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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 6:37pm On May 07, 2015
chucky234:
Kilode, kilo fe so
Ko si tun tun grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by chucky234(m): 6:55pm On May 07, 2015
KingTom:
Ko si tun tun grin
Understanding ni koko
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 6:58pm On May 07, 2015
chucky234:
Understanding ni koko
be ni wink
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 2:57am On May 08, 2015
KingTom:
Maybe my boss is busy, I refuse to take his place, until issues are clarified. grin grin grin He has grown on me embarassed


But it's your job to be the sidepiece and I am your boss, so do what you're suppose to do. Are you saying he has grown on you more than me? angry angry

lol grin grin Chucky 234 said that you are a tooth pick. grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 5:17am On May 08, 2015
khiaa:



But it's your job to be the sidepiece and I am your boss, so do what you're suppose to do. Are you saying he has grown on you more than me? angry angry

lol grin grin Chucky 234 said that you are a tooth pick. grin grin grin
I pick something alright, but it ain't teeth! grin Let me give you a hint, it's outer layer may be brown, black, white, but all of them are pink inside. That's what I pick. I'm a P---y picker grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 5:21am On May 08, 2015
KingTom:
I pick something alright, but it ain't teeth! grin Let me give you a hint, it's outer layer may be brown, black, white, but all of them are pink inside. That's what I pick. I'm a P---y picker grin grin grin


lmao grin grin You are too much.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by alberto2k(m): 6:20am On May 08, 2015
KingTom:
I pick something alright, but it ain't teeth! grin Let me give you a hint, it's outer layer may be brown, black, white, but all of them are pink inside. That's what I pick. I'm a P---y picker grin grin grin
this early this morning

Iswear person suppose pour u rotten beans water embarassed
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by francizy(m): 7:14am On May 08, 2015
khiaa:



lmao grin grin You are too much.

Hello buddy smiley
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 7:27pm On May 08, 2015
francizy:


Hello buddy smiley

Good morning boo boo.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by francizy(m): 7:32pm On May 08, 2015
khiaa:
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Good morning boo boo.

Hmmm, good morning (evening in Nigeria) boo. How are you?
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 8:25pm On May 08, 2015
alberto2k:
this early this morning
Iswear person suppose pour u rotten beans water embarassed
Weyrey grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 8:26pm On May 08, 2015
alberto2k:
this early this morning
Iswear person suppose pour u rotten beans water embarassed
Weyrey grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by KingTom(m): 8:26pm On May 08, 2015
khiaa:


lmao grin grin You are too much.
grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by sexylogan(m): 6:25am On May 10, 2015
MrsChima:


Thanks boo. Is that your baby on profile? If so....she is beautiful. kiss

She's my niece. Thanks though. smiley
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Juvante(m): 10:10am On May 14, 2015
khiaa:


Who is Chris Rock? Does he represent all AA now.
You men who are putting Nigeian women down and praising/lifting/worshipping girls simply because of their skin color as though they are angelic, Godly, and without fault because of it are the foolish racist ones.
As for Chris Rock, I will advice that you get a copy of that show which was held in several cities worldwide. Watch it, examine critically what he said about inter racial relationships,then come back to tell the viewers of this thread what he said. In my spare time, I will cut sections of that video and upload it for all to view.
As for skin colour, I never told you that I was dating a Caucasian! My girl is African, born and bred in Africa, though currently schooling in Europe! Foreign women means ladies that are of a different nationality, not neccessarily of a different skin colour, which is a general misconception on this thread.
A Nigerian guy with a Ghanian, Gambian, Ethiopian or Egyptian lady,is that not also an international relationship? The emhasis is on location,not on race!
As for Nigerian women, I have never said that they are bad or devilish,like you are infering. I keep saying that there are good ones but most of them nowadays leave much to be desired!

