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nnamx4u:
There is this girl I have known for a year and 4 months.

About four months ago. I asked her out and she agreed.

We started dating. The day we went on our first date after we are done, I wanted to do transfer but network was very bad.

So she paid for what we drank

and since then we have been talking over the phone

I invited her to my house and she said she don't visit people except her relatives

I asked her why and she said it is her life style

I told her maybe she doesn't like me that much or she doesn't find me attractive

She said none of that is the case.

She was saying we should go out.

I told her that I don't like going out. I don't like crowd.

Last week sunday was her birthday and I took her out. We had a good time together.

She is not demanding though

But I am just thinking if I should continue or not.

The whole stuff just look childish to me. I need something serious

I don't want what happened to me last time happen again.

She is about entering university and you know most girls when they enter university their head always turn 360

What should I do?

nnamx4u:
There is this girl I have known for a year and 4 months.

About four months ago. I asked her out and she agreed.

We started dating. The day we went on our first date after we are done, I wanted to do transfer but network was very bad.

So she paid for what we drank

and since then we have been talking over the phone

I invited her to my house and she said she don't visit people except her relatives

I asked her why and she said it is her life style

I told her maybe she doesn't like me that much or she doesn't find me attractive

She said none of that is the case.

She was saying we should go out.

I told her that I don't like going out. I don't like crowd.

Last week sunday was her birthday and I took her out. We had a good time together.

She is not demanding though

But I am just thinking if I should continue or not.

The whole stuff just look childish to me. I need something serious

I don't want what happened to me last time happen again.

She is about entering university and you know most girls when they enter university their head always turn 360

What should I do?

doggedfighter:


What happened to you the last time?

MufasaLion:
Nigga was probably jilted by his ex when she got admission into College.

doggedfighter:


So he wants nacks before she proceeds to the university?

Or he wants to impregnate the young girl?

jaeyking:
What advice do you need.
Obviously she is not demanding money from u.

Biko you just wan Bleep if not why do u need her to come to ur house.

In this life like this. A girl says she loves you, she is not demanding money from u
Wetin come be ur problem

If sex dey worry u, open up and tell her. If u truly love her marry her before she enter university

MufasaLion:
He wanna have sex with her, not impregnate her. Nigga is geting frustrated and as a typical man, he doesn't wanna feel used by not hitting the cunnie.

nnamx4u:
Thanks for your reply

Actually Sex is not the issue. I can get sex from other girls

but I just want us to bond more.

get to know her more. I can know her by going to eatery all the time

There some behaviour, mood, things someone display when they are not in public place.

I cant marry someone who I have not bonded with that much.

Always going to public places will not bring out the best and bitter part of someone.

That is why I want her to come to my house.

MufasaLion:
He wanna have sex with her, not impregnate her. Nigga is geting frustrated and as a typical man, he doesn't wanna feel used by not hitting the cunnie.

nnamx4u:
There is this girl I have known for a year and 4 months.

About four months ago. I asked her out and she agreed.

We started dating. The day we went on our first date after we are done, I wanted to do transfer but network was very bad.

So she paid for what we drank

and since then we have been talking over the phone

I invited her to my house and she said she don't visit people except her relatives

I asked her why and she said it is her life style

I told her maybe she doesn't like me that much or she doesn't find me attractive

She said none of that is the case.

She was saying we should go out.

I told her that I don't like going out. I don't like crowd.

Last week sunday was her birthday and I took her out. We had a good time together.

She is not demanding though

But I am just thinking if I should continue or not.

The whole stuff just look childish to me. I need something serious

I don't want what happened to me last time happen again.

She is about entering university and you know most girls when they enter university their head always turn 360

What should I do?

nnamx4u:
Sex is not actually the problem.

There are somethings that someone cannot display when in public

and those things are the best and bitter part of somebody.

Those things are what I want to see her display

I cant see that from far.

I want to take her serious that why I even took it to heart to seek for advice.

MufasaLion:
The main point is that, the girl is playing safe and not ready to give you her heart totally as she's gonna meet better guys in school. It's normal. Even if she's showing you dare and affections now, she might get to school and start to withdraw from you. She's still young and it's normal for her to want to explore life. She doesn't want to be caged.

Let her be and find someone else that can reason at your level.

doggedfighter:
He met his match in the girl

nnamx4u:
Thanks for the reply.

I appreciate that.

SanctifiedSista:
I wish I decided on this advice wen I was her age.. wld have saved me from foolish decisions that bring dire repercussions
She is a good girl, stay with her and maintain/obey her stance

doggedfighter:
He met his match in the girl

jaeyking:
So u can only bond together when she comes over to your house
I laugh oo

nnamx4u:
Will I bond with her in eatry or shopping mall ?

ashewoboy:
before you asked her out, no other guy has been phvcking her?


phvck her before you date her.

nnamx4u:
she claims she dated one guy before me

but she never visited the guy

before the guy left her for another babe.

jaeyking:
So u can only bond together when she comes over to your house
I laugh oo

jaeyking:
What advice do you need.
Obviously she is not demanding money from u.

Biko you just wan Bleep if not why do u need her to come to ur house.

In this life like this. A girl says she loves you, she is not demanding money from u
Wetin come be ur problem

If sex dey worry u, open up and tell her. If u truly love her marry her before she enter university

Lannister360:
She is still a kid, if Na mature babe when wan marry, she for de beg to sleep your house. Anyway, when she enter school, she is likely to meet one young and popular fine boy when go de irresistible to her, eventually she go visit the guy for house and the guy go likely kpansh her.

In other words OP, find a mature babe, avoid students/jambites. Their way of thinking never mature and them like to de make yanga. You can manage a corper if you meet one.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram way my KALA, I don LOAD my KALA..

OP Na people like una de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free..

WAITING DE WORRY U...

U NO 1 GET SENSE..

She is not DEMANDING but u de carry d BANI go FLEX on her birthday.. To come ur house na problem..

U be MUMU MAN..

70yrs old MAN..

OP abeg I go like COME ur house, Make i COME SETTLE SOMETHING...

WAITING DE WORRY U...

I SWEAR DOWN. I go BLAST ur left leg wit my old KALA then use my new KALA BLAST ur right leg. I no go STOP der ooo..

I go BLAST ur BLOKOS join...

WTF MAN