Women are very manipulative. All that crocodile tears is simply to manipulate the poor guy, making it look like it was a difficult decision she had to make.

Thank God is not heart failure, it's just heart break. Patch am and continue ur life. Take a course on udemy. It's 3,500 now

EgunMogaji2:


It’s not your thing. You were just the current keeper.

I really don’t know why some men think they can marry their age mate. That your girl was more advanced than you in life as a lady and she has natural guttural requirements.

Let me guess, the new love of her life is 5 to 7 years her senior?

Cut of all communications.

Yes, you're very right

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

This reminds me of my ex. We dated from 2017 while in school, I finished HND in 2018 while she completed her OND thesame year. We lived together in my final year, we were really in love even after our graduation we kept in touch but last year she called me and reminded me of how broke I was and how she knew waiting for me would be a waste of time. She broke up Early September 2020, I was down for a while but I decided to focus on myself and October that same year I reconnected with my secondary school sweetheart and from there Doors of opportunities opened for me. We got married Asap and my child is just 3weeks old, I was able to get a car 2days after my wife was put to bed.

Right now my ex and that guy that was ready are no longer together. She calls me almost everyday on video calls to show me breast and puzzy.

Find money my brother. Women no too normal.

Impregnablefolk:
Oga Moreign001, God just did a huge miracle 4u by saving u 4m d hands or rather fangs of Delilah but u may not understand d magnitude of d miracle yet until God unveils ur spiritual eyes. Several yrs down d line or mayb a decade 4m now u'll luk back n b grateful 2 God.
PS: Been dia, done dat! I'm speaking 4m empirical experience not scientific or anecdotal experience. If u know, u know! Move on, no b God leave u!

No cap, I believe you bro.