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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 8:24pm On May 14, 2015
Juvante:

As for Chris Rock, I will advice that you get a copy of that show which was held in several cities worldwide. Watch it, examine critically what he said about inter racial relationships,then come back to tell the viewers of this thread what he said. In my spare time, I will cut sections of that video and upload it for all to view.
As for skin colour, I never told you that I was dating a Caucasian! My girl is African, born and bred in Africa, though currently schooling in Europe! Foreign women means ladies that are of a different nationality, not neccessarily of a different skin colour, which is a general misconception on this thread.
A Nigerian guy with a Ghanian, Gambian, Ethiopian or Egyptian lady,is that not also an international relationship? The emhasis is on location,not on race!
As for Nigerian women, I have never said that they are bad or devilish,like you are infering. I keep saying that there are good ones but most of them nowadays leave much to be desired!

The only thing Chris said about black women and interacial dating is that we aren't attracted to white men which most of us aren't, atleast I know I'm not, but what was stupid about that statement is that there are other races of men who aren't white that we are attracted to and we do date.
That is why I said who is Chris Rock because Chris doesn't know what he's talking about.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Truckpusher(m): 8:32pm On May 14, 2015
khiaa:


The only thing Chris said about black women and interacial dating is that we aren't attracted to white men which most of us aren't, atleast I know I'm not, but what was stupid about that statement is that there are other races of men who aren't white that we are attracted to and we do date.
That is why I said who is Chris Rock because Chris doesn't know what he's talking about.
He's just a comedian - he'll say anything for money. grin

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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 8:51pm On May 14, 2015
Truckpusher:
He's just a comedian - he'll say anything for money. grin


That's right, he'll say anything to get a laugh.
How have you been Trucky?
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Truckpusher(m): 8:53pm On May 14, 2015
khiaa:



That's right, he'll say anything to get a laugh.
How have you been Trucky?
I'm alive . grin

How are you and how is Amelika? grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by khiaa(f): 12:47pm On May 20, 2015
Truckpusher:
I'm alive . grin

How are you and how is Amelika? grin


I'm glad you are still amongst the living and being your naughty self.
I have been quite busy lately but I still try to keep in touch with the crazy people on Nl. grin grin Don't get mad, I'm crazy too, at times.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by marcondo13: 2:57pm On Jun 01, 2015
@ OP, I saw this post by Ruggedbaba on another thread. I hope you can throw light on this. -


Hi cherlene , How are you and your kids? I don't mean to
sound rude or poking my nose into your personal affairs but
I have say this for posterity sake.
I have been observing your activities on Nairaland and it is
impressive. You are in a relationship with Juvante. Please,
everyone can see through the act that both of you are
putting on. I was curious and read through both of your
posts and it is obvious that both of you are referring to each
other on all your posts. I have intentionally poked both of
you to see Juvante and your reaction, and the reply was
matured.
My advice is simple - A real Nigerian does not respect any
woman who flirts with other men. If you know that you
want your relationship to last, stop flirting with other guys
on Nairaland. You might give them wrong ideas innocently,
and your relationship will suffer as a result. You have been
flirting with several guys on nairaland and agarawu23 is the
latest one. I mean no offence but it is not right in my book.
Maybe, that is the reason why both you and Juvante have
been verbally attacked of late. Before their removal by the
mods, I have seen and read over 7 posts insulting you and
telling you to leave Juvante! That is the work of a man
whose advances you most likely have rejected.
I am under attack right now from a lady that I met online on
nairaland and she thought that I was into her. When she
realised that I was not responding to her womanly wiles,
she resorted to sending threats as if I even dated her.
Be careful online and stay safe!
Mods, make una nor block me on!!!
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by agarawu23(m): 3:35pm On Jun 01, 2015
marcondo13:
@ OP, I saw this post by Ruggedbaba on another thread. I hope you can throw light on this. -


Hi cherlene , How are you and your kids? I don't mean to
sound rude or poking my nose into your personal affairs but
I have say this for posterity sake.
I have been observing your activities on Nairaland and it is
impressive. You are in a relationship with Juvante. Please,
everyone can see through the act that both of you are
putting on. I was curious and read through both of your
posts and it is obvious that both of you are referring to each
other on all your posts. I have intentionally poked both of
you to see Juvante and your reaction, and the reply was
matured.
My advice is simple - A real Nigerian does not respect any
woman who flirts with other men. If you know that you
want your relationship to last, stop flirting with other guys
on Nairaland. You might give them wrong ideas innocently,
and your relationship will suffer as a result. You have been
flirting with several guys on nairaland and agara wu23 is the
latest one. I mean no offence but it is not right in my book.
Maybe, that is the reason why both you and Juvante have
been verbally attacked of late. Before their removal by the
mods, I have seen and read over 7 posts insulting you and
telling you to leave Juvante! That is the work of a man
whose advances you most likely have rejected.
I am under attack right now from a lady that I met online on
nairaland and she thought that I was into her. When she
realised that I was not responding to her womanly wiles,
she resorted to sending threats as if I even dated her.
Be careful online and stay safe!
Mods, make una nor block me on!!!
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Sagamite(m): 8:48pm On Jun 23, 2015
Cherlene:
Good evening each and everyone,

Why do YOU think most Nigerian men esteem in FOREIGN ladies, and why do Nigerian men find them exotic?

JUST TO CLARIFY: Foreign as in explicit a non-native/non nigerian female.

NOTE: Only SENSIBLE responses, THANK YOU!

Regards,
Cherlene.

They are more approachable. They would not look for a way to humiliate you for approaching them.

They tend to have good manners and attitude.

Less of the alterior motive affection offer.

They do not have their head up their arse even if they are hot looking. This is probably because due to them growing up in advanced economies, there are many people that look fresh and good, so a lot of good looking competition. If a Nigerian girl is partially fine, she feels like a local Empress. A girl that is flipping video vixen hot from Eastern Europe rarely has airs about her.

Eastern European girls are also homely, they would take the feminine role.

Foreign girls also tend ot be more sexy and sensual. Very attractive and interesting traits.

Foreign girls engage in and can hold a conversation during a date, while Naija girls sit there like mumu thinking you have to create all the conversation while she has "you are here to impress me look all over her face", and then wants you to pay for the experience. When I go on dates with foreign girls, I tend to have more enjoyable conversations than with a girl who has the same background as myself. Fcking shocking!

This has been highlighted before:

https://www.nairaland.com/1063074/some-girls-such-bore/1#12487265

Basically, it is a more enjoyable experience from the first moment you meet them than it is with Naija or black (West Africa/Jamo) girls.

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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Cherlene(f): 8:50pm On Jun 23, 2015
Sagamite:


They are more approachable. They would not look for a way to humiliate you for approaching them.

They tend to have good manners and attitude.

Less of the alterior motive affection offer.

They do not have their head up their arse even if they are hot looking. This is probably because due to them growing up in advanced economies, there are many people that look fresh and good, so a lot of good looking competition. If a Nigerian girl is partially fine, she feels like a local Empress. A girl that is flipping video vixen hot from Eastern Europe rarely has airs about her.

Eastern European girls are also homely, they would take the feminine role.

Foreign girls engage in and can hold a conversation during a date, while Naija girls sit their like mumu thinking you have to create all the conversation while she has "you are here to impress me look all over her face", and then wants you to pay for the experience. When I go on dates with foreign girls, I tend to have more enjoyable conversations than with a girl who has the same background as myself. Fcking shocking!

This has been highlighted before:

https://www.nairaland.com/1063074/some-girls-such-bore/1#12487265

Basically, it is a more enjoyable experience from the first moment you meet them than it is with Naija or black (West Africa/Jamo) girls.

Thank you for the response smiley

Cherlene
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by brokennotbeaten: 7:09pm On Sep 22, 2015
Good evening people, I have been reading some of your comments and post. Some was shocking and some reminded me of my own situations that I am experiencing with my own husband. At first he was so loving and we enjoyed each other company. Meet couple of so called friends that seemed to disappear as time went by. I became pregnant and that's when he started talking about marriage. I wasn't ready for a child at the time cause my career had just took a turn for me. Finally got my promotion on my job. I was employed at a mental hospital and worked with behavior adolescent. As time went by he still talked about marriage and he didn't want his child to come and we wasn't married. He pointed out that we had to get married to start the paperwork process for his citizenship so he can be a provider for us. Still hesitant and confused I agreed to marry him. After that a month later I lost my job due to the complications of my pregnancy. We married in June 2014 and he applied for citizenship in July 2014. Lost my baby July 2014. Three days after I lost my child found out he was cheating on me with four different women. During that time I had to plan my baby funeral on my own and the best advise he could give me was " Cheer up God will grant you to have another one." Went through the interview in October 2014 and that ended up a complete disaster. Come to find out all the things he told me about himself was a lie. So yes the interviewer pulled me back in the office and asked me how much was he paying me. Like really, it became so painfully obvious that this man I married and actually vowed to love didn't love me at all. But through the deception and dishonesty I tried to work things out with my marriage. I suggested marriage counseling but he never had the time. His work permit came and that's when things took even more turn for the worst. He found a job that he worked for a month then quiet and the excuse for that is it was not enough money for him and he didn't even tell me. And then three times he did this and told me what he do is his business not mine. As time goes by he became so heartless towards me that he would tell me not to touch the income in our joint account without asking him but I have direct deposit with my job. So I closed the account and open up my own personal account. He became so upset about it. After that I really started paying attention to details and things he would do and say to me. This man has literally broken my trust in marriage and tarnished my thoughts on ever trusting love again.

I try to see the good in everyone as I was thought as a young child and he took that and played on me and my emotions. Cheated on me with numerous women and even found emails of pictures and conversations of him promising Nigerian women to bring them here when he get his citizenship paperwork completed. But yet he walks around our home as if he has not a care in the world and treats me like a dog in the streets. I have done everything this man has asked of me. Done everything that a good wife is supposed to do. So you tell me how am I supposed to feel now? I know not everyone is the same but my heart is feeling something different.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by cutieme(m): 6:34am On Jun 18, 2016
@broken hearted not beaten,I feel your pain and sincerely sympathize with you.But my question is,are you sure you didn't miss a step somewhere or somehow leading to his sudden transition of behaviour? Well if your answer is No,then that man must be callous! Am a Nigerian ,though it depends on individuals make up but I feel that if a man truly love you,he'll do anything to be there for you come what may.@Charlene, well I can say that most foreigners are more matured in their display of love and affection. Our women here are too tied to their ego or religion or tradition or something and it's getting in the way.More so, our local ladies here are too materialistic that they base their love on how much they can get from you so this and more are the reason we go for a foreigner,thanks.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Rutley(m): 8:07am On Nov 26, 2017
Spot on

dlux:
Simple! They love unconditionally. So much so we can't even match up unlike 9ja. They've got issues too but its always worth a gamble.

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Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jul 13, 2019
Are you saying there are thousands of them in the USA that have no Nigerian father taking care of them?

MrsChima:


There are t
housands of half Nigerian and White kids/adults in the States...They look though Six Khalid is their father! Ewww.
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Wantedola(m): 1:29am On Feb 06, 2020
Be specific please. Because Benin republic too na foreign. If you mean those from western world grin angry grin. I can write a book on that answer grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men, What Do YOU Find CAPTIVATING Concerning FOREIGN Ladies? by Watermountains(f): 7:49am On Nov 23, 2021
skylane:
Naturality, hardly Gold diggers, very free and playful,like d asians very submissive, and lastly to have a half cast as kids

Glad you’re honest but at the same time shows you hate your own blackness because you think having a half cast child is somehow a goal for you. Smh.
And submissive? Or you mean naive and easy to disrespect or abuse?

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